A friend did this for 3 weeks straight after that I stopped talking to him. For me I've learned to be chill abt it because ts mad annoying when I set TIME ASIDE because I think hanging out with this person is worth my time only for them to completely disrespect it by canceling a day or few hours before
realest thing I’ve ever seen, plus i find it even more rude when they tell you that they can’t make the plans after you asked “what time?” or smth like tell me about plans changing the second you find out 👹
its kinda the same for me since as long as i can remember... i was always the one making plans and never the one beeing invited to do something and then they would always find a last minute excuse to cancel... kinda starting to learn rn to just accept it as it is because i already tried everything i can ^^ kinda felt like writing one particular occasion down here if anyone cares lmao (just felt like it idk) if i had to name a turning point then i would probably say my birthday this year where my best friend and i planned to hang out like every year, no big party or something like that, just chill at my place and originally it was planned that he would come a day early and we stay up till after midnight and after that he would stay till the day after my bday... yea he canceled all that one day before he wanted to come over and that with the reason of a "spontanious" doctors appointment that he literally said he made one and a half week prior to canceling on me... cant rlly describe how much that annoyed me (at least i know that this doctors appointment wasnt a random excuse and that he really had that and it was kinda important so at least that lmao).. and so hanging out 3 days turned to a short visit of abt 2 hours on my bday... i wouldnt have been mad even then if he just wouldve canceled directly after he knew that he couldnt come over like originally planned... idk maybe also overreacting and shit but thats when i decided to just accept that shit like this happens all the time and that for as long as i can remember so i finally should stop caring so much about it
Well, I may say for myself, I'm quite sociophobic, so I may agree on some hanging out when it's in some distant future, because, well, it's anyway too distant from this moment to actually care, and as the planned day is coming closer and closer I always want everything to be canceled or to cancel it myself, because in fact I didn't want to hang out when I agreed on this, I just didn't want to hurt the person I like with my refusal....
if we both agree to have a plan atleast 1 week or more in advance and then my guy cancels the day before im gonna fucking MAKE THEM stick to the goddamn plan whether they like it or not
i don't believe i'm getting famous at all, because doing youtube is a luck game. if you happen to get one video viral, nice, you've done it. however, that won't happen to me, it's just luck which audience youtube shows your video to. thank you for the support of course :) i try my best to stay motivated