I needed this. I finally got to the point where I stopped checking to see if “dinner” was done. I’m expecting to see what God said, and I know when it’s done, he’ll call me to come eat. I needed this. Letting go isn’t easy but I’d rather wait than eat halfway cooked food
I'm tired of trying to save myself in front of the hearts of men, i.e., trying to convince them of my value and who I am. I lay that burden at God's feet and only God can really show that person who I am and what value I bring. This is a beautiful video. Thank you. God bless.
I don't have the energy to prove my worth to a man who is not in the right mindset to see my value. Let God bear that responsibility and burden. God knows me better than I know myself. Let God handle it.
Amen, sis !!! I am tiredd. It’s making me feel pathetic. Constantly praying for a man to see me smh that isn’t healthy. I have to let that go. If it’s truly meant to be, only God can raise this back up. I have to make my own self worth my priority now.
@@Christimony222 This need for someone to see you, man or friend, goes back to childhood when you were not seen or regarded, and you were merely tolerated. I think we are still trying to get that parent or that family member to see us when we pull at men to try to see our value. That's not the only explanation. We have men who would rather see a woman who doesn't want to be with them than to see a woman who does, and they do the good women wrong, i.e., burning them out and expecting them to take care of them in the old age. I'm retired from this foolishness. You read right: "retired."
@@reginayfavorsI finally got to a point where I realized how ridiculous it was that my spouse doesn't see my value. He is greatly deceived and when he says things like I'm the worst thing that's ever happened to him I just find it funny and unintelligent of him now because I'm obviously not the worse thing that's happened to him when I've cared for and forgiven him and encouraged his walk with the Lord when no one else in his life has done that. I finally realized how deceived he is and didn't take it personally. It's absurd for him to believe the lies of the enemy and it honestly makes me feel pity for him. 🙈
I was triggered today by some things that I saw (concerning the prodigal) and my heart was grieving to God. God said to me: "Charge it to me." I said: "God, you know I can't. How can I hold anything against you when you've never held anything against me?" God said: "Then let it go. If you won't charge it to me, let it go." And I instantly remembered the verse from Philemon where Paul asked that Onesimus's sins be counted against him (Paul) and he would pay on behalf of Onesimus. God's heart is for the prodigal. His heart is so attuned to the prodigal. A kind father he is.
I’m letting go. I get a little stronger each day. I was living in so much trauma in agony. I couldn’t take the rejection anymore. I feel like they need to feel the fact that we have given up in order to want to change. I realize I was giving him too much respect that he hadn’t earned or deserved.
This is so true. The Holy Spirit fully activated at a very high volume when my wife let go. Like loud and clear, I’m talking I went from ice cold faith to church every Sunday with the kids, prayer morning and night, dreams, multiple conversations with god himself, I got baptized, journaling, working our, water and a healthy diet. I stay committed and refuse to sin type of behavior. And I just have this deep sense of I ain’t ever going back to that me again. It’s been 2 months. We’re still separated. She’s seeing someone else. And I’m learning to just let go myself.
God is so good, he’s doing a radical transformation in me to stop obsessing and the limerance… face the past trauma head on so you can live in the present and stop allowing your own abuse! All the past trauma is keeping you hostage today! My mind is no longer chained by the past and obsessing about the future to make my spouse change and hopefully change my past. I am in the present day with Holy Spirit, he is providing and protecting. Satan no longer has me under mind control via my husband. If I allow God to walk with me now, I can face the past and the future with no fear. Thank you Jesus for this video confirmation as another piece of my puzzle 🤍🤍
Definitely no coincidence that I found your videos just after he really hurt me and I cried to God and said I AM DONE TAKE HIM AWAY! Let me get back to standing 🙏 God bless you Taquila
I just told the Lord that I was unsure that this man is my spouse because of how he is and how he acts toward me. To let me know cause if not I’m willing to let go and I came across this. Thank you❣️
I needed this. I just let go. It took 2 years and 6 months, but I let go. I feel like I have released something. I know I have to get to the point where I trust GOD, and I stop trying to be a part of the victory. I think my issue was that I wanted to be the reason he changed. I thought my feelings would influence nit realizing that was me wanting glory for what GOD gets the glory for. Thank you for sharing this. This video popped up on my RU-vid feed the very next day after I let go. A word in due season. Thank you.
Pray for Michael my Son and my daughter in law Shalexus they only been married for a year and she left and move inn with someone else and I’m standing for them both
I got fed up and told him about himself. I told him to hit me up when GOD delivers him. The next day, I was told that I "knocked the coins out of him like Sonic the hedgehog" by rebuking him. I touched his soul, inner child, and the demon he was operating under all at once. ❤🎉
Its so interesting and amazing to me because i really believed for a long time that i was the reason everything went wrong between us, and not just him but other family members and friends, now i can see where God has his hand on me and risen me up and these other people and my prodigal are being brought low, so i now believe that i wasnt the problem at all. ❤
Letting go is HARD!!! Quiet prayers daily on your knees. Just keep asking God for His Holiness around you, before you, in back of you and in Front of you. Practice GRACE… on yourself. Practice Forgiveness w/ Boundaries for your prodigal. If God brings them to their knees it will be A Good thing so they can go to heaven
Thankyou Tequila, though my spouse pride is still strong. I see my wife is getting angrier now that I'm moving in my own direction. Projecting her feelings on to the kids as if I'm the one in the wrong, but she thinks it's the end which in a way is confirmation she doesn't want me to go. Thankyou for your videos and keep it up.
This really blessed me. A LOT of what you have said resonates. I’ve been standing for 7 years, technically our entire marriage for 21 years. But definitely see God working. Your video highlighted something’s that I’ve heard or seen from my husband. I probably needed this as confirmation because there were still some questionable actions. Thank you, bless you!! ❤🙏🏾
Amen 🙏 I let go of my prodigal as he needs to work on himself I know God will show him where he needs to do on himself when God gets involved it can be tough that lesson he needs glory to God
This is so on point! It was definitely meant for me to listen to. Confirmation for my thoughts. Which I now believe to be from God! I really am so appreciative of you.
In the beginning my wife had every reason to blame me because I failed her emotionally. After we left our ministry of 20 years, I fell into a depression. I wore her out emotionally and I took our marriage for granted. After she told me she was leaving, I immediately “came to myself.” While I made mistakes that I understand and I can fix those things, her pride and hard heartedness has caused her to say she isn’t praying about anything because she knows she has no biblical reason to leave. The pride, resentment, etc. she is walking in has made her into another persona altogether. I have been working on me and I am trying to stand firm believing for restoration but I have been blaming God for not allowing me to change sooner. God told me to let her go and I’m glad you brought this out because it confirmed to me what I was thinking. All the signs are that she is living unfaithful which she told me isn’t “unfaithful” because we are “only married “on paper.” I hope God softens her heart because He told me she’s at the beginning stage of her prodigal journey and if she doesn’t shift, something will have to get her attention. It’s a struggle for real but I’m holding on
God bless you in your work. Your words of wisdom ARE straight from Gods word as written in the Bible. “Let Go, Let God” is my daily cry. And I cry everyday. Almost 6 months, my husband (Elder) of our church took off to be with his atheist Liberal , foul mouthed family and turned into someone I don’t know. At first I cried and tried to Prove to him God doesn’t approve of what he’s doing… and I pleaded that I Love him more than anyone besides Christ.. especially after 26 years! But to no avail….. Now I saw him @ our daughter’s graduation after almost 6 months.. he is so skinny, dark circles under his eyes and he ignored me mostly. He said he went for Cancer screening and had infection in his eye. Hmmmm….. God has told me Not to respond to him or beg him or anything now… if he asks a question, I respectfully answer and that’s It
Anyone else randomly hearing in the spirit, Michael Jackson’s man in the mirror?? (Wow! As I styled this, she said God is holding a mirror up to your spouse.) I’ve released even though I know there’s still remnants because I still occasionally catch myself watching videos like this. Smh.
Thank you my sister. I really wish I was hearing you at the beginning of this year but no matter. I’m hearing you now. I really appreciate you saying what you’re saying. I’ve been standing in the gap but it gives me added strength to not leave my post
GOD GAVE ME A DREAM AND CONNECTED IT FROM THE BOOK OF PHILEMON. AMEN. PRAISE GOD. HALLELUJAH 🙌 GOD CONFIRMED ALSO NOW THROUGH THIS VIDEO. AMEN. THANKYOU LORD. MY TRINITY GOD IS POWERFUL. MY JESUS ALMIGHTY 🙏 AMEN. GOD BLESS
Its so true seperated a year ago...and shes telling me she cares about me....and even gone onto trying to tell/teach me how shes been able to soldier on and move past and i should learn the same ways. She went onto saying she was a warrior....i smiled and thought just because i let go and allowed myself to feel all the emotions associated id say i was more the strong one allowing than blocking. She also throws in the odd you did this you said this....and ive done too much for her to forgive Ive forgiven her and dont hold a single thing against her. Its hard not seeing my kids.....but i know she doesnt see the bigger picture at all.
This is my word confirmation. I praise you Lord Jesus Amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️ please speck to myself prodigal in the mighty name of Jesus Amen. God bless you Sister Amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️
My ex never apologizes He truly believes that I am responsible for the demise of our 20 year marriage How can this be? I’ve been standing for 3 years and he is it budging Help
He had no dad but look doing same thing to his family. It's too painful I don't see God working cause this is hard for my kids too. Are only certain people chosen to go through such pain.
A father plays a very important role in a childs life,he is a teacher as well,no father the son makes poor choices and someone needs to show them to be there for their family it is modeled by a father,so your husband lacked all of that and he really don't know fully how to cope with his own life because of that lack
Amen testifying to the lose, he bought a new car few month the line it was stolen. The days he starting to reach out he said, he was thinking of how he would be saving when he was with me
I am currently going thru rejection,betrayal,lies and deception, in my marriage to the point he step out on me after a month of being gone for work. To the point he in love or lust with the other women and wants to divorce me so he can married her, at first she didn’t know he was married but now she know he is and she in love with him as well. He stop talking to me and only calls his kids I’m so confused out of 11 year marriage 16 years together and 25 years of knowing each other
my soul is raped. since February of this year (2023), I have live with SEVERE PTSD. every moment of every day: I live in a state of debilitated paralyzed frozen trauma. I'm all alone in this world. I am terrified and petrified. I live in complete hopelessness and utter despair. terror and panic constantly flood every cell of my being.
Trauma can definitely do that to us and the enemy will take advantage of that. I recommend checking out Katie Souzas ministry for help on healing those inner wounds and getting deliverance from the demons that have taken advantage of us in our traumatized state.
Taquila and fellow sisters and brothers in Christ .. I find myself at this very moment in a predicament. My prodigal, whom up onto 2 weeks ago had been having contact with me only regarding our son, out of nowhere, stopped communicating. Some days before communication stopped, we texted and it amazed me how much he mentioned God in his message, and how he would say "amen" to certain things i spoke to him about regarding God. But two days after such conversation, he stopped texting. Ive been feeling like sending him a message but something stops me. Ive been seeing "let go" everywhere . But, i would like to know if anyone has been through a situation like this and if so, what does it mean? He had always been quite responsible , wanting to know about our son so i just dont seem to understand
I been telling my gaslighting/narcissist husband what his spirit is and it isn't going to be working today! I arrest that demon spirit today in Jesus name! and I am not scared of it! and he knows it!
