Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
I know, because we all do it, we change our style over time. I have to say your hair style change is really taking some getting used to. Too used to the man bun.
Thanks Mark! Sadly there are very popular dating channels that a lot of men follow like Rich Cooper and pyschacks that tell men not to be emotionally attached and only use logic with women....like don't get pulled into how she feels. What are your thoughts on that if men use those strategies? They could be good men following the wrong advice.
I think most good men will recognize that advice is wrong. It's only guys whose intention is to use women for sex and ego boosts that will buy into those kind of strategies long term.
You amy break down this explanation compared to "nice guy" ..... because some experts write books "No more nice guy" But nice guy can be understood in two different ways Nice guy (asshole) playing games or nice guy pleasing the woman you may explain comparison so the healthy masculine ,men will not get confused that she has to give a feedback, she can not be "nice girl" all the time Maybe women and men would like to understand the nuances. Now men are taught to avoid everything that takes some feedback or approval from woman, to not pleasing her as anice guy. But some women used "good men" who dint show true masculinity and confidence.
This is such a concise and clear, concrete breakdown. Thank you. Light bulb moment for me: a man having a great emotional experience with a woman = positive emotional feedback that he's of benefit to her + constructive negative emotional feedback that helps him grow Thank you for spelling that out so concretely. It was very helpful. Women also want a great emotional experience, but for a woman having a great emotional experience with a man = empathy and understanding from him in the moment + safety through containment. The mental picture attached to "good emotional experience" is very different, so that extra step to break it down and explicitly paint the picture makes a huge difference. Congrats on the new baby!
Marry musician ...they treat their guitar that way. :) Woman should be gentle, but first she has to be gentle with herself, to realize it. I mean it as humor. :)
