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Me 😓 I love this guy so much and I just don’t think he will ever love me the same. It hurts cuz I think he could care less if this relationship would end but me on the other hand would probably feel like I just lost everything 😓
I keep thinking emotional abuse will get better with therapy! He never put a hand on me T_T... But I have a year old son... But he treated him so good, better than we were with eachother!
1. Abuse - Leave immediately 2. Failed discussions - Converse then seek therapy 3. Repeated neglect - take care of you 4. Repeated lies - protect yourself 5. No appreciation - Seek gratitude from service Be there for yourself
@@andaiibori7205 but if they wont get the help with you... And it just keeps devolving and getting less and less good for you... More disrespect and hateful grudgeholding speech... There has to be someone who is going to be good to you the way they used to be.
That’s awesome you realized...many don’t. Dr Gottman has good insight and advice to help repair and rebuild relationships. Some good videos here on RU-vid. Best of luck 🌸
I am happily single at 67. Have been all my life, though I've had a lot of men interested in me. It's a gift to love being alone, free to do and be whatever I want.
I now realize... you going to hurt if you leave Or stay BUT at least if you LEAVE, you can begin to heal & love yourself & get out and start OVER in life but if you Stay, you will continue to hurt, which is better..😌🙏
Time always tells is someone cares about you or not. Life is already hard, don’t make it harder by spending it with someone who doesn’t care about you.
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I’ve endured 12 years of verbal and emotional abuse, Stonewalling and love bombing. He always had a way of making me believe it was my fault. Even when he betrayed me by having an affair he got me to believe that he was entitled to that affair because she was so much nicer to him than I was. I actually believed him and took him back only to be stonewalled and verbally and emotionally abused again. This time I was able to see the pattern repeating. Educate yourself, it’s your best defense against narcissistic bullies. I ended the relationship today. I already feel relieved from the extreme weight of this abusive relationship.
Dear Rachel ⚘ How are you today? Hope you are in a way way way better place (mental, physical, emotional...) than when you wrote this text. Stay strong ❤ and be proud of your choice
Good for you lovely, I left my narcissistic bf a year ago and I have no regrets. I wish I trusted my inner intuition then, so I would of saved 2,5 years of my life. May God bless you with the loving man one day🙏❤
I found myself making excuse after excuse for bad behavior.. but it's about self love and self respect... enough is enough just walk away. Sure it hurts, take time to heal and love yourself before getting into another relationship..
dude my ex gf, hited me with a broom stick made of aliminum, she destroyed all my things, tv, ps4, the kitchen, everything.... she as screaming at me pretty bad things while she hit me in the head, the arms, the face, it was horrible, she even treatned our pets....
I like the answer about switching numbers in phones- but that means they actually have that persons number saved or you know who the person is in their phone. But if you do have access to their phone- use a key-logger- I don’t know which to suggest- but I have used 2, but you have to research and research to find a good one and they cost money- but, if you want to know everything they type on their phone, their social media and app usage and their geographic location- the 2nd one I used also had a call recorder and a microphone tapper- which would send a secret text to his phone and then give me listening access to his surroundings. I know- I was crazy for a brief moment in life and realized I didn’t need to torture myself trying to play detective, and I cut him loose. He has since admitted to one infidelity accidentally or maybe on purpose because he wanted to try to hurt me, either way I was indifferent. Back to spying- I did this when I realized chunks of texts between his female boss and him missing from his phone- and he had recently told me she was in trouble at work for snap chatting with the male employees, not him, but others (yeah, right) her avoiding me at the Christmas party was very evident, I mean skin crawling evident. Anyways, you need access to his phone for about 5-10 minutes. TO CATCH ANYONE RED HANDED HIRE Tischler TRACKANDSPYCELL.ORG THEY ARE SO SWIFT ACCURATE AND RELIABLE
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To women, STOP thinking that an abuser will change. They will not. Abusers need professional help. You cannot offer that. Get away from a toxic relationship. My sister almost died at the hands of an abusing boyfriend. I sat at her bedside, crying, wishing I had done more when I suspected abuse. That night when she finally got away, he literally beat her to an inch from death. My sister was holding her newborn baby as he nearly killed her. All she says she could do is shield the baby. As soon as she had a second where the abuser went to get a weapon to hurt her further, she ran away (barefoot). She never ever EVER went back. It can be done. Life WILL get better. Please, you deserve better. Your family deserves better.
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M Tio So glad she got out! How did it start, do you know? Might help on here if you know of early signs she experienced? Thank you for posting about your sister anyhow though, a really effective warning.
Have you spoken to her about this? The 5 love languages might help? Also, Dr Gottman has great RU-vid videos to help relationships. My partner thought I was so hurtful, until he finally realized I was reacting to his hurtful behavior... which he had dismissed when I tried to bring it up. He couldn’t see the connection and my resentment and hurt, which then came out in hurtful behavior towards him. I would examine what her needs are and if you’ve really listened and tried to meet them...you might also be hurtful in ways you can’t see. We all have fears, desires, poor coping mechanisms and needs we bring into a relationship. Learning vulnerability and putting aside ego, to connect, is very powerful. Best of luck and may your heart be healed 🌸
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I should have listened to this 40 years ago. When I found out I was married to a bully who turned out to be a narcissist sociopath. But mental abuse took a toll before the physical became an issue. He didn't respect, honor or love me. I've been divorced 5 almost 6 years now and am happier than ever.. I now value myself.
@@jokerbox_official keep researching and learning about narcissistic abuse. Have an escape plan and when you go don't look back because it only gets worse
My dad still in this emotional physical verball abusive relationship for 34 years and now he has liver cancer, it is resentment. I hate my mom sometimes and explode on her. If you keep treating your loved one it either that person will dissapear from you becoming sick or run away from you. His escaoe is his work he likes to leave the house so he would not be abused.
@@ugi976 don't feed into the negativity or it will consume and harm you too! Hate only hurts us more. I'm so sorry for you and your father my prayers are with you. Find help maybe a therapist will aid in guiding you to keep from suffering more than you need to.
That's true and women tend to be the best at doing that type of abuse. I was married to a woman who abused me like that but it the end she attacked me violently so it usually leads to physical abuse.
@@dominicusbenacusI know this comment is really old, so I hope you found what you were looking for. But learn about, manipulation, gaslighting, Controlling, or narcissistic disorder, theres so many more but once you start learning about these, it’s starts to become more clear, interact with the comments and you’ll learn even more. Hope this helps!
@@ianbetts4435A lot of women are highly abusive towards men, it usually just gets swept under the rug. It’s interesting that girls actually tended to be the more verbally abusive ones in my high school. I watched them make fun of a lot of girls and guys including myself, and it’s socially unacceptable to do that towards women as most people will immediately rush to their defense, where as abuse towards men is actually ignored or encouraged. And less people will come to your defense and may even gang up on you for abuse. It’s a crazy double standard. Abuse is abuse, it doesn’t matter who’s doing it, it’s the fact that they shouldn’t be doing it in the first place.
one thing I have realized when it comes to quitting on someone is that individual has to be ready to leave cux no amount of words from friends, family etc will make that individual being abused leave. but once they gather the courage to leave, they are gone forever and nothing will make them look back.
Yes... Leave sooner than later! I was abused for 4 years... Not physically... But in all other ways. Verbally, mentaly, and emotionaly. I was made to quit my job and I was told everyday how unsatisfactory my dedication is... It took me a complete year to regain my confidence and mental strength. This happened to me coz I always thought that probably under this abusive man and his abusive family there are truthful and genuine people.... It was just denial. So please girls.... Leave sooner than later.
@Louise W why are you criticizing this lady for how she feels ? We're you there through her abuse ??? I think NOT ! Infact with that worthless comment you made I wouldn't doubt that your a f...in Narcissistic abuser .. 🖕
I can relate to your situation because I went through it as well. Take care of yourself. Love yourself more. This video is every interesting. But what about abuse from coworkers and supervisors. These people also affect those around them. They sabotage the work environment.
I want to send this to my husband but I am afraid that he is going to blame me instead of reflecting on himself, just like all of the conversations that I have started...
Ladies you need to check out videos on Narcissism. Don't show your men this video thinking it will sink in for them. Actually maybe you should and if he gets upset, low key (messed up words) order high level upset(screaming about it), then you should definitely check out videos on Narcissism because you may be with one. Good Luck ladies. #HumanRace 🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏽🙏🙏🏻🙏🏼
@@toorealformyowngood241 well wait can’t that go both ways tho? I thought u were pointing out that showing ur partner this video is usually what a narcissist does. A lot of people (women and men) tend to think they get blamed for everything and they are so perfectly pristine with holy goodness and they are the ones who lack self reflection of any kind
Sometimes we need someone to tell us these things because we never learned what a healthy relationship feels like. So, from the bottom of my heart, I thank you for making such an informative video for us.
from start till now .... nothing....!!!! no connection... no name no dialogue.... not a sign....!!!! SO GOOD BYE NOW. FORGET HIM🙄🤔🙄👀TULOG NA OI!!! SABAA!!! 😜🤔🙄
I was on the same boat as you, your abuser can convince you that you are the problem, and that things are you fault, Or they may convince you that your in what a relationship is, and you live so long without knowing what a relationship really could me, or should be
I quit on my brother and 4 months later on my mother this year, failed discussions ,repeated lies, zero respect, punished for telling the truth. Thank you for the video Brendon, love you man!
Tigresa My mother is narcissistic and so is my soon to be ex..I went No contact with her a few times but I have made the decision to completely annihilate her from my life in June. Funny thing I just decided ( like literally a week ago) to forgive my ex and give him another chance but today I decided I just dont want to be bothered with all the emotional baggage.
I feel for you. I recently looked at all the giving I was doing for others and the people that did nothing in return for me. Selfish people have no place in our lives that use people. Honor the struggle.
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I was on an verbal abuse relationship for 17 year, and I was so scared, but I wanted out. I made a plan, and I stood by it. I’m on my own, single, and happy. It’s been 1 year, and with RU-vid coaching, and motivation channels, I have been able to survive. Keep y’all heads up and make a plan. It works. P.S. I’m poor, and I’m racing 3 teen. No excuses. We can do it.
I broke up today because of abuse, whenever we into Problem or Argument she always insulted my Mom or Dad and my was maybe because i lived with her but i also got my appartment i don't there, i try my best to safe our relationship it could not so i walk out today and i'll get my remaining things on weekend
Yep left mine because she gets violent and verbal abusive when she drinks and gets high. I gave her two chances, but this was the 3rd or 4th incident. Men do not stay with women that want to explode and try to hurt you and become unstable. Wasted and extra year when i should have left long ago. I awoke after 3 yrs of marriage and said when.
" He" was used repeatedly because men are always the example, in majority of stories, examples, history books etc....it wasn't because only men abuse, "Dr. Testosterone". I hope you got something more than that from the video. Title states "When to quit on someone"/(a bad relationship).
Yes, men indeed are. I am grateful my ex did move out for his sake. Those words are not often said by an abuser, but that is because I genuinely do care about him, as twisted as that may sound. I unknowingly mentally and emotionally abused him. I take full responsibility for my actions even though I did not realize I was doing it and my actions ended up hurting him. I say unknowingly because it was after he left I started reflecting on all the situations he brought up as to why he left and discovered why I did what I did. I was at first angry with myself as to the why since it originated from two previous exes who left me extremely bitter. The therapy I received after those relationships was inadequate and I subconsciously held on to that bitterness only to project it onto my ex. Hurting him is something that never ever crossed my mind, and I knew it was my responsibility to correct my behavior which brought about this hurt. I have already gone through many steps to correct my behavior because it's something I never want to do again. It will take a lot to regain his trust, and that's only if he will even give me a chance. If he does, it will also be on his time, not mine. My heart goes out to any and all who have ever been abused, but especially to you men. Too often your gender is ignored and your pain is downplayed compared to women, and it should not be like that.
If only I had viewed this video when I was 23yrs old. I recently got out of a toxic relationship that occurred over 12yrs. 12yrs!!! Awful I know but thankful Im finally moving forward (BIG SIGH)!
Me, 10yrs! Everything in this was him. It had destroyed me, my heart, my health, everything. Right now I left him, but he still thinks we are together. He just doesn't get it, I swear.i am healing now, and there is a part of still comforting. But I knew deep down it was over long time ago. I mean over 7yrs ago. But I stayed not because I wanted but because it took me that long to come out if. The truth is not how long you stayed in an abusive relationship but how long did it take you to come out of it. Out of 10yrs, for me, it took me almost a bit over 7yrs to come out of it.
10 years of struggle for me too. I knew I needed an exit strategy in the last 2 years. It was mentally abusive and toxic. I’m now a month on my own and loving myself again.
It's so sad...my husband gets ANGRY at drop of a dime!!! I love him but I love myself more. It's EMOTIONAL abuse!!!!! I am 52 years old and I have NEVER been talked to/treated this way. I am writing on this page which tells me...I need to get out now, regardless of my heart. I can't wait for him to love me...he never will...I have to love myself first! Greater is he, that is within me.
I promise after leaving and giving some time you will look back and be so happy you did. The freedom of being on your own and reflect on your past abusive relationship and how lucky you are no longer with him. Get a cute lil dog, enjoy life and the right guy will come along once you stop looking for love.
Yes! Amen! I’ve found relationships that come in fast and heavy and become your “best friend” quickly are usually very toxic. When relationships develop like that for me I’ve learn to throw the red flags and step back and put some space and boundaries. Usually I e found that person is mirroring what they think I want and who they think I want them to be so they can connect quickly and after longer closer observation of their life there are so many inconsistencies in who they say they are and what they really do with their choices.
Oh wow! You hit the nail on the head! My situation exactly!! I wish I would’ve taken the time to get to know my husband before I married him. He was nothing like he portrayed in the beginning. I feel duped and misled. I feel that was his strategy to gain my trust.
I think there needs to be something added to the first point - if someone lies and gaslights you for so long to the point where you start to become verbally abusive and lash out out of absolute desperation and anger don’t feel bad or ashamed- just go and DO NOT GIVE THEM THE AMMO AGAINST YOU. This is after multiple failed discussions, conversations, introspection, requests, comprising whatever. My ex is a covert narcissist and has had a life time to hone his skills in obfuscation, stonewalling, steamrolling, criticism, manipulation, invalidation, gaslighting, self victimisation. THEY ARE PROFESSIONALS AND YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET THEM TO BE REASONABLE. They edit the narrative to suit themselves whenever it suits them. Reality isn’t reality. It will damage you to the point of no longer wanting to live.
Yes this is what Im going through too! Crazymaking! He gets me to snap and start screaming and he smiles at me. He makes me feel suicidal and now Ive had enough.
Yes Victoria, as long as is with a person that brings value & love to your life. Marriage is a social formality in order to become a teamwork in finances, in creating goals as a couple, starting a family etc... Getting married won't make the love better or bigger, it will simply organize the relationship so both of you can feel safe & secure about the commitment you are both making with each other in a long term - formal relationship that will require a lot of self-love and LOVE in order to deal with all the challenges a commitment like that brings.
I wish I knew this 10 years ago. My ex did all 5 (Mental, emotional, and Physical Abuse, Failed Discussions, Neglect [me and the kids...still neglects the kids], Repeated Lies, No Appreciation). Sadly it took for my ex to strang me and nearly killed me in order for me to wake up and leave.
Failed discussions.. yeah that one hit home. Sad when you can't even speak and when you do, your not being heard. 14 yrs..lack of engagement & neglets (paying attention to all the hints) I'm done💔
My boyfriend beg me to stay. But too many times he hurt my feelings. I can't forgive him anymore. There were no cheating or physical abuse, because I thought if it's cheating/physical abuse r unacceptable but other stuffs also can come to a point of unacceptable.
Before I met my date in person, for about a month I took time to get to know him. After some time I realised everytime we converse, he often brought me down, made me question my values. I also realised, when I needed him to be emotionally supportive, he went 'missing'/go quiet. Then I realised that he doesn't want to be emotionally present. He picked on my choice of friends who have been around with me 1-2 decades before he came along. That's when I decided, I'm not going out with this narcissist.
most of the abuse comes from the people we trust and not from the strangers, hence we keep on looking for the reasons to not leave them. Most of the times our lack of courage feeds on our low self esteem and makes it even more difficult. end of day you need to ask, what did i do to deserve this.
Yes, sometimes we are in the wrong and people lash out at us for a reason, but when in an abusive relationship the abuse is a form of dominance of one over the other. I'm not sure of what you mean by "we have to ask ourselves what we did to deserve it". We should ask ourselves what we do that seems to invite abuse, but nobody deserves that kind of treatment.
I am happy my ex broke up with me to be with another guy, theraphy is making me realize all these things you said, she did not appreciate me or treat me right, was lying a lot and not respecting me. Sometimes bad comes for good. Love to you all.
The worst breakups are those we spend while still hanging onto what you thought you two were...then to make it worse, they gaslight you into believing you're the one who "changed". 😪
Ashley McCoy, I was engaged 💍 to a Narcissist for 5 years and never knew what that was. I was FUTURE FAKED. Gaslighted, and used for money. I finally left him and needed Therapy. My Therapist told me about the narc, and she survived one after 18 years. Thank God I found out when I did! He rebounded and married his rebound in 2 weeks. This was 11 years ago and I never saw him again.
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My husband repeatedly neglects my requests for help around the house. He doesn't have a clue of what needs to be done so I have to tell him, even though he agrees he later ends up not doing it. Even months go by and he hasn't done it. He says I should give him reminders. I've explained, talked, expressed how his constant neglect makes me feel disrespected, abandoned, resentful. Still none of those work he is still being neglectful and apathetic. I'm fed up, our house needs a lot of work, it's a fixer upper, he's also apathetic about having fun or doing something fun together. He keeps saying it's a communication problem. Sure and I was born yesterday. I'm seriously considering leaving I feel miserable, depressed and at my limit. His neglect is abusive.
I really appreciate the points you have made in this video. Many people assume abuse and neglect only exists in a romantic relationship. They don’t realize this applies to all relationships, especially in the work place.
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I Love your advice.When a person shows you who "they" are believe them..No amount of hanging in there talking to them giving 3 and 4 chances will help the situation.people have to realize they are brutal harsh evil and just dogmatic when the person has no interest or respect for how you feel what you... think or say . this is a deal breaker.Cut them off leave. These type.of people are souless clueless and need to be left to thier own demise....ASAP.........
Curtistine Miller: I think giving someone a few chances is more for you than the abuser...to be CERTAIN that they are not someone willing to grow, change, and appreciate you. Once you KNOW for sure...let go.
My god, I’ve seen so many relationship videos but this one has given me so much clarity. She was all of these things apart from the physical abuse. I’m worth more and glad she’s out of my life 🙌
every word brother I went and bought a camper and im fleeing into life away from my husband and my entire family I leave in the morning I don't even know where im going and don't care I just know when I drive away never to be seen again my soul and conscious are clean praise God in Jesus name , Hallelujah
I think the problem is some of us don't know if we are being abused or not. For those who grew up in dysfunctional families usually accept that kind of abuse later on in life. I love the quote from Perks of Being A Wallflower. We accept the love we think we deserve.
I've noticed that when a relationship starts everything is wonderfull, Love makes you blind to reality, I've found it takes about 2 years before you will see the real person, that's when the reality hits. Many people I've met that were or are in toxic relationships will say the first 2 years were good and then it erodes fast, but some will try and try to get back what they had , some for 20 years or more. If your in a relationship ship that had passed the 2 year mark and it isn't what you had, isn't what you want it's time to leave, it won't get better, it will never be what it was. If your thinking about it, it's time to go, It's just a matter of how much more of your life are you going to waste chasing something the really never was.
Great advice but can be hard to swallow unless you become fearless and take the plunge. You have nothing to lose if your relationship is already toxic. You will only gain. Number one is to have self-respect and you can't have that if you are not getting what you deserve or allow yourself to be treated badly by another. You'd be surprised how easy it is to walk away but you have to take it day by day. It's easier than quitting smoking. Your other half wouldn't think twice about walking trust me!
Lol! Yup. I learned a long time ago... you can’t make someone love you... that goes with respect you, honor you, value you, etc. you cannot put that inside of anyone else. If it ain’t there then you are wasting your time. Walk away. Love this precious life you have and don’t waste it on a knucklehead.
The irony that I’m 2 weeks into quitting smoking and I’m trying to decide weather to take a toxic p resonate back, this video and comment really helped
my ex used me as a doormat too, long story short, karma paid him a visit and gave him a wife that is just like him well lets just say what goes around came right back around as for me i am very happy now living a good healthy life and thank God everyday for my life
Everytime I ask my boyfriend to have a discussion/conversation he either 1) half pays attention to me and never answers anything I ask and walks away or 2) wants to argue and yell saying it's the same stuff over and over again. Its the same questions and conversations because I never got any answers to begin with
Respect - if it’s no longer there, it’s done. If there’s lying, it’s done. If there’s no romance, it’s done. If they’re hiding something from you, it’s done. And if there’s no more love, it’s done! Don’t pretend, get out soon as you already have a feeling. Don’t let this take years because it will only repeat itself. Trust me, it happened to me and was married for more than 20 years. And yes! It took me all those years. So don’t be like me, get out sooner. Good luck!
Wow, this video was like a window into my marriage! Every bullet that Brendon reviewed was what I had faced. It was that false sense of loyalty that kept me hooked into a bad marriage and that hope that he would change for the kids that made me feel guilty for feeling trapped and overwhelmed.
i don’t know what to do anymore. i love him, i want to be with him but we both hurt each other so so much that it’s not healthy for either party. it’s hard to think about leaving, i love his family and his family love me. same with my family. i never thought about giving up but right now i feel like i should. we’ve been together 5 years and i feel like i would be throwing everything away. it’s seriously so hard to see my life without him. but i think it’s for the best. for the both of us. i hope i can decide what to do and i make the best choice, i want him to be happy and i need to get my life back. i don’t feel like myself anymore.. 💔
@@bear__109 im in this boat, its been 5 years.... Are you going to leave? I think im gonna... But I'm waiting for our lease together to end. And it's hard to want to leave but i know that's just me being unstable because he is very abusive physically and mentally.
Whoever is going to read my comment, i request you, yes you to please find your own faults too. Sometimes we are really crazy to have rather than giving. But true love is about the both. Thank you.
Amrita Saha so true, my husband is leaving me and I’ve been devastated now I find out why he is and I never realised I was part of the problem till now, and it’s now to late.
If you are watching this, please take a moment to look up the definitions of the different types of abuse. I had no idea the level of abuse that I was experiencing after many years of marriage. ... Thank you, Brendon, for your advice and affirmation.
Just one word.... "Thankyou" there are many times we ignore the bad signs in our relationship but we ignore them or we just think that it would pass after some time may be it's just the situation or anything else. But yes we should always open our eyes to see these signs. Value yourselves may be it's a very long relationship or how many people say that you are in a good relationship but if you are not feeling it then it's time to think for yourself . Have mercy on you !!! God bless to us
@@MsDavali yup, I'm still much the same. Usually jus tend mooch off till it chills these days. Sorry to hear your in similar, lots of light to you, this s**t sucks a good bit doesn't it... Edit: I kinda wanted to say allo n see your OK though also? (jus cos I know the deflated feeling that comes with it alot)
Yes it's okay to leave these mean nasty people! I am done being took advantage of and used ! I had to learn my lesson about helping others. I no longer help others !!
When u been in a 10 year or longer marriage n it was great for couple of years n then 4 years ago everything change for my life. My husband started drugs, abuse, stealing from me n our belongings, stop caring, wont get help, tried to bring other problem people in our home n cause more problems in my life. They steal n lie to n from me too. He never comes home im scared hes going to end up dead. What advice to help me not to feel bad or changing my locks, making plans for myself so i can stop hurting.
I’m so grateful to know that the 2signs means your marriage is not working because it has been long enough to suffer thru that. And I don’t know why he just denies it. Yes I’ve known of it but now making a commitment to surrender & let go. Please pray for me🙏🏻❤️
Yeah, I mean, you can't change them. You could discuss it with them, but ultimately you're just going to have to accept that they have other priorities in life. If you're not okay with it you should leave. But don't expect them to change.
I loved my “best friend” for 15 years. He loved that I loved him and took me for thousands and thousands. And I let him. 2 days no contact. Pray for me.
Cut your losses. They will only get worse. They thrive on disrespect and their egos grow as they diminish you. And because they are a ‘friend ‘ you give the benefit of doubt. Never accept any so called friends treating you worse than you would accept from your other half. And always delete their number just in case you call them by accident.
Also, I would add, never lend money however genuine their need. There are banks for that. You will find they don’t pay you back and you will end up angry and disappointed. Most people price friendships extremely low on their list of priorities.
Be strong, better days will come, and have to come because now you know how bad your relationship was, you also know how good a relationship can be, so you can for sure rebuild better and newer relationships
Zac Nunya that weight will go away, getting out of a toxic relationship can be healing from the moment you do it, I look and feel younger since leaving, and other people had had similar results, the heavy weight wasn’t put their by you, though by removing it, you can become really empowered
So happy to know i did the right thing and LET GO. Nothing worth it is ever easy. Dont let fear keep you in your prison, set yourselves free people! GOD BLESS
Where have you been the last seven years of my life?! Doesn’t matter. My husband checked all the boxes, except abuse. Thank you for giving me the resolve to value myself, and let go. Truly. Thank you.
I went to my girlfriend and was feeling down about something after pouring my heart out to her, she says, it is what it is , she's one cold bitter person ,and I'm out
I already quit, since last year.It was a long term relationship.It was painful but pain is all part of the process.I always pray that everything will be okay.I am at peace and I am focusing myself at work and my father.Prayer helps a lot.
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Im the one that walked away. I Walked away from my ex who kept hurting me even though I told him the the things he kept doing were hurtful over and over. He wasn’t listening and he wasn’t taking accountability and he just didn’t do anything. I tried so hard. He was immature, hot /cold, lazy and made me do all the work. He was so inconsistent. He only wanted what he could get from me. I did everything and he wouldn’t budge. He tried to control me and wanted me to act happy all the time and I wasn’t allowed to say anything negative and he shut me out. He didn’t make me feel loved, appreciated, valued and heard. He didn’t make me feel supported, special and important. His words and actions didn’t match up, he made promises and there was a lot of inconsistencies in his actions and excuses. When I catch him, he denies it and he tells me he didn’t do it even though I have proof. He took me for granted. I gave him my all from the bottom of my heart. I asked him for appreciation, he says good things but then he doesn’t follow through with it.
so much has happened in my last relationship that i just looked at myself in the mirror and i didnt like the person i saw. I was so depressed and had so much going on in my life that i just needed to be told i will be ok but when the person who you thought loved you talks bad about you and tells you constantly that your a bad person it took a toll on me and i had to get out of the relationship. when i heard a conversation about how im not a good person because i dont do what im told i had to take back my peace of mind and i never felt to low in my life. I look at myself now and i know im getting better. No more feeling sorry for things ending Im glad it did. Peace and blessings to all
Everyone should listen to this because all of us will experience an abusive relationship once in our lives. I understand that it's hard to give up on someone that you really love, but you also need to think of yourselves because a toxic relationship will never do good to your life.
People need to understand one thing - the source of most misfortune, the source of poverty lies in negative people and their influence... my best advice is to cut negative people forever and focus only on your goals... after you reach your goals try to find friends but remember that it is almost impossible to find real friends while pursuing goals... seems really impossible to me... I have done more in one year than in 10 simply because I have cut away negative people...
My husband yelled at me constantly and blames me for his anger. We have been married for 14 years and I don’t how to leave from this situation, he get so mad at and screams and the next day he wants to act normal.
It seems as though he has some deeper issues ,I think how you can bring it up and say. “I need to work on myself and I think it would be healthy for you to do the same”
As a man it is sometimes hard to accept you have been abused. Abuse can be subtle, passive aggressive behaviour, devaluing, silent treatment. Over years it can destroy you. My own sense of loyalty kept me trapped until the ultimate betrayal of infidelity. The cherry on the top of the drip feed of abuse. Admitting your marriage failed is hard. You want to do the best to save it, especially with children but if only one of you wants to save it then it's impossible. Instead write down all the things that you want to be in life and work towards them.
It’s been 40 years, we are retired and my husband checked out and quit trying. He seems to never enjoys are time together. I have tried to talk to this man on several occasions, he wants nothing to do with that! He will burst out yelling at me when I try to discuss our marriage. He is a really intense guy about everything. Always angry, he never smiles, never laughs and never talks, even when I ask him a question. I talk to the walls at home. I want a man that wants me and shows his love for me in many ways, (he really used too.) I gotta go, life is short. I’m so afraid of the unknown though, it’s been a faithful 40 years for me. What to do..?? I don’t have anyone to help me emotionally with this. No one to talk too either. 🥶🥶🥶 I don’t know why I brought this to this page I guess I really just needed to let it out. Thanks for listening.
Vallyn Lamb I am in your exact situation now. No way can I spend the rest of my life like this. I’m wasting the rest of my life if I don’t get out. Praying for you...
Broke up with my girlfriend yesterday...she appreciates nothing i do....we have an 8 month old son..whom i adore....im very good to her finanancially and am very present...she calls me honey and sweetheart etc but never thanks me for anything...she slams doors...lashes out verbally when i call her out on disrepectful situations...devalues my opinion all the time. Does things without even consulting me on stuff regarding our son......makes arrangements without telling me... I told her it would be nice if she consulted more with me on certain things (eh were in a relationship etc).....i dont have to ask your permission for anything was the responce...i could write a book.
Mr. Mcgregor: O.K., you broke up with her. Now, she will (hopefully) be your EX girlfriend, beginning YESTERDAY. Start referring to her, and her narcissistic behavior that way - then it will be easier to put her, and that, "in the rear view mirror."
No your wrong, been raised by a Narcissist father and married 2 narcissistic men these people only think of themselves, they are selfish, verbally abusive and need to be in control and nothing is ever their fault. It's a mental disorder.. She's never going to change because there is really know help for it. He needs to read or watch videos on Narcissistic behavior so he can make some serious decisions here .. As time goes on she will make him feel lesser of a person.. I feel sorry for him.😔
