Why A Man CHOOSES One Woman Over ANOTHER (Pt. 2)

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Why A Man CHOOSES One Woman Over ANOTHER... In this dating advice video, I will help you understand men better and understand why a man chooses one woman over another. Various factors like compatibility, emotional connection, shared values, and physical attraction are among the reasons why a man chooses one woman over another. Take heed of this dating advice for women and ensure you watch to the end to learn why a man chooses one woman over another.
Learning why a man chooses one woman over another will help you understand men's choices and make informed decisions. Understanding why he chose her over you will help you understand men and gain insights into the qualities and attributes men value most in a partner. Embrace this dating advice to know how men think, what men want, and why a man chooses one woman over another.
Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, it is crucial to understand why a man chooses one woman over the other. Understanding why a man chooses one woman over another will help you navigate your relationships more effectively. This dating advice will help you understand men better and learn why a man chooses one woman over another.
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@Dhibdic 2 месяца назад

It’s more like, “my dream girl challenges me to be a better person and I’m not willing to self reflect. I’ll stick with the one who loves me as the mediocre watered down version of myself so I never have to take accountability or grow up”

@Dhibdic 2 месяца назад

Let’s not coddle them by saying they get “tired of being rejected”. No, they just aren’t willing to evolve.

@aleacejordan Месяц назад

Exactly!!!!!

@Claire-gv7pi Месяц назад

Soooo true!!

@rachelerophillips729 Месяц назад

I’m sorry to say Sir that’s a copout your more than that. Well that’s your choice to be less than the man God created you to be . My guy use to think that way until life started to hit him hard he came to the realization to change and heal . I don’t know who you are but I’m praying for you on what I see here God knows who you are that’s the most important thing Blessings 🙏

@audramendes1367 Месяц назад

Amen that’s it exactly

@Keana43 2 месяца назад

I need a man that's healed .❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Healing is definitely key. Thank you for sharing!

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

Amen 🙌🏼

@dominiquecadet5976 Месяц назад

You and me both 🙏🏾

@user-fh1tr9zp3l Месяц назад

But be sure you are healed yourself try lead by example

@Keana43 Месяц назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3l That's why I said I need a man that's healed.

@gwenlee9562 2 месяца назад

I don't share, compete or be ignored. Unapologetically!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@mariannaoosthuizen9639 Месяц назад

Good for you! Keep it that way. God created women to be a partner in a relationship with a real MAN not a boy. The reason was that Adam was lonely and needed someone like him but "different" so fulfill his need and they were made to "fit". The mould has never changed because it is a perfect fit created by God Who looks at the heart. Today people try to change that and it just doesn't work. God also set the rules for a lasting relationship it's called "marriage".

@specialk1422 2 месяца назад

Well that’s sad to be with one person when you’re madly in love with another Person. SMH I wouldn’t ever want to be with a man who deep down inside loves someone else . ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@Kayyyoxh 2 месяца назад

That part!!

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

That's just to prove how cunning these men could be

@mcleo9935 16 дней назад

@specialk1422,it is sad 😢

@aquafina6544 11 дней назад

Unfortunately you may never know if you have this type bcus these type of males have LOTS of practice with being fake. I also believe this is why so many males cheat!

@rachelerophillips729 2 месяца назад

People need to pray and discern, if that is the right person for them. So many people are getting with people they barely know now a days. Men and women. are finding out they made the wrong choice and are regretting it. Now they want to go back to the person Gods choose for them after coming to the realization to what’s happening .Believe me I know 1st hand 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@godsgirl1468 Месяц назад

Preach

@jonbonaxl233 Месяц назад

So true..❤ ppl nowadays marry for the sake of company, not because of love, ppl are just afraid of being alone, they're afraid of not having someone to take care of them.

@princessj830 2 месяца назад

It's unfortunate! I believe it is one of the reasons why so many people are unfaithful because they are in unfulfilled relationships.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

What's more is they are likely unfulfilled looking for fulfillment in all the wrong places with all the wrong people 😉

@user-qk4iz9lg7x Месяц назад

True 👍

@MayaONeil23 Месяц назад

You can't fulfill someone who is insatiable. You also cannot fulfill someone who is unhappy with themselves bottom cells.

@aquafina6544 11 дней назад

Exactly

@carmelita.8860 2 месяца назад

Most of this can be solved by patience. Love is patient. It’s the first one….Men will not patiently wait on a woman. Jacob was willing to work for 14 years for Rachel. Love like that is simply not valued or encouraged.

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

What ? 14 years ? Just trying to overrun job,s patience By the time u both get together u can hardly lift your hip lol 😂

@shanicewalker4695 2 месяца назад

😂

@carmelita.8860 2 месяца назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3lbetter than wasting peoples time marrying someone you don’t truly love…..14 years isn’t that long…

@aquafina6544 11 дней назад

Love like that HAS NEVER EXISTED OUTSIDE OF THE BOOK.

@laurajones1211 2 месяца назад

I have experienced the exact same thing, due to circumstances and distance, we are not together. We had a divine connection I had never experienced before, instantlously connected on all levels, felt like we had known each other forever. Unconditional!! Very strong connection!! I am definitely believer in Divine Connection!! Nothing compares!!!❤❤❤

@MooreofChas 2 месяца назад

“It’s not me trust me it’s not me. Never been me”! 😂😂😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@patriciasenter7601 2 месяца назад

I always told him it's not you it's me, therefore he gotta go 🤣👍

@lynnmcmillian5137 2 месяца назад

Its his choice whether right or wrong at that time And keep in mind don’t forget your self worth!❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@doreenboyd3347 Месяц назад

That’s why it is important to talk things out with that person. I’m still learning how to recognize a healthy relationship.

@aquafina6544 11 дней назад

Unfortunately it takes two, men want women to listen to them but they are not willing to listen to us! We will never be able to recognize a healthy relationship if men and women aren't willing to heal the issues that drive them to be reckless insensitive brutal mean cheaters and severely unhappy.

@keylathomas1555 2 месяца назад

Just wanted to say, that is refreshing when you laugh during your videos...Despite discussing serious issues, anytime you laugh I laugh too! Laughing is so healing...Thank you 😅

@riwanhaphithabah186 2 месяца назад

Who else other than me would like to meet Stephan in person and share their relationship problems for advice 🙋‍♀❤...I really wish to

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

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@restetutakwagala177 2 месяца назад

Unfortunately am in Uganda sadly chances are low but yes if destiny decides.

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

@@restetutakwagala177 Perhaps he will do a live online webchat one day soon 🙏🏼

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

Are you sure it's solely for relationship advice ?

@BallroomLilliesandHydrangeas 2 месяца назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3l😏 Hmm...☺

@Enjoyingutube 2 месяца назад

I desperately needed this advice at one time. It would have saved me so much pain and hardship. I pulled out of it, but it wasn’t easy. Thank you for what you do for women.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Glad I could help 🙏

@Laoriginal718 2 месяца назад

Most likely he’s gonna pick the weaker woman that will allow him to do what he wants. Most men…..weak men will choose the woman that will allow him to cheat. 🤷🏽‍♀️ count it as a blessing and move on. If you stay single you don’t have to worry about this.

@queenoliviajuliet 2 месяца назад

This is so very very true

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

Absolutely these are the desired ones by most men And they their biggest heartbreakers Foolish men when will they learn ?

@ghostman3344 2 месяца назад

Scorned women never make sense...

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

Settling for a guy who coasts says a lot about his standards and yours

@StefIsCold 2 месяца назад

0:30 facts bro a lot of the factors at play aren’t even under our control no need to beat ourselves up over someone who just wasn’t a good fit or was looking for something else out of a relationship, etc.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@laurajones1211 2 месяца назад

I agree, unfortunately, it was a learning process!

@alitez960 2 месяца назад

He moves on fast because he's already found someone else,its called cheating

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing I appreciate that 🙏🏼

@marydean6096 2 месяца назад

Ii8ii@@MeetStephanSpeaks

@liztowers2058 2 месяца назад

Hahahaha facts

@ghostman3344 2 месяца назад

Your personal issue has nothing to do with what he's saying ..You dont listen, and we can see why he cheated on you..

@alitez960 2 месяца назад

@@ghostman3344 you need to mind what you say

@sheeva3.0 Месяц назад

Stephan- I love how real you keep it!!!!!! I’m over here agreeing, clapping and connecting the dots in my past relationships

@BallroomLilliesandHydrangeas 2 месяца назад

I loved a guy once. I mean my love was sincere. He told me that he was two-faced, but I didn't think much of it at first, but I should have. It wasn't long after he told me, that I saw him with someone else. He dumped me for her. Then she dumped him. Then, he eventually moved on to someone else as well. I remained heartbroken for a while, a long while. He actually married the second woman. Then, one day, my heartbreak was lifted. He came home for lunch and found another man inside his wife, the one he loved. I've been smiling ever since. Ain't God good?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@BallroomLilliesandHydrangeas 2 месяца назад

Thank you, Stephan. I appreciate that. I been over that heartbreak. My healing came the day his heart got broken. I shouldn't have been happy about it, but I was. I'm just in this long waiting season for God to show me what's next.

@bwatamundung7657 2 месяца назад

Lol😂

@liztowers2058 2 месяца назад

That's a gem! 😂😂

@huangyanjean2570 2 месяца назад

Karma

@cynthiahopper2025 2 месяца назад

Excellent part 2! 👏🏼💯❤️ I love that you’re always keeping it real 💯👍🏼

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Glad to hear that thank you for sharing your feedback I appreciate that 🙏🏼

@therealcyberius 2 месяца назад

What some people fail to realize is healthy people attract healthy people and damaged people attract damaged people. If you find that the only people you are attracting are not emotionally available, are not capable of intimacy, are loaded with baggage and unwilling to commit you may need to do some work on yourself. Misery loves company and if you project a lack of self-esteem, confidence, knowing yourself and failure. Those are the people you are going to attract. People so often ask themselves What am I getting out of this? Why can't I find someone good? What is wrong with everyone? Without ever looking inward and examining what someone else is getting from you. What are you projecting out into the world. Do you truly know what you want from someone and are you willing to give them what they need? If the common denominator in all your failed relationships is YOU, YOU might be the issue. It is so easy to point the blame at others while ignoring the obvious issues within yourself. I have been with my wife for 15 years and married for 10. I still check in to ensure both of our needs are being met. Not just hers, not just mine. OUR needs.

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

Excellent comment 👌🏼😎

@laurajones1211 2 месяца назад

I totally agree!! I am working on myself and healing in order to attract the right person for me❤ Thanks so much!! May God continue to Bless your Marriage!!❤❤❤

@JamFlava1 2 месяца назад

Most of those women are damaged. This is why they attract damaged guys. It’s very simple. No accountability but finger pointing.

@8thousevirgin Месяц назад

We know that! But we always forget. Thanks for the reminder.

@user-zq5sz4km8n 2 месяца назад

MY THING IS....IF YOU'RE ALREADY WITH SOMEONE...BE MAN ENOUGH TO TELL THAT PERSON YOU DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM....WHY CHEAT? I'M NOT UNDERSTANDING THAT! YOU'RE SO BOGGED DOWN WITH IMMATURITY AND INSECURITY... UNRESOLVED ISSUES..ETC. JUST BE HONEST FROM THE BEGINNING! YOU'RE BREAKING THAT WOMAN'S HEART WITH YOUR FOOLISHNESS!

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

💯 Lead with integrity

@casperinsight3524 2 месяца назад

Trouble is they file her away for later on his roladex of misgivings so as soon as he perceives his current partner did something wrong he feels justified in contacting her. Or worse yet, he stays in contact with her under the " just friends" clause which means he is just bidding his time for the right moment to proceed. It's a way of keeping her on the hook until he's ready. Meanwhile he may be testing the waters with her to see if she's a good candidate while he's involved so he doesn't risk a "bad investment" he's window shopping with a layaway plan. Emotional cheating 💔 is just as bad if not worse than physical cheating as it involves feelings of intimacy and companionship. Most women desire a close meaningful emotional bond of intimacy to an impersonal physical romp.

@goldink2813 2 месяца назад

The first reason is so true. I have a male friend that's fallen in love with me over the years. He's never directly told me but I can see it in the way he interacts with me and the mixed signals he gives off (your video about MIXED SIGNALS also confirmed this). The catch is that he has a girlfriend and they've been together for four years. He mentions that she's not really the one he wants to marry and always hints that its me. Problem is that he truly isn't the man God wants for me and there are two crucial dealbreakers he doesn't meet. For the sake of instilling boundaries so he doesn't stay hopeful I've had to lie and say I recently met someone. I don't want to lose him as a friend and often worry about how things will unfold (will our friendship eventually have to end). I'm just trusting God through it all and am praying for him as my friend- that he may find the one he's meant to be with.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@chorton4005 2 месяца назад

You don’t have to lie, you choose to lie.

@cinnamongirl4315 2 месяца назад

The fact that he hints that to you while having a girlfriend is so gross

@ekayaniperforms 2 месяца назад

He’s scared. Why not be truthful and patient?

@ebonyeverything2751 2 месяца назад

Girl it sounds like he's testing the waters to see if he can CHEAT with you. He's telling u she's not the 1 yet he's choosing to be with her.... Your friend is just a toxic guy hun, don't be naive. A guy (not a man) like that isn't in love with you, he's checking the temperature.

@hellonheels9217 2 месяца назад

I'll say it again, thank God I stay single. You men make things more complicated and it doesn't need to be.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@hellonheels9217 Месяц назад

@@taroute2376 ahhhhhh NO!! 😂

@matildaomolade1697 2 месяца назад

You are always factual and straight to the point!!! Thank you Stephan.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

My pleasure ❤️

@Alignedanddivined Месяц назад

Wow you just explained my situation with the first explanation minus the being married. We both want marriage and kids with EACH OTHER however he’s with someone who he doesn’t even see a future with….

@lynnmcmillian5137 2 месяца назад

I truly have one rule make your own decisions right or wrong!!

@maryrice5873 Месяц назад

❤❤❤

@Darya601 Месяц назад

You are so right Stephan... For example I have seen many men in Afghanistan who are so pressed by their parents, to choose woman who THEY see best for their son... And this happens still nowadays 😳 These men has been my friends...that's why I can tell this is true

@ElevatedMe 2 месяца назад

The “She makes him feel more desired or needed” can be tricky imo, not because I don’t think men should also feel desired or wanted because they should, but sometimes that desire is not healthy. When we choose someone over another for those reasons alone, is that really healthy? Everything to do with self love condemns attention and validation seeking and yet one can make an entire decision just based on that alone. How do we read that?

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

So true that's where they encounter problems and become used And then the blame game continues Yes they are drawn to so called crazy woman Which in most instances gets them crazy to with dissapointments

@milliondollartrooper 2 месяца назад

Thank you Stephan this video gave clarity on why men choose one woman over another. You explained it on point👌🏼❤

@shaquannag5524 2 месяца назад

Thanks For this valuable video! I truly appreciate your wisdom🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

@IrishEyes4real 2 месяца назад

It was Very Helpful for me❤ Appreciate you Stephan🤗

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@khemaloving4031 2 месяца назад

Anyone who is not willing, ends up being irrelevant. Love requires viable candidates who are open to love the right way…

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@khemaloving4031 Месяц назад

@@taroute2376 Case in point. Thanks!

@maryannsantianez5242 2 месяца назад

Yes,its absolutely true to me,married to a man that I don't have strong feelings.It really makes me sick everyday,until now....but I can't do nothing we have kids😢😢😢,so,,,i need to embrace the saying...love the man you have if you can't have the man you love...😔😔

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@aliciabrown6679 2 месяца назад

Man these vids will either expose or enlighten you, on the real! Appreciate the candor and transparency, sir🙏🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@MsLilac88 Месяц назад

Hello Stephan, I always feel enlightened by your relationship advice videos. 😊 I am married for 5 years now. Thanks so much for the good advice. It really helps me with clarity of mind. 👍

@mariannaoosthuizen9639 Месяц назад

Nobody FALLS IN LOVE that's crazy ..we CHOOSE TO LOVE. It's a verb...love is a verb. It's something to DO. A choice! Not something that just happens! You use your MIND to make a choice to love the person with whom you can be your best and she can be her absolute best. Two WHOLE/complete PEOPLE not two halves. That's maturity and something that will last. It's a decision of the mind. The mind drops it into the ❤ and both are fulfilled and satisfied. Their love starts to grow and keeps growing each day as they get to put the other one above their own needs. That's real love, the kind that takes you into old age and doesn't change! Not based on looks or sexuality or money or fame but to SERVE each other. Don't think you can "trick" someone into "loving" you, it's nonsense and can never last!

@godsgirl1468 Месяц назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@MsLilac88 Месяц назад

This is so well said. 👍

@bamoura10033 2 месяца назад

29:45 so accurate... Very relatable. You are spot on. Thank you for your video and wise perspective.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@lynnmcmillian5137 2 месяца назад

It means he has the capacity to love another and sometimes it actually turns out better for him

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

@michelledouglas-thierry3143 2 месяца назад

Thank you, Stephen, for your wisdom and knowledge, May God continue to use you to help us ❤❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@claraht.6999 2 месяца назад

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with 🎶

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

It's easier said than done

@claraht.6999 2 месяца назад

@user-fh1tr9zp3l I summarized through an old song what Stephan had said 😅

@mcleo9935 16 дней назад

Relationship nowadays is hard ,you can hardly find someone who is faithful and talk the truth😢

@manonbartels3611 2 месяца назад

🙏thank you Stephan for the insights❤

@chitowngirl6003 2 месяца назад

Sounds like both playing…passion & desire -depending on the level of safety SHE feels showing that to the guy! Some guys, especially the one I know-if you show some too much & they not ready-they are then scared off…there has to be some level of “balance”, safety & assurance & endearment to get that..place of value

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@moniqueb3917 2 месяца назад

I enjoy watching this video. Somethings you said made me realize a few things thank you

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Glad I could help 🙏

@user-qk4iz9lg7x Месяц назад

📸 Good Stuff Mr.Speaks 👍

@pamelaseegars3970 Месяц назад

Thank You for Sharing

@truditrulove Месяц назад

Mannn lol you pray that this was helpful!!! This is the GOAT of advice!🙌🏽

@h3arty 2 месяца назад

First ❤ love your videos bro! 🎉

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Glad to hear that thank you for your feedback ❤

@moniquewebb4381 2 месяца назад

This is right on time ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Glad to hear that thank you for your feedback!

@real.siberian Месяц назад

Thanks for always keeping it real 👍

@mariuhhh_xoxo Месяц назад

Thank you for this video. It made me realize so many wrong things I tend to do. I tend to get super nervous when I know someone likes me or is attracted by me and I feel the same way towards them. I act indifferent and it may come off as stuck up or as if I’m not interested but truly that’s just how I get I don’t know if it’s fear, shyness, etc but I certainly don’t do it on purpose. I know I need to work on that 😭

@princessj830 2 месяца назад

Those are not men. They're grown boys.😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@kiravampira1456 2 месяца назад

What a lot of men conveniently ignore is that their (un)willingness to provide *messively* influences almost every woman's score in the bedroom - to the point when many of us won't even bother taking the test.

@rachelerophillips729 2 месяца назад

I enjoy watching your video’s they are very insightful. I did not hear anything about the Kingdom Spouse I know some people don’t believe in it . I’m a spiritual women and yes I believe it. Some women know about it and try to play God . They know what the Man they are with belongs to someone else. God ordained him to someone else. They still try to make it work God says no it’s not going to work . That man is called for a purpose and not with the women he’s with no witchcraft spells will work to keep that man . Man are healing and being delivered.. That’s not in all cases but a lot of this is happening. These women need healing .

@KatrinaJ-lf6zd 2 месяца назад

This can happen but its better to approach it from the real narrative than a false one. Men do it from the heart, then you're less likely to keep making mistakes as it's a more genuine place to begin. Someone me needed that. I conquered this at 19 so I only needed my genuine apology from the ninja period. Unapologetically

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Healing is definitely key!

@alice-hp7dh 2 месяца назад

Here is the BIG difference between me and men. If I can't be wirh the man I truly love, I'll stay single. This is my current situation and it has always been in certain periods of my life. And also I don't wanna to be that woman who is mildly loved and for who the man has decided to settle in absence of better options. I discovered in my past, after I while, that the man who I was in relationship with, didn't loved me and he faked it troughout the time. I thought it was is caracter to be distant but no, he wasn't in love. It broke my heart more than the break up in itself.

@deborahsmith4016 Месяц назад

The girl whom you say wants him more is a doormat willing to be drug along . He will eventually tire of her and dump her married or single.

@sacampbr1 2 месяца назад

Interesting video!🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 thank you

@FelicaFelica4 Месяц назад

Thats true. Some people are married and have stronger feelings for someone else, after living with someone and finding out who they truly are. Some people go out and find something outside the marriage. When its their fault they married who they married. You marry someone you truly know, take your take. Look out for red flags. Before becoming 1 with someone. And then unfortunately over time some people just fall out of love and thats why they divorce.

@adedejiracheal541 2 месяца назад

Great insight More wisdom

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@TanikaNakeyaLewis Месяц назад

The Process of Inductive and De-Ductive Reasoning Includes "At First Sight" Comprehension, Inclusive of Zero Tolerance of Contradictions, Contrariness, Contention, and/or Other-Wise "Resistance": Challenges Aren't All Encompassing Of/As Resistance: Fore-Sight Is Distinctive of Fore-Thought, Although, Both Are Factors of Critical Thinking, most Leaders, During Their Leader-Ship Desire Continuity Continuum of Fore-Sight, As Fore-Thought Is a Bit Distractive As Absent-Mindedness, During Moments Necessary of Cognizance, Such As "At" and "Assistance" and "At" "Expertise": the Only Rationale of Fore-Thought, Is to Know What to Pursue and What Not to Pursue to Avoid "Latent" Desires, and Current to Future Re-Jections [Pursuit Is to Conquer, Not to "Chase" = Accompany Comparable to "Driving"/Controlling]: Culturally, Gender-Equality, Especially At the Patriarch and Matriarch Levels of "Man-Hood" and "Woman-Hood", Exists As "Levels" of Adequacy and Expertise, So-As to Include Compatibility, By/As and Of Tolerance and Tolerability. 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

@marigolds49 2 месяца назад

🤔Hello Stephan....I value your advice.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙂❤ Thank you!

@ronnietoni7930 2 месяца назад

Thank you Mr Speaks

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

My pleasure ❤

@liyaah85 2 месяца назад

this video made me feel better ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Glad to hear that. Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!

@BthemaineQ 2 месяца назад

I definitely agree with this. Us as women need to realize that men can’t always do the work and pursuing. If you as a woman think that then you’re just sad. Learn to love a man correctly especially if he’s giving to you correctly. If not then let him be so he can come to another woman who will actually appreciate it

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 25 дней назад

Yes women do have to show interest to This pretence thing na work For me once you re half way am jamming u half way as well Let's create magic handsome 😂

@denanikiawilliams 18 дней назад

I want a husband that I can do ministry with. who will allow me to cater to his desires along with fasting and prayer. I bring what God had shown me. (it is so promising and rewarding).We fast and pray about it and watch the manifestation of it. The purpose of the marriage is to allow God to display us and let people see how he intended for marriages to be. Marriage is excellent when it's done God's way. It takes two people joined together on one accord to make it happen and it goes back to what you always tell us Labossiere. "You got to be connected spiritually". You spoke it and it is so, and that is a beautiful thing. I can see the beginning to the end. God is so good and he is worthy to be praised. Keep encouraging sir💜🙏

@CarolenaWilliams-pu1tf 2 месяца назад

Yes I agree Makiing a man feel wanted and desire and needed that great

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Absolutely!

@ElizabethMaldonado-zj9fu 2 месяца назад

Humm I think I will stay single… too much for me Stephan 😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@cpittman1527 2 месяца назад

Convinced now.....2 broken ppl do not create a whole relationship.....collect the data and back up with facts while guardiing your heart with due diligence. Blessings!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@IrishEyes4real 2 месяца назад

Thanks!

@StefIsCold 2 месяца назад

🙏🏾💜💜💜

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

My pleasure ❤️

@Blessed75463 Месяц назад

Guilty as charged.. my relationship ended because of 3 of these things🙏🏾🙏🏾.

@Ifeoma999 2 месяца назад

True💯 That's like if a man, let's say, is into "polygamy" with women as an example or even dating more than one woman. To me a man isn't capable to handle all of those emotions to love a woman at the sametime. Why? Because his Heart 💜can still beat faster over others for the one that his SOUL truly loves, there will be No More Room Within himself for anyone else... Great Video 👑❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

@FEEDING_BIGFOOT 2 месяца назад

He may well just like the other women more 🤷🏻‍♀️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@ghostman3344 2 месяца назад

Bro, your explanation is clear and trust, many will hear but aren't listening..Life has always been deeper and more nuisanced than the simple this means that..Love can be missed in exchange for stability..

@AlexisNexia45 2 месяца назад

More reasons to be super cautious before you invest your heart into a man. SMH. Appreciate the clarity Stephen.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@Taisha12001 2 месяца назад

When it comes to physical intimacy, open and honest communication needs to happen BEFORE you engage in it.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Most definitely!

@lorrainecurran 2 месяца назад

All these love ,relationships issues should be taught early in life to empower young women how to spot players and time wasters

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

Men need to understand this first hand They are so eager and aggressive when it comes to sex And is the first to find faults and complain Thank God for sex toys lol 😂

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

Men open you all big ears and hear this Ladies be selfish and uphold this rule nah ?

@almetabowman990 Месяц назад

God bless you Precious Stephan this is an excellent video. May God continue to bless you with words of wisdom and knowledge. Continue to have a blessed and loving day that's filled with an Abundance of unconditional love joy peace and laughter in the Miraculous Healing Loving Forgiving Powerful Peaceful Protecting and on time name of Jesus. Always Love Almeta ❤️😘🙏🏿💯

@melissadawson5092 5 дней назад

This Is EXTREMELY HURTFUL,,,,,,,,BUT,,,,,,,,An EYE OPENER👁👀 🥺😪💔

@user-zp2jz6so7b Месяц назад

Have you done a video on men being friends with ex’s or having alot of female friends? I’d love to get your take on it

@SheritaLee-er4sp Месяц назад

I don't get chosen , I do the choosing. And 9 times out of 10 they always try and come back.

@annabella7188 2 месяца назад

Hard life lesson learned let him walk away and lock the door behind him

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@QueenGina81 2 месяца назад

Yea no I ain’t taking care of no man 🤷🏾‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

🙏 ❤️

@nirvanaambrister3417 2 месяца назад

I'm in a relationship like that. Where am I friend? We're best friends, so we've been friends for a long. Done I think he's still in love with his ex, but 5. Year they were, but and he still, I think he's still in love with her.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

I hope he reaches the point of doing what is truly best 🙏🏼

@princessj830 2 месяца назад

Amen!

@Marie-vz2qp 2 месяца назад

A man should always be of service to a woman. That is so sweet in the eyes of a woman.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Absolutely!

@deneanetucker374 2 месяца назад

U'll coming with ur c+ game had me hollering 😂😂. Caz ur girl's guilty. When the real side is unleashed 😂

@anitragilmore3239 2 месяца назад

Stephan . How do I sign up for counseling with you ?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

@user-mr1mq8ge1q 28 дней назад

correct

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад

First and foremost hey Seph u coming down with a flu take good care Coping mechanism ah sad but its reality Ladies lets try tp present our A games 😅 C plus disqualifys Yes Stephan my mind was dirty for a second with Your mention of swinging 😂😂 never a dull moment on your channel Big thank you to you

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

My pleasure ❤

@verdellfelder8059 Месяц назад

I would love to meet Stephen in person😊❤!

@Princess-kn1ic Месяц назад

Reasons is the Organic vs. GMO but all leads to health( mental, physical & spiritual) benefits.

@user-mr1mq8ge1q 28 дней назад

TIME Determined Things

@sarahshaw1990 2 месяца назад

I had a situation like this once where I liked someone a lot and they were sending me signals that he felt the same and I did have thoughts like I may like him more than he likes me. I offered a friendly proposition to go to a concert I really wanted to go to a couple of months from that time and he never went ANY further than what he was doing and I started getting impatient like when the hell is he going to ask me out!? And he never did and I don't know how I asked him but I think I asked him something like why haven't you taken me up on anything? You said you just moved here two months ago and have been working a lot, don't you want to make some friends and have some fun and relax and stuff like that? Why wouldn't any guy not take the opportunity to hang out with me, I don't get it. Then he said he started seeing someone and it's sort of new. And I'm like, why would he pick the other girl over me? I was wondering what was the reason why he was chosing her over me and I think it was a money thing. He was staying in an expensive condo and he knew I pretty much didn't have a job, didn't have the job I wanted and I'm happy with, in-between jobs, I didn't have my own place, I was working on a lot of goals, and simply just didn't have much money. And I honestly think he possibly moved down here with a wealthy girlfriend because the job he had didn't pay THAT much to have the condo he had and two incomes is definitely better than one and you need two incomes mostly to live in the condo he told me he was living in. But it could have been a new girl he maybe met a bit before me, I don't know, but I think it had a lot to do with the material aspect and I think the smiling, laughing, positivity thing was a thing he really values a lot too. .... And you know what, somebody once told me I am way out of their league and them talking to someone new scares the shit out of them. So, I think a possible reason why a guy may not pursue a woman for the reason being he thinks she is way out of his league.

@luvdogs6 2 месяца назад

Hi, it's me again.I agree about sexual combat ability. I agree about monetary need that he looks for. Now he can't handle that I am happy and free. He knows that I have no care he is with another. He tries to make me jealous by showing me her. I do not respond. Yet he still is interested in my activities....I am not bothered by him. And that bothers him😅😅😅😅

@GJ3ful Месяц назад

There's a REASON why, The WORD says, "to KNOW"; ..... so you better "KNOW" THINGS nowadays - before they BECOME to be within your CIRCLE (and all of this takes TIME, which means HAVING MUCH PATIENCE is KEY)!

@rosaliecastelluccio6535 2 месяца назад

I actually had an ex of mine tell me he's with his new partner because you can't be with the one he truly loves...... Meaning me

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@Redqueen83112 2 месяца назад

Good afternoon

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад

❤ 🙂 Good afternoon!

@MG-gq2rs 2 месяца назад

Dear Stephen, I know he wants to be with me, but the issue is he wants to have a level of intimacy without penetration before marriage. I told him that even that is unacceptable for me. He doesn’t understand because he thinks that’s meeting me halfway but I don’t understand why that is necessary… … (also for religious reasons) This video helped me to see that it means a lot for a man, so what does one do in this situation? 😢🙄 The only thing I can come up with is allow him to go to find someone he is aligned with sexually, but it’s heartbreaking because we are compatible in every other way. 😔 It would just be interesting to hear your insights. I love your videos they have already provided me so much clarity Stay safe. Take care

@katielesperance Месяц назад

Dearest fellow Believer in Christ, I am not as eloquent as Stephan in presenting what would truly be best yet I can speak from a female perspective that feels what you are going through. What I am hearing is that he wants to do ‘everything but sex’ prior to marriage and you are not comfortable with that, correct? Yes, men are highly driven by sexual connection and that is THE #1 highest connections humans can experience together. The most lovely of all gifts. That is why God ideally wants us to wait till marriage when 2 spirits are committed to each other. It is best to make sure that you are both ready for that next step together before going further so you can both receive the gift with pure bliss and utter joy. Your body is a gorgeous temple and your touch is a tool perfectly crafted for your husband - I practice celibacy and it is my next level, A-game skin glow secret so you can too! Get after it! Pre-marriage courses in a plugged in church is best too if you’re BOTH ready for it. Get connected and keep working on YOUR best you! You got this! Excited for YOU girl! 💕