Female nature is pretty much the same no matter where you go. They will see you as American 1st. With that comes a whole level of expectations that you may not be ready for. Have dick..will travel will not be enough.
You do realize most overseas women are the biggest scammers?! They'll be in secret relationships and be tricking American men to marry them, then they'll be all sad about their "relative" back home and get you to pay for said "relative" to come to America. And before you know it her and her "relative" have ran off with your bank account
Yung Jay the internet is globalizing women so traveling can only do so much....you have to go to the Amazon or sentinel island to get that "woman" who is not corrupted by the global society...good luck getting passed the arrows and spears on sentinel island...let me know how that works out...
Who said these are the higher tier men? The women did. Why, because they have more money. That's all in their mind. How is a man with lesser standards in women a higher class? This is the way women think, not men.
@@Njprophet not to this level. Most other women find husbands, because they mostly have realistic standards. Most black women will NEVER find a husband because their standards are unrealistic. You have BW who are 4s that get a degree and think they've become 8s !
That's why you want women who have renewed minds that don't conform to societies standards. There is a tiny group of women who view the men with the most biblical knowledge and understanding and morality as top tier.
only problem is (if you marry them) your children will not look like you and they will probably take your resources to another culture that will not respect our kind.
@@mrshanevicious498 you cant expect black women to meet the beauty standards the men desire like other communities and on the other hand want the women to not have standards of providing and provisions of the men like other communities. That makes no sense. And its not just the rappers and athletes who like the whores with no morals. The richest black man in america wifed up a softcore pornstar. The women are following the mens standards and it goes back further than Kim K and Disney Princess movies.
👏🏿 They (females) ask the stupid question, why do men 'cheat'??.. it's usually not cheating for a {eligible} man in 'Demand', it's laissez faire & multiple 'Choice'!🤔--"FREE BILL COSBY" And All Innocent BlackAmericanDOS, Political and Cultural Prisoners of W/S!!
And men pretty much want the same chick. Y’all thirst over the same phenotype in women and then get mad that most women want a rich man. It equals out. And if you’re mad Then it’s because you can’t compete. That goes for the women AND the men.
Exactly and women have been programmed to take the highest financial bidder because of their greed and most totally disregard his morals, masculinity, what kind of father to her children or father figure to any children from previous relationships and role model in general. Imo even SOME content creators are programming younger men to focus solely on making 6-7 figure salary or their 6 pack at all cost but what other traits, morals, skills and characteristic are they pushing to be passed to younger men especially the black ones. I wish them all success but this should be about teaching the younger population of men how to rise not giving us someones financial report.
This is easily one of the deepest videos I have watched! It's explains and breaks down so much of the sexual interactions between men and women (particularly black men and women) now it's explains why when you deal the average gir they have a low berometer for us. Because so called"top tier" men accept some garbage women and wife them up, what chances does my normal black ass have ?
This is why i dont wanna be bothered with Women I dont even say hello to Women in public The only thing you can do is take yourself away from the situation
@@jkairi4 Stop kissing his ass and believing that stupid shyt you just said. He's human and some broad is going to wind up playing his ass too. If he ain't gay.
Amad Zee the reason why Zuckerberg is a chump is the same reason Jeff Bezos is. They cannot satisfy a woman’s prime desire for the alpha seed. They can provide the life that those women desire but in the long run, their pussies will dry out like Bezos wife did. Like Rollo Tomassi says, Alpha is as Alpha does. That means you’re not an alpha because of your achievements, i.e., zuckerberg is not an alpha because he’s a billionaire. An alpha achieved what he has because of his alpha natural mindset. Donald Trump is an Alpha through and through. No woman would ever control him. But Zuckerberg and Bezos? Women could tear them down in an instant. They would live in a woman’s frame while an Alpha controls his woman. That’s the difference. Achievement means nothing in the Alpha Beta dynamic. MINDSET does
sadly African Americans watch the highest amount of television across the nation on average 4 to 5 hours a day. Its important to watch what you kids are watching on tv. Its called television programming. its sad all around if folks think this stuff is real life for these folks.
Lol this is funny. Some chicks i know with were trying to play match maker and got offended when I (mid-20s/childless) said I dont consider baby mammas or women with an abundance of tattoos relationship material for me. Guess I'm not allowed to have standards😂 (and i only gave them 2, not all of them) Great reinforcement video BGS
My friend too. Wants me to come to a dating match maker. 10 guys and 5 girls, and she says this is fair. I asked how many had tat's and were single mothers. Lol. No way. Blk women want 6' 9" men. Keep being disfunctional while i get my life together
I just left my own woman for not living up to my own standards. A woman i said I love you to and planned to have kids with. You have to value the sacrifices you have made, especially when she does not. When you value yourself and your own situation you have to set standards for both of you to live up to. This was a great message. Thanks for this sir.
Women Really Love a Good REDEMPTION Experience, the Idea of being Saved and Unconditionally Loved , no matter how many demins she dancing with in her life. She feels on some level the mans "love" need to be so strong it will conquer her issues or at least manage them for her convenience and comfort.... until she's tired of him or they've "Grown Apart".
When you had Michelle Obama saying if she could be any woman it would be beyonce, that should i woke all black men up to the mind state of today's black woman
I told you on the last hangout I was on, women now have a consumerist mindset toward relationships, just as a consumer can buy what they desire as long as they have enough money, they believe as along as I have money (looks in women's case) they should just be able to get exactly this type of man
This is an excuse to not want to change or grow up. As a man I can say women love bad boys so I will become one. As a man I don't want to be one because I know what comes with being a bad boy. All kinds of drama. On the real we all need to grow up.
The lower-tier man is looking for a partner to build with. The higher-tier man has already built on his own. He doesn't need a partner. He's just looking for a trophy. #SYSBM
They(BW .et.al.) already know their purpose...🤨They don't like it or the responsibility it requires!! America knows, it's white supremacy, but, 'conveniently' it's all the BlackDOS Mens' 'Fault'!!🙊🙉🙈 ¡& it could be!--"FREE BILL COSBY" And All Innocent BlackAmericanDOS, Political and Cultural Prisoners of W/S!!
It's like a Honda Accord and a Lamborghini. The Honda is a better built car , but if I got the money, I want the Lamborghini and don't care about the maintenance. I can afford to get another one if I want too. She's knows that also. When your broke you want the reliable car because you can't afford the maintenance, meaning the attitude.
How dare you want standards and you not rich? Black women take exceptions and make it a rule. Pop culture dictates their entire lives, If you want a good woman only Pop icons can create her for you if the rich people say it they do it. if you broke or lower Tier your chick was created for a rich rapper or football player. If you not one of those good luck.
It's called TELEVISION PROGRAMMING for a reason. Remove yourselves and your children from in front of that box. The destructive outcomes of television programming has more than spoken for itself. In fact, a former CIA operative stated that it was one of the BEST WEAPONS EVER CREATED.
Truth. American inc. culture has been marinated and saturated in it for far too long. Thats why too many go into their emotions and reject facts right off the bat.
@Biff Tannen TV is a religion for some and it has far more devotees than many religious denominations. There are more televisions and programming now due to digital cable than there are churches, temples or mosques in any city USA and the TV is far more effective than religion as many have left religion or even belief due to the influences found in media programming. Think about it this way. Many so called religious people will forego their worship services depending upon what is coming on that box.
@Jon Mwan Yes and unfortunately this is very true. I used to work for Coca-Cola's international marketing division and I had access to several ratings services. Nielsens is one of the ratings services I used often and YES, every year..... North American black women comprise the demographic that consumes more television viewing hours than anyone in the USA.
Some much needed straight, real talk for the community. Hollywood has become black mans culture. Looks, money, status. Nothing about morals, which is what most of our ancestors held in high regard.
I remember 25 years ago; I was making a salary of $30k+, trying to get with sistas that were average and they would brush me off then. With the knowledge and wealth I have now (humbly speaking); these same women are literally stalking me today. I find it laughable as well as disturbing; because they put their agendas on a silver plate, letting me know what their intentions are, without them knowing that I know. Besides; as a man of wealth, what the hell I look like; flexing with someone that has more mileage than a '95 Buick, for which I see these females and nothing has changed prior.
What this shows is that a lot of black women don’t want to even attempt to be better mentally, physically and/or spiritually. It’s like, all they care about is carnal pleasure and materialism. BW are THE most materialistic. They’ll also look at any circumstance as an excuse for their bad attitudes and behaviors. Who TF looks at men and women outside of your socioeconomic status as a way to live your life? Can these women even think for themselves? Holy sh*t
Nope I still Don't. I understood the message. But y'all went way overboard. No one talks about Dywane Wade getting that stripper pregnant. Or Dwight Howard having 9 babies OOW ... Amongst others
ATL 1 the class thing is a fluid thing. I still don’t believe Ciara is in Russell Wilson’s class per se. she’s very pretty but if you look at her history even aside from Future, (50 Cent, Bow Wow, etc...) money aside, Russell Wilson was more than likely an aberration as opposed to a fait accompli. I actually like Ciara but I recognize that (unfortunately) black women that actively bad boy/thug love should be rooted out and face severe sanctions. Women react to shame, not guilt.
I'm not angry. This is funny to me. But I see this is just truth. I . . . .feel like she has given us a peek to the insanity. Sooooo. hahahahaha. Truth is whoa.
Wow ... funny thing you know what movie that just popped in my head that touches the attitude of this point .”Shrek” talk about some Fairytale programming
Women need to stop telling men what they like and think. We tell them what we like and think. They don't ever listen, they just keep talking and changing the subject. Higher tier men to them is just about resources. Even though some of these higher tier men in sports are dumb as rocks. I used to help them with math in college and I know who doesn't have an good high School education. Take away athletic ability and you have a Walmart employee with alot of them. She is telling it like it is and should be commended.
Well if your an athlete your gifted , what is 3 x 3 gonna do for me when I can make millions of dollars ? Why be educated with books when I can play football & learn how to count 100s ? I swear you sound like a hater
@@johnlewis4986 Well if the percentage of athletes going pro wasn't so low I'd agree with you. So there's no need to hate. I just telling what my observations were.
Michael Johnson percentages are low in almost any field of becoming rich or wealthy , how you think the most wealthy men in the world got to there position ? Worrying about percentages & calculations ? Come on now micheal , the world is a game no matter how you play it .. athletes put in the work and not care about school , which is an indoctrination camp for 9-5ers . You might think your smart off a book of lies that the white people at the designed for low thinkers like yourself , do some research think outside the box . I can tell your not that bright but “ oh I’m good in school and he isn’t “ lol you make me laugh
IT'S A FACT, NOT A RUMOR!!!!!!!!!!! They just barking when they say they are not interested. Anything outside of a nigga they can't function because they have NO power. That's why they chase dustys. But they won't admit it though. They complain about them but they keep picking them. They try to make other people think he outstanding when it's obvious that he's not. But when they get hurt by a dusty its the end of the world. Just Hilarious.
@@rmac8012 They are intimidated by decent men because those men are hard to figure out, they aren't simple minded & we all know a bitch has to feel like the smart one in the relationship so when that is threatened they will purposely avoid or ruin the relationship. Because if women were honest with themselves & said that they didn't want a decent man because it throws them out of their comfort zone then they wouldn't be able to use the age old "there are no good men" argument.
The fatal flaw of the 80/20 rule for BW is they assume the 80% still aspire to be in the 20% of men BW choose to screw. SYSBM is sending them elsewhere to places with better exchange rates. And BGS is correctly noting the defeated looks...
BGS IBMOR working on your mind, body, and spirit will never happen over night. A lot of black people lack self discipline yet they want a good man or woman. You will not attract a good man or woman until you became the mate YOU desire.
Antonio Johnson I’m not here to sell you on anything because the shit sell itself. Vultures hang with vultures, blue jays hang with blue jays, and robins hang with robins. If u are attracting vultures then u are a vulture. Blue jays don’t come around vultures. I rest my case.
I'm happy a female actually articulated this. I thought this was common knowledge. I've conditioned myself not to be angry about the mentality...finally
The thumbnail speaks volume, a strong independent Blackwomen in her mid thirties on reality TV looking for love, ha. Show me her strength and or independence.
As BGS IMBOR goes through his analysis of the game information he greens from different sources, his understanding (not necessarily his agreement) with those of us who live by the SYSBM theory of thinking and actuation is growing. I appreciate that because not many people REALLY understand SYSBM-not even some of the guys claiming it. Most Black American women definitely don’t understand it, even though they should.
I'm really not that surprised; tell you the truth. I think you held out hope for black women, which is why Kendra's revelation bothered you so much. My interpretation and summation of what you and Kendra were saying (from the clip) is a line from a movie I like: " _What the Gods can digest will not sour in the belly of a slave_ ".
Kendra D .... you’ve explained perfectly why fake, hair, nails, ass, titties etc are a billion dollar business in our communities, and that’s just to get the “low octane “ dudes .....
She dropping bombs on our messiness on both sides, when we think aint nobody looking. Real talk, people shouldn't be getting their ideas of quality people from tv, music and social media. You have to be what you looking for , both sides. Most men want good women but will settle for Thots. Most women want good men but try to craft them from pimps or playas Programming on programming. Real talk, the current crop is so out there , there isn't anything to be gained or maintained dealing with them, I'm low tier but i'm not laying down for a bad attitude, postwall, ptsd, combative multi-babymama. I'm good, funny thing they hunting big time ,now. Options must be drying up.
That was nothing short of magnificent! One of you commenters stated that it was once of the deepest video you've produced along with her video. I agree whole heartedly. Takes some consideration, actually it doesn't! This media world is and will always be a controlled circus! Great Video!
Hey BGS I herd your name on CGA channel and Ms Cure channel and I'm just now coming across this video. This video and I did click on link to watch Ms Cure total video have single handily sum up everything I've seen in last 3 years, explain why I was thinking " these bw I'm dating act like they doing me a favor " for the last 15 years. I didn't know #SYSBM existed. Thank you but after this video and revisting the failed relationships with BW over 20 years thoughts, I'm officially walking away
GT ENT hit it on the head. I think wealthier man can absorb the cost associated with a “broken” person too once women show their true colors. The impact of divorce, std, child support, cheating and abuse from a broken woman can be lessened when there is a large reserve of cash available to the man. A poor man, child support alone will send the man to debtor’s jail. It’s risk management , and it is critical to make better decision the less resources a man has.
Cyntoia Brown: requirements before marriage. Shot a man in in the head, in cold-blood, although she was in no imminent danger. (Psychological evaluation and counseling required). Former prostitute. (HIV, STD and hepatitis tests required). Former drug addict. ( Lifelong counseling required). Over a decade in prison. (Orientation into society and counseling required). Nah, I still wouldn’t wife her.
Kendra is the TRUTH! God bless her abundantly. I insist that if there were more North American black women like her, THEN there would be fewer black men exiting the plantation. #SYSBM
Women dont get to choose whats best for me and she cant.women have control issues and life shows us that u have to work with someone so its more about how do u want to do that.its personal between 2 people.we not following nobody we are our own island.u with us or against us and they show it when they represent themselves through their 👄 or actions.
**Damn! 🤯 This is a deep reality! Most of the BS we have to put up with as men nowadays is because MEN reward these women for their bad conduct, behavior, and character. If guys didn't perpetuate and accept it women wouldn't do it, and they'd have to switch up and cooperate or they'd never make it anywhere, or get what they want!* 💯💯💯
Unfortunately as BGS always says, we live in a gynocracy...and under a gynocracy BM have no RIGHT to have STANDARDS according to BW...when BW allow BM to have their OWN standards, i'll be back! SYSBM FOR LIFE!!!
I Agree I'm a Man's Man and alot of the more mascular men as far as principle goes don't have as much money. Were not willing to compromise as much as the rich blue pill man and we understand the game being under the circumstances we live in. I don't make a whole lot but I can support ME and that's the only asset in my life rn cuz i don't have any kids and I pay minimal bills and i know depending on my tax bracket "most" not all but most women would want me for my resources so I play em how the game go
What Kendra said in this 15min clip really didn't disturb me too much. It just shows how distorted BW are from reality, lol. I mean, if a bw wants to be ratchet that's her business, but don't get all butthurt when it's not a black man's cup of tea. On the flipside, if a bm wants to be ghetto and thuggish that's his business, but he can get his panties in a bunch if bw don't like him because he's too ghetto.
In context, after a year long quarantine, and listening to women unmask themselves on Kevin's show nightly the biggest new nugget I got from returning to this video is the point of how BGS zeroed in on how our women place themselves inside of the Capitalist Society, and use it as a measuring stick for themselves. They place their careers and financial outcomes foremost over their feminine outcomes. Therefore, if they neuter themselves based upon their own worship of capitalism, of course they're going to judge us based upon the same financial measuring stick. Couple that with their atavistic greed for the "sexy fine" Concubine-Surf and the picture becomes crystal clear. Clarity is therapeutic.
Pro basketball player "Paul George" dumped a good woman and got trapped by a stripper.. had a baby with the stripper and now she all up in his pockets ! 😂
It's frustrating to me when I state that you SHOULD WATCH HER WHOLE VIDEO BEFORE CRITIQUING... Stated 3 times in my preamble. Yet you knuckleheads do it ANYWAY!!!!
@@BGSIBMOR Don't have the time. I barely have the time to watch YOUR videos. Either present the whole argument to make a point or leave it alone altogether.
All the James Evans are gone from the ghetto and all these women have left it's a bunch of sweet Daddy's what a shame we forget what that spinx represent we forget what Nat Turner did for his wife in birth of a Nation he took her out of her animal instinct and raise her to her Human nature black women in modern-day timecannot and will not handle a discipline black man with value and meaning this is too much like being a dictator to her
Let's get it right. I said that WOMEN are MORE visual than men. That has been proven by studies. Advertising depends on it. Women respond to way more visual cues than men... But black folks don't read...
Brother BGS Ibmor,at the end of the video; you described my personal situation. Exactly as you stated , there are women who view these damnable reality shows such as the Love and Hip Hop Series etc; inculcating what they see on television into their own personal relationships. In my situation, the individual saw what is clearly only for entertainment on television,social media ; literally copied the behavior, and expressed into our relationship. Needless to say, the relationship ended. To paraphrase Sister Kendra" Money and resources do not necessarily make a Good Man". " Middle class or the average women see the behavior of classless , trashy women with the top tier men , believing it entitles them to transfer the observed dysfunction into their relationships with men in which they interact" .
I have noticed myself that the average woman gets pissed when a man actually has standards. This sister sure did break it down, can't even really argue with her logic.
