So true, I was dating a guy for a while and it was going really well and we were a great match. But he cut it off after a few months because he felt overwhelmed by moving to a new country, stating a new job and wanting to move up in his career, and he didn't feel he could provide for me as a man so he said he had to let me go and find someone who could. A few months passed and he reached out to me again, asking if he could start dating me again because his life was more stable, balanced, and he felt good in his job and health and we have been dating consistently ever since.
Wooowwww...Thanks for this video! Especially the part about him being "free", and questioning what it is that this "unavailable" man is able to access for you that you can't access for yourself....that is such a powerful revelation for me! I actually think one thing connections do for us IS help us access "lost" or hard-to-access parts of ourselves. And I think that's ok. But if we can learn what it is specifically they are providing for us and to get it from ourselves without the middle man, then we won't feel as deep a loss if they can't commit to us.
