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WHEN HE LOSES CONTROL OF YOU, HE WILL DO THIS! 

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@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 5 месяцев назад
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@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 5 месяцев назад
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@terilyntucker4361
@terilyntucker4361 5 месяцев назад
Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.
@kweenuzuri9018
@kweenuzuri9018 4 месяца назад
Factz 💯 😊💗
@judyschwenz6436
@judyschwenz6436 4 месяца назад
It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢
@ShirleyWillis-os2bc
@ShirleyWillis-os2bc 2 месяца назад
Me
@lisahurst1940
@lisahurst1940 5 месяцев назад
Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
@MissOddyO
@MissOddyO 5 месяцев назад
This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!
@cynicalafflictional1725
@cynicalafflictional1725 5 месяцев назад
Yes!
@kimbrown5407
@kimbrown5407 5 месяцев назад
Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌
@trinjuwan4422
@trinjuwan4422 4 месяца назад
Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫
@elmagarza478
@elmagarza478 5 месяцев назад
IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!
@abigailgoodwin4759
@abigailgoodwin4759 4 месяца назад
💯👌🏿
@user-cy9in5ry9c
@user-cy9in5ry9c 5 месяцев назад
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
@kukuakukua
@kukuakukua 5 месяцев назад
This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing
@oliviabarr2986
@oliviabarr2986 5 месяцев назад
Treat him like a stranger ❤
@abigailgoodwin4759
@abigailgoodwin4759 4 месяца назад
👌🏿💪🏾
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 5 месяцев назад
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
@Webble_webble
@Webble_webble 5 месяцев назад
"Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!" Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤
@aamne2012
@aamne2012 5 месяцев назад
Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort
@bioncadixon1989
@bioncadixon1989 5 месяцев назад
Barz
@riasb
@riasb 5 месяцев назад
🔥
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 5 месяцев назад
Love it! Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
@BBFLYRISEN
@BBFLYRISEN 3 месяца назад
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🖤
@alogan9502
@alogan9502 5 месяцев назад
Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌
@westcoastbred7745
@westcoastbred7745 4 месяца назад
Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids
@brendamartin763
@brendamartin763 2 месяца назад
Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone. Some confuse the empath for a doormat. That's not the case.
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 5 месяцев назад
Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 5 месяцев назад
Bravo! 👍
@GIGI-lv1qt
@GIGI-lv1qt 5 месяцев назад
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 5 месяцев назад
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate. I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast Accurate study.
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 5 месяцев назад
Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
@AuntieSamLoves
@AuntieSamLoves 5 месяцев назад
Me too 👍
@angelamartinsanders8209
@angelamartinsanders8209 5 месяцев назад
I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.
@rooffoop5358
@rooffoop5358 5 месяцев назад
Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏
@elizabethbuchanan1931
@elizabethbuchanan1931 5 месяцев назад
Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 4 месяца назад
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
@aprildouglass4265
@aprildouglass4265 4 месяца назад
💯💯🎯
@lilamckay5982
@lilamckay5982 5 месяцев назад
Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.
@michellerogers5582
@michellerogers5582 5 месяцев назад
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
@HannahBanana_XO
@HannahBanana_XO Месяц назад
Protect your heart and peace at all cost! ♥️✨
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 5 месяцев назад
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
@vanessasmith4960
@vanessasmith4960 4 месяца назад
Yes Lord. Amen
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 4 месяца назад
@@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄
@TNT31414
@TNT31414 3 месяца назад
That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!
@Stella-kx3lt
@Stella-kx3lt 5 месяцев назад
That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!
@DarleneD-dt5qy
@DarleneD-dt5qy 5 месяцев назад
Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 5 месяцев назад
Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪 Character is actions. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
@valeriebyrd70
@valeriebyrd70 5 месяцев назад
I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 5 месяцев назад
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
@genXer2024
@genXer2024 4 месяца назад
I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone
@shelleyjeanne257
@shelleyjeanne257 4 месяца назад
Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago
@user-ji1cs5ee8e
@user-ji1cs5ee8e 5 месяцев назад
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌ To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
@BBFLYRISEN
@BBFLYRISEN 3 месяца назад
My pledge: 🙋🏿‍♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”
@margueritedrya9807
@margueritedrya9807 5 месяцев назад
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
@tobilawal2142
@tobilawal2142 5 месяцев назад
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
@lindagoldsmith5899
@lindagoldsmith5899 5 месяцев назад
You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now
@Angie-kn8nd
@Angie-kn8nd 5 месяцев назад
You are on fire with these short videos !!
@LoveEndures7
@LoveEndures7 5 месяцев назад
He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his RU-vid 😵‍💫 here's two that stood out: "Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden "What Could've Been" - Gone West
@elizabethwerter7171
@elizabethwerter7171 5 месяцев назад
You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤
@magdalenachojnowska3621
@magdalenachojnowska3621 5 месяцев назад
That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 5 месяцев назад
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
@user-fn1kx8ow5q
@user-fn1kx8ow5q 4 месяца назад
AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!
@tsioncox3712
@tsioncox3712 5 месяцев назад
Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful
@Harry-o6g
@Harry-o6g 5 месяцев назад
Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊
@user-cj1wk4jz3x
@user-cj1wk4jz3x 4 месяца назад
Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 4 месяца назад
@user-cj1wk4jz3x Hey, here's the link for free enrollment into my Self-Crowned Inner Circle: derrickjaxn.rurl.me/freeenrollmentvip1
@DarleneD-dt5qy
@DarleneD-dt5qy 5 месяцев назад
Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯
@patricebeene646
@patricebeene646 5 месяцев назад
Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media
@Kivaunii
@Kivaunii Месяц назад
This was extremely helpful. Thank you, if you have a daughter she is very fortunate to have a father as knowledgeable as you are. New subscriber ❤
@Jillian15
@Jillian15 3 месяца назад
Yesssss!!! Show him who's really in control Brah!!!
@annamillan2903
@annamillan2903 5 месяцев назад
Listening to you has been very enlightening.
@evamoore2297
@evamoore2297 3 месяца назад
Yeah I've dealt with all of that. Now I'm first, if they don't fit in my life.... well that just blows. I'm alone but I'm fine with that. 🙂
@stellaeightp8596
@stellaeightp8596 2 месяца назад
Self care self love self respect 🙏🏾
@harriettestjohn1699
@harriettestjohn1699 5 месяцев назад
Tell them Zaddy
@lateshiakellman4657
@lateshiakellman4657 Месяц назад
I appreciate you more than you will enter know. Sincerely, Empath.
@ADE528
@ADE528 4 месяца назад
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
@emilysandstrom2476
@emilysandstrom2476 5 месяцев назад
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
@Katarina503
@Katarina503 5 месяцев назад
I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏
@margaretbanchansky2890
@margaretbanchansky2890 5 месяцев назад
I did exactly that. Then he went after the 2 children. So that was the end for me.
@stephnie8
@stephnie8 5 месяцев назад
What do you mean by going after the children?
@debraharris6350
@debraharris6350 3 месяца назад
Yes, ME DERRICK THANK YOU JESUS AMEN HALLELUJAH 😇🥰🙏🙌❤️💯💯💯💞💞💞
@simonethompson8946
@simonethompson8946 3 месяца назад
Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽
@KKP20111
@KKP20111 24 дня назад
You are always helping us with your videos, D! 💯 Thank you! ❤️
@pandorarolle5912
@pandorarolle5912 17 дней назад
Yes you are very strong on point sir I am learn alot from you thank you for the insight and yes I had gone all out to show him just how much I love I am at the point of walking away
@mz.ellalobo8531
@mz.ellalobo8531 3 месяца назад
I've been there and the next day he left me for someone else like I was nothing. Treat him like doesnt exist. Take my word
@ellenmorse8559
@ellenmorse8559 2 месяца назад
He’s trying to punish you, just feel sorry for that poor girl he’s using aS a bandaid. Glad you took out the rubbish!😊
@stay-positive6296
@stay-positive6296 5 месяцев назад
You are talking to me Mr. Jackson I am going through this right now
@DeniseLiotti-qz1ug
@DeniseLiotti-qz1ug 3 месяца назад
Yes .I've had more than one marked demons sadly all the same actions you are Soo right on
@7ChakrasTarot
@7ChakrasTarot 4 месяца назад
Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.
@user-mb1sy9uz6z
@user-mb1sy9uz6z 4 месяца назад
Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!
@donna6783
@donna6783 5 месяцев назад
Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!
@user-ef5jr6re6v
@user-ef5jr6re6v 2 месяца назад
He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!
@cassandramorehouse8650
@cassandramorehouse8650 4 месяца назад
Me you are so on point I'm an empath I'm still healing
@lindasims3877
@lindasims3877 4 месяца назад
My brother… Definitely spot on! Cut the access off periodt!!! He tried everything he could to get my attention! He even wrote his sermon around me to publicly humiliate me. It never phased me! He’s now a drunkard with no respect for himself and no one else. The world has walked away!!! I’m an empath!!!
@Blssd2bme15
@Blssd2bme15 Месяц назад
Appreciate your thoughts and time shared!
@jjcarr6606
@jjcarr6606 5 месяцев назад
I have been there. You are speaking directly to me
@Judybell1959
@Judybell1959 5 месяцев назад
He done that
@annetteloliver78
@annetteloliver78 3 месяца назад
Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!
@Jenishabadoo
@Jenishabadoo 5 месяцев назад
This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.
@JanetTuttle-cb3xx
@JanetTuttle-cb3xx 2 месяца назад
I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤
@lindaclark3993
@lindaclark3993 3 месяца назад
You definitely help You always do x
@deborahwilliams9626
@deborahwilliams9626 2 месяца назад
Definitely me, this thing is real.
@N_goat
@N_goat 5 месяцев назад
Word for word D
@stellaeightp8596
@stellaeightp8596 2 месяца назад
Be whole within yourself.
@aprilcarnes1697
@aprilcarnes1697 4 месяца назад
I'm so Amazed look at you now, it's amazing , Ur always in my 💜 , I miss singing with U April ✊✊💜💫👑 🙏🙏🙏🙏 A💎
@autrymartin9361
@autrymartin9361 5 месяцев назад
Going thru it now plus co parenting!
@WandaKimpson
@WandaKimpson Месяц назад
This is good. I appreciate you.
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 5 месяцев назад
Interesting topic
@shantalchotoki4998
@shantalchotoki4998 5 месяцев назад
So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹
@big_buttah1672
@big_buttah1672 5 месяцев назад
This goes both ways I’m finding out there are some very toxic women in these streets
@maryhollis5565
@maryhollis5565 25 дней назад
You are speaking truth….
@TnL-nt2kd
@TnL-nt2kd 3 месяца назад
"ME". Thank you❤
@keywoniaspencer
@keywoniaspencer 2 месяца назад
@8:42 I!! I'm currently going through it as we speak! 4-year failed relationship. I left with low/no contact. I'm currently experiencing love bombing and trauma dumping from him. I expressed that he needs to go to therapy for at least a year before I would consider a relationship with him, again. Currently dating other men, and it's killing him!! I'm healing myself and learning to love myself again.
@moniqueteal7153
@moniqueteal7153 Месяц назад
Going thru the toxic bashlash top 5 now since I ended the relationship for good ...staying silent & no access !!
@lashondalambrecht4566
@lashondalambrecht4566 5 месяцев назад
Facts 🎉
@neliakh9118
@neliakh9118 2 месяца назад
So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️
@April-dt8pp
@April-dt8pp 4 месяца назад
Speaking directly to us empaths our here for sure....
@jamilakhatun3592
@jamilakhatun3592 5 месяцев назад
Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.
@derailingtraumabonds
@derailingtraumabonds 4 месяца назад
This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤
@no.commonsense
@no.commonsense 5 месяцев назад
This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me
@milomaddyhennessy2643
@milomaddyhennessy2643 4 месяца назад
I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom
@tammyd5720
@tammyd5720 21 день назад
I'm very interested and it also sounds like your describing my situation.
@JadaGates
@JadaGates 5 месяцев назад
Exactly what I have been doing, no emotion what so ever.
@lashondalambrecht4566
@lashondalambrecht4566 5 месяцев назад
Hood Wink!
@cindyvazquez4333
@cindyvazquez4333 4 месяца назад
Let God do his job! Amen! Walk away grab hold of your Peace and know what your worth is. 🙏🙏💖💖
@nappyfries
@nappyfries 4 месяца назад
Omg the trauma dumping 😭😭 that’s happened to me more than I like to admit bc I always fall for it. Even more than the love bombing.
@phatjay9785
@phatjay9785 3 месяца назад
I had that done to me. It was crazy and the high and lows and playing games. They dont take accountability for their actions.
@bigjdyvmncvschqritchienguu1070
@bigjdyvmncvschqritchienguu1070 5 месяцев назад
Yes sir I went through the child hood trauma for 2 yrs.
@TanyaWinn-kh2nf
@TanyaWinn-kh2nf 4 месяца назад
Gray rock switch up
@valeriebyrd70
@valeriebyrd70 5 месяцев назад
Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!
@lauranaleon9725
@lauranaleon9725 Месяц назад
Thank you😊
@carlottajames3869
@carlottajames3869 4 месяца назад
Thank you, sooo much. Married 27 years and I am dealing with all this. R igh now
@emvilches
@emvilches 13 часов назад
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