It’s a cultural problem. Broken homes and people creating babies they aren’t ready for is what’s messing us up. Fatherless households usually breed masculine women. We need to stay in our child’s life. The best relationships I’ve ever had with black women were with the ones with fathers in their lives. They were feminine from the jump and let me lead and trusted me. The ones with a lot of trauma and no father was bumping heads with me from the beginning and would not trust me no matter how much I tried to show her I cared for her and could take care of things. We as a community need to do better but we are so far gone it is gonna be hard to get where we needed to be but I think it starts with not having babies until youre married, which should not be hard with all the contraception we have, and on fathers and mothers staying in the home if a baby does come.
