In this Girl Chat, “The Real” ladies are attempting to answer a very important question: why do men think it’s okay to call women crazy? According to Loni, “Just like game recognizes game, crazy recognizes crazy!”
Okay, I have to be honest. I really couldn't pay attention to the conversation because I was too busy staring at Tamera's gorgeous hair. I know I'm not the only one
You're not alone lol, I was mesmerized by it as well lol. It's gorgeous😍 I love her natural hair, I don't even understand why she wears wigs & weaves .
Not only that but she was tryna get with Vincent when he had a girlfriend. I'm sure she worried he'd do the same to her that's why they're always together.
because that really works Tamar. And it sorta almost proved Lori's point about her being a tad bit crazy . Except it's ok coming from Loni but not other unknown females perhaps idk
"...i believe in Checking, Looking.. Yes, Tamar Check'oslavakia, I will check it all..." - Tamar Check'oslavakia .. .this is the funniest line since she said, "I can wear that, That's Ver- SAYCE" lol
When Tamar said she's not crazy I almost fell off of my chair!!! Cuz we all Tamar is crazy!! According to the stories she has told about Vince and his ex gf that is crazy to me!!!
When I pop up on you, don't get mad. I'm just being smart and making sure you are where you said you were. When I take your phone to make sure it's your mom... When I check your receipts... When I call your boss to make sure you were at work all day...When I look through your purse... When I ask for your passwords. When I check the gas in your car... Just smart. Not crazy. Thanks! I was worried.
Enjoy a life free of meaningful couplehood, mutual bonding based on full willing disclosure, and grassroots dedication to openness, mutual repect and honesty. I fear for you and your future partner. And if I ever caught my partner engaging in such egregious and flagrant chicanery. She would have her walking papers with 0 % chance of a mulligan. It represent damage and a lack of patience and judgement. No self assured, honest man would ever abide by it. He would let his deeds speak. So you are left with weak or douchey as your options. sometimes both. Have fun.
@@BGriff- Sounds like you are convincing yourself. I guess I require more logic ro follow up what I choose to believe.Nothing you said is logical, therefore I do not believe.
Thank you, I feel like I'm crazy for trying to point out that trust and suspicion are opposite and can not exist together. These women ARE crazy for believing they can be both at the same time.
@@Elusive_Pete we're not talking about whether or not he has to give the phone. We're talking about whether or not she has to (feel the need to) check his phone.
+Somegirl10192 I think Jeannie is blindly trusting. I bet her dude has at least 1 thing that jeannie would not like. I mean for her to get mad that her dude was following a certain someone on instagram.... Also, I agree i dont fully trust anyone!
+Gissel Valdez Ughh finally a sane, decent reply. You don't have to demand anybody's passwords but you're really just going to pull a "don't ask, don't tell" and convince yourself nothing is going on? Nah. 🙅🏻
If you want to check, that means you don't trust him 100%. If you did, then you wouldn't even want to check. That being said, if you want to check then you should because there's probably something there that's making you feel that way.
Glasshopper You ever hear a man just admit that he cheated? It’s a thing across the board with people, nobody would want to admit to their spouse they cheated unless they never cared
If your checking his phone then you clearly don't trust him to begin with. And all you women would go mad. If your man wanted to check your phone. But yet you wanna check his phone?
The fact that they all have there own phrases is goals ❤️Tamar always like “Lies” Tamera always like “Exactly” Jeannie always like “Right?) Loni always like “These Heifers” and Adrienne always like “Absolutely” it’s so cute and I love how they all have their own phrase ❤️❤️❤️❤️
i loveee tamar but i agree with Jeannine on this one. i cant be with someone if i feel i have to check all the time. we have a womans intuition and any woman out there thats been cheated on has had that feeling before and if they say they didnt its because they werent trying to feel it...simple ways you can tell isnt even by going thru their phone. ask to use it real quick and say your phone died if he hesitates then you know whats up. females just want to know so bad and its little things that will have them tell on themselves tbh!
+Whitley Priestley Agreed! If you get even an ounce of an inkling that he's cheating on you, he more than likely has or is. That's not rocket science, it's just the universe and your intuition preparing you for the inevitable.
+ADMNP yes. Women try to justify being "crazy" over a man or checking to find proof of them doing something when in all actuality you really know something maybe going on.
inasexymood yep...i understand not hiding things like if i pick up his phone to see the time or call someone or we in the car and i change songs, shouldnt be a problem but to want to know passwords just to make sure he/she not doing nothing, i cant...You cant keep tabs on your man or woman to make sure they arent doing wrong.
+Whitley Priestley While I get what you're saying and I do believe in trusting your partner. However, with the way the world is now days, you can't just blindly trust people with the hope or belief that they're honest with you (because people are not honest). I'm not talking about obsessively checking his phone or grilling him every 5 secs about where he's been or what he did. But do your research and background checks. Know the person you're actually dealing with. It's way too dangerous to go okay I'll trust you with my life. People are living double lives, they're getting better at covering and concealing who they really are, hiding their ugly past, their violent ways ect...and once you do find out the truth, it's too late they got you.
I've never understood guys that like to hide their phones from their girl but insists that they're not hiding anything. I want to know from a guy's perspective, why would you hide your phone from your girl if you really have nothing to hide?
Some guys like myself just like their privacy but it doesn't mean they hiding anything and besides if a woman wants to go through your phone that badly that means there is no trust in the relationship
+dj_oldskool Some men really complicate the situation by doing things like not answering the phone around us women or going into another room closing the door.... Makes women suspicious
Honestly I keep my phone on me at all times with a passcode and I hate when my boo or whatever tries to go into my phone. I get so upset because...... its a bunch of foolishness and sexy text/pic in it so yea. if a guy hides it and stuff its definitely something in their he doesn't want u to see. it doesn't necessarily mean he is actually sexing someone else because I didn't do that buat the pictures and stuff is just as bad. I know but I had to be honest
my ex had me thinking I was crazy for having those gut feeling of him cheating & i ignored it but oh lesson learned his a** was definitely cheating! it's so good to watch these ladies and relate & to see that you aren't as crazy as they try to label you
Ain't nothing wrong with checking honestly, the amount of bullets i've dodged because I was slightly curious to see what they're up to. Why should I put my pride aside and later get hurt?
+Eve Chantelle I feel like it matters how you approach the checking. You can't just bust out and ask for the phone, you have to finesse it so that he thinks it's his idea to show you the phone. It also should never be a situation where you are giving him full access to your phone and not getting the favor return and vice versa.
Vicktoria L its not baggage, its mistrust. If you have been hurt so many times, its not liek you can tell yourself its going to be different, hes not going to do this. Its like you are going to have that mistrust automatically, so its like if you don't find anything you start to trust them slowly and eventually youll stop looking and grow to trust them.
I'm all for that checking and trusting!! I'm sorry but it's a cold world out here and I rather be reassured than to be loving blindly. And if you don't wanna give me your passwords, THEN we have a major problem! Sidenote: I am here for Tamera's hair today!!! Yassssss
If your checking his phone then you clearly don't trust him to begin with. And all you women would go mad. If your man wanted to check your phone. But yet you wanna check his phone?
Victoria pretty sure all females are like that it’s a double standard with all women they expect a perfect guy but that perfect guy goes crazy when he is unappreciated by the female
Victoria trust me your only saying that but if a guy in real life approached u what you say and your mood is different. I honestly think women need to be more honest about what happens and set aside what they feel or what they think is ‘the right thing to say’ cause your only doing to make yourself seem more acceptable.
@@deficator750 I won't lie about the fact that some women love bad guys, but some also love good guys, the last guy I fall in love with was a good one even if we didn't date. I won't talk for other women, but concerning me, I don't like when a stranger comes to speak to me in the streets because I am not that kind of girl who falls in love just at first sight, I might find you handsome but I am not giving you my number.
Jeannie and Adrienne shouldn't be fucking talking. Because there the same bitches. Who cheated on their past relationships. When they were younger. They admitted it on the show lol
I don't mind a lil checking and trusting in the beginning but after a while it's time to stop or move on from the relationship...ain't nobody got time for dat!!!!
If your checking his phone then you clearly don't trust him to begin with. And all you women would go mad. If your man wanted to check your phone. But yet you wanna check his phone?
I gotta say I ABSOLUTELY agree with Tamar on this one. Ain't nothin wrong with checkin & trustin, and the if the man ain't got nothin to hide then u Havin his phone shouldn't be a problem. Learned this the hard way with my ex fiance.....and he had access to my phone whenever but after the break up I was lookin through the pics that was my SD card and found half naked pics of him AND some other girl. Ladies let's be real, we know when something is wrong, follow ur intuition that's all I'm sayin...
It IS crazy to believe that you can trust and check, those are opposites and mutually exclusive. In other words pick one, both can not exist together except in a crazy mind.
@@Glasshopperhere's an example if you trust that you locked your door , you are telling me you're not going check if you locked it. Its just an example. I checked my mans phone once cause i felt something was up , I tried to communicate but he lied. I checked and i told him I did it. We worked past it, but when someone who you trust 100 percent and starts acting weird, you deserve the truth.
I agree with Adrienne .. you check once and find something and you'll want to check again. I did it once and was tempted to do it again to see if the person really shopped the shenanigans. After I realized that he didn't, I stopped doing & we're currently on the outs.
Yup Adrienne is right, if you've checked and you've found something you're going to keep checking. Honestly after I went through something like that I couldn't ever trust again
That moment when you feel like you need to check his phone 9 times out of 10 you're going to end up finding what you're looking for. So the moment that you feel like something is going on that's because something IS going on. #ItsTime2GO!!!!
That pisses me all the way off. I had a cousin of mine (who I don't get along with as much) ask me questions that I've been asked before and I would answer with an attitude. Cause 1) I didn't want to be bothered with him and 2) I was irritated by his presence. He had the AUDACITY to ask me if I was on my period. I wanted to Molly Wop his ass ON SITE at the time I was on PMS mode. 😂😂😂😂😂
Kathy Laurie oh so a guy says something about you acting abnormally, which happens when y'all are on your period, and you flip out? You were acting perfectly fine one moment and now your flipping out, kinda reads bipolar.
"This makes me insane." Those are the first words any woman spoke, but men should stop calling them what they call themselves. I mean, can we just stop pretending women have anything to say worth hearing?
Idc about being called CRAZY, some men I actually want them to think it so they leave me the hell alone. Now the "calm down" will make me wanna explode, whether it comes from men or women. #Ijs
That's just ridiculous though. Why even carry yourself in that manner. If your out in public and you flip your top over something so small and feeble, you deserved to be told baby just relax calm down. Why get mad at him or her for looking out for your best interest. Black people die for being loud and aggressive in public. Calm your ass down.
