This is like a, I can relate video, My relationship of 8 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .
It’s precisely at times like these that investors need to be on guard against the next certainty. You don’t have to act on every forecast, hence i will suggest you get yourself a financial-advisor that can provide you with entry and exit points on the shares/ETF you focus on.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
i get how difficult it is to lose someone you love and im so sorry to hear about what you are going through but the best thing that u could do to both of you is letting her go
letting go of everything is gaining everything. when we become one with everything rather than trying to control or own things, we have access to the infinite
dont let those expectations or anything hurt you because they cant and your invincible..not literally but your dominant to your mindset i wish you the best of luck🙏💌
Keep going through the anxiety, take it with you and practice the DARE method. You’re human and ‘what if’ thoughts are inevitable, but you have the power to diffuse them.
I’ve been so sad lately and after watching this I looked back at the reason I have been so sad. I realized it was because my expectations didn’t match my reality. Detaching really is key. Live in the moment and enjoy life for the sake of living. If not there’s really no point in living.
“there is no future, no future self to achieve nor past self to overcome, everything we want need and are, is right now” man, i really needed this right now, appreciate your words g!
I’m so grateful to have this mindset at such a young age because it really has changed my whole experience with living. There’s a million things to be grateful for every single day. We get so caught up in achieving our goals and setting new ones as we go that we forget to really enjoy everyday for what it is. I believe true happiness is a combination of all the little things in life. Laughing with loved ones, enjoying a beautiful sunrise, feeling the warmth of the sun, being excited for your morning coffee. Life is such a beautiful experience when you really detach yourself from all the things we’re taught to worry about.
“Have you ever been on a roller coaster? You're only riding on it for a few minutes, right? If you spent the entire ride thinking "only so many seconds left... until this ride is over..." then what was the point of riding it in the first place? Nobody knows why we're alive. We don't have the time to bother.”
This is exactly what I was talking about with 2 friends a couple of hours ago. It's amazing to SEE how the Universe aligns the things for us, to notice them. That's when I know/feel I am on the right path.
@@wee26th or these audio and text trackers or how they are called cause I noticed how oddly specific adds show up on my phone after I just talked face to face with someone about a certain thing. The same thing happened after I typed something like "short pants" on WhatsApp. It's insane.
I meditated one day and while doing so I saw an eye staring back at me. The eye was so detailed. I was so scared yet it felt so inviting. Eventually i got too scared and opened my eyes…. Now months later as i try meditate I want to see the eye again but i never can. Its because im trying too hard. Im meditating and expecting that same event to happen again and when it doesn’t happen i get down on myself or i think im not meditating correctly. Great video young king 👑 keep them coming. ❤
while taking in this message i found myself at a paradox. expecting outcomes just from gaining this knowledge here which i wholeheartedly agree with, and this is where it starts for me whether practicing this brings me nothing or something i should not expect anything from it.
I needed this. I’ve been stuck in a loop of cheap desires and false expectations. Detachment and outlets of self expression seems like the process I need to go through. Diving in with no expectations.
I partially blame social media for the reason we (better yet i) think this way, i been feeling down lately because of my expectations to be so succesful at a young age because of the media, when i should be grateful for what i have now. looking back i was even worse then i am now but way more happier because i didnt expect more, i was oblivious to what happens in peoples everyday life or rappers flexing money everyday, its like nobodies doing bad on social media everybody is doing so good which is a lie.(i know people who live amazing on ig but irl its a diff story) but u see it so much u start to think why am i not living like this unconsciously. atleast i think so
balance is key , you shouldn’t completely detach yet it is good to detach from certain things like outcomes, sadness, or anger. It’s best to do these things in moderation, not in extremities.
the loops of expectation… I’m so glad you spoke on this topic because it would seem like it’s a common sense thing to not get caught up in the gratification of pleasing others, but because it’s so easy to fall into, we don’t realize we’re in it until we’re in too deep. What a wake up call.
I put this video on my watch later playlist and finally decided to watch it, I should’ve done this sooner bc I really needed to hear it, thank you so much
I always thought this way since I was a kid. The more I care, the more they dont care. The more I try to get something, the more I end up not getting it
This is TOO GOOD & REAL!!! I was getting hyped listening to you friend! I’m so grateful I stumbled upon this video. I’m on my journey of learning & living this very thing, and you’re articulating it before my ears & eyes. Feels like the universe’s way of telling me I’m doing the right things and to keep in this direction. Thank you for creating ❤
I just watched this on the right time, thankyou for making this video and the webcam style also make it more meaningful it’s like you actually talk to my problems, I cried a lot watching this.. I’m still in my journey of anxious attachment, I cling to other people a lot especially in relationship, and this video really gave me hope that I’m in the right track (in my healing journey) that I shouldn’t expect of outcomes.. and I should focus with my self, again thankyou so much bless your heart!
The title just summarizes my "pessimistic" disposition. I noticed that when I overwork and wish for the better waiting hopefully, I am underwhelmingly and painfully get faced by what's either less or just the absolute opposite. When i just give up on it and let it run its course putting in what seems spontaneously just ok, I am overwhelmed with positive outcomes.
I hope everybody truly understands what he is saying because he is actually helping. I appreciate what you do and how you word everything keep this up please.
Correct you can do anything you desire. Somethings come easy and most things take work. Discipline and Determination. Keep up the great work and positive videos. Thanks
Live saving, I hope I come back to read the rest of these comments cause it’s nice to see people struggling the way I have and healing the way I want to
this rush in our life, hustling everyday makes us forget what is our purpose on Earth. Live, simply live, the odds of us being here right now are extremely rare and we are too worried to have a reward from doing something. Being human is a blessing, and you made me remind that to myself.
I can tell your videos are slowly but surely gonna change my life. I’ve been in a really bad place these past 3-4 years and your videos opened my mind to more stuff I’ve been blind to and let’s me enjoy life more. I’m so glad you made these man
Never seen one of his videos but i was at the gym and it popped up so i took a listen. You are very well spoken and i commend you on doing this to do it. Not for a reaction. Gained a follower🙌🏼
it's the first time someone expresses with words what i've been doing lately with my life. i'm a linguistics uni student but my passion is arts, fashion, drawing and all that creative stuff. i've been doing art just for the sake of doing it, i've been dressing up and making clothes just for the sake of doing it. I don't really care if I get recognized for all that, I don't care about the outcome because when I do I suddenly get a creative block and feel paralized. so maybe i've been detached all along from the outcome without even realizing... great video btw! makes you realize some stuff!
You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions. Never consider yourself to be the cause of the results of your activities, nor be attached to inaction - Bhagvad Gita Chapter 2 Verse 47
I’m 17 and really struggling a lot with imposter syndrome. I’m applied for competitions and work experience programs and so much and I constantly get rejected again and again or I don’t win any competitions. Idk what to do anymore. There’s so many students out there that have accomplished so much and it makes my constantly doubt myself of whether I’ll even make it to University. I really want to do Law at University College London. But the more I look at others, then look at myself, my rejections, losing competitions, I have no more hope
At the moment you are focussing on the very top of the top and only their successes not their failures, nobody is perfect no matter how it seems and those who get to those positions of apparent ‘perfection’ don’t get there from pure natural talent.Those who are in those positions will have got there through hardship and effort. You’re already better than 95% of people applying for unis by the fact that you are applying to these competitions and that will set you apart even if you’re not winning them. Universities are looking for people who have a deep interest in their subjects as those will be the best students, not necessarily academically, but the ones who want to do well and you’re showing that right now. So keep trying, don’t get me wrong, but what you’re doing now with the competitions is great! There will always be a bigger fish so try not to get too bogged down on how others are doing and focus on yourself and your academics as once the others are out of the picture you’ll really begin to flourish. I’m sure you’ll get a place, wishing you the best!
I feel your pain , dont make your aspirations you though , dont let what you achieve and don’t achieve define you , just keep putting the work in i believe in you
I think the best way to look at it is realise that everything is perspective. Comparing yourself to others and what they’ve achieved is the thief of joy. I’m 25 and i was in your exact position when I was 17. Rejections constantly. But you have to remember, life operates on something called the Law of Averages. For every 9 rejections you encounter, that 1 might be the yes you’ve been needing. And in life, all you got to do sometimes is gain that 1 yes for your life to change. You’ve probably had 100 no’s and the next one may be a yes. Listen, if I were to tell you that you had to go through 20’rejevtions and on the 21st you’d get a yes, would you still go through it ? Of course you would, because you already know that your time to succeed will come. But In this life , we never know. But that shouldn’t stop you from keeping on consistent. Consistency is the only thing that will eventually reward you, and if you just keep going, your time will also come. This is your life , and your life only. No one should ever compare to your life because your journey is unique in itself. Keep your head up king and keep going, I promise you’ll get through this, just like you got through the other struggles in your life. I believe in you.
“ By being willing to release control you will acquire more control over a situation than you had before. The objective observer always has the advantage over a direct participant”
I got accepted into many programs with my essay about my failed attempt of organizing halloween festival with friends and how process is equivalent to outcome. However hearing this, it just deepened my perspective, i mean the way you are talking is exactly how i think but more deep. I just realized how I was thinking process is important but only for the times when outcome didn't reach my desires. So, Hearing this before my sleep without any expectations was the best thing that could ever happen to me. Thank you so much for this video, i wish you the best path🙏
Ay bro, discovered your content yesterday, and finally got the advice I needed. I was going through a lot since I turned 17, and since I don’t really have a dad who I can turn to in moments like these, I appreciate the fact that I can look through your content whenever I feel like I need advice from someone respectable
Hey man i’m 17 about to graduate or hoping to. I feel like i’ve made a lot of wrong decisions in my life , and I want to make a change. I’ve been watching you since your “projection” video and I just want to say thank you for giving me the confidence to feel like I can make a difference in my life. “Treat yourself like someone you’re trying to help “
I'm 17 too and I've also looked to his channel for guidance for the betterment of myself as I feel like I owe to myself to do right after all my wrongs/regrets
first video i watch when i open youtube i appreciate you for articulating life in a way that is blessing many. much obliged & ecstatic to be apart of the journey !!
This pushed me out of a rut that i saw no solution or end to. The answer to almost every problem is most likely just at your fingertips!!! Its not far. Very grateful for this video
I agree, I feel like doing things from a place f joy is really the most therapeutic way to live. That’s assuming we have a sound understanding of joy or our joys. Becoming action oriented in our authenticity provides us a way to progress, in whatever holistic way we choose for ourselves and our character development. For me, reminding myself to come back to joy and happiness is what helps me initiate the type of life I want to live… maybe for another it will be a different concept like love or compassion. But yes, not responding from/to triggers, fears or consequences - it’s best to redirect one’s attention instead. (Please make a separate channel for the podcast and keep this one for low key talks ❤️)
