When You Comfort Your Depressed Roommate (Reverse Comfort) (Friends to More) (Honest) (ASMR) (M4A) 

A perfect storm is a great way to put it. I'm sorry you're struggling. You are allowed to feel the way you do, and you're allowed to be you. I didn't expect this from this audio, but its important. It's real and it's part of you. You make something beautiful for others, it doesn't mean it defines you. It doesn't make you a hypocrite. The audios you do show how much you care. They bring joy, peace, laughter, all kinds of emotions. Thank you for what you do. I liked hearing you, as you.

In fact sir, we appreciate you too. Your audios give hope to many of us to believe that one day we will find someone like that. I hope you don't give up and that one day you can find your person (preferably single 😄). Thank you for allowing yourself to express yourself like this and be vulnerable with us. Hope you're feeling better too, sir. Goodnight.

This sounds a lot like a friend I have, his exact problem is that he's too smart and is constantly overthinking things. In his own mind he has become some untouchable being almost no one could understand and everyone else has a higher chance to find good relationships, those being friends or a lover. That's simply not true, I hope anyone listening to this audio knows this, everyone has a chance to find someone that makes them happy. They may not be perfect, but then how many of us can actually claim to be perfect? Love you all, I hope this is an encouragement! (Further encouragement, my friend now has a girlfriend and they have a good, healthy relationship)

I've never heard someone describe something so seemingly simple in a way that's so easy to understand. When I heard the "I'm done making bad Audios" and how you talked about that one channel that helped you, you're that one channel for me and I know there's other people who feel the same. It's hard to describe, but I can click on as many other Audios with as many different creators as I like, yet the only one that I find to be not half-arsed and actually comforting is this one. Wether you're randomly rambling, drinking at 1:51am or if you're just playing games, talking about how much you hate the characters or love them, there's something so purely genuine about it all. The fact you can just talk about your opinions and show me a completely new way of looking at things is fascinating and I appreciate your very existence on this world and everything you do

I've always been told it is dumb to listen to sad songs when you are already sad but I feel it is better to connect to and be with someone even if it is someone behind a mic, separated by time and experiences than be sad and alone. It feels better to know that what I am feeling is not an isolated occurrence and if someone else got through it then so could I. we might not be going through the same things but I'm glad we are sad together. It's not lonely.

For those who need to hear it I know what it is to be depressed for two and a half years. I drug myself through that shit. last month I finally came out of it. Thanks to my doctor, my family, my friends, my therapist, and my dog Warren I survived. Keep fighting keep struggling it can and it will be better. There will be a day where you can smile genuinely again.

When you said that you’re not optimistic about yourself but for others… I felt that. I always am happy for everyone being happy but I’ve never had any relationship. I’ve grown up being around toxic relationships and watching my friends around me find someone they love and love them back. Tbh I’ve always have been a bit jealous, wishing I could get someone. It’s okay to not be okay right now. Honestly, finding this channel has helped me find a bit of hope in the future of finding someone. Thank you for sharing your story and thoughts. Now this audio has hit me a lot and I’ve almost cried too many times but I thank you for being here on RU-vid. I wish you and Kira the best❤️

I appreciate that he said that, at the end of the day, affirmations from random people are just a small distraction to a long term solution. I post pictures of myself to feel a little bit better about my body from the affirmations people give me, but how are you so sure people are gonna give you those affirmations? People might just scroll past and not say anything so then you start to think that you’re not pleasant enough to look at for people to stop, and that really screws with your mental health. He’s got a really good point. I say this all the time, but we need other plans, other eggs in our basket, not just one person that we put our life on the line for, not just affirmations from random people, not just one thing because if that thing fails, then it’s gonna feel like everything after that will fail. Loving yourself is the single most important thing in life, so if all the other eggs or plans fail, at least you have yourself. All of you should be grateful that you have yourself, cause without you, the world would have to live with one less beautiful purpose, doesn’t matter what your “purpose” is, just matters that the world would have to go without it, people would have to live without it. (Also, I’m not saying that’s exactly what he said, but a lightbulb went off inside my tiny little pea brain and I felt the need to type it out for everyone here, thank you for reading it, I appreciate ya :D)

*virtual hugs* 🥺💕 I don't really know what i should write, so i'm just gonna say that if you were my roommate then i would sit next to you and drink with you (or at least bring you something to eat) and listen to everything you want to say. Also thanks for song recomendation, i already listened to it twice and added it to my sad/comfort playlist. Remember you're not alone. Im pround of you and i hope you take care of yourself, eat healthy and sleep well 💕 again sending hugs 💕 cuz i belive that hugs have magical powers

I love that when you break the fourth wall, you have a whole scope of topics to discuss. I have to share that I think one of the best things about situations where one person might feel the spark and the other doesn't is that it helps you figure out what you for sure want/need in a person, so you can recognize it when it comes again. Hard as it can be sometimes, neither person has done anything wrong. It just is how it is. I had more to say as I listened, but all those thoughts have died. Hope you find whatever brings you joy!

Some people find their point much later 30s 40s he'll 50s even. Please don't rush it and don't lose hope.

Oh sbf I'm so sorry and know how you feel... I have nothing to say that you havent already heard apart from please don't give up! I don't know you much but I know enough to see you are a very nice,kind, caring, intelligent and funny man and will do anything for anyone. One day you will find that special someone ❤

You're not more or less worthy of a life partner, just because your perception of your own value is skewed. You don't have to think greatly of yourself to have someone love you. I think you should be the top of your own pyramid. When a good match comes along, you'll make room. Stop doing what makes you happy right now and think about how your choices impact your future. "Will this choice make me happy in the long run?" This too shall pass. Love to you 💜

I just have to say, this hit so fucking hard! You are amazing and to pour out your heart and spirit in an audio like this is so awesomely brave! Sbf do NOT give up on love! You will find the person that is meant for you! Never ever ever EVER say you are worth nothing! You are a special human being! You will find your point of the pyramid! I believe in you! I poison myself all the time as its a coping mechanism...but it's real and it's true and it's YOU!!!! Stay strong we love you xxxx

I love that you braked character during this and I also relate to everything you said so much ❤❤❤❤

relatability through the roof in this one 📈 I'm glad this is a community where we can share this type of sorrow. That's what art is for; either giving us a boost of emotions we're lacking in (like vitamins), or being there so we feel understood and can share these experiences with others. I think that's why we like sad songs when we're sad, or why I love this video

giving you the biggest hug through the screen rn! Your audios have always brought my sleepless nights comfort and I really really appreciate you too. Thank you for being comfortable enough to share this and be vulnerable. You said a lot of stuff that has been on my mind a lot recently as well and I really thought I was the only one because none of my friends understood but you brought some sort of peace??? to me. I dunno if that’s the right word. anyways I hope talking brought some relief for you because we are here for you !! sharing all my love

Something my mother always told me "for two people to genuinely care and love each other, it's like two bullets to hit in the dark". It's so discouraging to go through this same thought process. Because we just don't like the idea of being lonely. We convince ourselves that we don't need it, but we can't deny that we deeply crave it. True, we don't need a romance of a lifetime, but wanting it is also valid

I know im super late to this audio, but i just wanted to tell you we see you. And im so glad you feel safe enough to open up about your feelings. You give me hope. You do. Even though i feel the same way you do about relationships. You still give me hope that i can find that person. And im so glad that you help people with your talents. I honestly wish that i could give you a hug and just be there. Never apologize for being yourself. You are wonderful and amazing. I am so glad that you trust us enough to be you, just pure unadulterated you. Its so wonderful to see. Thank you. 💜

The fact that this is real gives it a whole different depth and makes it so much more touching. You really got me thinking here. Thank you

12:41 I feel that, it’s hard to find someone who really clicks with you and who in the same time you click with (let’s say that it makes sense), the age, personality, all those stuff around, and especially the location, like, you could even meet someone online but who lives like 2’000+ Km away from you, and you’re just there hopeless… And literally the only thing we can really do is simply hope to someday meet that person. I wish best luck to all the single pringles out there, to find your person 🍀 And don’t ever give up hope! *Edit:* Okay, after finishing the video, I just wanted to add, the world is agains love and for quick flings cause it makes money, and how much of it? But like you already said it, there are people who just wanna get that relationship and actually care about each other~

Oof I’m late but I couldn’t have heard this at a better time tbh. It was so spot on💔You always seem to know how to express my own feelings better than I can haha. I relate so hard to that feeling of thinking you’ll be alone forever and to being the person everyone opens up to but not being able to open up yourself. Being a “romantic” in this current dating culture sucks! Over the past year, when I’ve been at my lowest, your audios, streams, and this community have been the one thing I can look forward to! You give me so much hope, as well as a good chuckle every now and then, that I will forever be grateful for! 😊Sending you optimism and healing💕

I am sorry that you are struggling, I truly am and I know that whatever we say will not fix the problem but you are not alone. I understand a lot of what you feel, but I tell my self that I don't want someone but I do...I am just afraid to trust someone and risk getting hurt again. But know that we are all here for you if you ever need us 💞 But thank you for all the audios they have helped me a lot to feel like I can trust to some extent, it might sound weird but that's how it is. But I am sending you hugs or head pats if you are not in to hugs from a cold and windy Sweden ❤️❤️❤️

I know this was posted a bit ago and sure im younger but you got this man!. I hope your doing better and just know you can pull though this ❤:)

❤love, this is very sweet you opened up, but there is someone for everyone, I’m sorry you feel this way. But in a strange way it has helped me, I haven’t commented in awhile because of life happening to me but thank you❤love you know what I think and it’s still true no matter your content always❤🥰😘

First time commenter here but I felt compelled to write something after hearing you so articulately express your thoughts and feelings so viscerally. So much so that it brought out and mirrored a lot of my own in some ways. I'm someone who like you finds it very difficult to imagine ever finding that person i'd want to spend my life with. I've struggled with that thought a lot and still do. I've also spent nights drinking alone, looping songs in my headphones to almost make myself feel sadder, to trick my mind into thinking that's the reason why I feel like that in the moment (this is the elder emo in me, "It's not a phase, mom!"). But in all seriousness, my point here is that you're absolutely not the only person to feel this way and as you've said, should never apologise for how you feel, in any way. The fact you know what and who you want is not something you should ever feel bad about. You know who you want your person to be which for some people, never clicks and being honest to someone who doesn't fulfill that is the kindest thing you can do. There is that little bit of hope, yes, is it hard to trust it, absolutely, but the fact that you acknowledge it is what's important and I hope that never leaves. I appreciate that this is over a month old and you may not even feel these feelings at present, which I hope is the case, but if you do I hope your thoughts become kinder to you. I never thought I'd be listening to audios on RU-vid to allow myself to feel somewhat seen and safe? I don't know, but here we all are. Intimacy is something that is very important to me too and not necessarily in the way that most people identify that word to mean. For me, being intimate with a person can be as simple as a deep conversation, holding their hand, a simple look and even laughter. Emotional connection. Which is for sure what we're doing here, with strangers we will probably never meet but have connected to. This is becoming War and Peace at this point so I'll end with this, as you put it there are people out there who do really care and I do hope that one day you find that person who is the top of your pyramid, Christmas tree but if not, I hope that person becomes you. Take care.

Just know you're not alone

So I found and subscribed to this channel about 3 weeks ago, and I just wanted to say thank you, for this audio and all the other ones you've done. Listening to you has actually raised my own expectations of what my romantic relationships could be like and you've actually rekindled the romantic in me that I didn't even realize I'd supressed. So thank you, and I hope you're feeling better.

Trust you will find them but fall in love with yourself before you try to fall in love with someone else

Dang im late as hell. But i gotta say i understand this feeling. I got decently lucky on one of my tries and landed a nice person for a few years. However, they left. And in the year since ive definitely felt this way. So hearing you talk about it was kinda hard to face. Because i had that "x factor". I was so ready to spend the rest of my life with a person who may have done a few things behind my back. So now i see myself as this person who is so below all my friends. That they can get a love while I'll never find another person who'll ever date me again. And i gotta say its gotten better. I have some good friends. Its just comforting to know there are other people out there who have felt this way and gotten through it. Gives me hope. On a different less sad note! I swear your 4th wall break audios and the ones where you may as well have broken the wall are some of my favorites. I get that feeling of not being able to hold intellectual conversation with people, especially about a lot of the complex topics you cover. So not only does it fill the hole for interpersonal connection but it also fills that hole for deep understanding and complex comversation. I thank you for that, very few other artists do this kinda thing. I have seen your replies, so i know you feel better. I just hope it stays that way. Thank you for all you do. Your loyal roommate/best friend/stranger will be here to listen if you gotta vent anything else. Good luck finding the "double x factor"

Are you genuinely okay? This specific topic is one that I think about on the daily so I can really sympathize with you on this, feeling like there will never be a top of my pyramid. I just want to wrap my arms around you and give you the biggest hug. (Id also take you up on your roommate offer 😁)

halfway through this video I was very confused but I stayed for the leng accent and I'm glad I did. what the fuck why'd it hit so hard like stfu my eyes watered. so real. statistically, a person needs to tick a certain number of boxes in order to just be 'eligible' for a romantic interest, completely excluding the fact you need to get to know them and feel the 'spark' and even if you do feel it and you're both in a situation that allows for you to be together, the relationship with either end in break up when the 'spark' dies or death. I'm so optimistic. I've never even felt the 'spark' or 'xfactor' or whatever you wanna call it with anyone despite how much I want to feel it so that leaves me with absolutely no hope for myself. I feel bad for complaining about hook up culture or normalising casual dating because in context of all the other problems in society, it's barely even a problem, but it just fucking sucks cause I want to meet someone like that so badly but realistically it's not gonna happen. sometimes I wonder if I'm aro but I'm probably just alone :D yay. I bet no one will even see this comment but that's probably for the best. (btw your videos r rlly nice and istg ur actually funny compared to some of the shit jokes other asmr ppl make keep serving cunt bestie boo)

firstly, as a hypothetical roommate, a big hug for you~ Thanks for sharing your thoughts finding a partner should theoretically be easier now we have an access to such wide network-even to the other side of the world! But apparently that's not true. I believe a thoughtful person like you would eventually find someone or even some way to be happy without. Getting into and keeping a relationship is a conscious effort from both side, it's better not to rush it and get into a toxic one, it'll be harder to get out of it if you're a romantic.

i hope you know how much we all appreciate you Sbf ❤️

I don’t really know what to say to this other that I’m actually in the same boat right now :/ . I’ve always struggled connecting with people and it never ends up working out, even in friendships. It’s driven me to thinking that there’s something wrong with me (which is true, I have many issues I have to work on). I was always told ‘you’ll find your people! Be patient!’ And then the pandemic hit and basically set back all of the process i was making with my social skills. It also tanked my self esteem, because no one being attracted to you ever and only being asked out as a joke will do that. Anyways, sorry for venting in the comment section, but know that I see you, I understand you, ‘same hat!’ moment or whatever you want to call it. Here’s to us hopeless romantics and to holding out hope that there’s someone out there for us 🍻🍻 Much love 💕💕💕💕

I would love to meet you in person someday and give you the biggest hug that you deserve! You are a special human being and so empathetic! ❤

I... Wow. I'm sorry, but I genuinely don't know what to say about this. I'm sure you don't want some type of pity party, and all that I can supply are empty words through a screen. Even if I were to say anything, there's probably nothing that I could say that somebody else has already said before. I can only listen, pray, and...maybe play that song you talked about. Idk... I guess if I am going to say something, it'll simply be...I'm hoping for the best for you. Thank you for everything you do for us.

idk how much of a correlation this is to the audio. i just wanna type it out. im someone who almost crave the existence of perfect strangers, one that i get the urge to communicate with randomly and they also happened to be in the mood to reply. i've done that quite a few times, dm-ing a random person on Twitter to offer them listening ears. most would probably think that its a weird thing to do, but i've heard so many random secrets from doing that 'weirdly intimate' thing. but the thing with a stranger is they could only be a complete stranger once. one time. after a conversation, we'd go on our separate ways. i used to get hung up on it, like i wish the connection i've had with those ppl could go deeper. but thats very unlikely. i also dont have the energy to actually maintain that depth with that many ppl. so what im trying to say is being able to leave a one time positive impact on anyone is enough in itself. i know i wouldn't be able to forget my dear strangers, even if we wont ever reach out to e/o again. which in your case, you've left at least a single pleasant memory to so many ppl just by doing what you do. you've reached out, and imprinted on us. i hope you know that you're beyond just the appreciation and acknowledgement of a single person. you're treasured by many. we might not be a permanent that you crave, but we're not any less genuine. and i hope you could find contentment in knowing that, while finding your top of the pyramid 🖤 im sorry if this makes no sense. hang in there :))

❤I never have the right words, sorry how it is but your words hit home with a lot of people keep doing what you do best.🙃

I have never related to an audio more seriously ouch. But I feel seen?? Emotional confusion. I've yet to find the confidence to put myself out there but I have to hope that it'll happen when it's supposed to. Mm cute laugh. I appreciate you too by the way. I've not connected to audios in such an emotional way until I found this channel. They make me feel less alone than I do on the regular. This brain vomit lives here now.

SBF I can sympathize with you. Trying to do my own channel and heal from my past so that I can move forward happily. I have never had a good dating relationship. Well the one I did have I ruined because my own issues. So I understand never feeling you'll find that one person. It gets better. But it's hard. Healing is hard. Self work is hard. You don't have to make anyone else happy but yourself. YOU are you top priority. And when you live in. A state of love and happiness. You will see more of that. You will have more of that. Like you said. It's just words. But I hope it brings you atleast some warmth. That you are amazing. That you are someone who makes so many people feel better. It's okay, to not be okay. This to shall pass

Nun to say but "same".

Oh love are okay i new this was getting deep be I’m seriously worry now are you okay you sound like you need a hug but just not that is feeling is only temporary but it hurt but it will get better love you have a wonderful day and hope you get better ❤️‍🩹 ❤

Idk who you are or how i got here but you're really cool

I love you

It's kind of freeing in some sort of impending way ain't it. I know one thing for sure, it is true.. some people in the world truly do deserve the world. But it's hard to say and accept it when that person doesn't want nor need the world. It's even harder to convince them of this seemingly simple fact when they feel like they do not deserve any of it, because well it's heartbreaking to realize that maybe maybe it's a certain person that makes you think and feel like you are the world to them. Some people don't need the world. Some people need that one person that make them feel like their world. For some rare person, individual, whoever. The world is that person. Idk if that makes sense but Im pretty sure I'm nonsense so Idk I'm irrational or so some people might say haha..

But mr. Walter, i don't like looking at bodies of water. It makes me think about things :(

This is a bit too real listening to. And it's just sad to think about, that I think we can't really help even with kind words and appreciation, because we are not "real" or not there etc. I hope we can all feel better and go on even if we don't find that someone as soon as we would like. I really do just hope I can keep it together and be happy until then... and you too

Sweetie you should let your head take a break. ❤️

OMG HEY BF

me watching this knowing very well i have had 1 boyfriend who cheated on my with a dude:👨🏻‍🦲