I used to work in a bar sober. It's so hard for me being around people. I retired from that job and now I house sit for people and take care of their pets. I hate to say it, but the reason why I enjoy spending time with animals is because they act way more human than humans do. Way smarter too. I do love my clients though, and I get to choose whether I want to work with them or not. Most of them have been great. But I feel you on people. I can only deal with them in small doses anymore.
Dark Triad traits have significantly increased along with sadism which is the Dark Tetrad. People commonly use the title of "friend" in order to leverage this position to exploit others, and as they're sadistic, there is a sense of enjoyment in getting away with this. We live in a Dark Triad world, unfortunately, and people are not worth trusting.
There are some good people out there. But it's rare. The majority of people are being brainwashed to be anti social. And sadism is a factor cause they get off on abusing others that are not doing there agenda. Like one minute they your friend. The next they are not if they don't get what they want.
Amen including leaders I told a person a soul who should have cared besides being a leader of the world or President he shoukd had listen he pretended to care for we the people many yrs I sent much proif of God and not one word
@@kerstitekko2257 yry being in a relationship with someone for over four year. 1 year of that being marriage and her just walking out with a 2 yr old child while you are at work
This is why you pray to Lord Father to give you discernment so you can see when those people who are trying to take advantage of you or trying to deceive you. So, he can help you put on the helmet of salvation and take up the sword of the spirit as your defense and to protect you always. Even family members unfortunately can be fake..
Stoicism is the way we should follow, you’re right rather than react to bad behaviour, think logically and respond likewise. You will grow from disliking to letting go, become unemotional to them, life shouldn’t be a burden.
There shouldn't be room for hatred in the heart of a true chosen one of the most high. That being said, chosen ones do need to be extremely selective and cautious about the people they get close to. Even if someone is "good", but still in the world, they can be taken over at any time as a vessel dedicated to the destruction of the Chosen. Please don't hate anyone, but please do be cautious, discerning, and wise. Remain blessed.
I believe that the chosen ones don’t really judge or even necessarily dislike people, I think the chosen ones just understand the differences and move on for their own peace even if it hurts and makes them sad. You can say and explain what you see, but you can’t force someone else to see it or believe it.
The best way I have learned to deal with people, is to learn and utilize the various techniques of reading people. Most communication is not with words. I have been reading people on all levels, continuously for so long, it is now just automatic. I now see past the illusions without effort.
Terry you are blessed to understand how the game is played early on. I let fools play me for too long and I didn't get a leg up when I was young. You can do it later in life, but it's harder. The time to do it is when you're younger. That doesn't mean a person can't, but it's harder, as alot of things are as we age.
@@Respectthechi A leg up could be just to be able to identify the red flags, or when you are dealing with a Narc, its a lot easier to know its not just a crazy situation etc, you are dealing with an actual crazy person. Have ran into more of these in my life than I thought existed. I didn't learn about Narcissism and red flags until I was in my 40's, cost me but looking back I see the flags I missed now and it won't happen again.
Come to conclusion there are a lot of mentally ill people out here and they choose to be like that! Then they come across chosen ones and their demons get all interrupted. I’ve been running from people all my life and finally come to the understanding it was never me. My mind body and spirit can’t take all that negative energy.
This messages also resonates with people in their 40s, 50s even 60s And thats even worst there suppose to be leading by example Not getting down with the sickness.
I don't know so much that we hate them, we definitely abhor their behavior and in turn and by default we don't want them anywhere close to us. They don't deserve our hate because it means they mean more than what they do. They're not worth it. I know this is splitting hairs, and I know exactly what it is you mean. And, wow. This subject sure is thought provoking.
No one can dictate an answer for life except to enjoy it while it's here :) One persons success is a failure to another because people will always remain different to one another. Use your time to the best of your honest ability!
I just went to the gym - Recreation centre and I can’t go anywhere literally without chaos happening. Someone sprayed bear spray and the place had to be evacuated. The ambulance arrived and had to wash out people’s faces / kids were crying / panic / demons are taking over people and at an astonishing rate. Sick of people / don’t really even want to leave the house. I think I have to invent an exorcism kit
Seldom, are people consistent. I separate myself from someone once I realize I don’t know what to expect from them, or once I realize they simply use others, when THEY are the ones who “don’t lift a finger” towards maintaining a true friendship. They end up proving they’re not reliable. Some can’t even rely on themselves, which is why they go from person to person.
You hit it on the head, Terry. I am certainly a people person, but its hard when most are low quality individuals. I still have to tell myself not to care about trying to connect with them. Very frustrating when you genuinely want to spread good karma.
Absolutely right. It’s crazy to me. Soo many people out there acting like kids, they try to laugh everything off without taking anything serious. I was forced to mature by my immature parents. Now people look at me like I’m the man. But I had nobody telling me to be like this. I did it on my own. And now I look at these people and they’re all still like kids. It’s crazy. They look at me all wide eyed and they start talking a real fast n shit. It’s kind of funny but kind of sad and annoying at the same time.
Hate is not really the word, you should always have Love in your heart, let them Hate you. Hate is a negative emotion, you need to keep your self Peace, self Love. If you have Hate in your heart, then it will turn you bitter, that's not a way to live, it just makes you as bad as then.
We all heated as chosen ones and we all going to get a lot of hate from people just because we are the chosen ones and everyone are just jealous of us just because we have been chosen by God and just because we are the chosen ones as well and this world is full of hate it’s what it is in my opinion.
I wish their were more people in the world or in my town like you.i have not met a single person that wouldn't stab me in the back. I am being ghosted after being in a 7 year relationship and have nobody to turn to and then I found you and you are a lot like me plus you make me laugh so stay awesome!! Fuck fake people✌️
Terry, although I am not YOU and do everything YOU do or think like YOU, YOU are a key influence to me and your words have always meant something to me and will always do. I am not that kind of person who likes to be always in public, so I might have a certain "shady" vibe with my RU-vid profile, but you can trust me: I am a committed person to god. And I fight against lies, shadyness and so on my whole life. Just take this from me. It's pure. I understand you. We have many parallels. Luckily. I was many years without an external source of inspiration. You enlighten me. Thank you, Terry.
Dear brother Terry, we have many things in common and I truly have similar thoughts like what you have. You are gifted and you are chosen. May god bless and keep doing the right thing 🙏🏻
when I've told people about some recent physical struggles I've actually gotten these responses... “oh, I’m angry for you.” “you have all the tools.” “you just take care of you.” “you’re better than you think you are.” “you got this.” “be strong.” To this I said, “you wouldn’t last a week.” “make sure to keep us updated.” people suck. good one.
I too never use the word hate or feel the emotion or even allow myself to have it in my vocabulary. I just identify, sometimes point out, the behavior... ; does it match my values? And make a choice of what's the appropriate boundary towards it. Hate is for people over invested into other people. Basically, boring people. Instead of being so busy with what you passionately wanna create; there is no time to sit around and be obsessed with what's on the other side of the fence 😀. 💥💛
Keep preaching the truth brother. I’m done with fake people creating drama for attention. I focus on myself and those who have proven to be authentic good people.
Chosen ones don't hate people, it is the sin that is to be rebuked. "Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do." The emotions of frustration, anger, resentment, spite, etc., are part and parcel of human reaction. The wisdom to prevail over those emotions, gain control over those emotions, and forgive is the power and the authority granted to those who choose to follow, trust, and believe in our Lord, Savior and Redeemer.
" Talk is cheap" people say anything just to sound good... people care more about sounding good rather than being good to others... They "forget" that " ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS"..
Xmas pre xmas new year we all found out a lot about friends, associates and relatives and work colleagues I cared for my dad pre death but many said 'Why do that'? Looking after a pet or a home or a garden or a business or a child or a relative or neighbour you are a better person for it Gardening in new year great for strength and creativity and outside healthy
I had to laugh when I read the title. I almost created a video of my own with a very similar title. I'm going to see what you have to say and come back and edit this to see if we are on the same page. I'm a survivor of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse, CSA and I had a near-death experience when I was nearly murdered. Edit: I definitely feel you on the way some people are just very disingenuous and they have you subscribing to one reality when a whole different one is actually happening. Very frustrating. I definitely have developed trust issues with people because they have lying issues.
Your so right fast and good decisions from nyc now in Colorado fast decision here a year great decision! Fast move ! Leave the enemy behind my bro ! We have haters luv Jacqueline. Denver
Best way to filter out Narc Men? DON'T PURSUE. And don't get Devalued by these ones saying we have a "bad attitude" they can't say we're ugly so they always just need to use something to cut women down. Often they use age too but guess what? Established "high value" men are also OLD. Too old to deal with a 20 year old
Brother Terry, are you healed? did you forgive the people who hurt u in the past... hope you're OK. i love watching your videos! it gives me a knowledge
I just went to the dept store and parked in the parking lot, when I returned someone had to spit on my car window, Why? no one knows me and the parking lot is full? I guess being a chosen one people can feel hate on your property, even had people throw water at me over a fence, I don't even know them?
I don’t hate people. I hate the game, not the players. I hate the sin, not the sinners. I want everyone to repent. I hate their lies. I hate a lack of integrity. I hate depravity. I hate child sacrifice. I hate witchcraft. I hate rape. I hate invasive surveillance - colonise an island of Papa New Guinea - leave my heart, mind, spirit and flesh. I hate the unnatural environment foisted on me, and the unnatural affection foisted on me thereby. I hate all those things, eternally. But I don’t hate them. If they hate me, fine we can go our separate ways but I don’t understand why we can’t go our separate ways and they can say to themselves ‘she’s not my cup of tea. But I hope she finds her tribe. No hard feelings. Wish her well’ I’m fine with that. I’m not fine with people being overly involved in my existence. Driving me to the edges of the world and they still won’t stop harassing me, violating me, abusing me. I mind my own business and every day they swoop into my life like a hurricane. I don’t like that behaviour. I want everyone to win, not win lose or mutually assured destruction that everyone seems on board with right now. I just want them to repent to Jesus 🕊❤️
%100 They continued with High School & grade school into real life. I was just thinking this same ---- the other day walking back from the mail box. Everyone acts like high schoolers.
I don't hate no person because a narc is a actor with many personalities that's not a real person its all fake they shape shifting from one person to the next praying 🙏 ❤
Its not about hating most people, its just that for me 95 percent of the people are energy training and have the desire to talk idle, and do dumb things for social media. The shade of solitude, and obscurity works for me a lot I don't need a social circle, or to be flapping my gums 90 miles per hour.......