Why Humiliated Men Are So Dangerous 

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“If you think strong men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.” Jordan Peterson

There’s nothing more dangerous than a man who has nothing to loose

Being well adjusted to a sick society doesn't help either.

“It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die, than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience” At times being humiliated constantly is actively worse than dying.

"Why should I apologize for being a monster? Has anyone ever apologized for turning me into one?"

Gardening helps gents. Any form of creation, construction and maintenance of your own personal property and space is a great outlet for too much energy.

Getting refused admission to a prestigious art school, for example, can have dire and unintended consequences for society as well.

"They all want you to succeed, but they never want you to succeed more than them"

Humiliation is especially hard to deal with. Because if a man talks about being humiliated, he is berated with things like "Stop being so entitled". Admitting to humiliation only adds to the humiliation and makes people think less of you.

Ted Kaczynski didn't 'lose status', he quit a professorship because he found out that the entirely theoretical branch of mathematics he specialized in, which had no known practical applications when he started, was being practically applied in weapons development. He went from teaching small classes of math majors to filling lecture halls with engineering and physics majors, and realized that he was contributing to a system of constantly expanding technologically driven totalitarianism that most people didn't believe was possible at the time, but which too many people today accept as normal.

I've been humiliated by nasty people but I just want to hurt the individuals that hurt me, not people that have nothing to do with me.

Could lead to suicide if the humiliation is on someone who doesn't want to harm others. Like a shy empathic kind. They would become a danger to themselves.

All humans have the potential to be dangerous. It really boils down to can we control our inner animal.

I was bullied and humiliated in hs, what helped me was going to the gym/mma and playing video games. My teacher taught me that people that humiliate others are abused by members of their family. Without the gym and mma training I would probably be in jail. It is never a mistake to go to a gym.

always destroy your enemies... do not humiliate them

"There is nothing for which a man asks to be paid dearer than for humiliation" -Nietzsche

Rejection leads to emotional numbness and a drop in empathy. When you don't care about others then I'd suggest it's much easier to do some pretty nasty things to them. Now given how many men are feeling some form of rejection, either by women or society in general, and we have a pretty dangerous situation.

Thing is, you don't even really need to be humiliated to *feel* as if you're being humiliated and truly believe it. I believe things like social anxiety, low self-esteem, etc, lead to constant perceived humiliation and low social worth.

Nothing is more dangerous than a man with nothing to lose.

Moral of the story: Treat people with respect and equality because you never know what they're capable of

I heard about a similar experiment where the subject was left in a waiting room where there are two other people sitting. The two others started tossing a ball back and forth between themselves, then they included the 'subject' into the game. Then they abruptly excluded the subject and went back to tossing the ball only between themselves. Then the experimenters measured the emotional response to the subject to being rejected in a silly game by strangers. The subjects were surprisingly negatively affected. There was no mention of humiliation in the study, it was simply about being excluded. So imagine if being excluded caused a disproportionate emotional response, one can imagine what added humiliation would do.

Imagine abandoning, alienating, excluding, humiliating, degrading, gaslighting and mocking men who are already down on their luck in life and then wonder why they come for you. This society will get what it deserves sooner or later.

Malcolm once said "The most dangerous man is the man who doesn't give a f*ck".

Dude, the unabomber was the first one to see what is happening RIGHT NOW!

To humiliate someome purposefully is a malicious act, and malicious acts always find their way back to the person who committed it. This works on the micro-level, and it works on a macro-level. No evil deed goes unpunished. Even if the evildoer evades karma in a physical sense, they cannot escape their own conscience, unless they lack it entirely. And if they lack a conscience, they lack humanity, and their lives were worthless to begin with.

Because there is nothing left to loose.

Wow. WW1 was a huge humiliation for the Germans. And the war reparations continued for decades. That humiliation had to have contributed to the rise of Hitler and the start of WW2.

Getting vengeance on bullies and people who humiliated you in the past is 100% justifiable. Doing harm on random people who mind their business is not

Media will never cover topics like this, they just wait for next bomber

You need to find self worth in activities and beliefs that do not require the approval of other people.

Feeling humiliated is a mistake, what you perceive as a loss is actually a gift, a gain and even a power that time will grant you if you allow yourself to see it… Thank you Chris and Will for this video, this video is certainly under rated I feel.

“Imagine a society that subjects people to conditions that make them terribly unhappy then gives them the drugs to take away their unhappiness. Science fiction It is already happening to some extent in our own society. Instead of removing the conditions that make people depressed modern society gives them antidepressant drugs. In effect antidepressants are a means of modifying an individual's internal state in such a way as to enable him to tolerate social conditions that he would otherwise find intolerable.” ― Theodore Kaczynski

Interesting, I watched Mindhunter and when the agents interview Kemper, he depicts a story of humiliation from an early age from adults. So I think humiliations suffered in childhood distort the soul so much that they lose all sense of empathy, kindness, belonging to society.

Industrial Society and its Future should be required reading. Ted had numerous valid points. His critique of the left in particular, was pretty spot on years prior to what it has become today.

When the only emotion you feel is bitter rage at the way everyone treats you, and you are told by society that anger is bad and you aren't allowed to feel that way, and you have no outlets for that anger, over time it destroys you. In essence, ostracized young men have an overabundance of aggression that we as a society need to channel into healthy outlets. Thank God I got into boxing, there was no fucking way I would have joined a sports team after jocks had been bullying me since elementary school.

This will probably be an unpopular opinion, but I often wonder if extreme bulling is a form of siblicide. Caused from forcing children together in an unnatural setting, for long, stressful periods, with limited resources. Humans didn't really develop to spend long periods of time in densely populated, indoor settings, with nothing physical to do. Siblicide is fairly common in some animals when they become stressed, it would make sense then that human children might exhibit the same behavior if forced together. They find a kid who is a little weird, or for some reason doesn't seem like "one of us" and they try to peck them to death. I've mentioned my theory to a few doctor friends I know and they always seem very disturbed by the idea. They never seem to want to look into the idea. I'm really just curious though, it seems like it there was a definitive answer it could prevent at least some of the bulling.

Imagine humiliating an entire nation

I mean this hardly takes a PhD to answer. "You get what you fucking deserve" folks.

Modern society tends to do this to men these days

Possibly the biggest reaction you can get today is to say that excluded and humiliated men are a massive threat. This gentleman's book wil not be publicised, no one wants the hear that message. People don't understand, or don't want to admit, they built most of the modern world but when you exclude them and prevent them from competing on an even playing field, at first they will with draw. And most will stay withdrawn but a few will rise up and the results will not be pretty. That's not a threat it's a fact. And the aftermath will be all hand wringing and denial.

The Darkness can be all consuming…

Ted was never humiliated, per se, he has such strong personality that he wouldn't care on others opinions about him. He deliberately chose his course of action to bring attention to his idea about what was happening and disconcerting to him. Ideas which were almost entirely accurate in depicting so, million years far ahead of everyone else, which speak volume to his deep and sharp analytics.

Anger is a powerful tool and weapon.

The most scary thing in this world is a man that has nothing to lose.

From what I have seen throughout my life, negative energy has driven most of my friends to succeed rather than positive motivation. Humiliation, being insulted by an Ex or parents, looked down upon by someone of an upper echelon of the society etc things like these have made my friends work hard so that they can prove wrong all the people who have underestimated them.

Frankly this is scary stuff, & makes me question my own reactions. I was bullied a lot in my younger life, & have a tendency to aggressive responses now to ANY attempt of people to treat me like that again. I don't have "grandiose" thoughts of myself though, beyond a conviction that I don't deserve mistreatment. Does that make me a potential killer too? Also, the experiments these "scientists" run seem to me to be utterly sick. Why are they allowed to do them?

If the Lord hadn’t said “vengeance is mine I will repay”, there be a lot more people seeking vengeance. Love one another.

The key is to never care about status in the first place, only about doing the right thing.

One day, there's going to be an humiliated individual who has the charisma of Adolf Hitler and Napoleon Bonaparte, with the same military and political knowledge. Then raise a terrifying army.

i have to admit i dream of getting revenge on society, i think being abused and bullied too much in my life especially from girls really ruined my sanity. now i feel i have no morals, i hope i dont snap for society sake.

Narcissists will always feel humiliated. There is no one who can give them all the validation they require. Women avoiding Elliot Rodgers were showing astounding good sense, he had (family) money and looks.

This also reminds me of the Jenny Jones scandal, a man was humiliated on national television and it led to murder.

Why I advise my friends to give an aggressor in a verbal and potentially physical altercation the last word, closure .... Men don’t kill because they hate, they kill because they are humiliated or emasculated.

All narcissism is a defense mechanism for shame

Those who have been wronged by life have all the rights to retaliate. As kojeve said, the master would rather choose death than acknowledging another man superiority,he is only satisfied by death, his own or the one of his enemy. Respect to those who choose death over the servile recogniction of other. The fight has ended and peace is yours now.

I think it's a little unfair to call them narcissistic. In some of these cases they are very talented and capable but due to an unfortunate set of circumstances are not permitted to progress.

One way I found to avoid humiliation was to lie and make up an entire great past story about myself. Problem is I'll never be able to be truly honest with anyone for the rest of my life, not even my parents, or even gf I got because of those lies. I'm undercover in my own life. It can be a burden sometimes, but at least I won't be disrespected again.

It came out that Gabby Petito's father humiliated Brian Laundrie regularly by calling him always by a derogatory name instead of using his real name.

You can push a man only so far. We create the monsters.

This guy does not know anything about the Unibomber. He did not just target Universities, his rage was not about having been humiliated. Read his manifesto, this guy obviously did not.

Now we know why some rich people play the "I had a terrible poor childhood" game.

That’s why you don’t play the life game among others like a mad lad, but play the life game with yourself and see how far you can improve yourself. Don’t also desire obsessive wealth and materials. That will make you happy for a while but sad and a heavy burden later.

50+ years of feminist shaming, blaming & denigrating boys & men worked better than expected...

What about mothers who bully and humiliate their sons to express their hatred for men

The no empathy exhibited for higher status people is especially concerning when you consider the unrelenting push for the oppressor/ oppressed narrative of identity politics and critical race theory that’s bleeding into every aspect of our lives.

Being told you have toxic masculinity due to your genetics and you should be labelled and condemned for it. All while being told to believe all women no matter what evidence is provided.

The man who spent his life getting humiliated time and again basically has nothing left to lose. When a man has hit rock bottom in his heart, mind and soul, look out, because a powder keg is about to explode!

This was a great topic, as the outburst from humiliation could have both positive and negative effects. On one hand it is disastrous, on the other it is the gateway for a "weak" man to transform into a "strong" man. I strongly believe that the word "bully" wouldn't have existed in the first place if half the population had the guts to swing back. And the earlier a man wakes up it is usually the better, like the quiet kid knocking the teeth out of his bully's mouth before committing a massive bang bang in his school

It seems to me that humiliating a person can easily and likely will result in severe backlash, but Everytime I have expressed that concern towards people that were engaged in or enjoying such behavior,they blew that theory off as just cowardly thinking,they believed that to continually pose this kind of treatment would break the individual creating a living punching bag for them, well that was indeed the results a few times, however the majority of the time that person retaliated in horrific fashion, and the perpetrators were always stunned.

Sad to break it down to you, but the lack of empathy from people kills people. Ostracized people do not want to be part of society and do not respect it, thence they hate it and want it destroyed. If we open our eyes and keep tabs on people who are having trouble in life, we ought to help them and show them what being human truly means. We have plenty of time to be kind to each other, most of us simply don't do that. Our disdain for "inferior" people is what makes these people more and more dangerous.

It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a sick society. Why chase after status in that? The big mistake is believing that status is important.

The most dangerous kind of man is one who has nothing left to lose.

Ted kazincky had every right to feel that way and his revenge is more than justified for what they did to him!

Your channel is exuberating and talks about all the topic I find alluring! Thanks for touching on our societal problems that seldom people talk about! ❤😢

I'd hate to admit it, but I've both been humiliated and have humiliated others in my life. One example is a guy I work with, he measured something wrong and I wasn't extreme about it but I was basically like "ugh can't you ever just pay attention? Do you need glasses or something?" Something to that effect. I knew when I did it, it came directly from both how I was raised and how I was treated when I was starting out. Basically the logic was this "we are all on the same playing field, and all of the same rules apply to each and every one of us. Whenever I've messed up in life, the world around me had no problem whatsoever laughing at my expense and rubbing my nose in it. That same rule WILL apply to you now that I'm at the other end of this BS stick" I want to be a kinder person to others, but it's hard to when you yourself have had to endure it. I remember when I was 6 years old not figuring out a math problem, and my dad was lording over me, in a very aggressive tone telling me to count it out loud. I felt so embarrassed, ashamed, and stupid. The last thing I want is to do that to someone else, whether it be a kid of my own or e day or simply a new employee in the company I work for. But it's such a split second knee jerk reaction of like well I remember what "worked" for me and no I'm not gonna spare you, what do you think you deserve better than me?! I have to learn to be more conscious of what I say and think before I react because in my heart I never feel good ultimately after treating someone badly. It every time makes me feel good for like a second, and then bad the rest of the day or even more lol so it's not how I wanna live my life

When you use the experience to improve your self you can go really far

His closing points about pain and pleasure networks in the brain becoming active in the rise and fall off others, really are so true, but also incomplete. I would contend that while this is wired into human nature, the individual's sense of purpose and self-actualization, the opening of their heart, is the counteractive opposite force to this sort of schadenfreude. To the degree that we see the world through eyes of love and understanding, we are able to transcend our attention towards status and instead able to focus on living fully.

I don’t know what’s wrong with humans. I try to be kind to others cause I don’t know what they go through, just like I want them to be kind to me. It’s really not that hard

"That's how it starts. The fever. The rage. The feelings of...powerlessness...that turns good men...cruel."

A perfect example of this in video form is Joker with Joaquin phoenix. If people want to know what it looks like when a man gets pushed past his limit, watch that film. Then you’ll know

When there’s nothing left to lose, resentment, anger and violence do tend to surface

This is precisely why it’s so important to examine ourselves and work through our feelings of contempt and resentment in a healthy way otherwise these undealt emotions tend to fester & manifest in unpleasant ways

"Everyone follows someone sad on social media just because you like seeing them fail" You wot mate?

Humiliation is just the trigger. Most men learn to cope with it but some can't and go nuts

'those who deny peaceful resolutions encourage violent resolutions'

Because they didn't have a Man as a good father figure to help them build self esteem and a core value system...

In my estimation it's more about youths being conditioned and raised to believe that they can never fail, they can do anything, and that if anything goes wrong it's not their fault. Then, when reality hits them, they are not equipped to handle reality and they snap. Most of this goes back to poor parenting in my estimation. Raise kids to understand unfairness, difficulty, hardships, failure, and disappointment.

I loved this. Explains a lot I've seen in life.

So interesting and so much to meditate on after listening to this. Thank you

Oh you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one’s] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers...Al Quran 49:11 - Beautifully summed up IMO!😇

Humiliating a man is extremely dangerous. If someone overtly disrespects you in any way in prison, you have to immediately take off on them no matter what the consequences are. Or you become a permanent victim in the prison hierarchy. This is such a severe thing that many a man has earned a life sentence for murder inside the walls or gotten years added to a sentence for assaulting a guard because they were obligated to by convict rules. That's how serious it is to be humiliated. It's even WORSE than adding substantially to the time you're incarcerated, or never getting out.

I cannot think of anything more dangerous to human life itself than a humiliated man with a purpose for vengeance.

Humiliation helps me work harder in gym and be more focused. However, it also makes me cold and with scars of fear of social interaction. I don't know if makes me good a bad.

interesting topic!! well done!! I'm glad men are looking deeper into themselves and figuring out solutions to remedy the root cause of theirs and other men's troubles. Hope to see more of this, quite insightful, due to it being a fresh new take into the psyche of troubled men.

Mike Tyson, David Goggins, Kobe Bryant are guys who were humiliated but became dangerous in a good way.

Nothing more humiliating than being generous in a sick ass world 💯

“It is not a healthy measure to live in a sick insane society” - wise Indian monk

You know, I was an A's and B's student without studying for a long time. Got bullied for being smart and white in an almost all black school. Got bullied as an adult for being awkward, smart, white and emotionally disturbed. Never really found success because I was dealing with a mental break that happened at 16 for the past decade and a half. Spent a lot of time thinking about morality, and what it meant to be good. Spent a lot of time learning psychology, mostly to fix myself - but along the way I've found out more and more things about human nature that have made much sense to me. Finally found out how to love myself, since finding a stable romantic relationship was never a possibility without money and muscles. Now I can get the money and muscles and I don't want the romantic relationship because a romantic relationship built on superficial reasons sounds absolutely fake to me. And there is no other kind for someone at my age. The thing that I've decided to do is go ahead and get the success, I've recovered enough for that. I like video games, and I figured out that I can double my total play time by going ahead and making sure that I live a long life instead of letting myself waste away and die in my 40's after my mom passes. Of all the things I've learned about humans the thing that stands out to me is this: in order to prevent all human suffering, or to diminish human suffering to a manageable level, you would have to genetically alter humans until that name and the definition behind it no longer apply. That says a lot about who we are. So, during my time finding success, I will in all likelihood devote myself towards learning as much as I possibly can about science and biology so that I can artificially construct the most potent strains of viruses the world has ever seen and release them upon the human race when I have finally lived a long and fulfilling life, hopefully destroying humans in their entirety. It wouldn't be that hard, just long and tedious and I'm smart enough and I have reason enough to do it. So, in another 40 years or so...Hopefully human suffering will come to an end, and I'll have my revenge. That's the thing about the unibomber and other mass murderers, they didn't dig deep enough to the most underlying conditions propagating the problems they were hoping to fix or bring attention to with their violence. It all comes back to human DNA. I know many people would be glad if I did this. I might, I might not, we'll see if humans can leave me the fuck alone for the next 40 years or so. Can't love people anymore, can't accept their love, either, knowing that it almost only ever comes from a desire for self satisfaction, self validation, or self righteousness. There's maybe 1 genuinely good person for every 100,000, and that's not enough reason for the human race to live, imo. I just hope someone beats me to it, or we all die out from climate change. And even then, another sapient species will pop up eventually that follows similar flaws that we intrinsically have, because the nature of survival in our universe has led us down this genetic path, so even they will suffer needlessly. I wish that I could destroy the whole universe because of that.

It's funny its really relatable when they talk about humiliation the difference is that im not a narcicist so i don't really feel any kind of agressive urge, but its funny. Humiliation has a way of kind of reaking you or atliest leaving you to a darker mindset, i feel like the reason its so prevalent in males is not only the biological affinety towards agression. But also the fact that for men status means everything. If we loose it we loose our livelyhoods, our communities backing. I know becaus im of as low status as you can basicly get. I remember talking with some women, theyw ere way older than me, and somhow it got brought up that i hadn't attended college, just the sheer change in atmosphere. They insantly lost respect for me, it was surreal, i used to talk with them a couple of times a month but after it came out they never spoke to me again. Just such a little thing is enough to make somone dislike you. As a man we are only to others what we achive, truth is alot of men yern to be accepted as they are. I'm not sure this is right or wrong is regards to what direction society should go, i just see things as they are. I have been in very specific vacumes where i was of status for a short time the difference is imense, just the sheer amount of respect you gain, the way people treat you its such a huge shift. Becaus men are valued no more than what they can provide in relationships and in all it is wired into our biology to be competetive, we express this in various ways sports and games are some of the most productive displays of this. In the end i guess we just want to be loved and accepted, its at our very core. The only way we can achive this is through our merit its our only hope of being respected if not a fleeting one. And when you humiliate somone especially men, you endanger that sense of stability.