In a truly abusive relationship it does nothing except anger them. Also expect to lose everything good as well as the bad. The kids, home, friends etc.
If i didnt move to japan and live alone, i probably still be man child It took me 25 years to be independent. Thinking back my college day, im such child Now at least im mentally teeanger
Bullied in primary school, bullied in high school. University was actually awesome; best time of my life. My first programming role, bullied in the workplace for my skin colour. Leave for 2nd company. Underpayed, promised promotion, company gets sold out, promised not to get laid over during transition, got laid off anyways. Third company is good so far. Friend circle is good. Family are good. But...i keep relapsing, I dunno if its PTSD or something (i know, sad compared to a VET). I dont want to meet new people anymore. There's a high chance you'll realise that im too nice and gullible, so you'll use it against me. Thats just human nature, people like to dominate others. Sick fk. Humans.....pffft
While this is obviously common, the fact that this is not universal to all men negates the premise. It is conditioning and definitely more pronounced depending on the culture. Encouraging people to be violent is insane.
F*ck my f*cking parents, i will never forgive them. They cut me off every time I tried to get out of the comfort zone like by canceling the previous role they've at least partially had to make me grow up properly. I was on my path during adolescence and later on on my young adulthood and they could just cut my efforts as if they were an empty need of attention or a sick will of power because i was going way too ahead of my older brother that was the one wasting time without studying, getting drunk every other day and so on. They destroyed everything i could be and that i tried to build for my future because I am not the first born son, and my indipendence would've been a shame for him. They spread lies in my town about me, they went from defining me autistic to gay, a psychopath, a thief with my colleagues and clients to eventually make me lose my job and be then the ultimate saviors that would keep me safe from an evil world that i should be blaming instead of them. I have been drowning my hatred in alcohol years ago then in video games, trying to keep my shit together as much as i could, using music as some self therapeutic tool that's saving me from giving life to the hell I've been accused of. They will probably get away with that, so will my brother and all the relatives that played along with that farse. All i can say is do not censor your resentment but learn from it, turn it into constructive energy whenever you can and eventually learn the value of silence. Wish the best in life to whoever read this.
Honestly? I just got tired of giving far more than I would ever get back. Not even as tit for tat, but as basic human decencies. Got tired of being the only one that's all in, and eventually stop participating.
I always been with such man..that was the great thing I had..might sound bad but most of the time I had dated ..I was with emotionally cold hearted man .. who are not into s,,.., anything in general Bcz that's been my type..the two people i dated were abused by their wives and gfs.. now after marriage. My husband is also a cold hearted man..I somehow knew he was broken overly..he is neglected by his parents.... some massive heartbreak in past 💕... and when I see him now..I don't feel anything new..I remember well..he has been moody distant cold hearted for many years.. someday he ll be very happy.. cook..talk..do physical fitness run..as he's a military guy..serving..but other days..I see him as a shell man..i donno how to feel anymore
Showing feelings or love is an expression of weakness. Just asking to be taken advantage of. People, often women, ask for us to be "vulnerable" with our feelings. I wonder why? 😂
The last part is absolutely crucial. Whenever I go to bars or clubs now, I make it a priority to build rapport with the bouncers, managers, and staff. I don't have to wait in line, get complimentary drinks, and of course gain social status which helps in the pickup game. Social skills is the 2nd most valuable commodity imo. Great video!
Any guppy can breed. When poor people breed and cannot support their children, it's called being irresponsible. I decided not to have children at the beginning of adulthood. I don't regret my decision. I have met women who have made the same decision. We are not here only to reproduce.
I am learning life the hard way right now. Currently, there are a lot of my own choices that I sort of regret and wished that I picked or did things differently.
Society doesn't like men that have hobbies. The man-child problem happens because those men don't make money with their hobbies. When those men are faced with having to grow up at 30 years old, it destroys their ego. I'd say that boomer and Gen X parents have no prepared their sons for manhood. Every problem starts at home. It's a double edged sword.
Give your son everything as a child, leave him with no skills and resources for adulthood. I've seen this time and time again. This is the millennial and Gen Z man-child.
If youre not ready to accept what spending a lot of time in this negative visualization may do to your outlook on the world, consider what being constantly blindsided and shocked by things will do to your morale. You must anticipate the feelings and perceptions that arise from accepting that people are kinda shit, and circumstances too. It's best to see them as more neutral , but sometimes that doesn't even seem possible, at least not at first. Try to imagine when you are months down the road from such things, or what a favorable and realistic outcome actually looks like, but do not become particularly attached to it even though it is preferable
Finding this relatable as a woman. Same story, just with the swapped genders. I fear being independent because all my life, I've been told, "I'm not capable of anything." 26 years old now, doing therapy, journalling, and taking meds for my depression and anxiety.
Are you getting shadow banned or something? Your thumbnails are good and your titles are good yet you don’t get that many views anymore (not that it matters)
Probably, I got totally demonetized once so the shadowban probably still lingers. But I guess mostly its because people love to be entertained way more than they love to be informed. But idgaf to be honest as I don't want to be famous anyway, and I hope that my audience don't linger here for longer than they have to since I want them to take all the info here and apply it to their own lives.
I disagree with this video, I may prefer to distance myself from people not because I am socially undeveloped (I work in sales), but because people fail to meet the minimum requirements of being a mature human being, this comes from me being very connected to my core, shutting down a world ruled by ego and searching for true meaning.
I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREE with ALL that you said! I know because I went through ALL that & then some! So, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! My only hope is that my country, the Philippines, will adopt THIS when dealing with the pricks who're trying to take away parts of MY country without paying the price!
I find this disgusting !This attitude seems to be prevailing in our culture, it is cruel and childish . Idont agree with a lot of the stoic principles because they are self centered , manipulative and callous . The stoics failed because as human being we dont put ourselves first but we need to think of others . Do unto others as you would want them do unto you ! This is the Divine teaching ,care and consideration for the feelings of others should always guide our thoughts not what is easy and best for ourselves Sacrifice and love should always prevaail over self interest ,for compassion and empathy is key toward inner happiness , The love of Christ is selflessness not. making one self the priority This is narcissism and only leads to a unhealthy love of self ...../
Still i feel worthless womens call me ugly friends say i am lazy even my coworker says i am just siting in room like lazy and usless But i dont even know what i did to deserve all this us the way i am but i want to change but cant and now i just hate myself for it
Well, I had the generational wealth and also blew that up in the stock market. Go figure…yup…feeling pretty useless, even with a molecular biology PhD (unemployed)
Well this video hit to close to home, and yes it relates to me although i didnt call myself "sigma male" or whatever but you can still instill in yourself specialty for being alone and it relates to that. Its a trap really.
This looks like one of those entirely automated AI channels. If this guy is real, he the biggest douche to ever hit 100k subs. The advice given on this channel will turn you into Christian Bale from American Psycho.
