My Nex has been hoovering for 15 months. Came back at the end of January and she asked to go to the courthouse and get married. Keeps trying to tell me that I need a "Sherrif" in my life. Pathetic.
@ezdeezytube These people do the same things over and over expecting a different result. The distraction of them being exposed is only temporary. They'll try again even if it's months, years, or decades later. They don't fear. If they had true fear they wouldn't do the things they do in the first place.
@user56gghtf That's not true. Many people have validated this in the community. They do have fear. They are actually the most paranoid people on the planet. They did things in the first place because they didnt expect consequences.
Once on the shelf on the shelf you remain forever people Come on. You know this with the history of their exs. They never truly and fully ever let them go. They are placed on the shelf and brought down to see if they can be played with whenever the toxic person feels like or whatever reasoning they have Beat you can do is block. Change email. Phone. Social media delete it. Change jobs and location if need be depending how bad they are or if psycho and have a chance of death threats
Power struggles are a waste of time and I have way too much on my plate most days trying to deal with my children, sick spouse and having to try to handle everything myself to deal with power dynamics. It’s all I can do to get everything done that needs to get done.
Thank you, Joe. Great explanation that really helps. Just made my 1st year no contact, no hoover accepted this week. This video gave me a great point of reference.
Mine is giving me silent treatment for 6 days now because he's using his secondary supply for her car. Little does he know im talking to another guy as we speak 😂
