Why do men forget important dates? || STEVE HARVEY 

Unfortunately they would use those 140 characters to tell us about the Bridesmaids dress color instead of the date of the engagement party...

Or less lol

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Probably the best thing I ever heard 😂💯

They are also hypocrites that are resentful & do it on purpose so they can get right but they are not because when they say they talk less & tried to tell you like she said & she said it perfectly, the guy says '' but you didn't tell me the date. '' & that is exactly what they do because they are not genuine, they are angry. What happens is that they say ''You have an appointment the 5th of november at 8am & another at 9pm the 18th of november. Also Tracy at work did that awful thing that pisses me off so much, you know her I told you about her plenty of times. Blah Blah Blach for 5 min & did you pick the food & drink I asked you.'' & that is too much we just stop listening not because it's too long, BUT BECAUSE YOU DO THE SAME EVERYDAY!!! So we just give up. So when she says ''well I tried to put it simple.'' she is being hypocritical because she only says ''Don't forget your doctors appointment next month.'' & that is it. No dates, no hours & then they turn around & say ''well when I talk you don't listen & when I short it for you it's not enough so what do you want from me.'' & all that was planned by her to be seen as the one who is always right when she is just hypocritical because she is angry & don't want to admit it. Ladies you are being bad person when you do that & when you don't get what you wanted from your evil plan you get angry & even believe yourself in your lies that you actually tried & you were being kind to think about us & how to help us understand when you didn't do anything of that at all but only another one of your evil manipulation.

he's got swag

Bernice Nichols-Parmanand gentlman my ass ain't no jentlman now days

thats right, because modern women dont like nice guys and only the assholes get the attention, so by proxy women train men to be assholes. the only women who seek out nice guys is a 35 year old with 2 kids who need a step dad.

Well... He’s not wrong.

We shouldn't say omg for simple things ...jesus loves you all

Lol

Well u never stop her and evaluate how she should approach it and now ur stuck listening to her rambling cus u wanted to be nice. Being right is more important than being nice. So stop her from flapping and direct her on a better recourse. Relationship problems usually stem from the guy being passive and not guiding the women who haven't learned to be in a mutual relationship. They know how to be in one that they want. But they even don't know what they want so it's up to guys to direct it.

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@ddavid122 Let me guess. She never really talks about what she got to do. It’s about what you gotta do.

Women end up sounding like a taper recorder on play and fast forward with all the details that we (men) don't need to know or care about. But if we say that, then we don't listen enough to them. Tell them, "OK, I'll listen to all the stuff you have to say, when you start to initiate sex on a regular basis because that's what "I" want". That will end that.

Preach!!!

Exactly! The facts are always hidden in a stream of unnecessary information that your mind kind of hears but also doesn't commit it to memory.

M This is so accurate.

This a million times.

M yup. this is true and I am guilty for giving too much detail.

+3V3NLYODD Lmbo for real...If only somehow we could flash it across the screen during half time or across the score board lol

I’m apart of the women population who watches ESPN. I COMPLETELY AGREE!!!! Pull a PTI. 90 words or less and my boyfriend got it.

+faithfulmonkey lol no

that would work on me every time 😂

dont even remember that is been 9 years

Lmaoo

Sandra Jefferson- isnt it more important that as a man, we are still there? if we dont remember a date, the way that me, my brothers, my friends think is that if we're still there that just means we're not thinking of going anywhere

Fax

That's super cool.

You know it

+Farhan Hassan Here's a trick, set reminder on important dates in your phone.

+Farhan Hassan That's not true. They don't remember things that they don't deem important to them. A woman can remember her wedding day down to the last detail, yet forget to remember that the car's oil needs to be changed every three months. A woman who knows her man knows that she need only to ask him once to do something or to remember something. Women forget just like men do. It's just that women make a bigger deal out of it than men do.

lobecosc I find that sometimes when I don't expect a guy to get something done, I would be surprised and be all 'oh he remembers!' when he eventually did. This helps me curb the need to nag but I can only do it for things that I deem non-urgent or non-important. Telling me to get extra movie ticket when we are about to leave cos his brother wants to join us is a no-no to me. Last minute stuff like that annoys me, more so when I didn't want his brother to join us (know what I mean?) but he doesn't get it. Sigh.

I guess sarcasm has its advantages.

+Beverly Davenport he didnt complain and neither would i haha

Lol. You have a point. He looked quite comfortable. 😊

+Beverly Davenport , i noticed, and she is fatty, he didn't know what to do, i guess he was thinking ,is she gonna fart in my face now, obviously she doesn't care ^^

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😂😂the hell did you notice that

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I forget dates and I also forget names.

Relax, just get a man who won't. Thats what men did.

@@neku2741 husband and I were so happy we remember our anniversary... well, until I asked him what year we got married. neither one of us remembered that

I guess women are computers because they can multitask. It's truly lazy to be a man trust me, cos I'm working my ass off, and doing 99 things in the running of the home.

@@FERESE ah yes, I will trust someone who is not a man to tell me, who is a man that we are lazy, if your doin everything you just have a bad dude, don’t generalize one guy with the rest of the gender

@@FERESE we literally work harder jobs and longer hours, we ain’t got time to remember or gossip about it

@@FERESE Ah so you have a bad man which means every man is the same.

That's exactly it bro! Hahahaha

Theedirtyplaya we'll be sure to do the same

Because its not important to us. B and C pretty much fit into the same mold

I call it , The numb head effect.

Hahaha my partner does that, when i ask him he has no idea whag i said. But when i don't talk he finds it weird. I asked him does he want me to talk or be more quiet? He said he enjoys the talking since it would be boring without. Obviously time, place matters and how tired he is that day.

Malachi J agreed. There has to some compromise in any relationship. From both people. It can't be just one or one more than the other. It's like that song, it takes 2 to make a thing go right.

Yes, Regina, you're right.

Sorry but our brains are the same. Men and women share the same ability to retain and process information. The amount and speed depends on many individual factors like personal interest, age and stress levels but not gender or ethnicity. Generally within an hour about 50% of new information is lost by the adult human brain. If it is not repeated by the end of the day it’s 70%, a week 90%. New information needs to be repeated between seven and twenty times to be learned depending on age. This is the reason for repetition, homework, study and testing in schools. Male or female unless we find the information very interesting in which case our brains will latch on, it’s gone fairly quickly so yes too much information at once is not a good thing for memory. Notes or phone reminders are a very good solution.

Hi beautiful, how're you doing?

Process load of useless informations hahahhahahh

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Hi beautiful, how're you doing?

ThatLoganGuy hahahahahahahahha

I can get behind the whole notion that if it's not important to you (for both men AND women) then you won't remember. But what the second woman was saying was that her man doesn't remember ANYTHING. Even WITH keeping the statement short. If he can't remember ANYTHING, to me that's a problem.

Did anybody in that room say women don't forget anything?????

eprahs No but it's always emphasized that men have zero competence when it comes to relationships. Something doesn't need to be blunt to have strong implications.

I didnt even read the women portion, only the “what was it again” I think i proved a point without knowing😭

This is too long...Not interested 😴

And I'm not your ATM

+Cocodan 2000 I KNOW RIGHT

Nah, i think her age is Felicia