I think I understand what she means. I lost my mother in September 2020. Hospitalized over a 2 week period. Lost my brother the following October to a brain tumor. I never really broke down like you would expect. Like I. The movies, SOBBING… I’m sad when I think at times and have shed tears, but nothing was left unsaid.
She said she had thoughts to join from that shock love and loss and not having them around! Sometime you just want that presence of a person … sounds like that was what she missed then to realize she was complete because they left nothing unsaid.
Absolutely agree!! When she says she wasn’t wrecked by the loss I get what she means, it’s not that you don’t miss them terribly or don’t have bouts of sadness and crying but it’s not the kind of grief that paralyzes you to where you can’t get out of bed , and in those moments of pain a person can flirt with the thought of not being here anymore so they can join their loved ones on the other side. Now if you’re making plans of how to do it and writing a goodbye letter, then you better talk to someone and get some support.
