Who would you be if no one was watching? 

Luca Luck, I applaud your courage, strength and tenacity to rise above the challenges of your first 18 years...best wishes to you in your new life. 🙂

My heart swells and heals resonating with the two of you and your love.

Yes! To the call -in Frasier idea. How wonderful. You are so needed Danny!

@@tlotus3032 Thank you and Shell thank you, thank you for leaving comments and your comment brighten my heart , now I know not only Anita is out there to care, but there are people/ strangers / human out there who also cares. I am still searching for my very own Danny haha

I send you a lot of love, Luca Luke! You are so brave and powerful! Always remember that you are so loved and deserve to be happy, healthy and have a wonderful life! You can heal yourself! I wish you all the best! 💖

Penny Shinta - hi Penny -& it’s true 😆

Prayer Mat! :-))))))) funny!

Mine is 1. Doormat 2. yoga mat :)

Ella 🤗😊🙏🏼

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God bless

I hope this may help you. Whenever I begin telling someone of my NDE and, or the events leading to it and following it, I have usually sensed that they are not only open to hearing about it but that it may be helpful to them because of something they are going through in their lives. I don’t know how it comes to me that they are open or in need of hearing it so I can’t truly explain that to you. I just know and in the same way I can also feel when someone is not ready to hear it. That is really what it comes down to. People who cannot accept what we want to tell them are just not ready for it at that time. Perhaps more helpful; whenever I do start telling people of my experience I tell them before they tell me, that it may sound crazy to them. I often even make light of it saying something like, “maybe I am”. “Without doubt based on my experience I will be the first one to admit that my sense of reality may be different than yours. My sense of reality may be very different than a lot of people.”

photography by...Mark Myhaver. Thank you Mark, at first I was talking about it, and people started telling me it was all in my mind, in other words I was making it up or imagining. For me it became my experience my journey I didn’t want to hear any negative comments, it was hard enough for me to understand what was happening, brain injury is very confusing. People see your outside shell and think you are ok, I was able too see what others couldn’t. , I completely detached from the material things I felt between two world, the other one was better, it took a very long time to ground myself. Now I only speak with those who needs some guidance and I think I can help with my experience. I had to do a lot of self healing because even the neurologist would say to me you can’t take medication can’t help you. When Anita’s book came to me I was wondering if I wanted to continue with the life that I was living, I was very sick at the time, it give me hope, I know everyone’s experience is different and a different level too. God bless

MariLu Navamu I can relate to that. I spent weeks in coma, experiencing the afterlife, while a team of doctors were repeatedly telling my loved ones that I could not and would not survive. When I did come out of the coma it was a shock to me. I felt like I wasn’t suppose to be back in this realm. As I have told many people dying was not the hard part, coming back or what I now call re-entry was. I went through a very dark period during which I was still very sick, in and out of hospital and physical rehabilitation facilities. I’m leaving a lot out because it is very complicated and lengthy but I had to learn basic things like eating and walking, all over again. My sister had given me Anita’s book during that time but I was not ready to read it until months later. Suddenly during my last time in hospital, which was exactly a year from when I first got sick, I couldn’t wait to get out of there and read it. “Dying To Be Me” made a huge difference for me. I had already started to turn around but Anita’s book helped me understand what I had experienced and how I could have that same feeling of fearlessness and unconditional love while still being in this realm. Shortly after finishing the book my daughter surprised me with one of Anita’s speaking engagements that coincided with being local to me and also the first day I walked outside on my own without even needing a cane. I did not know I was going to see Anita until just prior to her coming on stage. My daughter had the book with her. I met Anita & Danny afterwards and she signed the book. Meeting her was an incredible experience. I felt just like I was back in the next realm when I was with her. We have an incredible gift to have experienced everything we have. I just want to tell everyone about it and save them from having to suffer a trauma to know about it. I know that everyone is not ready to hear it though. Just like I as not ready to read the book when I was first given it. I have learned though that it truly doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Anyone else’s opinion of me is simply non of my business. I know what is perceived by most people to be real and what is really real. Blessings and much love to you.

photography by...Mark Myhaver I understand exactly what you say, I was not in a coma, I was out of the hospital that week, they said to me you are not internally bleeding you are ok, the pick up truck the hit me in a parking lot, dragged me, broke my head. I lost consciousness many time I was hit from behind so I didn’t really know what happened I was told. While unconscious I experience the most wonderful feeling of love and care, a voice that kept telling me everything is going to be ok. Do not fear. Who wants to come back from that? The same thing kept repeating as I was in and out of consciousness. I only had 7 stitches I was lucky. I was not able to walk for almost 3 month my right side was completely paralyzed, but in their eyes I was ok, my husband became that half. with no guidance I was sent home. I knew when I came home things were not right I felt like I didn’t belong and that’s when everything started to unfold. It took them 6 months to diagnose me with left frontal lobe injury I had symptoms from other part of the brain but the frontal was the biggest one. I lost almost all of my communication skills, he spoke for me, my brain would shut down if too many information was giving to me, couldn’t read, processing was very slow, emotions lost, for the first two and a half year I received no help because I couldn’t take any medication my system was no able to process them, every time they prescribe any med I end up in the ER with all the side effects of the medication all of them. So it was easy for them to say we can’t do anything for you. But my will to live since I was here and my out bringing give me the courage to seek help any where I could and of course my husbands support. So Anita’s book was part of that, reading other people’s experiences. Till a friend recommended a place in Miami that had help me tremendously to get my brain back in track, the old me die the day of the accident and a new me was born that day, for a while it was very hard I was dealing with two people so imagine the confusion for me and those around me, so I chose me and concentrate on my recovery, everyone’s opinion was not my concern. I am happy that you got to meet her, what a great gift from your daughter. Blessings my friend

N Kh it's interesting what you just wrote,because I do the same thing. Whenever I have a difficult moment think about her and try to remember certain wisdom's that calm me down. Agree with you :-)

Hi Anita, love your messages.