As a black woman I never care or stare at bm/ww relationships but from my experience its the black men that always bring up to me they love ww FIRST. I never ask black men if they love ww, but they always can't wait to tell me how much they love ww to try to get a reaction out of me. It makes me wonder if they really do love white women or deep inside they just hate their own race. Regardless it's their issue not mine.
I feel the same way. I don’t care either. Keep each and every one if they want. As long as they don’t try and come back looking for help or get out jail or child support. Stay where you at.
That’s not only a black men problem tho my entire life I’ve heard bw say bm have nothing for us and they leaving them for yt men and how all black men are the same I’ve Also been told bw can date yt men but bm can’t date yt woman cause it’s weird and corny
I can't say it's hate. Let me explain. I think due to so much opposition and racism, we as black men have dealt with so much racial stereotypical behavior. I will be honest, I don't agree with black history month ans I sort hate it. Its a double edge sword of truth and lies. As far as attraction to white women, I think it's a difference factor. With most black women I love the fact as I have communicated more I see or meet more mature black women.. I would never bash black women or choose a white woman simply because she's white. I will say I think my view point on what I was introduced to about black women was negative. Maybe it was my upbringing from mom. Now that I'm grown I stopped trying to war with it and make peace.
It was genius. He turned a silly stereotype about interracial dating into a multimillion dollar movie. We need a "Get Outa Here: Interracial Horror Stories In Every State" A Netflix series 😂
Thats what's wrong now. Y'all are incorporating hollywood fiction into your reality. That's how brainwash works. You think hollywood doesn't know what it's doing? 😮
Was anybody else confused by what he said? Black woman do what? I’m just asking bc I feel like some bm think bw care just because that’s a popular narrative, even when no one’s really paying attention
I agree. When bm and ww pass me by, they are more concerned about their relationship....because she starts to walk faster or he grabs her waist, something to demonstrate their love. I love love. But I am trying to make money ....that is what is on my mind.
Please stop telling the world you prefer them. They never say this about us. They are literally in the comment sections replying to women telling you desperate ladies to give it up. Burn your cape. It’s 2024. You know black men only want skinny Lightskin girls, or non-black girls with curly hair. This not Dulude ourselves.it’s 2024. It’s time for us black women to move on. Stop chasing the lowest performance men on the face of the planet.
Lol this video is so funny. There’s been so many times that black men go out of their way to be seen when they’re with white women to get a reaction. One day I was at the store and this black guy kept shouting to his white woman in the the next aisle over trying to ask her questions. Even she had to ask him why he was yelling. LoL 😂😂 it was very weird but typically behavior of black men who are with white women. A lot of my friends are married to white men, asian men, or Hispanics. When i see BW in public with their nonblack s/o they’re not loud and their s/o is pleasant.
This has to be the strangest observation I’ve ever heard. If any couples are most likely to be loud it’s black couples. It’s a stereotype of our people.
@@Elross_ Nowhere. Goes to show just how many dumb and ignorant people there are. He talked about him getting "the look" in public with white women because he thinks it's because black men say "I date white women because-" That "because" is akin to disliking black women in favor of white. Which is why he gets "the look." Never mentioned black women in a negative light, yet get a hold of all the angry ones in the comments saying "we don't care" and "black men are worthless." Lipstick Alley opened my eyes to how [a lot] of black women truly feel about their counterparts. And that's reflected in these comments. If you have to search for a video to spew vitriol about men you claim you don't care about...you care about them. Or you care about not being first pick-I don't know, don't care. All I know is, go where you're loved and appreciated for who you are-not what's in your pockets, or because you feel like you owe it to a bunch of bitter elitists. If that's with a white woman or a latina-whatever, find your peace, black man. This is for who it's for.
@@Elross_he’s indirect. He’s saying black women always gotta comment on interracial relationships while using the worst example possible. In get out the dude is being used by a white woman. In a way the puts in life literal danger. When are black men going to wake up. Black women just see the betrayal and aren’t scared to call it out. If black men have a preference that’s fine but stop punishing bw for their own internal shame. Maybe then they’ll stop getting “looks”.
So your logic is that someone nerdy/alternative is ONLY allowed to pursue someone else who is the exact same? That’s so backwards lol.. you know good and well you would feel a certain way if other races of people publicly said one of their own are only allowed to pursue and date within. That is not how dating works. You can’t help who you are attracted to just like you can’t help who is not attracted to you smh..
Because you know damn well it's true that black women are intimidated by black men who date outside they race and fear competition from other races of women
@@keishasims3192You literally said I wish "they" Meaning that you're counting black men as a whole, some monolith group You could have said him, if you wanted to make emphasis on individuality
I met young black men couldn't change a tire, but they will change your tire, same with muuu...it's a joke because you'll get your tire changed by men mam...and you have lots to talk about when you got to change your own tire
find a woman or man that is going to hustle and grow with you (PERIOD) everything else just extra. You both should win together you both should have the bag. end of story.
Black women are more loyal to our race and culture, to each his own but let's be honest, nobody just randomly goes out to lunch with ANYONE, especially men, men can't just hang out with a woman for JUST lunch
No your not you gave up the black man for government assistance you treat the doe man like a king and come back home and treat the black man like shit you have weaponized the youth against us by instilling nothing but anger here and sadness inside of the young black boys and girls the black woman ain’t holding shit down but a false ass narrative that y’all superwoman even in reality y’all worster than satan
Yeah we had to heat all the horror stories of our black women flying to Dubai and getting violated for money tbh respect is lost BW can’t come back from that! They were letting white and Arab shit and piss in their mouth! Look up Dubai porta potty
Sir, I've never dated a bm nor do I have any care or concern about your life. My husband is White and I married him because he's my perfect match. Stop blaming BW for all your problems, it's weak. You should be with a ww because you love her as an individual not because you're mad at BW. Grow up!
White men don't even like black women , let alone spend a single penny on them 💀. You just seem frustrated at this point . Infact white women also credit more than black women and white women are known to hire gigolos lmao
Wh'te men are on average less wealthy than Asian men and Indian men, yet Indian women love wm, and Asian women love wm. Explain that. You can't because it's raw attraction. Actually ww have more money than wm at a younger age. But older age wm have more wealth than ww. So the whole credit argument is a fallacy at least for wm aged 18-34.
@@AlliterativeAtheist it's about raw attraction, and the idea that wm are less violent towards their partners and will give the bw what they are craving which is feeling needed, and appreciated. Ww told the wm they don't need wm. So they started seeking the need to make a woman feel needed in other groups.
I feel like they wanna be seen so bad with each other to try and trigger others, and often get together for all the wrong reasons. It just doesn't take 2 ppl to walk in and buy something. Cause only 1 of yall paying and most times its Not the Bm thats paying. So he could have been left in car or home. But Nope lol. Thats why its best to ignore Tf outta them lol🤷🏽♀️.
I'm not gonna lie, when I hang out with my white homegirl, I DO get a lot of weird looks! But I also understand that a lot of bm parade ww around like some badge of honor. 🙄
Let me let all you types know NOW , we honestly don’t care. If anything you guys expect someone to care, but really don’t, we are Blessed with Black Girl Magic🫶🏽🖤😝🤲🏽🙏🏾🌷♦️, because God has us and we know this, Man!!
If you TRULY DIDNT CARE, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE MADE A COMMENT! If black men wanted you to care we would still be in your face asking for your feelings.... those days are OVER! DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT MAGIC IS OF THE DEVIL???? GOD HAS NO PART IN THAT. IN FACT THAT'S A MOCKERY OF GOD... Your mindset is partly why BLACK MEN ARE NO LONGER INTERESTED IN MOVING FORWARD WITH MOST BLACK WOMEN. Especially in USA You've turned your back on him thru your actions against your a signed men. He will deal with you accordingly 🙏🤲✝️
Let’s keep it real black men going to get hate regardless of bashing black women or not & black women get praise regardless of bashing black men or not 🤦🏿💯
Stop the bullshit all black men know they mothers wasn’t shit black woman i got a question if y’all so smart and do nothing but good why are all the babies y’all raising killing each other and out here popping pills fucking and stealing
@@one_above_all_yt5157 They came from you a black man and that your duty that you BM neglect and I am aware of a BM his Black🖤 heart is real his inhuman behaviors is Indescribable and it takes a wise woman to conquer A BEAST so FUCK you!!!! BW will continue to care the KIDS and You figure out your self
Every race loves black men. It’s okay. Seriously. Every race loves black women. It’s okay. Seriously. Follow your heart. Unify instead of being jealous and carrying envy.
@@ajwalker2365 A Black guy came up to a Black girl (he didn't even know), then yelled out, "I bet he ain't hitting it right!" You can't yell that to a random stranger. It was weird!
Theyre with these women and still talking about us. Why? Why are we always the focus of your attention? Be happy with your woman and leave us alone. I guarantee nobody is looking at you
Black women don’t want Blackman to have options. But no more. Yes we are turning our backs on them. Besides they’re on the other team anyway. so go be strong and independent with your Zaddy.🎙️
Please take your passport and travel the world. I’m sure you are super successful, highly intelligent, and a six-figure high value man that has so many options from women all over the world. Literally, I’m sure your net worth is super large also. I’m sure you were winning in every single category in life. I’m sure you have a mansion that is fully paid for and three cars, you are the most desirable man. Now that you have been motivated report to the passport office and go ahead and check out. lol I’m sure there is no other man on the face of the planet better than you, taller than you, more good looking than you none none of those things can’t stop you because you are a king. You may not have a kingdom, but you are a king to someone out there. Now go spread your wings and find your beautiful Becky. ✌🏾✌🏾
I never have had issues with interracial relationship. However it's understanding why some blackwomen do. When black men go on SOCIAL MEDIA and make NEGATIVE comments about black women compared to white females. it has us feeling inferior and some kind of way when we see a brother with a white girl. Weaves and long eyelashes is a result of feeling inferior most of us were not born with long INDIAN HAIR but its the trend WHY ?
As a black man, this is one of the things I fear I may have to deal with sooner or later. When I was a teen, my mom would actively bash any woman that was lighter than her (not Michael Blackson shade, but not Brandee Evans either). "Black men can only get white trash. Yellow women are whores," etcetera, etcetera. I remember one time my cousin had forwarded her a message of a white girl posing topless because she believed it was set up by her mother (cousin is a lesbian with an imposing mother). My mom said to me "she don't even like white girls." Before I knew it, I had jokingly replied "I do" and she rolled her eyes. First and foremost, I like women. Knew since I was a little boy. Black, white, latina-just about every race. But now that I'm a man, I've discovered that I like white women a bit more. Before you start grabbing pitchforks, I still very much like black women. Shit, I find black women the sexiest out of all races (love Brandee Evans). But that's not what I'm looking for romantically. I met a black girl a few months back that friend zoned me. A few weeks later, I called her for some advice about shooting my shot at a particular lady. The second she found out she was white, she made her disdain known. "Why you can't date somebody black?" "Why it gotta' be a white heifer?" I didn't set my sights on her merely because she was white, but because she was the most beautiful woman I had seen to date and I was fucking starstruck. She shot me down, sadly, but chatting her up for those few minutes made me feel on top of the world. I say all that to say this; one day I want to become something and give back to my people. Black people are fractured and will probably never be restored to our former glory. What or who I love won't ever compromise the way I feel about my people or what I want to do for them, but it's seeing vitriol about black men dating outside our race that makes me sad. God made us all in His image. Black, white, brown, red, charcoal, yellow. We are Him and He is us. Why people feel that one race belongs to them and them only baffles me.
My thing is I would notice it the interracial couples with a black man the black man seems upset at me. Not really the other way around. I relate to them. Since I only do interracial relationships no. But it is nice to see. I guess I'm weird though for me personally I relate racially more to their children than either of them. LOL
Remember when John Travolta danced with Princess Diana? well Megan Markle asked him to dance with HER like that and he said NO, that's how sick she is. Be yourself. dont compare yourself to somebody you can never be.
lol cause y’all are that type, and nah we don’t care who ppl date, but the spirit , see y’all! So u will forever be catching them looks, unless you moving around at night , 😂 😂 😂
I’m white dating a Dominican man, we’ve been together almost a decade and when we get the looks from people I usually get them worse as of other white people are looking down on me for being with a darker man. Eye rolls when we have our babies with us and I’ve even been asked if they were OUR children because they’re darker than me but lighter than him. I just lead with love and always remember, ignorance is bliss. I’m just here- you are choosing to be uncomfortable. Not my issue to deal with🤷🏻♀️
This tpoic always tickled me because as a black woman married to a black man, black men dating white women nrver mrant shit to me. Men in my family date women of all races. However, i do notice BM with WW tend to want to to get noticed or like to see other black folks reaction.
Idk 🤷🏽♂️ I am one of em niggas. I be mad asf when I see a beautiful black women with some nardy ahh white boii. Not on some racist shii or cause I hate white people typa shii but that’s our women. She is ours. If I see two good looking and successful black women and man, I am proud asf “ they together and making shiii happen regardless of the situation “. I am also disappointed at black, we don’t treat our women right too …. But Hell nah, I be mad when I see our Queens with anybody but a black man.
Morphie Black Women are bedwenches bro. Attractive black women will date an average looking loser type white guy just because he’s white. Look up “JBW” which stands for Just Be White.
@@Shackbulley see that’s the problem. You generalize. Not every black women is like that, don’t be bitter be better. When you act great you will find great. There are good black women and there are bad ones but you can’t say every black women is that way. Also, as a man it also depend on you, how treat your women is how she will treat you. If you’re a real man, a leader man, your women will follow you regardless, without you even having to demand it because a real feminine women will always recognize when she is with a leader.
Should it matter if BW think you're "one of them" ???? What BW think lives rent free in EVERYONE'S head these days ESPECIALLY BM that swear they hate BW. I understand it's hard to be relevant without making BW the focal point of your content, but everyone is getting tired of the same old story. What would be amazing is if BM can make content that excludes BW & be successful, because I haven't seen it in years. It's becoming redundant and lame. Let's see the content about the preferences that BM choose & the views y'all get off of that. I know I won't keep harping on something that means nothing to me...like I won't stress about bowling shoes if I never go bowling.
Black men like to carry their biracial children around like a Gucci bag and have the worst attitude like someone is going to say something. No one actually really cares who black men date and if they did it has not stopped not even 1 black men from being with who they want to be with. You complain about black women having an attitude, but alot of ya’ll need to check your energy because when you’re looking for a problem you will find it. I have yet to see a black man in a interracial relationship when they are around black women just genuinely happy. A black woman shouldn’t be stopping your happiness, ya’ll are not friendly. It’s almost like ya’ll have to prove how much you don’t like black women. Just be happy. If a black woman says anything it’s probably because your energy is negative. Nobody wants to be around negative energy simply because you believe they care. How could you know if you don’t speak to them. Black men completely mean mug black women when they are interracially dating and it’s off putting. If you want anyone to happy for you please stop the mean mug. Just be happy.
Here here! I agree you boss Asf! “Don’t worry! Be happy!” Here here! Keep up the good work boss! I love it and I live and breathe it always too.🙌🏿🙏🏿👏🏿🔥💯❤️😎
@@brandonray4379 Agreed, and then they go on to brag about how White man are better and got more money than Black man. But yet they don’t see us crying on the internet about it.
@@TheBritishGuy75 He actually did when he said about going to lunch with a white woman and black woman look around at him it was after he talked about Jordan Peele movie
Yea people like who they like but many black men do it for attention and to boost their low self esteem just to get praise from other men. Its pathetic. And what they don’t realize is that for many white women, it’s seen as a downgrade in their community to date black men. But again people will like what they like, just wanted to put that out there.
@@keishasims3192 But how can someone who is black have a preference for someone who is not black? I mean shouldn't it be a default that you should want someone from your race, but you are open to date other races? It boggles my mind. I have never heard a white man say out loud that he prefers Asian women or Latina women....his default is always a ww and then he can generally date other women....this preference topic is only common in black American communities....
Somehow though you found yourself on this video/reel and commenting on it. Not a coincidence from someone who could care less. It a got a reaction out of you 🤔
As a black man I totally agree . I’ve been with my Latina gf for bout 2yrs now ,and black women get soooo salty towards me whenever they see us together . It’s very sad
No one cares just stop side eyeing me when I am with my white husband and if you say y'all don't you a damn lie. I even have had black men say "why you with that white guy"
I’m a young kid just asking to please not generalize “all Black women” the “they” you’re referring to does not represent all and many bw’s (such as myself) don’t think anything
Y'all Black Men And Women Need To Stop Fighting In The Comments. Looks Crazy Af Forreal We All We Got And There Are Bigger Fish Tk Fry✊🏿❤️. We Need More Unity Like Our Ancestors, They Understand They Had Only Eachother To Lean On To Fight Unjust. So Have Ya Opinions, But Lets Not Be Hateful. It's Off Putting How Quick Our Community Will Bash One Another Get It Together Already🙏🏿✊🏿❤️
I dated a white girl that resembles Maryland Monroe, we were both in our 20's. I kept getting turned down by the sisters in the hood, because they preferred Drug dealers and brothers that dresses fly with soft hair and mine is kinky like lambs wool. . I could not compete with guys my age pulling up in up end cars.
It's sad af when it's like that. When our own females won't fu*k with us. Cause we not thugged out enough for them. Then have the nerve to turn a round and get salty when we get with a cute white girl
@T. H. if you don't know know who Maryland Monroe is I am willing to wager a haft pound of shillings and a plate of spaghetti carbona that you are either trolling or raced outside of the United States. What say you..
It doesn't matter where the black man goes; England, Turkey, Dubai, Japan, Vietnam, Canada, Ghana, Spain, Russia, Venezuela, Germany etc. He's going to just get the attention. It's the global interest that will always surpass the ideologies of dark plasma.
@@wiseguy240Winston Bruh, dudes really be fanned out. He needs to know it's the person's character and chemistry that makes a relationship..."Heavenly". 😂
You jumped the gun trying to use buzz words and create a narrative. He’s saying certain parts of the movie get out was relatable to his experience as a black man out with a white woman. The point was related to the movie
It’s their fault …..even as a Hispanic women I dated black men too and their obsession with any women that ain’t blakc is gross. I am basically their second standard and I dated them to learn that they want a white women #1. I learned this through their staring and they way they spoke about ww and other women. Cool….go get them. I don’t date them anymore . I stay awY for my hem entirely and i think I’m justified. I don’t wNt to hang or date men that subconsciously and consciously think I’m less then a white girl or better than they are because I’m Hispanic/mixed looking/sometimes half white looking (so they hope) . I want the father of my kids to be happy that they are mixed and don’t need a touch of white to be valued or beautiful
Its interesting because you hear reasoning from either a bm or bw about their reasons for dating their non black partner, it can come across with misogynoir or internalized racism. So when we talk about "one of those" that's what's meant and I wonder how that plays into perception of others and perception of self
The overwhelming majority of American Black Women have a hatred for black men and can’t stand to see someone else take a liking to what she hates! I find myself extremely uneasy around American black women, they take PLEASURE in seeing black men dying and because of that I keep my distance! I can name two instances in which American black women celebrated a black man’s demise...... Kobe Bryant and Kevin Samuels! Black men don’t say anything bad or wish harm on them, just observe and take notes! AND NEVER FORGET!
Dont put that on black women. We dislike when black men date other women and try to make it our fault. That’s completely different. Date who you like, sir, just leave us out of it completely.
I actually turn into Stevie wonder when an interracial couple is around because I know they are going to think that and get an attitude with me! Like sir I’m just trying to get by 😂
Who TF cares?! Go for the 🐦 who celebrates you and who you are ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO...not what some goofy THINKS you(a complete GROWN MAN STRANGER who may even be higher SMV than them) should mess with.👀😒😒😒😒💯💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
I'm going to do what I want to do regardless of what black women or any woman thinks. I have one life to live, and it goes by fast. So the last thing i wanna do is live my life trying to please my own race. People spend a lot of their own life chasing love when it could've been found in a different race.
🗣️True talk... We mad because the very OTHER that wants you actually finds your mother & sister HIDEOUS & GROSS to look at ... Then ... They're crossing their fingers🤞 in hopes of their children not looking like 1 of those *i*gas !!!😢😔😞
I do know for Fact and I've asked the question many times never got a real reason is white do at least 50% of all white women go out black guys???? I know I live in Chicago Heights and south Chicago all my life and I swear all I've seen is almost all white girls go out with just black guys and black guys only whether it's in Jr High or High School or to just in public at least 50% of all white women are with a black guy not Asian men not Mexican men not Indian men just 60% black guys 40% white guys. In other nationalities it's their women are dating 80-90% of their own nationality it's not racist to thing this is unusual or strange like it's a fad or popular if a white to be dating a black guy????
Please ignore anyone who is negative of your relationship. And just so you know I think it is a black community problem rather than only BW problem. Because when I am out with my white fiancé I also get nasty stares from black men and women. Love whoever you want. Most of us support you.
