Because control - does not exist for them. They exist as Self-Control. I would hate to have to cross-myself. As if I had an evil opposite doppelganger/clone. Although one can remember when one had to exert self-control through out life by opposing temptations and vices I'm opposed to. I mean, we all do that, right?
Kind of yes, womens entire existence is about honing their skills of manipulation to control their environment due to lack of physical strength and without it they would feel not only powerless but useless, sigma's put up a mirror that reflects how useless they are which honestly would turn anyone off, this however does not count for the nurturing type of women
Good point about setting firm boundaries and zero tolerance for any disrespect or double standards. Other key words are TRUST, COMPATIBILITY and RESPECT. When lines are crossed, good quality men are DONE and WALK AWAY never to return.
I don't know I am sigma male or not.i may or may not have all quality but I don't tolerate crossing boundaries and retaliate as much as I can if some one do so.And of course I have never cared in my life what people thinks about me.Let them think.If I know I am in right path the hell what people or whole world thinks
@@titudutta298There are different sigma males. Some have attractiveness to woman, which makes them available for relationships, by how much the woman puts in the effort. So those sigma males put up with more, because they are given more. That’s my thoughts being a sigma myself, but also revered being loved. Now divorced after 30 yrs, by betrayal, I’m indifferent to other woman again.
Thats true they prefer to have sex with a sigma male that they don't like as a human being but find incredibly masculine than having a long lasting relationship with good, tradiional, hard working but less confident than sigma males ( fortunately there are exceptions that certain women won't have sex with a sigma because she doesn't like him as a human being but only see a very masculine men in them but thats all love and hate is close to each other thats the problem between men and women in this toxic modern society 🤔
No man is an island. Sigma males will accept being "controlled" by other men or by rulers of the society they answer to and are a part of, regardless of their opinion. True sigmas are either gay or criminals by the logic of this video.
As a sigma male i tried playing by “their rules” they simply don’t work. Those rules are created for their advantage, then I started making my “own rules” and found they work far better
Never again opening up to anybody unless they’re aiding me financially or otherwise. The only reason they want you to “open up” and “not be cold” is because they want to use you. This has been my 95% experience.
Just be you. The Sigma personality type was something I’d never heard of until I researched it and it opened my eyes. It helped me understand why I made the decisions I’ve made, how I feel about the world in general and that having the ability to cut ties with no regrets isn’t a bad thing. I’m happier, don’t lose sleep over trivial matters and knowing I have control over myself emotionally is more important than the approval of others. Embrace yourself as different and happiness will follow.
U GOTTA PEAY TO GOD FOR THE RIGHT WOMAN BROTHER. 🙏🏾READ PROVERBS 31 KJV VERSION. KING JAMES VERSION. IN JESUS'S NAME. U DO HAVE TO HAVE UR GUARD UP MOSTLY N PRSY FOR THE RIGHT WOMAN. NOT ALL ARE USERS..MSYBE 70-80% ARE. N SOME AREN'. OR 60%-70%.
I wondered why women react to me the way they do. They expect all men to act the same and can't comprehend why you don't act the way they expect. Not all men are going to be their " pets ".
I'm a tall, successful sigma male, yet I haven't been able to keep a relationship going for more than a couple of years. My last girlfriend actually complained that I am "too independent". I had no idea that could be a bad thing.
A refreshing and realistic "take" on Sigmas - much better than the ego-stroking videos claiming women find Sigmas irresistable. I'd add two other reasons: 1) Sigmas are often "loners" or at least can seem that way, and women find loners scary. There are many negative associations around being a "loner" (e.g., deranged psycho, pervert, can't maintain a relationship, etc). 2) Women rate men according to social status/power, and the Sigma's lack of a social network is felt by women to represent a lack of social status/power.
As a Sigma I have a very robust social circle. I’m a loner, so I tend to keep 3-4 circles of friends. Not necessarily best friends but people I enjoy hanging out with when there nothing else to do or no better options. Also, social status doesn’t necessarily require you to be extremely outgoing and talkative all the time. For example, at my gym I’m not the super friendly/talkative guy but everyone knows me and daps me up, everyone sees I’m usually training the hardest and having the most fun doing it. While I don’t usually socialize with the majority of those people, my presence is definitely felt and random women I would bring to workout with me have said the same thing. That mysterious vibe is mesmerizing to a lot of women (especially when you’re also attractive).
Or its because you have very bad influence on him, like always want to get very drunk or something like that... Sometimes it can also just mean you are an a-hole.
@@incognito7843 Nice try. I respect relationships and marriages. Its 100% because I dont worship their wives every footstep and dont tolerate disrespect just to not start an argument. Most of my friends wives love me when first meet. But dislike me when I stand up for my friends instead of them whom I just met. Or get pissed when i dont want to date their newly, single Mom friends who are looking to house them and their kids just like they are doing.
And make this one make sense. They're mad at us for reacting to them in the same way they would to us and men who worship the ground they walk on. Yeah, sounds like a narcissist to me.
They're upset because we don't put them on a pedestal and instead respond to them the same way they do to us. That behavior sounds a lot like narcissism
@@user-iq4uf7dd6h Yup, we can't be tamed with vagina LOL 😂. We'd rather just tamed ourselves by doing and pursuing something that benefits us,and us alone.
@@AprendizDeLoQueTocaThat book should be a mandatory read for every man on earth, coincidentally, it’s impossible to get new on paper. What a coincidence……
I was the kid of a single mother. Regarded by society only in its sympathy for my existence, I am just as invisible now at 55 as I was then. This gained me Jedi levels of self awareness which has lead me to being a peaceful ghost. The only time women seem annoyed around me is when they figure out that I don't care they are intentionally ignoring me. I see right through them.
My wife asked me once why don't you have any friends to hang out with. I simply told her I don't really need friends but your my friend. I'm quite okay with being a loner at work or in social environments. I've been told I think too much. She told me I often wonder what goes on in that your mind of yours. It's in my nature and it's who I am. Of course, this was years ago and today she understands me better.
I'm a sigma , and women don't know what to think of me , because I never accept their BS and walk away forever, I' m not afraid to be alone, and I don't crave attention .
I appreciate my wife of 20 years because she knows what I am and accepts it. If I don't want to do something, I won't do it. She also knows she can go and do whatever she wants with her friends and I'll never say a word, because I love being alone just as much as I love spending every day with her.
I'm 61 and never married but I've had lots of girlfriends (lots of them), not trying to brag but it's just the way it is. What I've learned is this...the things they love you for in the beginning, they'll hate you for later.
As a Sigma myself, i can say that they hate me. Simply because i'm not as social as alphas, i do not give a damn if they like what i say or not. If they try to bullshit me, i'm instantly putting an end to it while telling her how she tried to bullshiet me, exposing her completly, women hate that. They DESPISE when you're able to predict their moves or what they're gonna say. And only sigma can do that, we're observing, we're analysing situations, everything is like an investigation, to me. People, situations, interactions, etc ... Being one step ahead of everything, it feels good, like for real, everything is figured out upfront, no surprises.
That’s also why sigmas understand how ignorance can be bliss. The only way for a sigma male to have a relationship with a woman, is to entertain her without thought. Thought of as simps, but in reality, sigma males who understand what a woman wants. When he’s had enough, things go south. He’s also under constant attack from her associations, to keep him. When he’s done, he’s able to move on.
I am a Sigma male and I agree with all your points which portray this type of man. I have also been married for 41 years to just one woman and I chose her for her unique and wholesome properties. My two sons are also Sigma males and watching them interact with their wives' they most definitely have absolute control of their relationship. Feminism sits in last place.
I'm always Misunderstood but I Don't Care !!! I'm 70 yrs old and have no time for People. I have my own place, 3 Motorbikes, 2 Dogs and my X Box Series X. So People can all go and Get Stuffed !!!
Nah just cause he’s talking about his bikes, dogs and Xbox doesn’t mean it’s always been that way. 70 is a lot of mileage, I’m sure there’s more to it that you don’t know about.
I am almost 70 y.o. Being old and grumpy is my explanation for adhering to my standards, morals and ethics. I have added indifference i.e. Live and Let Live, Live and Let Die. People can suffer the consequences of their actions. I am too busy surviving until the day comes when I take my final breath.
I am a sigma male. I can confirm that worldwide, even in SE-Asia where i am currently and where the women love white males no girl even talks to me. Good for my semen retention streak (7 months without fail).
Most of this is incorrect - they're things women actually love. The biggest reason women wouldn't want a sigma is because status is the bottom line with women, and sigmas are outside the whole status game.
So many sigma males. So many single (female) parent boys. So many men who are starting to understand how they and their fathers were used and manipulated. Coincidence?
What happens when it is Sigma Male+ Sigma Female? I would argue that you get a relationship where neither partner is dependent on the other but forge a relationship with a fierce Loyalty to each other. This foregoes the possibility of insecurity, jealousy and doubts about mutual loyalties. My wife, bless her heart , has been both tolerant and accepting of my propensity to step outside our respective comfort zones. We have found our strengths to be complementary and work well together as a team.
Non-conformist's perspective is different, they have re-cognised and appreciate lives' alternative rhythm. They're not malevolent, they still contribute but reconfigure and simplify their life style while being independent autonomous and largely self reliant. Others find their insular intelligence intimidating.
I've noticed that, they can look at me and tell. Last week a cute 20 something year old was flirting hard with me, I'm almost 60 but I don't conform to old. 😂
My wife has learned that the things she wants to change about me will never change. Been married 19 years this year. She used to complain/yell constantly when we were younger because I liked to play video games in my spare time after a long day of work. Long story short, I still play video games today as a way to unwind. She gets it now. I don't just sit around and do nothing either. I've build most of the house that we live in, and she knows I'm capable of doing anything she wants done to the house. I'm currently working on leveling the back yard to install a pool for us and the kids. But I do it on MY time. She leaves me to it and knows that it may take awhile, but I'll get it done. On the gaming front, I've always told her that I'd love it if she would play the games WITH me. But... she's always "too busy", so that's a pipe-dream at this point. One can hope. Perfectly happy to play or work alone as well. I'm also a present and attentive father, but I'm NOT my kids "friend". I listen and I tell them all the time, that I'm better than a friend, because I'll always try to guide you toward the right decision if I can, and I'll never steer you in the wrong direction if I can help it. Most friends won't do that. They'll lie to you to make you feel better. I'll tell you the truth in what I think, and it's up to you to fix the problem. Hugs are mandatory after our talks. When my wife used to complain about the games, I didn't care what she thought. Because it's MY joy, and I'll keep doing it with or without her permission. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. It may hurt, but I'll be fine in the end. Of course, I'd rather she didn't, and just accepted me for who I am. Which gladly, I can say she does today. But it took time and patience, and more than a few tantrums from us both. Much better today. Bottom line, there are women out there that, if they practice a little patience and stop making demands for change, that may find themselves with a man that would do ANYTHING for them, given that they take a step back and respect the boundaries that we Sigma's set. We WILL finish what we set out to do. We WILL defend what we hold dear. BUT... we don't care if anyone else is watching as we do those things, or NEED people in our lives that require "maintenance" on a daily basis. Needy people need not apply with a Sigma.
A Real Sigma is independent man who can work interdependent when needed. This Ideology works in both in a personal, professional, and social. The Sigma presented here is more like an Omega not a Sigma.
I’m not going to argue with these observations because they, as generalizations about Sigma males, do have a basis in fact. However if you are truly Sigma male, who are not really rare but 1-5% of the population. Also keep in mind that this is a hypothetical characterization and not a scientifically validated one. Thus being a Sigma male is often misinterpreted. Particularly on line. The main attribute of a Sigma male is that you tend to remove yourself from social hierarchies or feel a need to dominate them. Other attributes are a focus on self improvement and personal autonomy, high intelligence, decisive and good decision makers and surprising leadership skills when there is a void or incompetence in leadership during crises situations. As a Sigma male who meets these characteristics I have found that if you understand yourself and focus on understanding women’s wants and needs that many of the characteristics of a Sigma male that on the surface appear negative with women can be positive attributes if you do understand women’s wants and needs. It is a paradox that the characteristics of a Sigma male can be a turn off and a turn on at the same time for women. As a Sigma male this can be to your advantage in attracting women. For example not always being emotionally available tends to keep women on their toes. Being focused on self improvement often makes Sigma males good providers. Being decisive and responsible and self accountable Sigma Males are often physically fit and physically attractive and reassure women that you’re a good protector. Add to that the element of mysteriousness is also attractive to women. So if you take the time to learn and understand women’s needs and can focus on meeting them you can use these positive qualities of a Sigma male to your advantage in relationship with women. Also, the qualities of being a Sigma male often discourages women you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with. Being a Sigma male can be advantageous because you are a peer of alpha males, which is why generally alpha males don’t like sigmas. The same applies with alpha females. Beta females are often attracted to Sigma males and beta females make up the majority of females. So this is not all doom and gloom for Sigma males when it comes to attracting females as part of a Sigma males focus on self improvement should be on improving your social skills with women. The sigma males who can do this are, as I have been, successful at attracting high value women.
I love her, but I'm not showing my love if she is dating all around. If she wants me, she can prove it, and I will love her forever. I'm not second best. Nor am I pretending about my strength and love for her.
If she dates around the only thing you need to show her is the door. Women are chameleons. She'll change to whatever you want her to be and then years into your marriage...BAM! She'll go full tilt cheater on you. Don't let that disguise fool you. If she's promiscuous now, a LTR leading to a magic ring, isn't going to change her.
Been called an A##hole more times than i can count, because of my indifference. Most of the time was when they were shit testing me. They didnt like my answer or i said nothing and walked away.
My last GF to the T. She never got it and was frequently creating drama to start a fight. I just didn't care, wouldn't follow her expectations, walked away when she was unreasonable and seldom lost my temper with her BS. There is a lot more but man she could get mad and really didn't like it when I disengaged and told her to go find a simp that would kiss her ass and put up with her sh**. Overall pretty good but used to being in charge and did not find a way to make us work.
I have always avoided "drama queens" and never had a personal relationship with one. I am blessed that I dated for long term term relationships, now decades ago. I am totally incompatible with there modern feminist women exemplified by their gaslighting, shaming tactics and double standards for attention and instant gratification.
A true, 100% sigma male isn’t going to care if 97% of women hate them … or even if 97% of everyone hates them. But, most people simply don’t fit neatly inside of a box labeled Sigma, Alpha, or Beta. They tend to “lean” in one direction or the other. If this was an all or nothing situation, no sigma men would ever pursue any relationships with women, or for any friendships whatsoever. I contend that a typical healthy minded and mature sigma male understands that building any close relationships involves a certain amount of give and take, even if that give doesn’t come natural to the sigma and needs to be “dosed out” in small, more infrequent amounts. The women in the sigma’s life will need to understand this, maybe even be of the same nature herself, to have a successful relationship with him. People in general (and today more than ever) expect others to happily “bend to their will” as a condition of love in a relationship but it never works that way. This is my issue with people these days expecting to find a “soul mate” and who don’t or can’t understand that anything resembling a “soul mate” is made, not discovered; from work, caring, and compassion. Nobody is perfect and you’ll nearly never meet or fall in love with someone who is the counterpart of yourself; who enjoys all the same activities, things, people, and has the same tastes as yourself. What they fail to understand is that being with someone that is unlike themselves gives them the opportunity to learn what other people are like, allows them to see life from someone else’s perspective, and (eventually) grow as a person. Anyone who is with someone who is unlike themselves but, in the end, finds their differences too great to remain together even though that person did not mistreat them yet feels the need to blame that person for their failed relationship rather than just realizing that some people just are not meant to be together have issues of immaturity, narcissism, insecurity, or a general lack of life experience or personal development. Most failed relationships with otherwise good and decent people should still leave you with some positive takeaways that will allow you insight into both others and yourself, provided you have the wisdom to see them.
Closer to 99.97%. Because in each of those women is a "princess who is seeking a handsome, successful man whom she can destroy with her emotional incontinence" (& Sigmas don't fall for it).
Found a SIGMA in our stationary cupboard at work. He had counted all the paper clips - and sorted them into small, medium, large and placed them into zip-lock bags. Then...he refused to tell me where each of those bags were. He said requests will be accepted, for up to 6 clips, - but only via the departmental intranet. I nodded to confirm that I heard the instruction. Then, I locked him in the cupboard....
I'm a Sigma male and I didn't even know it until I started watching these videos. I've always known I was different. I like being alone though I have many friends but my real friends can be counted on one hand too. I've never married (having just turned 70) although I like women I don't put up with any BS either. Which is tough to say without sounding like some kind of woman hating tyrant. I love women as well as myself! So if I don't speak up for myself who else is going to do it besides nobody?? Anyway I like learning about me regarding this Sigma male phenomenon because from what I've read/seen so far it makes a lot of sense...to me.
I feel we are misunderstood, but there is always more to the story, but I must say this was very entertaining and enlightening, things I have been trying to explain to women, now if only I could get all women to watch and understand....great job!
I am NOT a SIGMA male because I identify with a traditional male gender role of protector and provider. I am also old, grumpy and indifferent with standards, morals and ethics from my parents who were born in the 1920's and 30's. I know that I am totally incompatible with these modern women who have NOTHING that I NEED and NOTHING that I WANT. My time has passed and I can easily evaluate them as liabilities and unworthy to be girlfriend or wife quality for my young adult sons who have taken the MGTOW pathway.
Alpha confidence is BS because its based on the need for external validation. Personal power beats confidence every time because it isn't based on the need for external validation but something else entirely that not many understand. Remember never let anyone tell you who you are, you tell others you are and vice versa. This is self-respect, if they don't like it they don't respect you, and you have every right to not give a shit.
You know that quote "I'd rather be right, than be loved", well that's relevant here. If staying in her world means putting up with her shit, then bye bye
the first video about sigma male that show how women hate us - other videos maintain that they love us, but its not true. I am 100% Sigma and 55 years old - women all my life hate me, in child care in school as a adult - they try always to hurt me. The last days i lost my good paid job because some women lie about me in my back. The same in the school: I was the best of the whole school - but girls not like me, the liked the bad boy with bad exams and a crime carreer - this is reality for sigmas! Dont betray yourself!
It's a bit of both ways. I'm quite confident & I present well so women tend to flirt with me a lot to test me out but then they get intimidated and confused when I don't respond in the standard ways: I literally don't care what they think. I have had a number of women tell me I am a likeable guy but I'm also totally annoying.
Interesting video. Just subscribed. Reason 4. Have never seen this trait listed for a Sigma. Just did a (limited) search and didn't find it anywhere else. As a Sigma, I do operate in the realm of traditional roles. That said, I am 67 so perhaps my age makes me an outlier (if that trait is valid) as I grew up in a traditional household way back when. I can see that some Sigmas under 40 might have that trait if they did not have a traditional upbringing. two cents
Gonna take a stab at this. I think that when we were young, we were told our worth was next to none. Got a bit older, found it wasn't true resulting in indifference to what others rate us. I'd even go as far as to say that we are the product of society and its norms but, that could be a personal interpretation. Women only have problems with me when they stick around for any period of time.
well i just found out i am a sigma man, did not know this is what i was called, but it makes 100% sense as to why i am still single at 63 yrs old and this video nailed it on the head as to how i am, Cheers :)
I definitely approve this message. People are standoffish because I don’t care to speak unless they do. When they get to know me they are surprised at how kind I really am. I’m just nonchalant most times. That uncertainty also turns many females on.
Great video. I'm so happy to be middle-aged. In today's modern society, the amount of feminine women who love to be led by a masculine man is getting smaller and smaller-especially in the West. if she is modern, feminist, and or western/westernised - forget her.
5:24 Now I know why I cannot connect with any woman. I just don't care what they expect of me to do. I do what I want! If its not my tune its no one's.
Don't need anyone's permission to do anything .I do what I want when I want. Live alone for 40 years now and love it. No earwork!! I have built three houses for myself over the course of my life and love cars,motorcycles and travel. Currently in Kyoto japan on a 4 week vacation. When I get back home I will continue with my restoration project which is a 66 mustang convertible. I can't see how dealing with a woman in my life would improve my situation in any way. They always seem to have a current or impending problem with something. Only my opinion but that's how I see things. Good luck to everyone 😂
There are sigma females out there too. Not very many but they exist. If you're a sigma male, you'll either love them or hate them but after all is said and done, both will have more important things to invest their energy into.
It's important not to confuse indifference with an inability to communicate or a fear of opening up! Very few people want to go through life completely alone. So probably it would be unwise to aim for this sigma mail pinnacle. Yes it's good to be independent and not be easily controlled by others. But many men mask their deficiencies by emulating the sigma male persona so they can't be detected.
