Wow! The brainwashing is strong. This conversation started off as how the SMV market is increasingly failing men. Somehow the focus shifts to "how can we cater for waymens ambient anxieties". Chris go watch some of kevin Samuel's very recent shows. He brakes it all down in practical terms.
Why does it seem that more women want to be educated and earn more money because they are living in the great double standard, want a fix legalise prostitution...
We're at the point where women can sell bath water and farts in jars to desperate lonely men. Let me say that again -- women can sell their farts in a jar. That sounds like a running joke concept in a south park episode 15 years ago. What the hell is going on?
@@utoober33 exactly. But its easier to blame “all men” or “all women”. This idea that a whole group are conspiring against you is delusional at best. We all have things we can work on, men and women.
Most men are too beta/socially awkward/ugly/short to get girls because girls nowadays have too many options due to social media, so their standards are higher.
Once I realized male-female dynamics in the present day. I said it myself it's not worth it. Just focus on being the best person I can be. What I didn't expect is that I would find incredible peace and I'm more than content. Seeing all my friend being destroyed by divorce, relationships, and family courts... I said no way in hell.
yeah im trying to not let it get to me and learn to find that peace. it's hard when you just got mind blasted by the truth of everything been halfway tempted to give up and call the va for antidepressants at this point but also trying to stay strong and hoping that things balance out emotionally with time.
Peace is a currency men no longer get paid with in modern relationships. It's a shame men have to reject modern relationships in order to get paid in a currency they value. Honor, respect, loyalty, authority, etc. are a few other currencies men have a hard time getting paid with in relationships these days.
ahhhh, but you missed out though. having to chase her around and beg for sex when you're still young and vigorous and she's still attractive somewhat, and it hasn't become boring yet; but then, when you're middle-aged and your blood has cooled (thank goodness), and she's DRASTICALLY declined too, THEN for some reason SHE demands it, and you better perform. even during the day, when you can't just rely on the dark to hide the awful truth and allow you to at least use your imagination:)
@@gregy1570 all you have to do is stay in shape. I'm 38, prior military. I workout 10-12 hours a week, walk/run 18 miles, cycle around 150 miles a week (work permiting). I know plenty of guys in their 50's who will out perform most teenagers. I've always stayed in shape. When I was a combat and flight medic in the military, I was attached to infantry units and the Ranger battalions. You have plenty of men in their 40 and 50's that are still killing it. The down side of this is your sexual drive doesn't decrease. But again, it still not worth it.
Social media is the romantic equivalent of spotify, no matter what song you’re listening to you, you always feel like maybe there’s a better one since you have access to pretty much every song in the world.
Access to be able to chat and talk with almost every man in the world. Modern western Wimen are priviliged in terms of mayeselecting its getting unreal
@@TipseyTiger1996 Didn't bother to even read the description huh? Ill spell it out to you. A Cogenitor is a 3rd gender which is forced to labor to provide for a child that is not its own biologically while simultaneously being denied any input on raising said child. Marriage today means you're the one paying. She can still go out and you cant stop her, if another man impregnates her you'll still be put on the birth certificate. You'll be denied the ability to have input in raising the child by the public school system.
We need a massive study on the ‘free stuff gap’ and the ‘who pays the most taxes gap’ and the ‘who dies in war gap’ and the ‘suicide gap’ and the ‘hard and dangerous jobs gap’ and the ‘child and spousal support payments gap’.
Men are checking out of society, and rightfully so. Without men running society, it will in-fact, collapse. I am very much looking forward to the day of collapse.
its more primal than that.. studies show womem rate 85pc of men as below average attractiveness whereas the opposite is the normal bell curve you'd expect.. eggs are expensive, sperm is free. facts
@@louisavondart9178 One day after society collapses and all of your daily comforts and rights is stripped from you. Women will also realize that the men that they had stepped on and mistreated are the same men responsible for everything that they had. What goes around will come right back around. More men are starting to wake up and realize our ancestors were correct. Men will put women back in their place. Deep down you already know, women have no real power against men. Deep down you envy men, because you know we’re better than you in every way. More men will come to this same realization. Count your days
I was so shocked when at our last High school reunion I was approached by at least 4 or 5 women on a group of 30 despite me wearing my marriage ring openly. 15 years ago these girls wouldn't even give me the time of the day and now they seem to assume I would cheat on my wife because they apparently think they are "hot" some of them earning x percent more, some x percent less then we, boohoo. They ridiculed me then because I was a geek and now they apparently think I should cheat with them on my adorable geeky wife because now they are 'ready'? I don't get their logic... is there any logic involved on their part?
Pre-selection may be at play here. Essentially, you have been selected by another woman, therefore you must have something about you. Women want what other women want. Also, you are taken, and women want what other women have. Plus they may just be spiteful and want to ruin your relationship, since they themselves are not happy. Misery loves company.
The answer is a firm no. Remember these are the same kind of people to petition Google for underpaying them only for the numbers to reveal they were underpaying the men
@@tomhavenith2330 No problem dude. As long as you keep yourself healthy, your wife stays faithful and you don’t allow scum of any shape or form to take advantage of you You’ll stay happy friend
I have unfortunately allowed myself to go 14 years without trying to find a lady. I feel like I'm in another world that doesn't give much of a damn about me. Alas I still press on, in a fog.
Christopher Patrick - just a suggestion - try a local choir (even if you aren't a great singer) as choirs are usually way more female than male. Or try an after work course in something you are interested in that women are also likely to take eg psychology or Art History, and/or even if you are atheist do a free 'taster course' for those who aren't religious asking 'is there a God' eg Alpha course for people in your age group. Doing courses you will meet many people over the weeks of the course and expand your social circle (they will have their own friends etc). Unless a course is age specific you may just meet older and younger people - but the olders have children and youngers have older siblings/cousins etc). IMO the once a week courses give you a chance to meet people who aren't drinking/dressed to the nines etc and find out who they are gradually. IMO this is way more authentic than meeting at a nightclub or bar one night.
@@someonesomeone25 You learn almost everything by 'doing' and social skills doubly so.... ie the more courses and different people you meet the more you will develop social skills. Also, not everyone who has a partner is attractive or rich. People who are trying to expand their minds/better themselves are more attractive than people who sit home watching TV/playing computer games.
Simple solution. 1.) Women and men both need to work towards being the best version of themselves. 2.) Women and men need to realistically evaluate themselves to see what they bring to the table. It’s unrealistic for most men to think that their wife will look like an Instagram model who is going to cook and clean for you. It’s unrealistic for most women to expect that their husband will be in the top 10% of earners, very tall, handsome and fit. 3.) Look for a partner who has the character traits you want. For example, integrity, honesty, sense of humor, work ethic etc. 4.) Make sure the partner you pick has similar values and your goals align. 5.) Picking your partner is NOT a business deal. It’s not about getting rid of your partner for a younger & sexier person or dumping them because you found somebody who makes more money. It’s about the person you love and are committed to be with through good and bad times for the rest of your life.
See women won't do that, because they already bring something to the table in the form of childbearing. And men have no recourse to that. The only option is to end all traditional roles. Get rid of child support and stop shaming men into fathers then women will actually have to negotiate to actually see change. But that will never happen women make up over 50% of the vote.
As a man these days you don't really get to PICK your partner. Often times either you take what you can get and hope that you like her overtime or end up single for a lengthy period. And that is without looking for an IG model or Halle Berry in her prime type woman. Even as childless, financially stable in shape men we STILL don't truly get to "pick" who we want to do per say. Most of the time we have to settle unless you're rich, or a Chad/Tyrone.
Men are realistic in most cases about their standards and this comment annoys me a lot. You're throwing the blame at men? Okcupid shows men have an almost perfect Bell Curve on who they find attractive in fact it is proven by a number of studies that women hold impossible standards and are not even attracted to most men this data is out there. Yet here you are blaming men, rather than putting the blame squarely where it belongs with women. Women have way higher standards in general do you know any women lol? Must be Tall, Dark, Handsome, rich, men on the other hand require a woman in most cases to be slim something you can do by not being GREEDY! Yes men have a role to play and of course they're at fault in many ways but when you CONSTANTYLY dilute the conversation and blame men for women's choices it derails the real issues. Also it speaks volumes about your knowledge on this and all the studies into attraction by dating companies. Men also widely report they can pull more attractive women in real life.
I once dated a girl and we got on great then she found out I was allergic to dairy products and cos she was a huge cheese fan she ended it there and then saying that food is one of her big joys and if I couldn't share her favourite food with her then that wasn't what she wanted🤣🤦🏻♂️ I stayed single for 8 years after that until I met my current gf who is amazing, I don't like cheese, she does, but she hates baked beans and I love em. Don't sweat the small stuff, life is too short
@@GUITARTIME2024 then I got off lightly huh, who would want to be with someone who hasn't got the cajones to be honest and tell you straight. Not me. She'd probably smell of Swiss cheese down there anyway with the amount she put away 😂😂🤦🏻♂️
Hypergamy is a greedy creature. A man who can provide is not enough. He needs to be one of the the best compared to everyone else. In a world where everyone was richer and better looking than Chris Hemsworth - I guarantee Chris would never get laid.
That's the real source of the problem. And nobody's talking about it. Female hypergamous nature is literally evil. 100k yrs ago, it was necessary for survival. But now, it's just the literal embodiment of greed. It has become completely maladaptive in the 21st century. It's going to lead to depopulation. And if you believe Elon Musk, this will lead to the collapse of civilization. But the elites don't care. They've been pushing this nonsense (feminism) on purpose, because they want to reduce the population.
@@dantieri9193 Bullshit. Raping children is evil. Murdering innocent people is evil. Stealing someone's wallet is evil. Countless things are evil. I've read 'Beyond Good & Evil.' I'm very well-versed in Nietzsche. Your nihilistic ennui is unimpressive.
@@everything...interesting I agree it’s maladaptive to the the current environment, but wouldn’t say it’s evil. I would define evil as consciously causing others unnecessary harm. Taking half a mans stuff just because the law supports it is definitely on the spectrum of evil though. But you could be an greedy person and not be a thief. There is a golden ratio for everything, including the Earths population. Perhaps it is time we curb our population growth. If you look at every other organism that has a population outbreak - which is what mankind has been experiencing over the last 100 years - it is always followed by a sharp collapse. Mankind really needs to work out what our sweet spot is, and then maintain that balance. Who knows - perhaps this unbridled hypergamy will lead to women only breeding with top tier men, in which case after a few generations most men will be good looking and desirable. Natures own eugenics. There is a lot we don’t know.
@@peripheralparadox4218 All I know is, it would be nice to be in a committed relationship with a woman and not know that her inner nature is always just looking for the next best thing. Kinda makes the whole thing seem pointless
@@everything...interesting I know the feeling man! Even if I were wealthy, I wouldn’t want a woman to know that. It’s the only way you can guarantee she’s not acting on her hypergamy. But that just means unless you’re good looking, pretty much no women will be interested.
Don’t forget that when comparing women’s degrees to men, men still predominantly have a predisposition to physical labor when it comes to trades, blue collar wrk, etc, it’s in our DNA. We are different.
I have a better question. Why would any man want to bring a kid into this world? If a man doesn't want to have a kid, why get married? Just stay single and watch society implode.
That's my life philosophy. I wait for the water wars in 15 years. All the climate refugees from Africa and middle east will collapse all first world systems by their millions of millions of millions masses.
This is a result of social engineering, there has been a steady and concerted effort to drive boys out of the higher education system as well as a relentless pursuit by employers to most highly hire women
@@cosmeticscameo8277 I've been sort of a self-trained (autodidact) speed reader for decades now. Some items I read diligently; some I sort of skim. I got to the last few words of the OP's comment, and it tripped me up big time. Had to reread it three times. I get the drift, but his/her alliteration threw me for a loop! Much better would have been "...to mostly hire women."
There hasn’t been an effort to drive boys out of higher education. They themselves are leaving. There is a study on this and I forgot the name but it’s an effect calls “someone hung gender leave” the study says that whenever women join something men do, the men themselves decide to abandon that thing out of fear of the feminine. The study gives examples about how Men used to wear heels because it was a symbol of upper class and power but then when women started wearing that, men stopped doing that and by their own will left, or like how pink used to be a male colour but once a woman decided to wear it and many women then decided to wear it, men stopped wearing it and blue now became the colour for the masculine. Pink was a colour for masculine coz of how similar it was to red which symbolised power. To summarise, whenever and area of something gets “invaded” by women, men leave. Most teachers were Male. Look now? Most psychologist were Male. Look now? Another study showed that a man is less likely to go to a university if he is aware that it is made of mostly women, even if it was like 52% 48% men. There is a study on that I’m literally trying to find it.
There is nothing wrong with hypergamy. That is likely why we're still here as a species. What we have today is not hypergamy, it is absolutely unrestrained, unfettered, you go girl hyper-hypergamy. Eventually, it is a numbers game. There are only so many (and really very few) of the top top men that are desired by a majority of women. Average men don't stand a chance until she's 'ready to settle down' and average man might then be able to wife up someone. Even THEN the wammens will complain about having to 'settle'. Alpha widows are a real thing.
Times changed, more men don’t want these girl’s anymore when they are finally rdy. It’s really bad for society but I think it’s the normal way of evolution.
we're still here as a species because for thousands of years women's behavior was restrained by men. 50 years ago we decided to just let them do whatever tf they want, and now we have this trainwreck
@@shaunsteele8244 Men's behavior is being restrained by natural law these days. Only top males deserve to breed. Just the way nature intended. It's worked for billions of years.
Facts about men and women: Beautiful Women are common. High Value Men are rare. High Value Men who are handsome and alpha are like unicorns. A woman's youth and beauty will always fade. A man's wealth and status can last forever. That's why a high value man will always have leverage in the dating and relationship market, no matter what.
Yeah, exceptional beauty isn't that exceptional. In every class there's a girl that is as hot as they come. But how many of the guys will turn into powerful and wealthy men? Depends on the level obviously, but if you talk about fuck you money, there'll be 10 hot bimbos for every guy.
Bro I started working on myself because of this and for the first time in my life chicks on a mass scale started noticing me. I would say you either play the game or you lose and there’s no point in not playing so just try to do the best you can and trust me you will be better off than the 40% of guys who already gave up.
@@vincentdimitri169 what is wrong with feminism? The dictionary definition: the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. What is so wrong about it as described by the dictions it definition? Do you mean feminism or man haters?
There is an aspect of the human spirit that tends to function in this way. But to the extent we do, we are morally/spiritually corrupted. There is a deeper form of masculinity/femininity that is not a zero sum game- and is a form of attractiveness that emerges from the individual's being itself rather than their status in society
Thank social media. People have no idea how to simply TALK to a stranger anymore, it's seen as weird or creepy for a guy to approach a woman in public these days.... that's a terrifying concept!
To be fair a lot of men do approach women in a creepy way and for years would honk at ones they think we're attractive as they drove by. In Australia men are really rough and yell at women they think are attractive and get mad when the women are not interested or don't like being yelled at. Rough as guts Aussie bogan culture. I don't like wokism but it has made this less socially acceptable. I have been honked at when riding my bike which could be so dangerous.
I disagree I'm Nigerian and this whole concept of stay at home wives is relatively new to most Africans. Back in the day both men and women worked in farming and other jobs. In fact, many women did not just work during and after their pregnancies but I've heard many stories of women giving birth in the farm, market or Bush where they worked, in fact some of them gave birth on their own in these places and brought home the baby.
This video is about a first world problem, especially those countries with welfare. I recommend to all my male friends that they go overseas to find a wife. I am married to a Kenyan lady, but men can find a good wife in SE Asia, Ukraine, South America, and many other 3rd world countries (including Nigeria).
@@JaimeWarlock If you think those women aren't marrying you for your money and access to the West, you are a fool. Even a poor western man is rich to women of those countries. And there are countless stories of those women marrying western men, getting residency in the West, and then divorcing them. And they are more cunning and able to play the 'I adore you' game than western women, as in many cases it is a matter of survival as they have no welfare where they are from. Do not be fooled. Unfortunately, many men fall for it, and live to regret it.
@@db7084 Men ususally look for youth and beauty just like they look for someone financially stable. A totally fair trade. Love is developed over spending time together. Also, there are plenty of women willing to marry Americans without wanting to come to America. I retired in Kenya and my wife will probably never see America.
@@JaimeWarlock Yes, it is a fair trade... if she intends staying with him. There are many men who bring their wives to live in the west, only to end up alone and financially poorer after a couple of years when she divorces him and retains residency (and welfare), as was her plan. And western men are a catch in most poor third world countries, even if they intend to stay there. What I am saying is that most poor 3rd world women will latch onto any westerner they can get, and are often not in it for the long haul. I've seen it happen too many times, but the men will not be told. Their girlfriend/wife is 'not like that'. Poor gullible fools.
I've been single for two years. I was obsessed with replacing the ex I was hypergamously dumped by, at the beginning. I threw myself into dating and it turns out i'm an upper echelon normie, not quite a chad, but capable of getting laid. But I noticed that if I embellished or exagerrated my financial/career attributes I would get far more attention. All I had to do was put the word "finance" as my occupation on the dating apps and the matches would roll in. I also noticed how entitled and neurotic modern women are. The older they are the angrier they are. The younger they are, the more games they play. Ive had 37 year olds with barely concealed baby rabies and 20 year olds with princess complexes. Finally I feel happy to just stop chasing these creatures and focus on making bank. 6k saved in two years by refusing to simp and being economical. You dont have to actually spend your money on them, you just have to let them know you have it in order to get them to sleep with you.
@@theelectricprince8231 then don’t go for younger women. Older men aren’t desirable to younger women and never were it’s your money that is and with the fact women can provide for themselves now coz they work, the SMV of older men and men in general has dropped more because it was mainly determined by their money value of which women in the past lacked and were financially depend on due to not working but now that they do work and get their own money, this means a man SMV is dropped and with the internet being a thing and social media making both gender more interested into look, it makes older men in older time even more undesirable simply because looks wise the average older man looks less attractive than the average man in his youthful 20s. The social media part has both increased and decrease the SMV of older women in terms of it making people date for look more, it makes the older woman more undesirable than she was But at the same times it’s been proven men will fuck anything so her chances of dating isn’t slim especially with younger men who have a milf fetish or a thing for older women which is mainly due to too much porn these days. Younger women have highest SMV and more fertile but I never understood why men like you go for us from a logical point of view considering MOST younger women whether it is today or in many eras in the past were never interested in older men except for their money and we always tend to like boys around our age which is a traditional rule and exception are the younger women who do date older men on their own will tend to either have daddy issues or come from bad house hold where they don’t have a dad present. The bad boy phase is more common in underaged girls and it becomes equal in percentage with other types of men once she is 18-21 because at this age it isn’t “I want bad boy only” for the general female population, there is more variety in preference from this age which is where the varied interests in types of men begins.
one of the main problems is some women are aggressive. un kind. and trying to find ways of using guys for their own advantage. most guys get ignored because she has a lot of better options but when that dries up the guys who have been push under the bus or seen their friends crushed walk away as theses women are mostly unattractive or would need ivf which is just too expensive for guy to an to invest in a girl who told him to get lost when se was younger.
Guys only make friends with females to get into their pants or for a relationship and then get mad when the women won't have sex with them. Try looking into yourself and go to therapy
6:55 That's a fallacy. though, that women 'need' to work in order to 'provide' for everyone else in the household. That's not always true. Staying at home, you earn to budget and you don't buy so much stuff. I remember feeding my family of four on less than $250 a month. We didn't have the biggest house on the block or a new car, and we definitely didn't go out to eat all the time. And yet, I got to see my son's first steps and hold him during the day when he didn't feel well. So, there are ways to make it work. And it's definitely worthwhile.
good point and great that your family was able to be so resourceful. but in reality, no one would agree that $250 is a healthy amount of money to feed a family of 4. your situation is completely anecdotal. They are having a conversation on consensus, not a rare occasions nobody would know about.
In simpler terms, the influx of all women who did join the workforce made the common man earn less with his 9to5 job, which 50 years ago paid for a household.
Another issue is student loans. The push for women to go to college, often taking out massive student loans, almost forces them to keep working after kids. Hard to not think this isn’t by design…..
Basically this guy is relating information I've been writing about for 20 years. I guess he must have a doctorate degree for you to take this analysis seriously, right?
You leave out there part where the government actively wants your wife to be able to cheat on you because its eugenic and good for the genepool. The state has been planning this for 60yrs any advice that isn't "stop playing the game" is bad advice.
It's a good interview to point to. The interviewer is an outsider who doesn't focus on this topic and the interviewee is also as such, simply researching the topic for a paper. Opponents to the ideas here cannot simply sling mud and namecall as is typical.
Men is made sure to have low self-esteem, or good enough self-esteem to do what you`re told, via schools and media and woemn are told they are awesome no matter what. The men and women who sees through this wins.
Bruh idc how bad or lonely i get, im never downloading tinder. One of my roommates relied heavily on it and he was a decent looking guy and the girls he had to work for made lot lizards look like miss america
It will be exciting. Herbivore men arrived in Japan a little over 10 years ago, and the sampo generation entered South Korea around the same time. It has been said that what happens in those countries will happen in western countries. Well, 10 years has already passed, here it comes.
I can tell you first-hand as a gay male who is no longer sexually active but when I was presented as feminized in a non-garish way...men are looking in other places than women. I am talking handsome, nice guys who would never be doing this if women were not, well, bat guano crazy unrealistic in what they are looking for. I'm pretty sure there's a lot of bro-ing going on as well, a lot more heteroflexibility. Women are always saying that without them men would be nothing but IMHO it's going to be the other way around. Men are just going to eventually get over the simping and just figure something else out when it comes to pair-bonding. Look at the explosion in foreign-born brides. Women are going to be over 40 and yelling "Why is that great guy with that little fill-in-the-blank?"
Lol..too many men have discovered that once they bring those foreign brides back they become like all other women and leave them. Look into the realities before you jump to conclusions...or not it doesn't affect me
"ugh, all the computers here have been hacked by a virus. I know! ill get a computer from overseas its virus free, no way it will become infected once it arrives!" 10iq
@@Syncrotron9001 I think the point would be that the domestic computer is guaranteed to be infected, but there's a chance, depending on where the computer is made, that it's going to not be infected. It's going to still be a gamble, but a lot of men seem to be willing to make it.
I’ve often wondered why more men don’t find “release” with other men since the state of male/female relationships seems so poor. But then I realize I’m not attracted to women, so it’s likely not so easy for men who aren’t attracted to other men. Of course men have a much higher sex drive though, so many be they are more willing to overlook of there are attracted to other men or not.
Maybe people especially males need to look at this from the perspective of making connections and look into themselves and work on self improvement. Women are tired of men who consume pornography and can't relate on an emotional level and don't need to be married to live in society and don't want to anymore.
Entirely untrue, I was in fact too emotional and insecure and was resoundly rejected for it. Around social circles where I presented that I didn't give a damn about LTR or marriage, I did much better. Stop comparing emotionally unavailable Chad to the rest of us guys. The emotional types, you reject and ignore 100% of the time without exception. It's a great way to test a woman's character, just be always nice to them and see if (when) you get rejected. But that comes with a tradeoff. When the previously nice guy realises that women don't care about relationships until it's far too late for them (post wall 30s 40s), without exception, he adopts the same mindset that Chad does, since y'all didn't want relationships anyway. But what you females don't seem to understand is that without the relationship and family building aspect of a woman's character, she is effectively the same as a prostitute, and is viewed as such by men. And so a man has no reason to engage with such a person as an individual, because they choose to offer nothing of value. (Integrity, commitment, empathy, cherishment, positive reinforcement, compassion). So congrats, you did this to yourselves. Enjoy what comes next.
Many women prefer to share an alpha male or be alone rather than 'settle' for an average man. In addition, the government subsidizes single mothers by spreading the burden of child-rearing across society through taxation. This dynamic encourages women to pursue the most desirable men to progenate with and foots the taxpayer with the financial obligation that would otherwise be picked up by a faithful husband. The social safety net has unbridled women from the biological mandate to find and secure a reliable mate.
It used to be that a woman had to pick a man to marry at a very young age. There was very little dating. Young people don't marry anymore. It's non stop dating. So of course this is happening. It started with the pill
"It started with the pill." Bingo. Now, people could have sex WITHOUT the likelihood of getting pregnant. Pregnancy = (ideally) a FAMILY - HUSBAND and wife, for child rearing. Hence the introduction of the term "body count.." And, the phrase "no longer has the ability to pair bond."
Women are allowed to have a life and experiences and not have to belong to a man after belonging to her father and males are annoyed when they can't get laid
@@sarcodonblue2876 You're right, and that's a good thing. Women should have choices. Feminism also gave men choices. Men no longer have to be trapped from a young age, working a miserable dead end job because society demands that a man take care of his family without excuses.
I think I was a semi-semi Chad in my 20s and 30s. I gave up and became a bachelor. I'm not very attractive now we I've gotten poorer and unfitter. It's good to be a semiChad.
I feel that we have been saying this for some time, Dr Warren Farrell pointed it out years ago, how if women wish to have a career and family they, like men have had to do, would have to adjust life expectations and choose a partner that would fit. But it seems that society can go hang if they cannot get their way. Unfortunately technology makes everything more efficient. I wonder if we can go forward honestly and openly about the the importance of gender roles.
The issue is that, because of female hypergamy, as women move up the hierarchy, they have fewer and fewer prospects who are "equal to or above them," which is their mating standard. Because of this, an enormous number of these women are going to end up alone and childless. And/or perhaps single mothers. This is why society was structured the way it was previously structured. In the long term, women don't actually find much fulfillment in their careers. But they've been lied to their whole lives, that their careers is where they will find fulfillment. Not in having a family. Meanwhile, because women previously served as the foundation upon which men then went out and provided for their family, that foundation is now gone, which leads to a giant unraveling of society. Basically, feminism fucked everything up.
@@everything...interesting it wasn't just women who were lied to though. Men were told that love is all that matters and that you as long as you are good and loyal and accept that we are all equal you'll find happiness and love. We allowed ourselves to be tricked by pretty stories when we could have seen the truth around us. At least the technology that harms us is showing us which traits are the ones bringing us down. We have only to embrace the lesson and move forward with that knowledge to get to the best possible outcome.
@@everything...interesting the reality is that which is always said. "Are you are real man", "your not man enough". Men are created through action and judged by both men and women to be deemed Man. The moment we are honest once more and provide the most men possible a track to create the best possible version of themselves the better it is for men and women and their children and families. Pushing women forward into male spaces has only caused more issues and denigrated what it is to be a woman. Which is why the feminists are so lost and grasping for any excuse as to their failure. They should have listened to Camile Paglia more and understood what she was saying.
somewhat, the main difference is scope. As much as people want to say otherwise, actual groups and power centers were far more diverse in the past. its easier to be a "beautiful" 8 in a group of 100 people than an 8 in a group of 100,000
Come on, this is fantastic, million's of men who wanna see the world burn! 😂 I myself have stopped working, I will no longer contribute with my money or my skills to a society that has hated me for all my life because I'm a man. I will sit on some coast somewhere on my sailing yacht, have a beer and a chuckle watching the world burn! Moahahaa! 😁
Exactly why try they don't care they don't want me to succeed even if I do they're just going to try to take everything I get just burn it all down and piss on them when they cry
There are millions of unhappy single women over 30 years old out there. They focused on their careers in their 20s but have now reached their ceiling, and their biological clock is ticking fast. The feminist propaganda of the last 50 years has done them a lot of harm and they are now waking up to it.
5:02 - men and women are fundamentally different, gender stereotype arguments aside, and that's actually completely fine. Really hit it on the head about how the male paradigm is seen as the standard life pattern everyone should be able to achieve; and yet, because of women's perception of inequality based more of lifestyle choices and realities, than on patriarchy, we see society trying to feminise men and the workplace. What we really need to do, and we should've done is - but leaders lacked the wisdom to think in such a way - post WW2 when all the women had been working whilst the men went off to fight, and then came back to take jobs away from women (largely) who had then adopted a male life pattern, industry and government leaders should have worked out a female life pattern outside of the home that enabled them to be workers and mothers. Instead, since then, we've had a battle of the sexes over workplace norms and gender expectations. Now would be a great time to work that one out.
This is the 20% 80% rule. "The 80-20 rule, also known as the Pareto Principle, is an aphorism which asserts that 80% of outcomes (or outputs) result from 20% of all causes (or inputs) for any given event. In business, a goal of the 80-20 rule is to identify inputs that are potentially the most productive and make them the priority." Doesn't mater what you do, 80% will go after the 20% and that's the way of the world. Get used to it.
I know an old cat lady who's happy as a clam and hangs with friends regularly. I moved to England to find that a lot of the elderly ladies have a whole network of friends they hang with all the time. I think women would rather spend time with their girlfriends than enter relationships. They seem to be happier that way.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 The biological fathers simply cant pay for all of the children they have made. It either enslave childless men or those kids go without.
The title is 100% true. I tried using a dating server on discord (I know, silly and not the best place to find a match) and the ration between genders was extremely off balance. There was about 15 males to 1 female. I'm not the best or the worst person, but definitely more competition nowadays.
If you sacrificed modern luxuries then the woman could stay home but people want new cars, they want new expensive cellphones every year or two and they want to dine out all the time, you can't do that on one salary. The you can have it all motto is killing us!
Male Game: Being confident, assertive, decisive, unpredictable, and having an abundance mindset. Female Game: Being submissive, cooperative, loyal, supportive and having a virtuous and wholesome image.
Great discussion. In my opinion, the issue isn't female hypergamy. Hypergamy is similar to the profit motive and competition in capitalism. But in today's social media culture females are practicing hyper hypergamy and are generating dangerous imbalances in dating and social structures. Charles McKay in his famous book detailed how "bubbles" are created and sustained in markets and dating is a "market". Modern females are practicing hypergamy in an extreme manner which will have long-term consequences for them. Modern-day hypergamy is based on the presumption that there is a top 10% male for EVERY SINGLE WOMAN who wants one. And if a female doesn't secure her top 10% male she opts out of dating and marriage and remains single. But only a comparably small segment of females are in the top 10% as measured by males. However, social media promotes the falsity every female is a top 10% member. But time and biology works against females pursuing this option because; first, as females get older her desirability in the marketplace DECEASES compared to her younger female counterparts. Second, reproduction for women while extended by modern science becomes less of an option as a women ages. Men on the other hand do not experience these changes in their sexual marketplace value.
The average man at 45+ hits the wall when his T drops dramatically. He gets fat, balding, inactive and gets ED. At 50yrs old over 40% of men have ED. Only a very small percentage of men increase in any value as they age. Don't deceive yourself in believing all men gain value as they age.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 While males may experience a decrease in the production of testosterone beginning as early as 35 years, lifestyle nutrition and genetics mitigates this decrease and supplementation of testosterone is a fairly common treatment. ED in males is NOT conclusively attributable to hormonal decreases as males in their 20s may experience ED. But males in their 60s and 70s have successfully fathered children were females in these age ranges rarely successfully conceive and bring pregnancy to full term. In western societies youth and fertility are attributes most desirable in females typically most prominent in the 20s where maturity and physical stature /strength are the most desirable traits in males and typically reach their peak in during late 30s and 40s. In short, males physically, emotionally and intellectually fare better in the later decades of life than females.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 Nice try. Your ED facts are not great by the way. Most men can if they wish stay in good shape their whole lives and remain attractive in womens eyes way way longer than a woman can in a man’s eyes. It is what it is and there’s no point arguing it. Most women hit the wall between 30-35 most men between 45-55
@@whywhenwhere4377 'Most men can if they wish'...that's the kicker. The average man doesn't and hits the wall. Statistically at age 40, 40% of men have ED. The average between 40-70yrs old the ED prevalence is an average of 52%. Most men are not in shape. They are fat or obese and inactive.
I think in a long last past human society faced a similar problem. They invented the convention of matrimony and preached their children that they must do this to survive even if it goes against their desires. These last 50 years we have tried to undo some of these things to right historical injustices and in the end produced a power keg of a problem. Being humans, we try to improve but learn over and over past truths. I'm not religious but having lived a number of decades, you see lots of patterns in life and in society.
They all think they're princesses, and are going to get a prince. Meanwhile, the avg weight of a woman over 20 is now 174 lbs. At 5'4". And a 39" waist.
It’s not really hard to get into that upper sphere of men as long as you are on top of your shit. I’m 5’2 and never felt like I had a problem. I’m 30 and married now (married for 3 years)
As long as women are opening their legs I'm good. Marriage, commitment, whether she likes cats or dogs, her family history, body count, who gives a damn. If you're just smashing and moving on, you don't have to worry about any of that. You need to worry about making sure she's tested before you get together which takes some patience, and always be honest that you're looking for something short-term.
I doubt RU-vid would allow it, as the hero is banned on the platform. You know you can’t even mention the name TR without the algorithm censor zapping it within seconds.
Prior to WW2 men married women significantly younger than them. The war, GI bill, and a booming economy allowed young men to improve themselves at a younger age than they historically could have done before. Our context of when couples should wed is still based on this post war notion even though the opportunities have gone. Most of human history is men getting their shit together first then attracting a mate, usually significantly younger. Yes your grandparents and parents love/loved each other, but cards are different now and young men need to accept things are going to happen for them much later than dad and grandpa.
"and young men need to accept things are going to happen for them much later than dad and grandpa." Well, either that or just do the ez thing and have a revolution.
Honestly I don’t blame women for not wanting to be with a guy they don’t want. They really are doing men a favor. It’s not bad to have high standards. Women can control their sexual urges that’s good . Men should be able to even better.
People use to recognize and value trades. I have not done a deep dive into alpha male/ red pill...but what I have seen suggests the thought leaders largely ignore tradesmen and women as successful. There appears to be a misperception that the trades people are not successful or well off. Those that worked on North Slope in Alaska when it was first discovered including those working on drill rigs became very well off. Same with those that built the Alyeska pipeline. It's bias that if someone doesn't dress in suit that they are not well off or more important intelligent and well educated.
Gender paygap is at an exec level, not at an entry level. Bro code is a real thing.. The risk for not being financially independent is being forced to live with a man who treats u badly.
maybe true, but realistically what % of people are we actually talking about who can get into exec level. We all know its more than just sexism, its elite power games, networking, or successful self owned businesses to even get there. The mass majority of people are discriminated against and face non-competence based hierarchies in the race for high level execs. Why should the masses suffer cause women are propagandized into thinking they'll make it there when in reality even if it had no sexism then only a small selection of women would even get there.
You just contain the children in a relatively safe environment so they don't accidentally injure themselves. You are then free to spend the day watching dramas on netflix and hang with the girls. Last thing to do is to neg your husband to do the chores when he returns home.
I think women shouldn't just look at how much a guy is making now, they should see if he has drive, goals and motivation. That he's trying his best and working on his purpose. Finances are built slowly over time
lol. Guys. Save up that 50$ a week/month and get yourself pampered. Don't fall for the false romantization of relationships. In today's sociopolitical environment, it's a pipedream. Stay Savage.
Western sexual marketplace 2022: all women are passed around between the top 10-20% of men which translates into: women are voluntarily positioning themselves into modern day harems. Congrats ladies!!! You beat patriarchy!!! This is so fucked up…
@@christopherpakney8542 I used to think it was unintentional but not any more, so many low value women (sub five, overweight, 50+yrs) have so high standards and they are not afraid to admit it, literally they are treating normal men like garbage. this kind of behaviour can only derive from their realization that normal men have so few options to date and they have sooo many more... they indulge themselves into being run through by the most genetically gifted men. In a big western city with a 1-2 million population there are a few thousand men that fuck all women, that s the situation today
The problem is women have to like you and be attracted to you and maybe even have stuff in common with you to want to date you or be inn a relationship with you. Just being male is not enough.....
@Freedom Forever Desperate times call for desperate measures, that's why these guys are getting passports, for a lot of guys desperation is an aphrodisiac...
This is hilarious. I did a screenshot to show my friends. To think for men to have a relationship now they have to be attractive to a woman and things in common to do within the relationship to spend time together. This is priceless. 🤣
I havent had any attention from women since i was 19. Im 34 now. Not a shred of interest. No hugs, kisses, cuddling, sex, sharing your life, support. Nothing. After 15 years of being rejected and invisible, you cant help but think you’re defective and not worthy of it.
hit the gym HARD< only thing you need to do before you are 40, you only get one life, i will bet you if you actually follow through hardcore for a year, your entire life will change, do it right away in the morning no excuses, only reason to wake up. it worked for me, you can do it to
get a real home gym set with weights, so you dont have to go to the gym waste time and be distracted, 30 mins 5 days a week for a year, youll be a new fucking man
I decided to date outside the USA and I am married 16years running. If you can find a great girl here, more power to you. If you're not. Try some place like the Philippines. You can find a nice, god fearing woman who will look at your hard working working class income and to her that's rich.
@@Cactuscupholder The illusion part is related to the fact almost none of them will keep the men they keep giving themselves to. If they are happy with this then all is good. They do tend to keep saying where have all the good men gone as soon as they hit the wall however which kind of suggests not.
@@whywhenwhere4377 "Giving themselves to" lol are you from ye days of olde? Please advise me as to why any woman should be concerned with 'keeping' a man? I think you know as well as anyone that it's not women who hit a wall....
The male to female sex ratios in the UK is 1.05 male to every 1 female. That's in the age category of 15 to 44. Now there are approximately 27 million ppl in that age category. So that means that there are approximately 675,000 EXCESS males in the UK in that age category of 15-44. Not even SINGLE men but EXCESS men. What will its effects be? With figures like this is it any wounder that females report feeling harassed in society and feeling unsafe. From the sad random/stranger murder of sabrina Nessa, aslingh Murphy, Sarah everhard. To drinks spiking, to ME TOO To Rise in London record teenage murders to rise in riots to political extreme movements. The EXPLOSION OF ONLY FANS. Could this be related? The standing British army is approximately 83,000 And we have approximately 675,000 EXCESS MEN. That could mean that 5% of men in this category could possibly never find a long-term monogamous relationship. 🤔
You can't make women who are happy being single be in a relationship ....marriage, motherhood and fatherhood is not something everyone strive for in life. Just saying......
@@Ms_BeMe until they hit about 40 then they realize how lonely it gets. Every single female coworker I have over 40 is freaking out about being alone for the rest of their life. You think you can handle it but most people can't that's reality.
@@bradwhitt6768 🤣🤣🤣 dude, i have NEVER heard no woman freakin out over being alone as she get older, you know why? You men are EASY to come by.😂😂 Check the geriatric data, it is you men who die alone in the nursing homes, it is women children who take care of her... at least in my community. See, this why i tell women to not take men serious and to leave u be.🤣🤣 Freaking out..of course women die alone without men, we out live you.😂😂😂
That wasn't the point of what they were discussing. They were talking about the insane dating demands of girls and women today WHILE they simultaneously, automatically make more money than men throughout at least their 20's, and are thinking they are some kind of retarded Disney princess waiting for their multi-millionaire Adonis comedian.
I’m married, and I worry for my male friends at times…before someone says you’re ok single etc etc..let’s not bs ourselves..we all desire to be loved and taken cared for..
I’m worried for the future of society and the lustrous economy we have all come to take for granted. If you think the decline in male female relations will not have a very big affect on the long term prosperity and economy of western nations go and do some digging.
@@whywhenwhere4377 ? That’s exactly my point too! It’ll be a disaster waiting to happen..you have to blame the blatant marketing that has been sold to women especially! From movies, tv, commercials that have been fed to them at early age is crazy…when I went to a foreign country; these standards and expectations were not even close to what the west feeds their counterparts….
@@ahmedhashmi3258 Yes the media and social media have caused many problems. It’s hard to blame them in the sense that they could foresee this coming but money and power are at the root of all these problems in truth. Power corrupts and money is the root of a lot of evil.
@@whywhenwhere4377 the west encourages slavery to debt collectors…you go to places east; they are mellowed the funk down;if you know what I mean..that hustle and bustle life style out there is non existent
Men not going to college is smarter. Avoiding the debt for useless degrees. Irritates me you keep bringing up the outdated perspective "you have to go to college" Thats been proven complete bullshit for a long time now.
@@ChrisWillx Since 90% of stats are made up on the spot, I have to ask: where did you get that number from? Also, how would a woman know if you have a Master's degree? Is it not possible to lie on Tinder?
Sex is just one step above food, water, shelter, and breathable air on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. A society of increasingly sex-deprived men will not have a pretty conclusion.
Many people don't realize that marriage/relationships/children are just an option in life, it is not an obligation. But as any option in life - it COSTS MONEY or time in which you can earn money, so therefore you have to work yourself to an early grave to make ends meet etc. I dipped my toes in relationships - no thanks, all the stress and drama to ALWAYS entertain the woman so she is not bored - in today's world it is just not f**ken worth it. At 35 I live my life, i do what i like, when i like, i work plenty and in general am at peace and happy that i can afford the things i want. if it will get very lonely i would rather get a dog, at least it will always be happy to see me. so guys and girls do whatever YOU like but remember there will always be consequences.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 true, but they don't want to understand that very few get lucky and more often then not, pursuit of imagined perfection ends in tears and depression.
There is no imbalance. People of both genders think there's some kind of dating crisis because social media has fooled them into feeling entitled to more than they deserve, and modern life in general has people more isolated which makes it harder to date. Most couples I know that have been together for a long time are pretty well matched in all aspects and aren't obsessed with getting the superficially "best" mate possible. Y'all obsess over external features and metrics because you don't know what's actually important for building relationships. Plus on top of that you have all these social media grifters telling you it's all everyone else's fault to rob you for your attention. That's the real "dating crisis"
As women achieve higher levels in education , careers and incomes their focus for a potential partner is still also based on these factors . In the world of online dating men in well paid , stable blue collar jobs ( electricians , plumbers etc ) are otherwise overlooked based solely on these factors and are therefore deemed not suitable . It very much appears that having a Bachelors /Masters Degree or PHD is now a fundamental requirement men have to possess in order to be deemed dateable by women , the same cannot be said in regard to men’s dating choices .
At 6'11", I can tell you that being in the top 10% of height isn't necessarily all that helpful in terms of mating. Unless you're only talking about heights that actually exist in typical statistics (6'6" and below).
Three obvious oversights. (1) Birth control means women are freer sexually than they were in the past. (2) People date and marry outside of their age cohort. (3) The dynamic changes over time as people couple up and those left are picking from a smaller pool. This means that a short, awkward, poor young man may be unsuccessful in his 20s but do just fine in his 30s, if he takes the ten years to improve on his improvable qualities. Likewise for women. It also means that once women switch from dating for fun to courting for marriage, and as the so-called high status men are taken, their selection criteria will change to those men who can be trusted to be reliable partners.
But at this point, the Man who spent a decade refining himself and building HIS Dream is not going to accept some 35 y/o spent hole with 2 kids who has now decided that this man is "worthy" to be with. That Man will have options. The woman will not. Don't ever simp. Don't ever be the "settle."
@@christopherpakney8542 Exactly! I'm 46. I want nothing to do with women. When I was younger, women treated me like I was some disgusting monster if I even said hi to them. I'm not short and was not poor and now I am very well off (I retired at 40) and I was a decent looking young man. The problem was I was a decent human being who pursued an education and worked hard to achieve my goals in life (I was a commercial photographer and artist). I did not cover myself in tattoos, didn't drink or use drugs or mooch off women. That made me repulsive, and the more I was rejected the more socially awkward I became. Today, I sometimes get asked out by middle aged single moms with kids who are way to young for a middle aged mother. Your kids should be adults by the time you're 45, or at least close to graduating from high school. These women have 4 and 5 year olds! I just tell them I have nothing to offer them and they need to find someone else. When I tried dating earlier in life, I never once asked out a woman successfully. Meaning that every one of the 200+ women I asked out turned me down. The women I dated asked me out, but refused to touch me; even after dating for weeks they wouldn't kiss me. When pushed, they'd admit that the idea of touching made their skin crawl. They were using me for free entertainment while waiting for the tatted up losers of their dreams to come along. Now they're used up with young children in their 40s and wanting to use me to support those kids; kids they had with men they really found attractive...but badboys don't support their kids. Too bad, not my circus, not my monkeys.
another thing of note that helps explain womens success in current education, but men catching up/ exceeding while working even without pregnany reducing womens time at work: men are less motivated to work without clear goals, measurements and causaly linked steps. but they are more motivated when those things are present. in comparison to women. that has hunting/ childrearing reasons: cost/likelyhood analysis for men and routine tolerance in women. women do better in education that is aimless and disconnected. men do better with a route (both do better, but men than exceed women on average).
The problem actually goes hand-in-hand with inequality. Studies have shown that as the size of a society grows, so does inequality. Nowadays, we're living in a global society of 8 billion people, by far the largest in history. Modern communication and travel have also interlinked global society like never before. This renders Western women, automatically, in the top 10% of the world, just by default. Then, from there, because of female hypergamy, they only want to date up. But the reality is, the top 1% of income earners globally make just $30,000. The solution is for Western men to ditch Western women, and start importing wives. The only problem is that female hypergamy will lead to those wives trying to ditch the man they've married after a couple years, to "upgrade." Again, because of female hypergamy. What we should do is rewrite the laws to disallow them from doing so. If they file for divorce, they should have to go back to their country of origin. Problem solved.
" What we should do is rewrite the laws to disallow them from doing so." Yeah good luck getting women to vote in favor of that. A better idea is for men to unite and deny women the franchise so we wouldn't have a need to import wives in the first place. The 19th Amendment was a mistake.
I've got an average job, but I'm a handsome devil, maybe the girls I was with in my 20's wouldn't have settled down with me, but I dodged bullets there. Its worked out well, I still earn average.
@@viralt487 how old are you? it only takes a few years and a few good decisions. maybe 6-12 months of hard work and discipline if you play it right. its really not that hard and it will build your confidence as a man.
@@chickenbroski99 30 this year. I'm mentally ill. Confidence doesnt exist for me even though I'm pretty muscular. I'll. Just want 6 figures to build sports cars.
@@viralt487 what do you mean? what do you do? what are you good at? the way I see it theres a couple ways to make six figures you can focus on your strengths or get a high demand skill. definitely doable within a few years at 30 if you want it.
Previously women would choose what 'tribe' they wanted to be part of, and that was their community. Today with many women not choosing a tribe, or just assuming that a police man will protect them if anything goes wrong, cuz they don't need no man. Well, the police will protect them. But that doesn't mean the women are actually gonna be part of any kind of meaningful community.
I don’t really understand the coordinates of the problem. So the issue is that women, motivated by cultural pressure to emulate men, are selecting from a small pool of extraordinary men (selecting up (hypergamy)) thereby reducing the number of available women for the remaining men, the normies, or basic men or whatever. As a result, everyone except the extraordinary men is miserable, nihilistic, suicidal, and ready to tear it all down. Is that about right?
.. or you just 'pay for it' --- and then you get a hard time for that... bc that makes some women feel threatened i.e., their major 'weapon' has been neutralised....
This is why sex negative women and holy men form an unholy alliance to keep it illegal. They need to call all of it "sex trafficking" to get the normies on their side.
