“Out of politeness because we’re together having dinner/breakfast/lunch/evening out/ cinema/ etc etc, and I don’t want to be distracted by texts or calls coming through. If I left it face up and kept looking at it every time a text or call came through, you’d go nuts and accuse me of not paying attention to you”
@@nn-nu8hf Well, we've only started aggressive testing less than a week ago, and the government is extremely slow at listening to experts. From today we have 2.395 infected and 72 dead. Few days ago it was 24 dead. A couple of weeks ago, I think, we were declared the country with the most rapidly growing infection numbers. The streets are pretty empty in my town, but the stores have not run out of anything , and I didn't expect them to. Also, we have closed our borders for most travel officially, like many others.
@@Proestetic Yeah, that is similar to how it is here in the states right now. Low mortality rate, high number of infections. I wish you the best at getting through that though man.
Come on... If you can't answer eachother's phones when you're married, or don't know eachother's passwords, it is suspicious. I don't know a single woman who'd hesitate leaving her phone in a room with their man... However the number of men only able to leave their phones out of their sight if the phone is on airplane mode and if only face ID can unlock it is preposterous ^^' ... If we can agree women are in average more emotional, in average men are way shadier with their phones, no contest
....prolly cuz guys masturbate with cell phones more than women so they jealous and create/ manifest felonious "shady" behavioral patterns! Plus we got pics of our dicks on them 🤡👍
@@Chris-te7uk The pot calling the kettle black (: ... I'm glad for you and hypothetically your girlfriend if you're not thirsting over and DMing instamodels left and right or doing other shady things. But lying to yourself that men IN GENERAL don't do it on a regular basis and on a far greater scale than women is almost cute... Being able to hear unpleasant truths is a valuable skill Chris. You should try it. Still, have a good life
@@Blullaby Cheating wives often hide expertly their traces. Men on the other hand may do various stuff on their phones such as exchanging funny pictures with friends which may happen to have a sexual nature as well - and in that case wives protest and moan. It is thus natural for men to not want to show their phones. Calling men "shadier"' and women "clean sheets" just shows how effeminate is your point of view. In reality less than 10% of husbands and more than 50% of wives keep a replacement in the oven "just in case". Get it? Today women are the shadier sex. Scientific data from all corners of society points that out.
How you doing man? Look... i chose to wait for the right moment when it cames to love and marriage and just have it all with just one woman, like 1st real kiss, sex, presents, holidays, how to solve problems together, how to grow up and better each of ourselves as well as to each other, etc.... i waited for literally 25 years and by accident or destiny idk we bumped to each and now i am almost 27 and we are moving together, with plans to grow a family but with some strong base first, so we are being patient aswell. We have our fights yeah but lets just keep it real... some fights actually end up being just lessons so dont trip with it, get out, get some air and just try to cleanse your mind in order to plan better or solve problems in easier ways. Thats my advice to you, BE PATIENT.
I used to live with a girl and one time the phone rang and she answered it then she gets all pissed off.. I asked who is it? She says I don't know it's some girl!! I get on the phone and it's a woman from my car insurance with a question about my policy because I just changed insurance companies.
I learned a long time ago that most men have a direct way of speaking or articulating their thoughts. On the other hand, many women have an indirect form of communication that has a large amount of implication. The problem lies in the fact that women interpret what men saying as implying something else because that's how they communicate. Some men have a problem understanding that when women speak, her words are in many cases irrelevant because she is alluding to something else under the surface. You have to peel back the curtain a bit. Women misunderstand men because they cant fathom that what he says is what he means.
You've illustrated the root of the problem perfectly. Of course, men can lie, too, but most of the time guys are just trying to say what they mean as accurately as possible. Sometimes they might even it harsher than they meant to, or overstate something, but they don't usually vaguely imply things or have context written between the lines. When you combine a man accidentally exaggerating something by 50%, with a woman assuming it's an understatement and then inflating it by an additional 100%, you've got a recipe for disaster. Then on the other hand, you've got women understating something, and implying about 500% more than what they actually say. Meanwhile, because of their emotional expressiveness and their tone, men assume they mean less than what they said, when in reality that was barely scratching the surface. People need to learn to interpret what someone is saying from the perspective of the person saying it, instead of reinterpreting it based on what -they- would have meant if they said it. What a person says, means what they meant it to mean, not what you decide it means to you, and the sooner people can realize that, the better.
It is disrespectful. You may only realize this if you become the father of a little girl. Then, she grows into a lovely woman and the guys she dates expect sex from her with no real commitment. It's different when it hits closer to home.
I am female and don't expect men to read my minds (making assumptions about me). I prefer men to ask questions to get the facts and not settle for assumptions based on his imagination. That is too annoying for me to want to date them. That is a deal breaker for marriage! And I am not going to read their minds either that is why they have a mouth and a brain to communicate and tell me. No time for guessing games. Good communication between a man and a woman is a healthy way to have a healthy relationship as far as I am concerned for me.
+Brenda B then a mans protection, respect and true LOVE over a woman is only a MARITAL PRIVILEGE too....you have to be be equal here. If sex is only a marital privilegde for men, then love, respect and protectiin FROM a man should be marital too
Had a woman do a background check on me, got mad because she couldn't go through my phone, and questioned my female family members on facebook, because she thought my sister was an ex. Talk about insecurity.
so you get on the band wagon and make yourself feel superior just because one woman acted a certain way? why don't we sat all white people are murderers since they murdered a generation of native Indians in order to get the USA?
+Jojo Jo there is a somewhat apologetic feeling towards native americans because of what happened and therefore the "white americans" do admit to an extent to having muderous ancestors who did that. Difference, concerning women, is that there is no acknowledgement or admittance about being crazy. And it is clear from the video and comments that what women do is crazy. I don't know that's my take on it. Having said that im currently faded on pills and hash so go figure :)
Problem is women always think they know what you're thinking. That's why they always think they're right about everything they accused you of. I dump a girl over a dream that she had and accused me of talking to another girl other than her because she saw it in her dreams😂. That's how I started my new years day.
my ex got mad at me and told me to sleep on the couch, I told her it was my bed, I pay the bills and I'm sleeping in the bed. If she didn't want to sleep next to me that her problem not mine. She called me an a-hole but she also slept in the bed. She didn't let me touch her though lol
@@genseven4616 I’m with you, I shut down and go into Ben stein mode and reply quietly I’m trying to sleep (in my own bed) and give absolutely no reaction. When they are yelling and you don’t yell back you win…and they know that when you yell…they win. So don’t yell or react
Not only that, women doesn't know the amount of nudes, instagram models etc we get fwd in a daily by chat groups, buddies etc. We aren't even mad that they just come freely to our phone lol but the hazzle of deleting all that everytime just in case my wife sees it and might think is a girl i know and im banging, I rather she doesn't have the password =)
@Talia Moreau Idk if this is serious... so I guess it is true that women marries for money? Gotcha. No wonder MGTOW is growing. The average woman that offers nothing besides vagina now a days expect the perfect man smh.
@Talia Moreau Well what do they bring? Because if you are gonna say companionship. Guys can easily fill that role with male friends. And they don't bring in useless drama and emotions in the mix. The only reason now in modern time to be in a relationship is to have kids or get validation. The guy still has to play the role as provider and is expected to do many traditional things.
@Talia Moreau The average women are all drama queen. It's very rare to find women who aren't. And when I said provider I meant that the guy has to earn more than his partner. Theres to many cons in a relationship for the modern guy to consider being in a relationship unless he finds a unicorn. And btw love is overrated. It never lasts and I've seen all the guys who been in a relationship for "love" I've known get cheated on or the girl just get "bored". That's why when you date you have to look at it like a job interview.
Im no native english speaker but Im pretty sure thats a grammaticly correct sentence and the "their" is refering to a dudes phone as in, HIS phone and not the couples phone.
I agree with that but I feel like that goes out the window if a guy always wants to be checkin up on your phone. If that's the case it should be a two way street. I wont touch your stuff but you start going through my phone for no reason then you better hand yours over
Nucleus he’s not putting the focus on their for any kind of grammar mistake hes putting the focus on their to make of point of why they are protective of their phone because its THEIR phone
We are married for almost five years and my husband has never called me crazy. And that phone thing is not strange at all. In fact it’s healthy to respect each other’s privacy. Two people who are living together cannot share every single detail. People start feeling trapped in a relationship if they are being asked to share every single thing.
Mens keep their thoughts with themselves they don't tell to their wife because if they tell them they will become crazy, I think so your husband is afraid to see you being crazy that's why he kept the secret with himself
Well said Sidra. Also, it's not just the privacy of the phone owner, it's also about the privacy of the person who sent the message. For me, it's an extremely important value that the people who share their burdens with me can do so with utmost confidence that I shall not spread their word, not even to the people closest to me, unless they so wish.
@@farahjichi4617 you seriously think that? Jesus all I want is someone who will love and respect me as I would them. sex is temporary but a truly loving and meaningful relationship is eternal. There's a reason why some people can never date again once they fall in love.
two months into a marriage you've had your first major argument and she's already using passive-aggressive tactics means you are in a psychologically and emotionally abusive relationship.
I mean, what is so hard about returning a damage item? He was fighting not to return it and let her sleep on the couch, its odd how nobody finds that wrong.
@@BasedRoots , I agree let us not put all women in the same basket. Many the American culture have women a sense of entitlement and want to have the upper hands in relationship. Women in some countries they do not have the luxury to act crazy. In fact the men are like children that needed to be taken care of by their wives. Wives are second mother after the man leaves his mother 's nest .
As a woman, I’m 100% with the men on this one. I’ve actually spent the last five years working on my emotional reactions and keeping my thoughts in check, because I KNOW how irrational and presumptive I can be. These days, I actually know men who are the crazy ones because I’ve toned myself down so much! Everyone around me is crazy! (That last part is a joke. Obviously not everyone around me is crazy.)
The irrational person doesnt know when they are being rational. They think their irrationality is rational. So honey, you havent changed. What emotions you have toned down have just manifested into passive aggressive and manipulative behaviours.
Wish the two crazy women at work could learn from you. Us men avoid them cause they are WAY over emotional and bitchy about everything. Its great when they are sick/out ect. I'll e-mail from 15 feet away instead. Or just go around them if possible.
But that is what makes us humans as compared to animals. We're emotional creatures who makes decisions based on emotional gut feelings first even before we put logical rational thoughts into it. Its a shortcut our minds used to react or respond.
@@muhammadfairuzsamsi7209 This statement makes 0 sense,humankind is advanced because it can apply logic and deeper thought,every animal is operating emotionally,while humans can go against their emotions and do something that they feel would be better In other words people are able to do stuff that do not feel good at the moment but will give them different results in the longer run,while animals are primal and cannot plan ahead etc.
Abso-friggin-lutely! I have never once in 37 years let someone (other than my parents as a kid) tell me where to sleep. The way I see it, if the woman is so mad that she can't stand to sleep in the same bed as me, then she can go elsewhere. In my opinion whichever person is the one who doesn't want to sleep in the same bed as the other is the one that goes elsewhere.
My wife trusts me and I trust her. She can pick my phone up at any time (I can pick her's up, too). I don't care because I don't have anything to hide and she won't make something out of nothing. She probably doesn't even go through my texts. It's about trust ladies and gentleman, two way trust.
My husband and I use our phones, tablets interchangeably. We have nothing to hide. He used to have game nights with his buddies. A young lady joined the table. My husband is friendly, a gentleman and supportive so people always seem to like him. She looked up to him and would call the house once and a while. They still chat occasionally on facebook. I'm not jealous because I trust him.
@@Sliverbane okay. But ones phone is their property. And if you let them use it then they can use it. It's called consent. It may seem silly, but the same logic as sex is applicable.
@@lucapfister Huh? I'm advocating for trust in a relationship and so is the OP. What are you going on about? If you're that possessive about a cell phone, there are other issues you are going through with in your relationship that need addressing.
I do it because I'm bored, my phone doesn't have what his does, or because he's playing with my phone. Has nothing to do with not trusting him or snooping or whatever. But that's just us
Kat Wolf oh, I get that ladies want to play on their bf/husband phone.... “bored.....” the excuse my gf use when I caught her from playing on my phone to checking my fb/instagram/text messages. Because she is “bored”
Ladies you do get nuts over nothing. Shows us how weak and insecure you really are. Not sure why that is. Especially when your feelings are so up and down.
Women are crazy, my girlfriend ignored me for two weeks cos i got her a present and she said i was spending too much on her. What an offence? I could never understand. Women are crazy
Well the second woman kinda had a point. Wanting to know whats in a guys phone is one thing. Having some suspicions in story she told would be logical.
As the divorce attorney who made the video on the Hot / Crazy Matrix says: There's no such thing as a woman who isnt at least a 4 crazy. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pInk1rV2VEg.html
I don't care what kind of argument I get in, I will never sleep on the couch. If she don't like it, she's more than welcome to sleep on the couch herself. Deal with it or there's the door.
my roommate got into a fight with his girlfriend because he had friends on playstation who were girls. she treated it as if it was his cell phone and these girls were local, just dying to jump on his bone. But sadly he's whipped and had to delete all his female friends just to keep the peace, I just laughed at him.
Trust me, if you would call him whipped in front of her. She would've told him that you were a bad influence on him, and that he shouldn't hang out with you that much anymore.
@@Dontslaythybroski Excuse me? all men cheat? this one hasn't. Ever! true we aren't meant to be monogamous, but still! i have never, and never will, sleep around during a relationship. that doesn't mean i won't sleep around outside of a relationship, but inside one? NEVER. EVER. i may play, but BY THE RULES. for women, we must have a different rulebook, or the rulebook gets thrown out the second a chad walks in the room. maybe both.
I've been single and living solo for about a year. IT IS AWESOME! I feel more at peace and my creativity is back. My ex was certifiable. She would go through all my stuff, screaming fights and made up accusations. I'll probably never live with a woman again.
Been in->in relationships my entire adult life. Single now for 2 years. Good lord, I'm a free man. That isn't to say that I feel some VERY particular women are interesting to engage with temporarily; it is to say that I can't see myself being in a full-time relationship for at minimum a decade->life
"Why are men so protective of their phone?" I can see why *your* men are. Lady, if you can't trust your man with his phone, then you will NEVER have a trusting relationship.
@@kayc.8283 yes but not really because if I ask for the same thing in return majority of women on that panel wouldn't agree which is why you should trust your dude without invading his privacy
If a couple cant touch each others phones..it aint gonna work. IF a man doesnt let you look through his phone he is either cheating or you dont know he watches porn and he dont want you to find out.
I have never called my wife crazy. Not because I'm afraid of offending her, but because she's not. If my wife acted crazy I would definitely call her crazy. But after 31 years of marriage I've never had cause to call her crazy.
Nope. Had he known he would asked the right questions first before getting married ever. You have to get your non negotiables squared away, otherwise, it's on you once that paperwork is signed.
@@indeeeed ...yes. That's why having honest conversation and not compromising on your values. Either way, it's a choice that needs to be weighed heavily.
@@kevinmiller6443 Teens also. I'm tired of the nonesense. I said this on another vid but punani is great but it's not worth the trouble. I just wanna make money and live in comfort, dating is just not for me.
I am a 70 year old white male. I have been married for 40+ years to the same woman. I have experience. I am sorry to tell you women are either crazy or will become crazy. If a guy stays married for many years he sees a LOT of crazy. Sometimes it comes and goes. It is never welcome but a guy must endure it. Many old timers, will covertly, tell you his wife was his oldest child.
I always slip in a “You’re crazy” on a first date after they tell a joke or something to see how they react. If they get serious and defiant then it tells me that they’re probably insecure about it because someone has called them that before, which is a warning to me that maybe someone broke up with them before because they might actually be crazy.
@@accurategamer7085 source: trust me bro. i'm not a woman and you getting triggered by my comment says you're in fact emotional and lack any semblance of "logic" you speak of, accurate gaymer.
Bruh. Showing a partner their phone and showing an audience of thousands + showing it on National TV is very different. Men wouldn't do that either. What was the point of your comment?
@@ajoke9785 BS, this is majority not all. Women won't leave a relationship unless they already have someone, where men will leave a woman then go out and find a new one. I'm a dog created by women, I get more women who are in a relationship than single. The single ones were all dumped and it doesn't take long to understand why their crazy asses are single.
You think? They go LOOKING for audience members that will react in a particular way. In particular, they look for audience members who will do what the glowing sign above the stag says. "Applause." "Jeer." "Boo." "Awwww."
I have an extremely loud voice. I can't help it. I was just born with strong lungs and throat muscles. And for more than 20 years, I've never met with anyone who seriously complained about me being a loud talker except for a teacher who thought I had an undiagnosed hearing problem that made it hard for me to realize how loud I was. But within the family, it is a well acknowledged fact that I can't control it. However, when my younger sister came back from college, my loud voice suddenly became a problem while we were having dinner. According to her, It's not that I spoke naturally that way, but it's because it is in my nature as a man to dominate women with a loud and scary voice. I was shocked. I've never heard anything as dumb as that in my entire life. And before I could say anything, my father asked her if she forgot how her own brother sounded. Her immediate reply was that I make her uncomfortable and scared whenever I talk, as if she had done something wrong. And that made me laugh. So naturally, I pointed out that either she had done something and is now afraid that I might find out about it, or that she's crazy. She didn't like that and she stormed out of the room. Obviously, not a single member of the family felt any sympathy for her. Especially with how she behaved that night. And instead of reflecting on her behavior, she suddenly came up with a conspiracy theory about how we started hating her because she uncovered the "secret" and that her mistake was to openly stand up to my loud voice. Since then, every time she's about to say anything stupid, I just remind her that she's being crazy. And I know that it's her feminist friends in college who brainwashed her, but no matter how much we try to explain it to her, she just won't listen. She simply starts yelling against the "oppression."
@@victoriaalice9758 Well what I've learned from MGTOW is just that your not exactly fighting for anything. Just living your life to the fullest for wealth and assets, that's the main goal from what I've learned.
@@Adam-082 I tell you why. Once I heard an argument between my neighbors they were both insulting eachother for some reason. At a point the girl screams in panic (the guy threw water at her and got her phone wet) and says "you got the phone all wet. It might be damaged. YOU CRAZY". The guy slaps/punches her and tells her to leave the house. I hear the girl with a shaky voice "I'll leave. Let me just get dressed and I'll leave". I hear him in another room calling her mother with a super calm voice "you're daughter is acting crazy again come get it". Then goes back to yell and slam doors while the girl keeps begging him to stop and just let her get dressed. His mother and a man came pick her. Apparently, if a woman calls a man crazy during an argument she is physically assaulted and called crazy on top. I've learned a lot about abusive relationships. Other thing that I've learned from a forensic psychologist who works at a woman's shelter is that majority of women there come from the Hospital. Women in abusive relationship would rather behave 'crazy' and seek shelter in the hospital than call police and trigger the abuser even more. Many times doctors understand that something is going on and contact the shelters, at this time they've been diagnosed with some mental illness to justify hospitalization. So yeah. Interesting information.
When a woman is pathologically jealous because her boyfriend gets a friendly text from his cousin, he will call her "crazy", but won't actually mean that she needs treatment. When a man walks in on his girlfriend screwing the neighbor and gets reasonably jealous, she will call him a dangerous psychopath, and actually mean that he belongs in prison. When I say a woman is crazy, I actually mean that she needs treatment.
I can relate on the phone issue. My wife one time had my phone and saw women's names, so decided to delete them. Didn't even ask me about them. What she didn't realize was that they were important business contacts.
+Paul-Joseph de Werk I had a boyfriend who did the same thing to me years ago and for some reason I dated men who were going on my phone and checking my messages when I didn't care about theirs
+nicewell1 At least now if she sees a woman's name she asks me who she is and doesn't delete them. She realized her mistake when one of them called my house number when I wasn't home and she found out it was an my agent at the employment agency. She wouldn't stop apologizing for her mistake. We laugh about it now, but at the time I was furious.
Freaks who don't realize that instead of doing these bitchy things they need to do some real action. Always looking for reasons to make the man sleep on the couch.
So she comes out of the bathroom and sees her man laughing and smiling so she asks what's so funny and who is she? I can already tell she jumps into conclusions 100% of the time. 😒 Can't men just have an innocent good time with other women? Like dang. And women wonder why men call women crazy.
I agree. I see nothing wrong with men and women being friends or socializing at an event even if they have romantic partners. There's no need to get suspicious unless there's evidence/reason to be. Now if someone has their hand on someone's ass or they are standing very close to each other while laughing and talking, then I would keep an eye on that - but still no need to make a scene.
My phone weirdness was partly induced by having an overbearing, boundary crossing mom. I had my privacy invaded several times as a teenager in ways that still affect me. If I started dating a girl and noticed she was touchy about a certain action or subject the first thing I would do is to check if she was ok and try and be accommodating, not climb down her throat about it. Some follow up might come later. If it was something that was easy to put to the side, it might never come up again, if it involved an abnormal amount of accommodation I might try and see after a couple months if she was comfortable having a conversation about it The problem a lot of men have with women, is that women always see men as guilty or in the wrong almost automatically.
My wife went off because I went to the gym early one morning. I had to call the gym and have them verify the time I came and left. All of the insecurities and treating you like a villain is not worth it. 1 ⭐.
Here's a tip for dealing with people in general: don't call the people crazy, stupid, etc. Call their actions/ ideas those things. That way you can get your point across without it instantly being combative. If they take personal offense to that... Well, you can't change people you can only be there to help them change themselves. 🤷♂️
I'm a guy and girls are crazy but the hiding your phone question, if you go to the point where you almost trip or something he's definitely got something to hide. I understand how they make a big deal out of nothing and I've dealt with that but no guy would go to that point unless they are hiding something.
Jason Dyrkacz don't get in a relationship then. A relationship involves sharing almost everything with your partner and the more things you hide from them will push you apart more.
Sure, if you believe her story. What most likely really happened is he calmly walked back to his phone to answer it, and like women do, she is exaggerating the story.
My wife was supervisor of a department at one of our local hospitals for about 20 years and she would tell you hands-down that she would rather have male technicians than female technicians because the females always had some type of drama affecting everyone in the department. The opinion that all women are crazy is not a new one. My 89-year-old father tells the story of his long deceased uncle who announced to his friends that he was going to marry the lady that turned out to be my dad‘s aunt.. he was cautioned not to do that because she was not “right in the head”. His response was “hell, they’re all crazy”. That occurred over 100 years ago.
@D L what do you mean women get the same if not MORE personal space than men lol just because we want to keep OUR phones away from nosey females does not give us more personal space.
@@bluestar5775 but seriously I really hope you don't think that because there are actually really good women out there, we're not all crazy. You'll find someone some day :))
It's really up to finding the right one for you. Some girl may act in a similar way but a lot if things make them distinct and the same goes the other way around. You just have to get know that person and things could work out in your favor
I love how the girl who asked the question is slowly dying inside cause she was all sass, along with the rest of the girls. Yet the answers she got was a slap in the face with reality.
I disagree. Though I think a fight over a cake knife is stupid I understand if she didn’t want to keep it. I would have just said they have two options, either return it or clean it. I understand her in: if you pay a lot of money for quality and the company doesn’t give that quality you have the right to not give them your money. I understand him in: it’s not a big deal, it has no real damage, it’s nice - let’s just wash it and keep it. I took a course and psychology and one thing that was mentioned was that logic and emotions have to have a balance. While I do agree that men tend to be more logical and women more emotional, both should strive to find a balance within themselves and each other - and neither the rational side nor the emotional side should be invalidated (obviously not go to extremes either).
@@kathrynr.h.4537 A women's perspective: Take the women's side. The point is, men don't let small, insignificant matters dictate our response to incidents. On the other hand, women are caty and so emotionally driven that nonsense has to be acknowledged or they throw a fit like a child. Her response was childish and you can't excuse it. He will have nothing but headaches from that nutcase.
But when a man walk out to see his woman standing with another man laughing, and he asks the same question, he's insecure and blowing things out of proportion...funny how that works.
Probably because men are the ones who cheat the most and they typically don't care about approaching women and having a conversations unless they want to sleep with her.
@@farahjichi4617 stop generalizing. You can only talk about the men you've known or been with and you haven't been with most of the men in America. Yes some men cheat, yes some men only care about sex BUT that is completely false for a lot of men.
When someone goes from happy... To sad.. To angry... Then happy again all in the span of an hour, for no reason (and they admit it) then yes... This is why we call them crazy. Not being mean here, it's just crazy.
Women are made like this.They have a purpose that a man cant fullfill.To raise children.It doesnt make them crazy. Men and women are complimentary in their natures , when men and women cant understand their essences or appreciate their differences this creates misunderstanding , mistrust , and lack of respect.