This is normal. They are conditioned to resspond-react to routine, daily conduct. Dad likely leaves for work daily to support his family while mom is usually home with them. Typical in my home, many homes.
My condolences. Wishing you peace and Grace to continue seeing the goodness of life. The sunrise 🌄 and sunsets,flowers,birds singing,the rain all remind us we are part of a larger existence .
Not the most ideal situation but… whatever floats your boat. Statistically speaking you’re more disadvantaged in every regard and indices than someone who grew up in a two parent household.
Lmao stop, no they don’t 😂 I’m glad you’re trying to make men feel better but the babies have no clue. They just need mommy more because mommy is mommy. Most (not all of course) babies prefer mommy
Dad: Pushes him out of the door and closes it and saying "Yeah, yeah dada work" Ultimate smartness...😂 Mom: Saying bye and the girls that it started crying" Don't go mama" .... But however both are cutie pies....😇😇
Even if mom went to work she brings comfort and for the most part is more involved with the kids, at least that’s how it is in our family. They get hurt etc, they come to Mama.
I'm definitely happy to see who they are as adults. They are success stories. I'm so proud of the respectful, responsible, kind, hardworking people they have become. They just live far away and we really enjoy the little time we have together these days.
@@guineveredecker4349 my son just left and now we live far from each other because of our preferences. We are so close and talk every day still but it’s not the same and I know that’s just for now lol. But I am so proud of the man he is🥰
I think the reason why they were okay when daddy left is because mom was home. You could see someone was holding the camera and they were looking at the person. But when mom was leaving, you could see there was no one else apart from her and the kids at home. So they were just scared they were going to be left alone. I don't think they love daddy any less. Nice video anyway☺ Very cute💛
When my son is at that age, I literally need to be slippery not to get notice that I’m hitting the door out 😂 Now my son is 25, ok mum, see you 😂🫣 and he will just remember me now if he badly needs something that he can’t afford by himself 🙄😳😂
I don't think that was the case... when my husband is off to work and I'm at home they accept his bye bye.. but when it's my turn to go work the next day .. once I start dressing up they follow me around and once I make attempt to the door they scream and want to follow me even when my hubby and sibling are there with them.. there's just something so special about having mums around. 😁
I heard my husband tell my daughter he had to go work and when he left she cried. She didnt realize I was still home. Little kids are smart enough to know they're too little to be alone. The wife
I'm 56 my mom passed when i was 52 i wanted to have a tantrum then I held her in my arms had a dream she was dropping me off at work in a golden car and would come pick me back up when it was my turn to pass
They might do this each day to make them know that Daddy is happy & that he’s just going to work & will be back soon. Each evening, they prob do the same, “Yay! Daddy’s home!” with hugs & kisses, too. Kids love being a part of sending Daddy off and love even more so, Daddy’s hugs & kisses greeting. By this time each evening, in our experience, they’re tired of Mommy. Daddy’s always the excitement! 💕💕
@@skyrock830 tramposo vídeo ,con la figura paterna que queden asimilan la partida del que se va no es igual ,no son tontos ante la situación de quedarse solos en la casa.
As an experienced babysitter...yeah, that crying dries up in less than 5 minutes🤔 The amount of unnecessary Mom guilt these little nuggets dish out is Master Class😄
Really? I am starting my office soon(had been wfh) and I am just depressed thinking how my daughter will react. I have been with her 24*7 since she was born. Your comment actually helped.
They wouldn’t be saying yay if he choose no to raise em 🤷♂️ yall females think it’s cute too degrade a father just cuz you ain’t have one 😭😭😭 who you think they learned that from?
They're used to dad leaving, but they know he returns too . They are also used to mom being home with them. I know this because I was a housewife with 4 children. 🥰 On the flip side, I know they are ecstatic when daddy comes home too👍🏽👊🏽❣️
I wanted to make a similar point. They know daddy leaves but mom is still there so they feel happy to be “big girls” helping daddy with the door and all. But if mom also leaves they will rebel as one can assume there is no one else there so they are scared to be left alone and therefore cries for her not to go. Its psychology
It's all about routine; what they're used to. If Mummy always went to work and Daddy had always been the one home looking after them, it would easily be the other way round.
You can tell mommy makes it a positive experience when he leave “daddy work” it’s definitely a routine for them. It’s actually a good idea to praise him for taking care of his family so the girls know that he’s leaving for a great reason. If he start doing this with them leaving won’t be so hard for her “yaaaay mommy getting a break” love how adorable they are 🤍
Mine was like this too until they reached their teenage age. At that time, when I say Mommy going bye bye... They dont reply at all, just busy with their mobile phone. Huhu 😭😭😭😂😂😂
They know daddy always come home from work every day, and maybe brings some treats 🍕 😂 👍 If Mommy left right after him no wonder they cry, thinking they be all alone 😢 👶 👶
Probably their whole lives they are used to dad leaving for work and maybe the mom even made it sound happy, like yay!! They are used to having fun home with mom. When I was little I don’t think I saw my dad leave in the mornings, he just came home at night.
That's how it is in our house daddy goes to work gives kisses and hugs and I stay home with the kids. They would go crazy when I had to leave them home with daddy.
I remember those days 😩lol…my son had to have me in sight at all times as a baby/toddler….he’s a grown man now and I’m the one that whines whn he has to leave 😂….cycle of life I guess 🤷🏻♀️
So true 🤣 my daughter is exact same. I can't even give her a kiss and hug bye or she'll cry for me for about an hour or so, her dad hates it when I let her see me leave even if it's just to the shop 3 minutes walk away she'll cry until I get back 😂
@@lawrenceallison2760 sure they know that....They're being taught that Daddy makes money and provides for his family and Mommy takes care of them. Simple and normal.
This is how things are supposed to be. The mother's and women bond with the children and stay at home more with the children compared to the men and dad's. I really love this video. Great video y'all. God bless you and your entire family always.
@@MelB868 what? My twin toddlers did the same exact thing with their dad and with me. They would freak out when I left and were fine when dad left. Or are you thinking chronologically like the dad left and the mom is leaving them alone? If so you have a weird way of thinking. It says “VS”! 😆😆😆
Yay! daddy work, the kids understand the assignment. "Mom, where you thing you're going? You suppose to stay home with us"! Hence the extra when she tries to leave...lol
So children are okay without a dad? Where did he just go? The country club? Dads are just as important, he's the reason why she gets to stay home, because he's making a living for everyone in that home.
