What I received from this video is that if a man is accountable to God and is after God's heart, you wouldn't have to worry about him cheating because he knows that his life revolves around God's grace and mercy.
I always remember my mom's words: "I never got a new man/boyfriend because I didn't want that man hurting you". I am grown now, and I understand her why she did that. ❤
There is alot of bitterness and brokenness in these comments....he is not telling us to never trust men, he is not saying be single forever, he is not saying alot of what you ladies are accusing. This is a call for us ladies to rise to a new level of accountability in our interactions with men.
**If he ain’t surrendered to God, you shouldn’t TRUST nothing about him** ** He must be faithful to God, in order to be faithful to you** **Keep your man covered in prayer** **You must know the good book to know what a man of God look like** **A man must prove himself** Thanks T.G. #Nuggets
I know that’s right... all these good looking, rich, celebrities getting cheated on, imagine us....😢 makes you want to stay single for the rest of your life.
I'm glad you made this video. I totally believe you. I used to say all the time that if Halle Berry could get cheated on, beauty has nothing to do with keeping a man faithful. Great video, great points. Just because a man is married, it doesn't mean he stops noticing other women.
I'm grateful for the honesty but as a young lady in her late 20s it saddens me that men are like this. It's kind of disappointing because I grew up seeing my father love & cherish my mother and the thought of him possibly stepping out on my mom is more of a reality now. Women just be wanting to be loved & chosen and hearing that most men cant provide that is sad. I hear that men are different and may have seen and faced traumatic situations but aren't we responsible for our own healing. Women have to heal themselves so why is the requirement not the same for men. Actually nevermind I dont care to know. Women care too much about men & I'm guilty of the same but that stops today . I now understand that men really cant be trusted & I accept that. God MUST be our everything and that's all I'm going to focus on
Parents always need to talk to their children about anyone touching them - family members, church members, coaches, family/ parent's friends etc. Including people making 'threats' if they tell
In WI where I live a 13 month old baby was the 1st homicide case for 2020. It was the mother's boyfriend, while she was at work. I have 24 great nieces and nephews and my family does not play about men watching children.
I live in Wisconsin too, & 1 of my neighbors is a homicide detective & he says there's many child deaths & abuse at the hands of men that don't hit the knews, the stories are sickening.
I have sensed the darkness of men but I could only intuit these things. You have confirmed things that God has tried to show me. I can never unsee. I feel this message so deeply but it is so hard to digest. I don’t think that men and women truly are made to be together unless they are BOTH committed to the most high. This is a war zone ladies ,keep your head up, stay prayed up, and forget about the the hopes and dream of a good man. Life is short, all my life has been wasted on wishes. I have never met a man infused with TRUTH and Godly power. The only thing that comforts me is that men KNOW THEY ARE DEPLORABLE. They know, and that’s why I haven’t met a happy man YET. God is love God is good.
“Men worship women as if the woman was God.” Woahhh. If a man ain’t faithful to God the Almighty, the Creator of all things, what makes you think he’ll be faithful to you, a creation of God? Thank you so much for the transparency and for spilling so much truth.
For the first time I’m speechless 😶. I have never heard ANYONE that is in your career as a Relationship Coach, etc., give such a true and deep Word from God, that it makes me ask myself, “Is it worth it”? We can’t trust anybody!! We might as well stay single, so we won’t have to go through any heartbreak!! I have to really digest this Tony, because this really make me think twice about men. God Bless you!🙏🏽 I will be praying for you that you will stand strong and continue to help women understand what we can’t see.
Maaaaaaaaaan...... After watching this. Im scared of men. Im terrified to say the least!!! Man I dang near wanna stay locked up emotionally from men. I needed to hear this. Thank you Tony.
Be blessed. 🙏🏾 Listen... I close my mouth and open my ears. Trust is earned through actions and over time. Literally had a guy tell me that NO man is going to want a girl that does not fornicate before marriage. I’m just like “OK.” Mean while I’m putting on my shoes and not stretching because I’m out like a light. 🏃🏾♀️💨 (block & delete)
I am 43 years, never married and no children but I have learned so much from you about dating, being single and men in the few months I have been listening to you. I have heard truth which I had never heard my whole life. You are truely a gift. Thank you!
I think im gonna just stay single cause men have a hard time keepin it together...im going on 5yrs im Blessed n Im gonna stay this way...Be Blessed everyone...u as well My Brotha
Makes two of us....its over 5 yrs for me. I've been saying and feeling the same thing. Friendship with no benefit is better then a relationship with much more. It's scary in this generation. I want to be okay with being single loving me and raising my son to be the opposite of what I endured and hope he learns and is careful with what women he wants to love and marry and build a family with. I'm praying my son becomes a family man with a women who is his rib.
I've never met a "single" bw. They usually have some dude in the background that they are being satisfied by. Single to a bw just means not having a commitment, doesn't mean she cannot get her wants and needs met.
I have never had it broken down that deep, & then blessed it with the word of God. You blew my mind & i needed that to continue with dating. Powerful message, thank you God bless you brother
Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
My respect is growing for whoever you are, glad i was guided here. The brute honesty from this man. It's true, submission and loyalty to the Lord is what gives a man true character and strength.
That’s the point.. you’re saying a woman cheats if she’s not getting attention. I’m saying you can treat a man like a King and he still cheats. That’s two different beings. Both need Jesus.
Thanks tony! Jesus,jesus,jesus, I met a man once and he said he's been married sixteen years,and he's had an another woman the entire time, and he was still trying to holler at me,I ran for dear life! Lol, be blessed Tony, and thanks!😘
“When a man chooses to be faithful 💯%, that man is also chosen to be faithful to God.” Love that! So true. No man can come to Him (Jesus) unless He (the Father) draws him. John 6:44.
Tony you're a saving grace to women & men... The truth that you speak is a vessel, from experiences & the spirit... I pray that I marry again to a great man of God, who's relationship is a great example that will lead within his actions... It's not that I'm seeking a man who's faithful sexually... My spirit is seeking a man that is girded so deep with God, that his walk in life exemplifies all of the commandments & the word of God (The covenant) that will be ... That being said Tony, I pray that your ministry & marriage will continue to flourish...
We live and we learn, my divorce opened my eyes to a lot of things, he was emotionally unstable and he was not use to having a good wife, he was use to drama and dysfunction, that's all he knew, and him leaving his wife and family for a married woman proves all this...i was not perfect but i was good to him, and it still wasn't enough, he went to worser situation and likes it...God bless him
The military reference too was very on point, especially understanding since I am in the military. Damn wild beast....and do not leave your baby with a man...eye opening.
Tony you are speaking truth!.. but Lord have mercy!!! .. this doesn't help us women trust any man! 😔.. I have come across men who claim they are faithful, men of God,and that they have a relationship with God, and still their words Do Not coincide with their actions!.. how do we ever completely trust?
Not all men of God are what they seem. Watch their actions and listen to how they speak. Whats done during church and done after church are 2 different things most of the time. Only a very few are faithful and actually fear God.
Thank you so much for being honest. I really appreciate your transparency, I wouldn't ever compare myself to men because God made me a woman. When I shared 1 of your video to a male.. He got very angry and told me look at yourself before you judge me. I wasn't judging him. I was just sharing , But when I sent the same video to my female friend she was so thankful. I won't ever argue with someone that's helpful thank you for speak the truth and let's not mention all for free. Be blessed
Tellin the truth!!! Family members can be the most treacherous!! I've experienced some things no child should have ever experienced by people I should have trusted. Everything your saying reasonates!!
Rach J girl 👧🏽 I am scared of men I don’t even argue with a man. And I don’t let my left hand know what my right hand doing. So if I deal with one ☝️ there may be another one somewhere else. Just in case and I am not bashing men but I know their nature even in family they are NOT I repeat NOT to be trusted, so I honestly don’t take them seriously. I do want a husband I can’t lie but I fear I won’t take my marriage serious because I understand the nature of a man and I don’t want to waste my time.
“For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person."” Mark 7:21-23
We living in last days, the Bible has told us how it would be regarding relationships. I saw with my own eyes my ex HUSBAND (who loved God so much) struggle and walk away from God because he didn't wanna give up porn. Shoot I threw the computer in the dumpster and was praying over him but the thing is an individual has to surrender for themselves. Choose what master u serve. I'm so grateful daily I got out without going crazy so trust me. If you don't have a man who FEARS GOD JUST SIT DOWN AND STAY SINGLE.
My husband let our daughter roll off the couch as I was walking out the door when she was a baby while he was watching a movie, and I came back and took her with me.
If I shouldn't leave my child with a man then why would I give my heart to that a man.... meaning if the man can't be trusted with my child then he dang sure can't be trusted with my heart... I've already made many mistakes but I'm learning
Listening to this just explained and made so clear why I'm single. And honestly after hearing this, I think I'm okay with it. I have no desire to deal with this sort of carnal thinking. So, until I can wrap my head around this and God sends him my way AND I can clearly recognize that he's the one... I'm chillin.
Tiae Love I feel like it’s not about the differences that we have as men and women it’s about the simple principle of being good human beings to one another, you know treating others with the same level of respect and care you’d have for yourself and I don’t know if this subject is really as complicated as it really is. If being faithful is hard to people than there’s something off in the relationship. I’ve heard from happy healthy marriages that when you’re in the right relationship it’s easy and effortless but maybe I’m reading too much into it.
I guess that's why some women are gay now. Faithful men are hard to find. My mama always said " You can be with a man for 37 years and you still won't really know that man."
Very good advice ESPECIALLY when dating and ESPECIALLY if you’ve been abused-leaving your children 👶 with guys. I’ve seen so many scenarios of abused women’s children getting abused also. Thanks for saying...
I’m 22 watching these videos in hopes in building my knowledge for future relationships. This video scares me because of the truth. Also grateful for your word always!!!! God bless you!
Tony God bless you! This definitely puts some things in perspective on my father's cheating on my mom. My mom never left him even after a side baby. He never attempted to renew his mind in Christ so he never stopped cheating. He's 60 something yrs old and still cheating. I've learned so much from your videos so Thank You. 🙏🏽
This is so true!!!!! Amen. This is why I'm letting God and the holy spirit lead me to the right man.... Through ignorance we fall. As a mother we need to be more vigilant in who we bring around our babies. It's so sad that women can't understand this. We need to love ourselves and our families more than our own needs.
I so agree. We need to help each other and build more communities. It's difficult for a single mother with a single income to manage it all. Single mothers should house a share and build together. The stress and burden is to much on their own.
What I’m learning is that us women we know these things. When we are in relationships we go through a lot! Our emotions clouds our judgement. You are confirming and affirming what we experience every day. You are being 100! So many men LIE and manipulate us we don’t know what to believe anymore. Thanks! Let God continue to use you to spread this light!!!
👏👏👏👏👏 Big Brother, yet again speak on it! It ain't nothing like telling the truth like it is and being transparent which a lot of men are not. So be blessed and I thank you.💚💚💚💚
There aren't enough men out there that have surrendered to God to go around. This message is true but it has diminished my hope of finding a good man. "Paper thin walls in hotels" You're so funny! 🤣
Tony this was real and i totally understand what you saying! This was RAW and uncut! Most women want be able to digest this! This was not a surface talk it went skin DEEP. My moma always tell me to keep my child away from a man. She was hesitant even with our own dad. They might make you take this down! Glad i got to see this!
Seems like I attract men with mommy issues smh I'm tired and they go through life faking and damaging other women. I'm tired of thinking my love will heal or change a man when all the while I'm being drained, spiritually, mentally, emotionally then they turn the table on me and say I'm the crazy one. As my grandma use to say in her voice " I cant win for losing"
Tony, This video was Awesome! You have done many and I learn something from them all. But this one was Special. I am praying for you and your family. Brother keep on letting GOD use you. 🙏
Tony you are the best relationship coach there is. You are so real. You are the only one. I'm 53 and I appreciate your messages. I never left my kids with anyone. Keeping it real is what men and women need.
Tony Psalm 34:19 is still relevant. Those that are called to the masses to minister to the heart are often under attack. Your transparency is an anointing and gift from the Most High God. You and the Mrs continue to stay girded and prayed up. Be blessed.
I read where a man stop dating a woman whom he loved and adored because he felt he couldn't trust himself around her young daughter. Thing is .. when he met the woman, she checked all the boxes for all he wants in a woman. It was all good until he met her daughter.
Listen Tony, you be so point about everything! And I use to think my standards were too high and that I turned men off. But thank you for clarification of what grown boys and men are. Stay Woke, ten toes downs. Much respect Brother. I preach to my friends all the tine, never leave yo baby with your man Big no no
Appreciate this video! You really couldn’t say these things on broadcast TV because it’s the truth that will set us free and those leading the media are happy to keep us in bondage! Thank you for this word. It was painfully true
So true about Kids especially these parents who like to go on Vacation or Out for the night and let Family take care of the kids it's always those Family members Male and Female who always Eager to keep the Kids they are the ones Touching these Innocent Kids just Sad.
The more I listen the more I learn the more I become afraid to even try and trust another man. I did the right things when my kids were younger after my divorce. I didn't date or entertain men. Now that my kids are grown I realize it's rough out here. I won't lie...its discouraging. 😔
Listen my sisters!!!!!! Y'all may not like what Tony say and you may not like what he do but he just told y'all SOMETHING and that's THE WHOLE TRUTH!!!!!!!!✌
Tony u better preach!! My parents always taught me to not let my kids stay over friends house nor family. My daughter 2 and until she can form clear sentences she cannot go over family house. Most men tolerance is not high to stay in the house & take care of crying kids. Best to take care of your own & dont be so quick to rush into dating & having the first smiling man around your children. Get you a God fearing man! A man will always be a man. Be Blessed
Everytime I watch your videos, I get glued in seeing the entire video because the words you speak are so real. Some men aren't brave enough to admit anything is wrong, and act like they aren't wrong for laying up with 100s of women and having a strip club addiction. Tony Gatskins is the Best life coach that I've Witnessed 💯❤