Who's Marriage Material And How Do YOU Define It? - Out Loud With Claudia Jordan 

Preach that too these single women out here making there sons there partner🤔

Okay!

So true

Or how about men making there daughters their partner

@@msve3730 Honestly sis, it is all disturbing lol. Moms and sons and dads and daughters in place of partners. :-/

tribleA OWN just did Love Goals which is just rephrasing that Marriage Bootcamp show to make it seem as if it’s not ratchet 🕵️‍♂️😩. She’s fine here. 🤗

I agree. It's the illusion of endless choice, which devalues authentic connection.

Maybe there are a lot of broken people who just don't know what they are doing....

It's sad, so little patience these days.. 🤦🏾‍♂️

Microwave culture...not raised for the work for marriage imo

@Timothy Robinson man you are on♨️!!!

Carolyn Easley she’s the best version of Wendy Williams

@@workingonmyself she can hold her own with multiple guests and maintain the mic. I would love to see her guest host on The View.

@@carolyneasley8980 I'd like to meet you

@@carolyneasley8980 I'd like to meet you

@@richarddesimone7093 😕😳

She’s not bitter bcuz she’s the reason her relationships failed.

Of course she knows she is the problem and it took her years to acknowledge that.

Ohh please she’s probably psycho behind. Close doors

@@wannabegolfin24-72 XD

Exactly right...They act like it can't end at the drop of a hat like some actually do!

Most married people are unhappy that's why so many get divorced after the kids grow up hell 50% of people divorce in this decade

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@Tasheri SMH

Not for men it doesnt. Women initiate divorce 75% of the time, take half of shit and move on. Women are the problem. Smart men observe your behavior. We just avoid marriage and wont invest in women.Numbers dont lie. I never believe the words that come out of women's mouths because you all are manipulative by nature whether it's good or bad.

*Women

@@72180polo One of the biggest L's a man can take is coupling with a selfish woman. Bigger L is marrying her. I can tell you from experience, marriage has given my wife and I (most myself), some new tax benefits. When she is working, everything I would be paying as a single person is practically half-off. Marriage is not needed to build wealth, but for someone aspiring to be a millionaire, I am getting there faster because of it.

Marriage is an economic contract….people can change their life with certain partners

Your using her to build and move on I see this a lot in my career…your not fully built and need a womens help very much not Alpha

THANK YOUUUUUU!

Fla Gal exactly. career and money lasts for ever. A marriage can end in divorce and having to split your livelihood like all 3 of hers did

The sistahood doesn't like BWs who don't walk the party line. Good job, Miss Therapist.

She's telling herself that lie to get by to not answer the question honestly.

Yeah I see both sides. Think young women should meet their spouses in college or soon after. Think the waters are trickier as you get older. And you’re right everyone is not going to get married. Gotta enjoy your time on earth regardless. I’ve been on both sides of the fence. Both sides have perks .

God loves Couture Absolutely disagree your career is everything stop! 🛑🙄🙄💯💯

People define the marriage. It’s what you make it. A single parent home is just that, a single parent home. Mommas can’t be daddy’s and daddy’s can’t be mommas. I agree, make sure you know who you are and what you want. Honestly answer the question, “Do I really want to be married?” So if you don’t want to be married, then don’t. Sometimes, people wait too long because they are waiting for the next best thing to come along. I do feel that there are enough men to go around for women that they both want to be married, BUT people have been abused, mistreated, neglected, and miseducated that they don’t know who they are, what they want, or what they need. We weren’t built to be alone or lonesome, yet we endure it and allow it to define who we are. We excuse illicit behaviors as common, acceptable, and normal. We don’t want to judge or correct behaviors. We have no sense of sense nor common sense for that matter. We will learn lessons the correct way and allow feminism, friends, and followers to change our mind as well as who we are. We are logically confused and unbalanced spiritually without believing in a GOD that won’t give us what we want. HE only exists as a transactional exchange for average behaviors in how we behave. Faith is fiction and consequences are inconsequential. These long drawn out conversations lead to more conversations about the same topic, same conclusion, and same results as a result of not following the data shown from the conclusions that should have been learned. With all of the talent and resources with the research invested in these topics, there is less information demonstrated. We all are educated fools competing with each other to see which is right by saying the same thing each other is saying, but in a different way. We treat celebrities and reality tv stars as therapists and life coaches because we feel they have the magic advice to help solve our uncomplicated problems. And since mega churches and worship centers have become a part of arts and entertainment, there is no room to pray to GOD that we have dismissed a long time ago because HE let my ....... die or my father never loved me type deal. This madness ends when we decide to end it, but why end it when we are having so much fun being miserable. Okay, rant over... What was the statement again?!!?

Renee Smith she has a point tho she’s not saying don’t have a career she’s saying don’t hold off on a relationship because of your career

thank u!!!!

U better preach my sista

@Yoshiyahu Yisrael Hire some prostitutes.

Sex is the gateway to a man's friendship, because it's the key reason he wants to be around a women.

Riiight...

🤔I understand what you said. However, 2 points here... it's better too marry build a future cause you don't plan on divorcing. And and, I think she hit on this, you learn from each marriage what too look for. Side note; I rather be married a 1000 times rather single ALL the time an trying to make it. Cause the world was set up so that man an woman can make it.

Yes, bc she knows what not to do.

Yes, cause they have EXPERIENCE!

Most of y'all went to college and learned from people who don't do business in the field they're teaching you yet you think you're educated!

Lol I know! It's like rich people showing you ways to be happy even if you're poor.

I understand you it makes you doubt her advice.

@Amor Ankh Didn't say happily married. Just still married. That being said the point stands that a ring & a contract doesn't equate to a happy committed loyal relationship

I like to hear the good, bad & ugly. Sometimes you learn more when you know what not to do as Claudia mentioned.

Even a crack head has good advice... if they tell you to not be like them, are you saying that’s not good advice? Learn to unpack your own luggage. You know what baggage you have. What needs to be thrown away and what truly needs to be kept? What lessons to you think you’ve learned AND what lessons did you learn WRONG? What do you honestly think about yourself? The good, the bad, and the ugly.... Last but not least, what are your dealbreakers REGARDLESS of how the person looks, acts, and believes??? And stick with them as long as they are lofty , yet attainable as well as realistic...

Yes. But I'd like to hear what the other women on the panel have to say.

BITCH ............ YOU GET MARRIED WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT ......... MARRIAGE HAS NO AGE

Huh?

She seems like she's a little nervous because she may change her mind down the line and he probably will not.

@@lamonamaxwell6888 She is lucky. Most/msjority of guys dont even want to get married...and she as a guy that seems to be a decent dude who wants to marry are her. And she us NOT exactly a spring chicken either.

All of these broads are already post wall. Claudia is holding, though.

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I think it’s all about meeting the right person. What you’re saying is ideally the right thing to do,but like most cases, majority of women are more likely to date someone who has more security in terms of finance than they have. So, sometimes the list is too high for most men especially those with average income.

One minute y'all don't need no Man, the next you wanna build stuff lol. Most men ain't wasting their time with modern women. If I find a unicorn that is in the same tax bracket, maybe I'll consider it.

Women end relationships more than men. So I’d say it’s women who don’t want to pair up nowadays. Women see men as expendable because in the world of today you can pay someone to do the things for you that a husband used to have to do. Women feel if a man isn’t pretty much perfect they rather be alone.

Because she's been married 3 times and she's has learned alot from her relationships and has grown from it, are you perfect?

@@DefiningDiane Obviously she didn't learn anything. She is divorced. Unsuccessful 3 times and currently unsuccessful. So what did she learn????

@@DefiningDiane She's attractive, so some simp will always be willing. The fact she's been divorced three times tells me she can't be that good with relationships.

What does 'strong and independent ' mean to you? To most men, it means that you are masculine

No thanks ..... you sound like a headache already with that strong black women bullshit !

Aww thank u!!!!!!

At 34, you really shouldn't wait, time is really of the essence and your at your prime. Get a good man, get married and have babies.

No not her. This other girl that I never hear from anymore cause she's reformed now. SMH

@@claudiajordanreal Awww, you responded ☺☺

It’s so good that you know that about yourself, though. I dated a guy like that and broke it off 3 months in because he was non social, and couldn’t compromise, but I felt like he knew that about himself already. Just gotta find someone like you, maybe someone who is high functioning Asperger’s.

Wow self accountability..it goes a long way into not blaming other people all the time!

Idk..actually building is rare for both genders in the current generations. The image of being successful..yes but actually building..very rare imo

K Nichole , I agree

Some women should be good to go...

It’s healthier for men because women take care of the men. You ever seen a man on his own (some men). Lawd they are out there looking a mess lol.

Thank you...truth.

@Ndi Guess what your parents were right. These same guys you not marrying im sure you didnt stay celibate whilst with them. Just meet a guy e.g. maybe ticks 70% as that woman said and just work things out Stop having multiple partners only to just say theyre not right for you when theyve done knocked off your boots north to south. Your parent speak wisdom. Limit your body count. You are NOT a VIRGIN hence you do not have the same OPTIONS as a virgin.

I spot a hotep🙄

Wonder how much she made from her marriages