Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? || STEVE HARVEY 

Very unromantic. If it was just a party for our family and friends, then yes.

I told my girl that we'll have the whole ceremony and honey moon. She seemed to be receptive to the idea. When I get on one knee I'll say something like do you want to legally change your last name and then we'll just kinda play it by ear from there

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Dean Green Marriages, births, deaths & baptisms used to be recorded in the family Bible, and telling the government wasn’t necessary. This is what happens when we let government get too involved in our lives- ruins everything

A written agreement requiring government approval which women can exit out of (and do over 70% of the time) and derive persistent benefit from the end of that "love" and commitment (over 80% of the time). Basically... they lie. They can't even acknowledge their part in making marriage undesirable to men. And so, walk away.

And thus men are the most oppressed people 😔

Lol if women were loved unconditionally then both those ladies wouldn’t have the issues they do.

@@netecrivernetecassassins2945 I agree men are oppressed.

@@alisontejeda3270 huh

@@alisontejeda3270 it's how society views people (in regard to the OP). Statistical anomalies in the form of the male killer cop is what should be focused on. Its an anomoly in the regards to males and cops, bcos that isn't the norm. In which case it shouldn't be associated with the norm either.

Keepin' it real. Black pills all day!

So true

I know. We are not commitment phobic; we are divorce rape phobic.

same

If a man doesnt want to talk about marrying you theres only 2 possible reasons. He doesnt want to marry you or he doesnt want you to nag him into it.

More like bedt for nothing.

Yeah

Can I get a Kevin Samuel in here.. If a woman said she cheat them women be high fiving and clapping until the building about to come down..

Amen. 2 years later I am.still paying for the divorce and alimony debt I acquired and we had no kids. Be careful out there guys.

Lololololoo

5 Gen feminist : eliminate men

7 Gen feminist: since we are men now, let us eliminate ourselves

9 Gen feminist: we ended the world. Why won’t men marry us?

10 Gen Feminist : where have all the men gone?

12 Gen : Become the victim

Zozo box nice one!!!!

Zozo box That deserves to win the comment section.

I lol'd so much I think I messed my drawers.

epic

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Ain't that the truth!

BooooooM 🔥🔥🔥

You hit the nail right on the head brother.

OUCH!💯🔥😂

So sir what's a wife?

Heed My Warning because there are too many women out there that loves casual sex and don't care who they sleep with. They give it up so easily that men can get it anytime, anywhere, anyhow. I believe if it was more difficult for men to get laid and ALL women kept their legs close, then more men would want to get married. Also, if less people had sex before marriage them both would be forced to get to know the real person without having their judgements clouded by great sex. Sometimes, people are addicted to the sex and they really don't love the person or they are not compatible but they won't see these things if they are sleeping together.

Just because you marry a person that doesn't mean they wont be having casual sex on the side. Marriage is just a piece of paper and a ring it doesn't guarantee anything.

specturr wow, that's so sad! If that's the way you feel about marriage then you shouldn't get married. God created marriage and He sanctifys it. The Bible says "Marriage should be honored by all!". If you have no honor or respect for marriage then it's best that you never get married because it won't work for you.

D Reid That's not what women think these days

D Reid I don't think you understand what he's saying, marriage is a piece of paper and a ring, that's a FACT. People don't need marriage to declare their love for one another, marriage just makes it public. There is nothing physically stopping someone from cheating on the side, any married person CAN cheat, that doesn't mean they will and there are stories of people cheating on their partner, so of course it happens. Specturr's sentence is logical, it is a fact that someone can cheat on the side (He never said that's how he felt about it), but you started thinking with emotions, not logic.

exactly

SHHHHH!

Bruv!!! I was thinking that! Too bad his show isn’t no nonesense or else I’m sure it would’ve been up there. I used to want to get married, until I learned of their scheme. Marry a dude who’s financially stable, stick around and have kids for a few years, then, once boredom settles in and a new guy shows up, divorce and take just about everything he got including the children. Thus, leaving him out to dry in a decaying dating pool with less than what he’s originally worth while they live la vida loca on the spoils with their new fling. No thanks, no thanks.

Because that's the plan of the government, who benefits from it as well

TRUE!

Height is out of human control, while weight is the cause of eating unhealthy and being a pig lol

Right. Its like it’s not supposed to matter. Women just want a man to be attracted to them regardless of whatever and if we aren’t...it’s because we aren’t good guys. Now if a woman judges a guy on anything it’s because she’s deserves the best their is.

@Masanit I can guarantee it was more than her just gaining weight . They think in the their minds that they are unattractive and when a woman feels unattractive , she tends to shut down sexually. Men cheat because their sexual needs aren't being met . The answers were linear asf and didn't delve into the actually truth .

@@HerveyShmervy This is the United States of 2019 where even women eating like pigs and weighing 300 plus pounds are above any criticism and have to be not just accepted but "celebrated".

The reason is simple The reward is not worth of risk anymore Men are taking the red pill

Very nicely put. 👍😂

Well said

Love that comment. 🤣🤣🤣

And that’s coming from van wilder

Facts all day 💯 somebody give this man his props for saying that ...king never a jester in a queens castle

That's what I'm saying...if she kept playing games over a period of time and she don't wanna talk things out like adults...well, bye👋...👍

Facts though ain’t no way. I heard all them damn C’s in the crowd ain’t hear no damn A’s and B’s

Hell yeah, 49% of those men are lying.

Yes. I was so sure the majority picked C

Yes, my guess would be it's much higher.

Well duh what's the point of staying with useless man anyway

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao

@@alexandramaun7366 If he's useless, why was she with him. Use common sense.

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao you're petty. If she was useless to him then she wouldn't be with him, use your damn common sense.

Well ... yeah. That's the last and only time you can get her to leave without losing.

True!!!

please change your profile to a different colour its confusing

Jeff Haigs sometimes custody is still sometimes given to women even though they are abusive or negligent.

Men say marriage takes their security away and their hard-earned MONEY.

Suad Mahfouz women begin to control men in marriage it can be seen everywhere. Women become the pupeteer and men becomes the puppet

makes sense 😂😂😂🤣 all the signs are clear, women will win in every situation in marriage,, why should i marry ? MGTOW ~*Wow so many likes I ddnt expect*~

75% buddy where u live

#myweinermychoice

But above all that, i don't understand the idea of marriage, can any body tell me please ?

Nathan Frey you got that from bill burr huh?

Then they get mad when we expect them to act independent. i.e. pay their share on dates, vacations and all bills. Open their own doors, and things like that.

@@markcadieux3445 haha so true, let them tools be mad you want equality theres equality for you.Wanna behave like a man? get treated like a man no sympathy whatsoever.

kaputasri That’s why I stopped opening doors

Not every girl thinks the same just like not every man thinks the same so please stop trying to make this a "thing". Date someone who has the same values as you.

@@seanm7539 i make it my business to not open doors for any woman that I'm not related to or boning. You should see my sidestep game. It looks douchey but my plan is to keep my dignity intact at all costs.

I’m 27 never been married and I’m balding

Men go bald with age. That’s just how it is 😂😴

Barber of Seville .... imagine assuming that im putting it there for anything other than getting tired of stating the obvious 😂😴

He got bold for all the money he loosing for them lazy women ... but he can’t say something different cuz it’s his job requirements to love women , feminism , ...

Hilarious! But, something is not too right with a person that’s been divorced 4 times...whether man or woman...I’m just saying...😂

We will be with you

You see them, they are the ones with the fake smile and the overly happy wife forcing them to smile for their Instagram pictures. They just took the pill too late.

Many guys are redpilled, they just don't let them express themselves on mainstream media, they select only bluepilled guys to fuel their feminist agenda

Dante Rymes one of the realest statements on the internet. Lol 💯

Same

When I read it like that, it honestly gave me a good laugh. 😂

😂😂

Underrated comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Preach

No what the problem is now, is there are more cheating women than men. & most don't admit to it or brush it off like it doesn't matter, or take responsibility for their actions, or blame the men like its our fault, saying we caused them to cheat

So you would have a baby with a man, but marrying him is a whole other level of commitment lol?? what?? A whole baby

@@ninculus3042 i will be so happy if my girl never ask me for marriage

@@proudexmuslim2354 then your happy to not complete half of your Islam. Unless your not a Muslim

Wooohh wooooohhh!! You trust the person so much that you have kids with them but you don't trust them enough to marry them ?!? Wtf is this logic? First marry thn have kids, so your children won't end up living without mom or dad

@@BudgetBuysHub Why do you have to marry before having kids? It the end result is the same, it doesn't matter what method or order was used. The kids can have a mom and dad, even if the parents aren't married. Did you even read the OP?

Yep! It should be mandatory for every guy who is thinking about getting married to go sit in the back of a court room for a few days & observe the divorce & custody hearings.

@@jeremyweekes2126 What’s the worst divorce case you ever heard or seen ?

@@DD-ky2pi The endangerment of the kigolian scozza virus.

I know right? I'm glad that I wasn't the only one

He's PIMPING these women on their EMOTIONS... Steve is making MONEY! Just like a pastor in the church, pimping Jesus & FALSE HOPE to the congregation.

Knome King Bro I realized that ever since I was a child. My family and friends were trying to push their beliefs on to me.

@@gnomeking6568 💯

His moral barometer wouldn't allow him to tell those women the truth and potentially offend them xD

You used to have sex but now it's handed over much more liberally...

@@Anonymous-pr3gr bro sex can be handed over to you liberally if you play your game well , what you say now doesn't justify anything , marriage is a cage , it takes some of man's rights

@@sohlohmon3012 ...And women make it so easy that it's not worth spending time on one that won't give out sex. It's just easier to go out and find another one who will.

@@Anonymous-pr3gr I always had much more sex as a single man than I ever did as a married man. I believe that most men can say the same.

@@JustMe-ku6rk Depends. There are a lot of men out there who get no action whatsoever unless they have virtually no standards. It's only a small margin of men who have the opportunity to widely distribute themselves out to lots of women.

4 times...

@@m2goofy760 thanks for the clarification

what a clown at least hes a walking billboard on what a man shouldnt do or become.

Mr potato head looking ass has been divorced 4 times?? Lmao yeah it's goofy that he's giving the advice

*Asks Shaq for free throw lessons*

No sex before marriage is a tradition, too. But women tossed that one out without any complaints. If you are going to look at traditions like a salad bar, men get to pick and choose too.

The problem is, that certain traditions we've collectively tossed out because "Reasons"... Well, as we're seeing the destruction wrought by doing so, they were clearly there for a reason.

Goondock Saints Yes traditions are very important. Marriage was tradition because it worked back then. Women were less promiscuous, less likely to cheat, and had happier marriages 50 years ago.

cotton eye joe Traditions are defined as “The transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation.” Human rights are something that is passed down generation to generation, if everybody in this generation happened to spawn in the world with no passed down customs or beliefs, killing and slavery would be fine

@@AnthonySforza this tradition sprung from religion to which people are throwing away nowadays, so don't expect it to work without the manual, it will inevitably fail

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN

You earned my like

Whoever came up with this deserves a cookie.

@Bartandalus Blue It was rick from rick and morty.

😂😂😂 Why do I feel like you're anonymous

@Jn35 *She can find another victim to pray on. You are one of the proofs to why marriage is a really bad idea for men, that women lose nothing while men lose everything.

@Jn35 so why she forces men to marry ,when she don't want to

@Jn35 all the bs you wrote can only happen in countries in which women really don't have any rights, like some 3rd world countries or Muslim countries, but not in a western country

Yeap, men are afraid of divorces laws and women them selves that can grow fat, bitchy or even in some cases go crazy kill you in your sleep and claim abuse to get off easy.

@Jn35 Yes but they don't kill you with a hammer in your sleep to get the house and your investment portfolio from your kids now do they... So shut it.

Not even marriage, in most cases only the wedding.

@@peterjenei1619 You've made a hell of a point. I agree. Many cases.

Then you hear these red pills losers talk about women not getting married at young age and "losing eggs"

@@alexandramaun7366 they don't talk about them getting married, they talk about them not settling down and hopping from guy to guy untill they hit there late 30's with like 9 kids n serious baggage trying to pluck a rich dude for "security"

She can't make a rebuttal to THAT comment (those facts), @Mikael Tapoc !!! 🤣🤣🤣

Wise man

Legend. May he live forever

@@MrNeboff his dad 'used to say'

@@adflix424 Ah damn . I'm just realizing . Still a solid advice from him tho . May he RIP

If a Son learns the lessons his Father taught, the Father will always be with him.

Were her relatives heavily influencing her?

You need to make better decisions with what women you date

@@magichoodoo5028 Lol classic shaming tactics. "Must make better decisions". bla bla. Never mind there is a 50% divorce rate and 80-90% of those divorces are filed by WOMEN!

ShoUt oUt to ya! WE ARE THE PRIZE!!

@Roland Fraser Unlucky.

@@magichoodoo5028 bs. Bad women can fake being good women, and then reveal themselves eventually, long after the wedding.

C should of been the answer

They are so offended when they get older and men stop paying attention to them, but younger men who are less attractive or overweight are literally invisible to 99.99% of females. So let's cut the BS

Rotflmao

I loved that too

That kinda sounds like ice cube

A sad joke with no punchline...

@@ragingnoob3603 y

True

Legal marriage typically has zero incentive for men and tonnes for women. Marrying for religious reasons though is a totally different ball game

For every woman that needs a man, there is a cat that needs you too

Women need men... not the other way around. Sad thing is many women don't even recognize this and then cry when something inevitably goes wrong

and the woman think its men's fault they are single no most men are hotwired that if they see a hot woman theyre carnal desires manifest(and even Steve Harvey said if he had media he would cheat on his wife and he himself said that) in the end we are no better then rabbits we fluff and fluff till nothing is left

Yep until the Laws are Changed that are Unfair to Men.. NO MAN should get Married.... #Marriagestrikebymen

Math doesn’t agree with Steve

Ikr, I’m surprised they didn’t turn off the comments

Sarcasm ?

you too 👍

It gives me despair lol

😅

@cat man do dude, I think women as well don't realise it either, just as much as men do. Agreeably, Marriage is a lifelong commitment that includes both partners to fulfill their roles as being parents, being supportive of each other, and not one way or the other. A husband is a working relationship and not someone who can be easily disposable.

@cat man do YES JUST MAKE SURE SHE CAN COOK, CLEAN AND GIVE HEAD

That's a good point, I guess some people are rash enough to want the "better" sex, but don't want to lose what they have either..

yes i agree. Its crazy how someone can not be in love with you anymore and will not say nothing or end the relationship. They cheat or if you leave them they get homicidal.

Becaus it's a taboo, it's exciting.

raito it's exciting to be a jerk then ? ok

so , for bettor or worse, just words?

@@m2goofy760 they didn't poll youtube, they polled real bachelors. most of the youtube audience has given up already.

@@ristonalaimo5048 using my own ears and judging by what the audience is yelling, I would bet I am correct in my assumptions.

@@m2goofy760 that's funny you say that because the first time i heard this i thought i heard a lot of "B" being said, not "C", but i thought to myself before they read the polls that "C" was going to be the most popular by far. I think, honestly, a room of people that are single and still looking for women would fall in the "B" catagory, and a room of people looking through vidoes like this on youtube are already at the "C" answer. just giving my honest perspective, it's just a tad different from yours. anyway, have a good day, bro.

@@ristonalaimo5048 That's called an audio edit. It's not difficault

@sergio Koolhaas That 1 guy said "I want a recount" then the women with the ugly hair said "we want a recount". (She put ALL men into one pot, not only that 1 guy...now you see how women think)

+slimflex1 MGTOW!!!!!

+Tamani Wheeler XD much earlier than that, they scared of the woman saying NO to the proposal ;/ but thats a risk u gotta take

+Tamani Wheeler paying for ring, then wedding, then bigger house, then maybe a kid that I never wanted, then new vehicle..ugh

+Tamani Wheeler No REAL Return On Investment.

+Andre Johnson new vehicle?

What do you mean by that? It was the best advice you've ever gotten, but yet you say fathers need to be in childrens lives?

He has the experience lmao

I’m sure they’re all happy with their alimony. He knows his turn with each of them was over and he’s still rolling. No downside here.

And cheated

@@OrangePony75 he cheated on them but u men don't have issues with men doing wrong

Steve makes his living by siding with the women and for god's sake, never telling them the actual truth.

Jesse Hargrove Yeah, the C option should have way more votes.

It was rigged. Option C was the most picked. They had to give the women hope.

Stay single my friend I’ve been married 20 years and you summed up my life perfectly emotionally abused wage slave trapped in a loveless marriage it really sucks I don’t recommend it

@@jasonland455 You don't deserve it, no one does.

@@jasonland455 Start Drinking Yorkshire Tea bro you will see the effects in no time save yourself bro we need you bro.

F Yorkshire tea. Go woke go broke.

@@jamingaming9251 No, Yorkshire Tea has nothing to do with being woke.

Both

Most women don’t understand this that’s why smart men like me tend to avoid it.

They should look at his daughter

No one should really take advice from Steve IMO.

Thank you Steve Harvey has ripped women off with that book think like a Man and act like a lady but Steve Harvey acts like a tyrant when you being around a traitor like Donald Trump and see where he is now

@@folabomi713 yeah Steve Harvey abandoned his first 2 daughters in his first marriage and when he married Marjorie he accepted Lori Harvey as a stepdaughter this bama here is no relationship expert !

@@walterbrown9079 Omg really???? I look at him like a father :')

But only when the blowing and sucking stops. Just keep the sucking and blowing going

I spit all over the place when I laughed out loud at this.

This is the best thing I have read today!! 😂😂😂

wait you said this in another vids comments

Pun intended?

Yep

Exactly

Its like me sighning a contract that says i serve them for 2 months and get nonthing, bassically labor without pay

Nothing is simple, it doesn.t benefit 1 party if you both grow into your wealth

@Overlord 3108 grow its just a figure of speech ofc you work

lol, that's a very good answer.

Thank You , Well said !

Rafal Jot. They want to be proposed to and they want the wedding day

Their biology clock is ticking and they want a baby

Exactly look at these fish looking for bicycles lmao.

@@speedygaming3589 By then most of them are fatsos and would eat all the wedding cake themselves.

Well if a woman just told people I just want a baby but dont care about marriage, she'd be call all types of names so that's the most socially acceptable thing to do, get married and have a kid

thats a mgtow commercial right there

That’s a brother right there

😭😂🤣

Oh hellll no i aint goin in debt tonight

🤣🤣🤣🤣

And that would be true.

but they do NOT want to hear that. EVER.

@@krono6967 No?

That's true though too. If you love someone, they deserve to have the best you but if you go through some hard times - some family dies or you get laid off, it is their responsibility to be there to support you. Goes for both men and women.

@Esphaeras Praestans I think she bares some responsibility though, she's obviously overweight and probably doesn't look as well as she used to. So of course her man went after a younger and probably hotter woman. If she kept her image up or at least showed effort then she might not have gotten cheated on. You just heard that man say that attraction is important, she let herself go therefore making her man lose attraction.

Mr. Speyside, actually men do avoid marriage because when the courts got involved in the process, men can't avoid divorce.

Marriage is not a long way relationship if a women cheats and gets problems that leads to divorce, so yeah that definitely the main reason for us man to avoid marriage

The main problem is all the sympathy and the argument are often listen by women's side And since women are innocent ,Men have to do all things And when this thing happens at the court ,Men life is ruin over emotional ly, financial and his freedom gets f*cked Also if there is a child ,then your life is completely hell ,cuase you need to pay the whole salary as a wife and child support when you get divorced It's like a good man always cut first ,even he didn't done any wrong in his life!:(

I've heard that marriage is the number one cause of divorce.

Wrong sir! We avoid prison

What you've said is absolutely true. I was confused when the results came out. And then I saw the date on the video.

The 15% is way off. First thing I said to myself was "okay with it never happening". Times really have changed

Men, because of feminism, have found out theres really a great life out there without them.

@@weaponxi6151 I really thought the answer C would have get a 70%

Absolutely. It's "C" all the way in the 2020s!"

"Sex you want, you ain't getting. The sex you're getting, you don't want it."

Not even then. No thanks.

Then you'll never get married brother 😂😂😂👍🏻👊🏻

Oof, word of advice, marry someone who makes less than you. Women don’t date down and they elevate their own number so equal salary to them is you making less, and she’ll see you as nothing less. Stay safe and live smart my friend.

@Florian what? I'm saying avoid women with higher wages. where did I say marriage was a good idea??

She can quit her job and play you. Also child support will come for you and you will still lose part of your assets.

How am I not surprised...

He was right about 1 thing, she shouldn't worry about being the reason he cheats, she should worry about not actively being the reason he hates or starts to hate her i.e. being an unbearable nag, being unsupportive and putting him down, being a woman who keeps bringing up things that he might have done wrong, always acting like she is right and he is wrong.

lil chris tuten valid points, a nagging woman who takes no ownership for her own words and actions is the worst!

I believe he got divorced more than twice. I could be wrong though.

Pay really close attention to the small print.

+Roz Hudson Some women KNOW that they don't want children, even before they start dating the man that they're eventually going to marry. And then of course there's the topic of adoption. If you really want a child so desperately, adopt one that somebody else didn't want at all.

+Roz Hudson Yes we do. It just set differently.

The wall, sexless marriage and decades of trapped misery. Thank you all for coming and goodnight. Be sure to tip your waitress.

Men do have a biological clock. Just because they can produce sperm doesn’t mean it’s any good. If you study the biological science of children who’s father were over 40 when they were conceived, then you’ll know that mental disorders in those individuals are a lot more prevalent than those born to young fathers.

@@olganozdratenko3394 men can get mates at any age. Older women have far fewer options.

@Rick O'Shay Yep. The dummies that agree to have joint accounts (and she takes the liberty of paying off her MASSIVE student loan debt with HIS money).

@Rick O'Shay you pay les tax to the goverment but whats the point when she gets 80% of your income to do shopping

There isn’t a 60% divorce rate.... I’ve no idea why the guys here keep exaggerate the number. You’re looking at the crude number which also includes people on their second or third divorce. It’s more like 30-40%, which in itself is enough to let any sane man avoid it. And of those who don’t, how many are happy and how many are staying for financial, religious or emotional reasons? I only say this because I get irritated seeing people say it’s 80%+ when it just isn’t.

​@@liqritrs8391 Divorce rate or first marriage divorce rate, it's still a high rate.

If you fall in the marriage trap in 2021 then blame yourself. I’m not against marriage and I’d love to get married but it’s hard to find wife material these days, Be careful who you’re marrying to because during dating period we try so hard to display our good side both men and women

@James J. Koumos Well said and spot on!

Ikr

@James J. Koumos fax. i actuallly have no problem with the wedding and even calling myself married. its the legal marriage that i will never take part in. I wont put myself in a position to be divorce-raped, ever.

@James J. Koumos damn that's crazy. thx for the info bro. gotta be careful

Facts

You saw that too!😂👌🏾

Like lambs to the slaughter

@@jonathangrabban912 what a waste of time !!! If the trust is gone the relationship is over already. Gentleman don't waste your energy and money on this foolishness, if you're not a #mgtow then don't just marry some woman you like sleeping with but rather make an educated decision using logic and rationale so you don't become another divorce story.

rvhron08 why you laughing

Omar Raymundo Hell Yeah!!👍😀

Omar Raymundo this guy gets it lol

Yep

Omar Raymundo Correct. No woman is worth marrying.

yeah tell me about it

Give that man a medal lol

I want a recount without having someone look over their shoulders as they vote. While they're at it, no video taken of them either.

Flawless timing.

I want a fourth option: D. Not worth it.

None of the answers are right. Don’t get a marriage because there’s nothing in it for the men.

Quality men have not dwindled. That's a fallacy. Women have grown unrealistic expectations, and are ignored over the fantasy.

Honestly that's the 2 main reasons

You know whats crazy, a women can ruin a mans life permanently with just 3 words, "I got raped" or "he raped me" and even when he is proven innocent people will still think he is guilty

@@V4Now so they have dwindled...

@@ezramatan5233 no, they simply aren't looking at real quality that already exists and instead go for their idea of quality that doesn't.

Real talk

@@mrnobody6609 Stop dating western women. This is why religion matters find yourself a religious Russia/Ukrainian women and you will have none of those problems.

@@mrnobody6609 could u tell me some reasons why were better off single? I’ve never dated before just like the original comment

@@tyrannosoreusflex5297 there's a big possiblity that you'll get your heat broken and no one will care thinking it's your fault. Or simply : we are not in a romantic movie.

So the negatives are pretty strong and very real, however one needs to negotiate them with a plan for their entire life. Do everything you can to be financially secure in your 20’s and early thirties. Place those assets in a trust. Start again when you begin with a relationship. Don’t get married until you are financially secure and starting new money growth. Your trust is separate and un-comingled property. Recognize that everything built after she knew your name Is subject to take. Also the rule is she gets half in the divorce and the other half in monthly installments. That indentured servitude lasts until you are 65. That’s all you need to know. The So get married when you are 60 and hopefully the marriage lasts until you retire. It’s the slavery part that breaks most men. I misspoke I meant unending “alimony”.

For us blokes, its a costs benefit analysis

pinkwonder power I notice you haven't actually refuted anything I've said, though... lol.

Hey loneliness and single are two very different things

im a woman but i TOTALLY agree 10000%

I would read that as a compliment

Lets invade poland (Cuz they re not « progressists », to my knowledge)

@@reedy_9619 what

@@ywoisug8845 it s a questionnable joke... i was calling for emmigration towards poland (and eastern europe in general)

@@reedy_9619 don't bother, that femi disease is spread already there

Beg to differ. Guys & dudes killed it. Not real men. Our friends are living proof. Here's a single example & I have a plethora x's 20. Including my brothers, cousins, & yes my own Dad. My hubby is in mute shock. All he can say to them is, "Dudes, really--oh man! I merely smile mk small talk so I don't get too close to the ladies as they wont stick around for these behaviors. Ex: Our 40 yr old Ivy League best man met a wonderful younger 30 yr old woman with a real heart. She helped him thru the death of his Dad, 9-11, & an MS diag. He fell in luv. Wants to marry her, but. She hasn't completed dental school so shes on a budget. Her income at this time doesn't allow for our fancy Dr vacas so he dumped her for a fellow heartless celeb Dr. Why? The heartless narcissist has a slightly cuter exterior face The younger lady cd only afford to pay 1/2 of her own expenses for the trips he planned. He stated... "I need a female prettier than my boys ladies, one who can pay her own way 100% on our planned vacas, & I don't have to luv her just like the way she mks me look.

he was a studio plant for the cheap women applause

Rip dude 🤣🤣🤣

"I want my testicles in a jar".

@@lipsonjonathan211 "A very small jar"

@@JoeCnNd Lol good one.

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...and your boxed wine.

While we make money on cat food and battery stocks.

Amen

Don't forget their fantasies they want every men to be like a disney character

@@ghevisartor6005 #3 is more of a woman problem than men. They cant pair bond with men after their high body count. Scientifically proven

@@ghevisartor6005 There's no problem with wanting to sleep with different women, as long as you realize that if you were to get into a relationship then you'd have to be able to accept women who do or did the same.

No 3 just shows your hypocrisy. You actually don't want to have a family, so don't blame women for it. Of course she will divorce you if you can't sleep with only one person and you cheat.

@@TheWilDOn31 your argument made no sense at all.

@@johnjohnson3390 It makes perfect sense actually If 3 is a problem for you, then you don't want a monogamous ltr which values fidelity anyway; so the 1 and 2 is not even the real issues but just passing the blame onto somebody else

A man needs himself

"it's not your fault..." i knew his making a lip service when he dropped this one. fckin its their fault for not taking care of their bodies and they expect guys to stay healthy with those 6 packs? its like daylight robbery, only taking not giving fcking hell

Damn steidfjt

haha True. Actually as observed in nature, the highest value males take multiple females and low value males get none. And,... 'need' is a bit strong lol. It's the female who needs the man.

That is definitely not true that is Steve making women feel better about themselves. It keeps him a good paying job. Men can easily turn off their emotions. There emotions only really come out if they are getting laid and that's because they know they need to if they are going to keep getting laid. Men love first with physical attraction and can not maintain intimacy with a women that they are no longer physically attracted to her. What do men really get out of marriage. His importance in the marriage drops as soon as he is married and keeps going down with every child born and every animal adopted until he finally bows out or gets scooped up by the next lady who finds purpose for him.

RIP

You enjoy the truth.

Why are you using a burner account v for a Steve Harvey show comment section 😆🤣😂

RK831 that’s awful

@@JessieTG it's practically a fact

Abhishek Nair the spiritually mature dont see it that way, trust me

@@JessieTG and what's that 1/100 Women?

That's freaking ridiculous smh you got to have a narrow mind to think women get married just to get over on men in the end...we actually know how to fully committ and be a nurturer because its in our nature but men? Tuh!

Amber Ay.. yeah sorta how its the mans reward to smash her after paying for dinner and a movie.

cynical ape, men want their cake and eat it too. They can have multiple partners and have all the sex they want w/o commitments. I guess that's 'Friends with Benefits.' Good deal for the men, a raw deal for women who want something more than a 'one night stand.'

It's not Even I the bottom either

Full of virgins who are afraid of women and can't communicate in any way. It's a sad, depressing place to view.

BobbyRice2 are you serious lol

Not just serious, I'm correct!

@@TravelWithBradley sure you dont know them all

I mean that would still make me correct.

True not all women... #notallwomen? Lol?

If that's how they feel then why don't they just leave the relationship, stop wasting people's time.

Yea but let's remember not to generalize them like she did men. Unless that's just another one way street in favor for women. Maybe that's why he avoided it. lol. If she decided she's out for ANY reason... He's gotta pay and figure out the rest of his life.

@@f.k6920 Leave because their woman doesn't want kids? If thats the case why dont womenm leave when their men avoid marriage talk. Shes wasting her own time

Mr. Mint they should, did I ever say they shouldn’t. Leading people on is bad and settling is too. But women settling and staying with men who lead them on is a lot more complicated you can’t compare them because women and men live differently and are pressured into different things at different times.

*cough cough* 75

Fr

Aren't there ways to make sure it doesn't cost you more in the end?

@@wezichirwa5398 none that the court system can't overturn

@@stephenmacleod6173 I think this is primarily an American problem... Most of the things divorce law demands in your country don't happen where I'm from. There's no alimony for one thing. Only child support if there are children involved.

You should start now and not wait until after you die to communicate that to him. Tomorrow is not promised. Start them young.

yes that is what it is. women are all for women until they have a son. then reality hits. i watched a video a mom was asking how to keep her son safe from women cause she worried about false rape accusations and such.

The majority of today's modern women want the wedding, but not the marriage.

lol well said

Thank you, Patrice.

Right ✅

And when they do talk about their sexual partners they lie, believe me, always multiply by 2/3, I would say 3