I must say this comes at perfect timing. I have healed from schizophrenia and its time to put back some self love. I have neglected myself for a long time. Its time to focus on myself!
It's scary how your videos are always aligned with my phases in life... "things that are being reflected to you in your life is honestly just a reflection of what is going on within you right now". A minute into the video and I'm already awakened to why everything seems to be going wrong. Thank you Elicia you are doing god's work 🫶
I felt that quote so much. I recently got out of a relationship with someone who put a lot of shame on me for where I am in my life and my unhealthy habits. Reminding myself that its okay to take your time has been very healing
GIRLLL do you have like an inside scoop to my life right now? You keep coming with them aligned! Allowing me to connect with other people who have been feeling the same way.
Found you a couple of days ago. And this! All what I needed rn. Went through a chronic depression and feeling normal again seems intense. I was ultimately in love w myself since a few months and even stopped self harm 7 months ago. But the depression led me into questioning whether my thinking was stupid and delusional. I was facing a break down almost everyday after coming back to home from school. Since 10-15 days I've been feeling a bit better as I worked on my inner self. After losing all the positivity in myself, it's now time to regain. But stronger and more rigid belief. Thanks a lot for uploading on the correct time! Lots of love queen 💗
Your perception of what self love is is sooo spot on. When I’m low, my negative self talk and extreme self critique is through the roof. Before, I’d jump right into the self care “acts”, all while being mean asf to myself, so the routines and reading and meditation meant nothing ultimately. Thank you so much for your videos ❤️
as a teen girl, i feel really self concious and anxious when i go out. i am working on buidling my confidence, i do overthink a lot and block myself from oppurtunites. thank you so much formaking this videos
I need to stop pouring my energy and time into other people and start putting that energy back into myself and having more compassion for myself where I am right now
The line “why wouldn’t I be worth it” really had me pondering. Thank you for that mindset shift ❤ journaling today was different, I was able to create some space to find routines that I will love and wake up keen to do. Appreciate the words you spoke about esp when coming out of a toxic relationship!
I FRIGGIN' LOVED and ENJOYED the hell out of this video!!! Girl, this was JUST what I needed! The timing couldn't have been more perfect! I have been feeling so low, struggling like no other with my self worth, confidence and just over all loving and accepting myself most due to all that has happened over the last 4 years. This video help me shift my perspective all while giving me that reassurance that it's ok to be a mess and STILL have love for myself even if it feels like I'm unlovable to anyone else. I have watched countless videos regarding this topic, but none have hit like this! I can genuinely say that there was a shift that happened while watching this. Thank you for this much needed girl talk.
this couldn't come at a better time. im going through a rough break-up. it was a toxic relationship mentally and i lost myself in the process. i cant be alone with myself and my thoughts and i don't think i love myself. so i started binge watching your videos, and they make it easier for me to get up everyday. im starting to appreciate the small things in life and now with this video as a sign, i hope to eventually fall back in love with myself all over again. from the bottom of my heart, thank you 🤍
Your channel gives best friend energy. The type of friend you call up when everything is messed up in life and you have so much self doubt but your friend reminds you who you are and suddenly life feels easier to face. You're helping a lot of people, so thank you. :)
What the actual heck , how comes this is perfect timing , I have been struggling with loss of all the confidence and stuff I built so amazing timing. I feel like i manifested this video :)
Since I've found your channel, my life has been evolving and going through some necessary but positive changes! Many things you say resonate with me; especially during this time period. Getting back to self is not always an easy thing to do. I've heard similar or even the same encouragement/advice, but coming from you, I understand 100%. I've been a people pleaser that's now focusing on myself more and it has been amazing (even on the worst days!). You're a great motivation!! ☀️
this couldn’t have been uploaded at a more perfect time! i’ve been struggling mentally and haven’t been able to express it to people, making myself appear to be fine. it’s a major flaw of mine and i’m trying to not assume people don’t care when it’s my fault for not making my feelings known so they assume i’m fine. i’ve definitely been consuming more sad/darker music and haven’t been listening to my health and self love podcasts often since losing someone close to me unexpectedly. this was such a great reminder to not allow myself to disconnect with the things that bring me light just because i’ve been hurting.
This is so insightful.. I’m so proud of you for expressing so much self awareness. This is really where change happens. So happy you’ve expressed that on my side of the internet with us all 🤍 you got this my love 🤍
i love your videos & needed to see this. how do we incorporate having a job and self love? sometimes it’s hard because you’re so tired you don’t even wanna do the workout, or journaling etc and you lose focus or just prioritize other things :/ how do we find the balance ❤because sometimes it feels like it’s not enough time in the world/day for everything
As others have mentioned, this is perfect timing. Almost my entire life, it has been so hard for me to love myself. And especially now, because I've gained weight and I'm really sad about it. But your videos, especially this one, are helping me to love myself even as i am right now, even while I'm the biggest I've ever been. Your videos are helping me speak more kindly to myself. One thing I'm going to do to love myself more is to give myself time. Instead of giving myself whatever I have left at the end of the day, I'm going to give time to myself first. When I wake up, I'm going to spend a minimum of 1 hour doing what I want/focusing on myself. Then, I will deal with everything and everyone else. Thank you again for creating videos. ♥️
I absolutely love this video ❤ thank you for making these videos for us. I am personally going to work on trusting myself and believing that I KNOW what’s best for me. Not allowing anyone else to make me second guess myself.
Starting my day with a morning meditation is my favorite way to work on my self-love 😊 staying off the phone in the morning is way more helpful then you would even think! It’s kind of crazy 😅
I'm going to focus on meditating everyday and saying my little affirmations. I think this will help a lot. Thank you for your videos! I hope you know how many people you are helping to take the step and helping/healing themselves❤️
This came at the right time bc I'm healing from 2 years of hospitalisations for my mental health, with sewerslide attempts, but I think I'm ready to move on. It's time. It's been a good month of self care and workouts!
The wisdom of this content is a powerful catalyst for growth. A similar book I read led to new insights and growth. "Your Body Your Temple" by Sophia Wintergreen
This came at a perfect time I just got broken up with and I’ve been feeling not loved and unloveable. Your video helps me to see how I can give that love I want so much to myself.
Hiii girlie good to see you 🩷 I don’t know if saying this is gonna bring bad luck but! This summer I’m killing it . I’m a mom of 3 last baby is not even 1 year ,and your girl is working out eating healthy and also on vacation in Italy for one month staying on track like it’s one’s business 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾. This the summer where everything change period.
I never comment like this BUT I just wanna tell you that I am SO thankful for you, your journey and the fact that you decided to share this. I’ve been stuck in my head for most of my life and I found you on RU-vid a while back and your insight on how you go about healing is GOLDEN. I never related so much with a Content Creator and it’s crazy bc I really feel like you be in my business 😂 but I’ve been binging your podcast episodes from where I left off from being wishy washy with my own journey. You help me give me so much more grace than I have on my own and I’m so thankful for that. I learn so much from you. Can’t wait to see how far you’ll go!!
I don’t follow you but you came up on my suggestion. And it’s crazy how things align when you’re going through something but I feel like your video was a sign to pour more self love. Like you mentioned, it’s not about doing your make up, doing your hair, skincare, etc. it’s about being kind to your inner dialogue and I believe I needed a major reminder to do that for myself. Thank you for sharing. 🫶🏼✨😭
I’m taking this as a sign from god or loved ones. I was watching Kalyn Nicholson her video about taking a break. Then YT suggested you. I’m off for a month and I really just want to celebrate me. Do things I love relax, love myself get into a exercising routine
I really needed this video!💜 for the past 4 years I’ve been dressing how my family and friends and followers say I should dress bc if I don’t, I won’t feel confident dressing in a way I want to. Last time I tried to dress in whatever and my friends and family and followers didn’t like it I wasn’t confident or happy anymore.. same with the gym everyone says I look better thick and muscular not skinny and tone (what pilates gives u) so I decided to stick with weights instead of pilates bc everyone says I look better muscular
I have found this video at the right time, I have been in a funk ever since school started. It’s not an excuse but I work full time- it’s 10 hrs and I used to just work and then go to the gym. Now with school I have to figure out how to structure my life with work, school and gym while getting a right amount of sleep and eating properly. I think this video is perfect for me to just stop thinking and listen for a minute, then regroup when the video is over❤
It's insane I'm seeing this. It is like a confirmation for me. I am about to make a big life changing decision and this is telling me that I know what I need to do. It's still so scary. But thank you
I’m gonna start journaling again, I have really put that in the back of my priorities when I know it’s the thing that I need the most, so definitely gonna start journaling before I go to bed again
I’ve got keratosis pilaris on my arms and due to this i feel so insecure about myself that i no longer wear sleeveless tops anymore 😢 it’s hard to love myself when i see my arms in the mirror
so far my night and morning routines have been ending and starting with checking up someone else, my friends, the guy i like, the world etc. and all of this has been bringing me some sort of anxiety and addiction. but you, girl, has just made me realise that the one i should focus on before i go to sleep/when i open my eyes is ME. literally just me. i do my routine, i do my journal practice, meditation, eat. the rest goes afterwards
I’m working on relaxation, getting my journal entries and paper for school complete, cleaning my environment, continuing to journal every couple days and when I’m inspired. And focus on my desires. I’ve had a really busy week and I’m so tired. And it’s my period week so I’m wiped. I have a day off on Tuesday and I took an early off on Monday. So that gives me some spare time. I need to go to this Denver psychic store that I’ve been drawn to. Also I’m about to make a really nice meal with some stuff from Trader Joe’s. Oh yeah I’m ordering my anxiety meds because I’m headed into a spiral if I don’t make these necessary changes. This is a pattern and I’m breaking the cycle. Venus retrograde is all about inner work and self love. I’m going hard on that and I’m not feeling guilty. Watch out world
Speaking of the thing, that I want to work on - I want to believe that I'm actually worth it. I've always been working hard on my goals, I was never unsure that I can get whatever I want from my life and I always got everything. But the thing is, I somehow never believed that I actually am worth all of those things and it's starting to affect me and my well-being. I really want to change that, because consciously I know I'm worth everything in the world, but I don't believe it. And the main goal from now on is to build up that belief. Thank you❤️
Yaayyyy my bestie posted!!! Can’t wait to watch it and see what I learn. Also I absolutely loved yesterdays podcast. Sending you love and hugs as always 💜💜💜
Elicia, your videos always come to me when I most need it 😭🫶 thank you so much babe, I just got broken up with and I really needed this. I felt as if my world ended
Awww my love 🥺 sending you so much love today, I think yesterday’s podcast episode will be perfect for you as well, I suggest listening, if you haven’t already 🤍
