Where Are They Now? | Family or Fiancé S1E09 | Full Episode | OWN 

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He said it's cheaper to keep her!! Sometimes if you just let a person talk you'll hear everything you need to hear.

Keron hates Ashley so much because she reminds him of a version of himself that he hasn’t come to terms with.

My great great grandmother always says "don't let someone have to tell you twice that they don't want you..." These people have said it in word and deed.

“It’s not a Disney Movie babe”Whew chyle , he definitely meant what he said.

Karon too cowardly to own up to the fact that he's a freak, too. Prayers for the church girl

It’s hard to face the reality that you may not be compatible with the person you love. Peace is always greater ❤️

The first couple is a Train Wreck LOL

Karon was sitting there so hurt over Ashley he's still in love with her...he chose Nateria to please his mom period

Keron DEFINITELY still calls her. And got exposed. That's why he flipped.

Not it’s cheaper to keep her , that answer was so dumb. Listen to your aunt girl!

It is so evident that Keron is not in love with "the love of his life" she seems like his safe option.

Karon’s whole demeanor changed when he found out Ashley was dating Kenya..

The first couple should have taken their families' advice and broken up. Sometimes, the families’ judgment is correct.

The first couple just need to break up and never speak again. The guy is pompous and arrogant.

Karon let his family push away the Woman he wanted to be with to pursue the woman they wanted him to be with. He was hurt seeing Ashley had moved on. Couldn’t contain his anger

I love Tracey, she’s perfect for this show.

Karon is so childish! 2-3 times a week or even every 2-3 weeks is a lot of communication with an ex if you’re in a relationship!

Ashaki sees this stuff and continues to try to move forward. Overlooking what he said he meant what he said

Zero chemistry between Keron & Nateria.. She’s safe

Keron anger was cause he’s hurt. When you don’t care about someone, you don’t act the way he did. He’s just putting on for his mom and because of that, the relationship with Nateria will NEVER work!

When Tracy said, “Well, they may be different, but you’re still you…” Whew! That was a word right there!

Keran was looking like he wanted to cry 😂

I feel so bad for Ashaki but I am confident that she will get enough and leave him for good. She seems stronger than she was on the episode.

That lasaundra episode was toxic I’m so shocked that they are doing so well. The retreat really healed them

Nateria needs to run she never going to get the fairytale. He said its not Disney 😂😂😂

One thing I hate is a toxic relationship 🤦

Peace is priceless!

He said what he meant...it's cheaper to be with her than to date other women..that's it..that's all...girl lace up your sneakers...and run!!!!

Cheating is a sign of insecurity and immaturity

Chris is speaking, she hears him and understands what he’s saying but she wants to force a different response and feeling. He doesn’t feel how she wants him to feel. She’s delusional. And there was clearly an issue prior to coming and showed with how far apart they sat. not touching.

Did Keith pay for Summer's family to go to Cabo??? 😂😂😂

Love seeing the growth and progress in Lasaundra and Julian. Yes!

Lazandra and Julian look like they're glowing! Good for y'all 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Kerons feelings is hurt and this would have been prevented of he didn't have his family so invested in his relationship. He accepted her but his family didnt.

The best tv therapist is back! Love Dr. Tracy.

Karon and Ashley---Karon is with the other girl bc his mom wants him to be with her. He seems like he is willing himself to be in love with the new girl. He's being so FAKE!!!!

Tselane and Justin: doomed from the start with that ptsd elephant in the room and his mom/ enabler shoving issues under the carpet....

I want an update on the couple that didn't show up. That was not a healthy relationship at all

Keron is better off without Ashley. They definitely do not need to be together

What was Askshi expecting from Chris. Like Boss up and leave him.

Karon turn into a smart mouth female once she said his girlfriend is cute, and they talk on the phone a few times a week! Jus plan childish, and while his mom has all this judgement for others, she needs to finish raising her son, cuz he seems like he would hav put his hands on her if the cameras weren't there!

Karin doesn’t even look believable 😂😂😂.. He isn’t that into this other girl

Keron been lying to his new chik about the situation

Great update. 1. I’m SO happy for Falasha and Chris’s beautiful union! 2. Also love Brianna & Nikkiya’s union! 3. SO glad Amber left that violent narcissistic sociopath Justin! He was frightening. 4. I’m also glad Lazaundra was able to see herself from her reactive brokenness and heal and I wish them the best. 5. Ashaki needs to leave Chris immediately; she’s just a convenience for him like he said. 6. Karon is SO still in love with Ashley, and he’s too insecure to admit it. He’s a mama’s boy trying to play good Christian man for her religious zealot mother, but he knew about ‘s bisexuality and probably loved it. He dumped her to live up to his mother’s religious dogma, but you can tell he still loves her, and he’s acting spiteful and trying to pretend like he’s unbothered when he really is. He felt attacked the whole interview, but it was his own emotions that were triggering him. And you can tell he doesn’t feel the same way about Nateria; he didn’t even look at her how he looks at Ashley. And he downplayed his relationship with Ashley so Nateria wouldn’t find out. And, honestly, Ashley & Kenya still seem more like friends with benefits than a real relationship. Keron and Ashley still love each other, and he needs to let go of the dogma and religious shame and live his happy free life. 7. Keith & Summer were interesting but I’m glad they healed. 8. With Tselane & Justin, I acknowledge Justin has PTSD, anger issues, and communication issues, but something about Tselane rubs me the wrong way, too. I’m suspicious of anyone who presents as if they have NO faults whatsoever. She never owned up to having ONE issue, nor did she celebrate that he was willing to be a father to her son. He’s not perfect, but I think she may have her own issues and uses his bigger issues to hide hers behind. Great updates all around.

He really told her “this isn’t a Disney movie” she dumb af for staying with him.

Keron makes me itch. He’s so fake 😂

Not Keron, the church boi, smoking a Newport 🥴🥴

Keron n his ex girl are still in love

Karon is butt hurt and it’s obvious. I also don’t like how his new lover was hidden and Ashley had to bring hers out with them

We love us some dr Tracy!!!!!! How come she is not more out there. She is sooooooo gooodddddd!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

Oh my Chris and ashki that is not going to work.. He wants his cake and his slice also.. He wants to be a player and really has no emotion for her.. So sad she is short changing herself

The growth in Lazaundra is mad!! ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽

Keron loves Ashley not nateria he just wants someone who his mom will accept. I can tell that he is going along to get along sometimes it's easier than taking a chance with the one you really love.

First couple needs to break up ASAP

In the comments it was said that Tracy needs to change her hair why is that so important when her words are powerful

Keron is a sucka. Why disrespect that woman like that, cussing her out and over talking her smh. If he can easily do it to her then he most certainly can do it to his current girlfriend (who probably shouldnt have taken him back)

Keron needs help. He is definitely going to cheat on that poor girl. He is NOT being honest with himself at all and it shows. His response to Ashley says it all. He’s so frustrated she knows who he truly is.

Teslane, 🗣️RUN!!! If he’s not communicating, giving you what you need, and his family hates you, why stay?

Keron please

Wow I really thought ashaki was smarter than that. He clearly is still playing games and she's ignoring the reality.

Justin is weird his family is crazy Tselane should've ran 6 months ago!

Whew chile…. the guys Chris & Keron are STILL a “no” for me. BIG BIG BIG NO. 😭🙅🏾‍♀️

Ashley getting back with her ex is probably confirmation for Keron that Ashley isn’t the one.

Tselane needs to move her azz out if it's that bad instead of sitting there miserable...Get a second job, move in with family, whatever

I pray Amber left that man alone !

Ashaki will leave him after she sees this episode again. Lol. She seems so bomb and looks tf good! She deserves someone with real dreads.

I was just googling yesterday for an update on these couples!!

He still love Ashley he don’t even act or look happy….

Y have a child n financially tie urself to a situation u cnt get out of knowing it’s toxic.

When someone show you who they are believe it

Messed up that Ashley was fighting a losing game with Karon and his fam😒

I’m a huge O’Jays fan. My number one all time favorite song is “Cry Together” . Eddie Levert said it best in the opening monologue of the song “A relationship ain’t nothing without communication” Without love, trust, honesty, and communication, you have absolutely nothing at all.

Amber and Kirk Franklin were the couple I was most eager to get an update on

Chris seems to only stay with Nikashi(or what her name is) because he doesn't want to pay up when they separate.

Keron new GF looks.... Awkward. Maybe it's them shoes. 😅

Where is Amber and Justin?! We need their update! Tf

You can tell Nateria is a quiet church girl. She and Ashley are opposites. Nateria doesn't even look comfortable in that dress.

It just seems like these couples have reasoned to take the wide gate vs the narrow one.

BEST SHOW THRY NEED TO MAKE MORE EPISODES

That boys mom is a very bad if Christian putting Ashley down behind her sin not kool at all she should have invited her to church and helped her

I’m so disappointed in my sister Ashaki 😢 you had the right idea when you broke it off! He ain’t it bookie

Kerons girlfriend is so calm and sweet but he dont look like thats what he likes.

He didn't articulate his past experience compared to his new experience on doing the right thing correctly. He isn't saying he doesn't love her or its cheaper to keep her .. he's trying to say he's more financially aware of how he was misspending his money .. how he thought it was easier to jump from one woman to the next ( not only because he has no discipline but he was looking for joy to avoid arguing ) he's saying it feels good to not be sneaky and deceitful. What she did was made his experience about her and got annoyed when she didn't hear the words she thought he should say. When he wasn't speaking about her he was reflecting on his behavior

She should of left old buddy , she telling him he may be single and he giggling . Smh

Chris said she is convenient girl run

Dang Ashaki is lowkey foolish, she’s so young but girl…

Kerron is so fake and full of it that u can see when Ashley walk off the stage the way he was watching her he knew he lost her and thats who he loves. Am sorry for that woman that is with hinit have no love there that frice but mama

Ms. Tracy thanks for the update.

wow reading people's comments I am like i might just be clueless on Chris words 😲 I thought he was saying he finds not sneaking around and dealing with multiple woman is a better lifestyle than to do it.

Couple number 2 i cant truly believe since they not in person to feel the energy ..

He seems like a genuine guy that's ready to love someone. She seems to have been hurt in life. They can have a beautiful family if she lets it happen

Karan does not love that new girl

Justin crying face is forever funny 😂😂😂😂

Keron new/old girl saw him on the show and called him….😂 Girl please…

Keron said he agreed with Ashley when she said sometimes you have to put on a facade and date who your family wants you to date. If I was his girl and heard that, I would not be happy….. Why are you so angry over someone you supposedly no longer love?

If Tracey have to ask after all this do u thank this is gonna work then that means it not

Traci looks so gooooood❤

I tell the man everything he needs to know about me whether he wants to move forward with me is up to him

I was hoping to see an update on Alexis and Danley!