Who's To Blame For This Type Of Woman? 

This most likely has contributed to the fact that more and more young people are single right now ...

The problem is, there’s ALWAYS a higher value male. It never ends, just like how there’s always a hotter girl.

A fear that has been brewing inside me is that "this type of woman" will become the norm and that the oncoming generation will depreciate what is seen as "high quality traits" in men.

"I'm not flaunting myself for attention, I'm just celebrating my individuality" blah blah. This facade adds to the problem .

Men for giving likes. And parents for allowing it. Even older women are doing it. I used to laugh at these types of people. Now it's the norm. Wasters

Female here, Months ago I have completely deleted my Instagram and social media presence, and I agree with everything you are saying Alex. It is all just poison to our society and relationships. I now focus on the people around me and make sure to be my best self and make them happy. I refuse to be a part of this nonsense and trash

I've never been in a relationship with a girl being very socially active on IG/FB and I'd make sure to keep it that way. When you try to seek attention online you are a low value female. I actually had to turn down a girl I was very attraced to just because after a few dates I saw how active she was on IG posting selfies all day getting lots a beta male attention. It simply turns me off in every way possible.

'....women are so much better at hiding their competitiveness...' Or is it that the gynocentric social circle that revolves around them enables them to be as hypocritical and dishonest as they choose.

Used to hangout with a girl who had 4 thousand followers on insta. I asked her how many photos she took of herself a day. She said at least 50 photos a day. I was genuinely Shocked and disturbed

Quit taking responsibility for other people's choices.

Us men is just as responsible. If it wasn’t as much or no simps at all, the women would be acting wayyyy different.

As hard as it is gentleman, you just gotta ignore women nowadays. Don't give them respect unless they earned it. I don't mean to be rude or spiteful, just treat them like a stranger and that's it.

Social Media has exposed the dark underbelly of the human condition: Ego and Apathy

Sometimes, I wish I was born 50 years ago when there was no social media

Can you talk about Only Fans and how its being fueled by an epidemic of lonely men?

When my daughter is old enough I’m going to have her watch your videos. And the social dilemma. She’s going to be really upset when she’s 12 and I won’t let her have a cell phone.

I’ll never forget this interaction I once saw. A girl I was talking to who was quite popular on IG was stopped in the street by a guy who said he’s been following her for ages. Nothing to crazy he said he likes her pics n said have a nice day. When he left I looked to her ready to see if she’d bask in the “fame” or be embarrassed but infact she was actually shaken up. She said she never thought of the likes as real people and was quite scared. Deleted her IG same day. This was over 5 years ago so I don’t think women today would be so freaked out, but was 100% an eye-opener for me, and since then I've never saw likes, as anything else other than a measure of popularity online.

Instagram gives women endless access to high quality men, the only way to attract them is to show skin. Cuz what else they have to offer?

I rejected low quality women. After years they still stalk me and still single.

i really like this channel. its not one of those stupid "alpha male" channels. it actually makes decent arguments.

"The competition is over, she has won." That mindset, Alex, is one of the most dangerous and most common mindsets people have when looking at family life. Especially us guys, we think of that as "the finish line". It's not. It's just the start of a new game. If not for you, then for your children. They have to do everything all over again that you just did to "finally arrive" at the finish line. Except that they never asked to play that game.

Because of this I deleted all my social media accounts 8 months ago (Facebook, Instagram, even WhatsApp) and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. Pure happiness, self respect, no more bosting girl's ego and free time to do productive things. Life is so much better and real since now.

We're all to blame. We've created an absolutely degraded, miserable society together.

It's crazy 95% of girls on Instagram have posted skin lmao.

"What is the meaning of life?" Fictional answer: 42 Evolutionary answer: Procreation of genes for the sake of it. Circular logic. Moral answer: Reaching escape velocity.

The problem isn't on the competition.... Men compete aswell with the difference that men can immediately draw a line and say this is how far im going to get and adjust their life based on their looks career and status.... They won't try to compete with models and rich dudes... But whamen on the other hand get so much validation based on their ability to have one night stands and look good that they don't actually have to improve to a point saying im worthy.... In their mind they are worthy and they will always be because they were validated for that and for this i blame men.... Hold whamen accountable... Reject them and don't validate them and see how fast they become dependent on your opinion or they go crazy at you.... Men's job isn't only sticking a pole inside a vagina.... It's keeping women's head down to earth

Instead of living in the moment women take pictures of everything, every second, every minute on a date. Its annoying.

Some girl shown me her instagram and asked me what i think about her photos. I said its weird when women show those pictures to all those weirdos in basements and she deleted an account. I feel like the way to stop women from using instagram is making them realize that people liking their pictures are weirdos that they dont want.

I agree so much with this. It’s easy to lose yourself on social media and you don’t really notice you’re doing it until it’s too late. It really takes some conscious awareness to change your behavior and reevaluate your core values. Social media has made us clones with a false sense of individuality.

Great conversation piece Alexander. It frustrates me that society doesn’t create the ability to have such discussions without it leading to absolute male crucifixion. The status quo with such topics is that female competition is purely a product of the patriarchy, and if that’s not the first reason that is drawn, it will usually be the concluding one. There’s no deeper thought or analysis placed beyond the standard societal narrative with these things, and to do so, even with intelligence and maturity, means to be met with immediate criticism and, if applicable, de-platforming. The ability to reason and question things is so human, natural, and most importantly - necessary to human intellect and maturity, yet, we are highly discouraged from doing such things and indirectly taught to just accept what we are taught as truth... What dangerous times we live in.

"Attention from low-value men was a survival liability." Only if those men are orang utans. As long as she can get simps to do all kinds of services for her by leading them on, that definitely makes life easier for her. 😉

Behavior like this STILL unappealing to high quality men. They just never see them.

It's something contributed from both sides. Men's fault for being weak and giving attention in the wrong areas where it's undeserved. Women's fault for seeking attention in the wrong area and for taking advantage of the week lemmings that desire a smidge of affection. It's the fault of the silicon valley moguls that created this toxic system and it's the fault of society that has agreed to this deceiving standard of human interaction.

My list of blame before I watch the vid: 1) Men: they need to stop giving women too much attention. Some attention is okay, but no too much. 2) Other women: they need to stop being so overly concerned with how they look and stop being such simps for pretty girls. If you look at any female instagram post you'll find that most of the likes are actually from other women. Women borderline worship beautiful women. 3) The "self-esteem movement": In most societies of times past, like the Mayan one for example, humility and gratefulness was something that was taught. But now, esp in America, the self-esteem movement has gone way too far and created people who haven't practiced humility in any form and therefore don't know what it looks like or how it's better. 4) Parents: This goes along with point 3. Also, parents, for whatever reason, simply allow their children to do just about anything they want and have just about any attitude they want without consequence. 5) Society in general: Society in general tolerates bad behavior from women. It also gives women (esp attractive ones) free "stuff", like attention, admiration, and material things, without getting anything in return. 5) The individual woman: In the end, each person is responsible for themselves. While they should be given a measure of consideration, a person doesn't really need to be told that showing off their body everyday on the internet is at least a little conceited. The fact is that the world is really messed up these days. Not in America or in regards to women, but in every way. Societies in the past, while messed up in their own right, generally had better average, day-to-day, person-to-person interactions. The neighborhood had trust in each other. Even back in the 50's it wasn't anything for a little girl to go visit the old man next door. They were taught respect for everyone. Also, they were taught, and forced, to honor their word. Humility was considered a good thing and taught by parents to their children. I understand that many believe that things have always been this way. While that's true to an extent, I assure you that in most societies of the last 6000 years had more of a measure of morals than societies all over the world do today. It's simply that people have gotten used to how things are and things have changed so gradually that people don't see it unless they study, in-depth, how societies of the past acted and believed.

The problem is never the product. Kids didn't shoot up a school because of video games. Why always the excuses for their behavior?

simps and weak men are to blame we give them too much attention and power , it is our fault let's not forget it.

Girls love to feel desired. It's not that they are interested in being a great girlfriend or sharing herself with a guy, it's the high she gets of knowing a man finds her an object of desire.

I was already thinking it was time for me to delete FB, now I'm set on it.its a dumpster fire.

I swear I female friend of mine said that about guys that use to talk to her. She hated when guys she didn't like tried talking to her.

Big fallacy - Tribal Society WAS NOT Free Competition (Laissez Faire) The idea that a person was free to choose whatever mate they wanted is actually very very "new" in human history. In tribal societies, there were other influences besides only "what an individual wanted". Often the parents, extended family, and even in some cases the whole tribe was involved in forming couples. Very often selection of mates was related to the preservation of a familial line, ensuring peace, and other social issues were much more important than "free choice" of the people involved. Instincts might explain the Instagram phenomenon, but the social situation of the current (Western) society is truly something unique in human history.

I remember in one episode of The Simpsons, where Homer and Marge were watching tv at night in an Alternate future, Marge remarks that she didn't realize how gradually FOX turned into a Porn channel. This reminds of that.

They have the agency to decide not to act like trash. It's their choice, no one else's fault.

Bro i seen girls 4 year old with smartphons why dahell dose a 4 year ood needs a smartphon

The narcissistic entitled behavior has created broken women, and modern feminism it's what sealed the deal

I have been with a lot of girls who had the potential to be high quality women. The only real girlfriend I have ever had rarely uses Instagram and doesn't any photos to show off her skin and she is better physically, mentally, intellectually and emotionally! She doesn't wear make up to go to work in, she rarely wears it and only does if we are doing something (going out for meals or a few drinks with friends). It is hard to find these types of women!

Wait a moment, Alex.. when you said it makes low value men an anonymous asset, doesn’t this apply to onlyfans at all?

I'm from '75 and I grew up in a world that didn't have Instagram, TikTok and this kind of stuff (my 1st 33.6kBps modem was when I was 16...) and I well remember that when I was around 20 I started to think that the best girls around there were those that, being pretty, were NOT aware of this. Because if you're not aware that whatever you can do your beauty will make you have an easier life (until you're young...) then you'll put effort into becoming a better person. Instagram, among the rest, is destroying all this :(

From my wifes, rather small, circle of girlfriends the "pretty" ones are all single and jumping from bad relationship to the next, generally only happy for a short few weeks and then miserable for the next 4 or 5 months until breakup (I know because, she, being happily married and with a wonderful kid has to "listen" to their complaints, the "why cant I have your luck" and "help" them along while they keep doing the same mistakes over and over), meanwhile "less pretty" ones are all (except one) in stable - and to my limited knowledge: happy - relationships. I wonder if this "less pretty" factor actually helps boost their overall attractiveness to "not jerk" type men, focus their aim towards attributes that better fulfil their goals and therefore contribute to their general happiness.

This is also a reason why now the most attractive women are NOT the highest quality anymore. Odds are if shes at least an 8 shes getting a ton of online attention, has thousands of followers, etc. If you've ever talk to a 9 or a 10 anymore odds are they are completely bland with no personality, no sense of humor, completely self absorbed, etc. And it might not be ideal but honestly 6's and 7's are where its at. They have usually had to develop a personality and other traits in order to be more successful and it has made them the most ideal girls, for me at least. They dont get the online attention that would inhibit their other intangible qualities. A lot of them like to have fun and be actual normal people.

Every day I'm starting to think about how Islam actually tackles and solves these problems

When I was younger, I thought "these social media made women acting like acting divas", but now I'm older and wisher, and I found that social media is in our favor, because by examining a particular girl's profile and her posts you can learn a lot about her character

Congratulations, Alex, on giving me yet one more reason not to want to have ANYTHING to do with women!

You cant stress that recommendation for that netflix documentary "The social dilemma" enough. That docu changed my life and my perspective on so many things in such a impressive way.

You definitely couldn’t say this to a woman in this day in age because girls are on these platforms posting ass cracks and skin etc etc and in the caption it’s “self love” “My body my rules” And there always seems to be some hippie caption that doesn’t really mean anything.

As soon as a girl does that, it's a complete turn away for me...

Not blaming women in particular but just look at tiktok: Boys: being funmy making memes Girls: Thoting around seeking for likes and validation... Deleted snapchat eons ago since its boring and most of the people i dont even know. Instagram only for friends and memes Never had facebook (thank god) Social media is not a help at all its like fastfood for social interaction

So I'm high quality human just for watching your videos ?! Aww thank you

Very impressive how you break down those behaviors that apparently make no sense into a very clear reasoning

Point to stand out: what about these girls that decide to start a relationship and keep the same dynamics they had on their social media back to when they were single?

As a father of a girl I’m also worried about how social media will reprogramm her. We’ve seen suicide rates among young women more than double since the advent of the likes of IG so I’m really concerned.

Great video Alex ! Probably one of the most interesting videos on your channel. I totally agree with what you've said. Basically we live in a fake world where the majority of people suffers from an imposter syndrome. Everyone is trying to live a life of some celebrity or a successful person instead of discovering themselves and reaching their own greatness. People are fake and are wasting their potential. They pretend to have an amazing life on social media while they suffer from depression and insecurity. This does not apply only on women, but of course you are right, social media platforms have changed women into selfish, unforgiving & greedy ones.

You are not legally allowed to look at a woman for more than 5 seconds for it is a crime now so why are women allowed to continue to show off their bodies at all? Isn't that illegal too? Remember, the rule of law enforces "reciprocity" therefore the women need to be charged with crimes! You can't blame gasoline for being flamable but you can blame/charge someone who uses gasoline to commit a crime! Actions are the crimes not the existence of the object!

Media and feminism

I feel like you're saying the same thing with more steps. Social media does reveal true natures of women. I agree with your view too. Both things can be true. As far as social media corrupting potentially high quality women, that seems like a method of taking away accountability for individual women. Showing skin is easy, and you make a distinctive choice when you do.

Blame? It's mediocre behavior to blame. It is what it is. Don't be a victim.

Social media has given women more access to both high value men and tons of simps worldwide, making it hard for them to be with one guy because of how much attention they can get. They can easily DM that high value man they desire and possibly get a reply, and they have all their simps to fall back on if that doesn't work.

Give the children what they need Not what they want

Men is to blame of these type of women. With no compliments, flirting and giving them money they wouldn't have done this.

Thank you for creating this video! One of the best and most informative videos on this channel.

definitivly right 100% if I start dating a pretty solid girl and find out shes pretty active on Instagram it turns me off alot becouse even without watching this video I knew that all before... its some kind of behavior like a low Q. guy in a club walking and talking to every woman in this club trying to get laid instead of picking a girl he realy likes watchs out for a good moment to make a good first impression or something like that. They are aware of this guy running to every girl and that needieness behavior turns them off aswell. Guess you know what I mean. I know those girls dont try to get laid by all the followers but its disgusting to know they realy value the attention of those simps and the needie behavior behind that... needing validation from random people online to appeal better then other woman... seriously? are there realy men out there which think a woman is higher quality or prettier just becouse the number of her likes is higher then the other? ..... instagram is so wrong and a waste of time.

There was also no welfare for women to leach off of rather than settling for an available mate.

Fathers

(Read the title) Answer: simps

If there is competition amongst women, it is only a small percentage of them. A much larger percentage seem to not care at all. They are the 300 pound ones. The hot ones also are ONLY thinking about beauty and NOT any other qualities because they end up having a kid VERY VERY early on, which absolutely destroys their chances at getting a decent guy. Ultimately, I think that women are not competing for men, but rather just status to put themselves above other women. No woman needs an instagram to get the best guy. If she's hot enough, all she needs to do is literally walk up to him and ask him out. It's easy.

Yes I was just talking to my freinds about how much I don't like it

I do agree with your views; however, I've witnessed women posting photos on social media only for that top guy to notice. In the end, it was funny how they would get pissed off when only the low value men would like these photos instead.

Im 57 years old and I think what you're doing here is very important. I hope younger men and women will be exposed to your videos and model their lives accordingly. This video is among your very best. Thank you.

I am not competitive because I don’t want what most women want: marriage and kids so they can advertise it publicly how good their lives are and how respected in the society are. I just want to have fun. I don’t care about what anybody thinks of me. I’ll always be hedonistic. Women like me have no friends because all women hate women like me. Lol

The thumbnail is on spot🤣🤣🤣

The best thing us Men can do to combat this is to not validate her. Let her army of beta orbiters do that.

Gotta be a sad way to live.

5:45 (ish). Mmmm, I have to disagree with THAT male perspective, Alex. That "alpha" male, back in the day, that saw those 2 together, and wanted that woman, likely killed or exiled that male, and any children that the female already had. Sad to say, but that IS the animal kingdom. We have been animals far longer than we have been civilized.

THE FUTURE WILL ONLY BE DOORDASH DRIVERS AND ONLY FANS.

You can blame the parents. It’s ok.

The problem is that tec is not for evrybody

Weak fathers and our gynocentric society...

“Some humans are better than others.” I believe many have trouble grappling with that.

Very valuable points. Shame would be a natural feeling to avoid this behavior. But sadly, shame is often forgotten when women see so many other women exposing themselves and think it is normal. Every man who does not validate this behavior is helpful!

Their fathers

Very insightful and spot on to look at this. It always comes back to the fact our nature hasn't changed back from 10 000 years ago, yet modern life is really different of course and adds tons of new elements. And since FB creators played on human nature with dopamine hits to get and keep attention, many others have since followed, quite successfully too. As these FB creators said, attention is the new currency. So these apps and games and all take our primal elements and exacerbate them for gains. These teen girls grow up in this.

Females are extremely competitive

Brilliant, and completely true. Good women are becoming just... Crap. Videos like this and content creators like you make me a better man. Thank you

You post at 5am? Why am I awake?

The reasons woman aren't friends.

juden

It's my policy to never Like or compliment someone on Social Media when the only thing on display is their looks/sexuality. If everyone did this, they'd actually have to do something for people that was meaningful to get their praise. Unfortunately it will never happen, as giving Likes and compliments is too cheap for us, and too satisfying for them.

The logic that everything goes back to tribal times is a issue. We don’t know what it was like back them. That is a leap in logic that doesn’t stand up.

Instagram is great - It will show you how she Th0Ts & how often. Makes them easy enough to avoid. Ps - given a long enough time frame - they will all Th0T .... I have yet to see an exception yet, I suspect that I never will.

Also due to individualism in western society

What you said at about 5:40 is the most I've ever actually felt understood before. I consider myself a high quality man by many metrics, and I find myself becoming unattracted/disinterested all the time just for finding out who they've been with and who they choose to give flirtatious attention to. If I find out she's been with/flirting with a man I believe to be low quality, I assume that SHE is low quality and I discard her entirely from my options, or will downgrade her to "maybe I'd hit it once for fun, but I never want a girl like that as any kind of serious partner." Definitely something for the opposite sex to consider. If you have bad judgment and have a track record of dating losers, it permanently damages your chances with higher quality men. We base what you want on what you've gotten and what we see you going after, since there's nothing stopping you from being with men who aren't losers except your own decision. This is why we aren't really judged for who we've been with in the same way, because it's not up to us - we don't get our pick of the lot the way you do.