Why I don't do curly cuts and Why I retired. 💜🙏🏾 

I actually was unaware that you were retired. But I definitely get it. People can be very insensitive and entitled when you've always just been available and you are going through things. Sure those things may feel small to others, but it wasn't small to you or your spirit. I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure your Mother is proud of you following your heart.

As someone who lost her mom unexpectedly. I changed my whole life when it came to career and happiness and it made such a difference in my life. You are only stuck if you believe you're stuck. Good luck to all!!! Happy Sunday

Love your comments. I lost my sister in July. My job did not care. I buried her in a Monday and was back working on a Wednesday. My doctor write me off for anxiety and depression. I am now trying to figure out how to leave Corporate America. I should have made the move before she died. Thank you for your story. I'm sorry for your loss. I know what it is to lose both parents. It's hard and you feel orphaned. I will be praying for you. God Bless

Thank you for your inspirational message. I keep reminding myself, God wants the best for me. I'm pivoting. Cancer in '16, treatment in '17, job ended in '17, Dad passed on Thanksgiving in '18, took care of Mom & she passed in 10/21. It's a lot. But, I'm looking forward to a new chapter in 2023!

I lost my son two weeks after they told me he had cancer so your words really rang true to me. Losing someone you love so much really puts everything in perspective. I wish you the best ❤

Those of us who are always there for everyone else often find that when we really need support--it's just not there. The same people who say, "Oh you know you can call me any time" but when we do, all we get is a handful of excuses. You end up feeling stupid because you believed what they said, and you end up dealing with the situation alone. Then when you see that person somewhere they're like, "Girl, where have you been?" Yeah, I been dealing with my life. Where have YOU been?

I’ve been a nurse 25 years and yes the switch up is very necessary. The last 2 years I stepped away from bedside and it’s been uplifting. I feel like a person again.

I love your honesty and spirit so much. I lost my Mom in 2017 and my Dad in 2018. I am not the same person. It is literally the hardest thing that I have ever had to endure. Thank God for sending the right people and situations just when we need it! Don’t you ever give up! This world needs you! Much love from Texas!❤

i love the quote at the beginning so so true. so many people feel guilty for putting their needs first, but, the only way you can truly help others is by helping yourself first.

This beginning quote is very relevant to where I am in my life. I quit teaching after 10 years because I was totally unhappy and stressed beyond belief. I left and didn’t really have a plan but Good works it all out for our goods so now I work from home. Love it. Less money but I have peace and joy! Money can’t buy those.

I lost both parents as a child and had a baby at nineteen years old. God gives us beauty for ashes and gives us strength. I love your channel and I respect your vulnerability. We will survive,

I realized we always feel we need to explain things. If I want to do to something I don’t care what others think. I just do it. Enjoy ur retirement.

I appreciate when you tubers decide to share personal information with the viewers. You all are faced with constant commentary, judgment, and unnecessary negativity….. choosing to be vulnerable on these platforms gives warrior vibes! I’m always grateful for the insight. Thank you❤

I can understand the burn out completely. I was a gymnast for 17 years and tried to be judge for about 4 years after I quit gymnastics and I still was just so burnt out with it. It’s okay to take a step back and watch others meet goals with it and cheer them on it’s just as fulfilling to see ❤

When Covid started, my boss at the barbershop I was working at was charging us $1000 a month to work for him then when c19 happened & we couldn’t work at the shop anymore, he could care less that all I had was $70 to my name he wanted those $70 because I worked that week and he told me that I was getting a deal from him and then I told him well I can give you the $70 or I can buy my family groceries he did not care at all about me even though I’ve already given him $12,000 to work for a year before that! Ever since then I have never been in a shop and I will never go to a barbershop ever again.

I think you’re a wonderful hairstylist. I honestly can watch your videos straight through without skipping through because I want to hear what you have to say. I believe your voice is your gift.

Thank you for sharing your story because sometimes grief can be isolating. I lost my mom in 2017 and my dad went in to hospice and passed shortly after. I worked hard for my company and every time they needed me I was there. After my first loss I went back and didn’t even get a sympathy email. In fact I had my boss email me about taking too much time off the phone. I went on leave and then had them question how I could care for my kids and my sick father if I was so depressed. I let my leave run out and I never returned. I’m working again for another company that seems to be better but at the first sign of bs I’m out. My sanity is worth so much more than being stuck serving that which doesn’t serve me. My whole outlook is different now. 💜

I honestly believe that having your hair done by you would be such a lovely and relaxing experience ☺️☺️ the way you handle your customers hair is so relaxing to watch 😌

Lovey I lost both my parents in 2018, eight months apart. It changed my life in so many ways. All I can say is that there's never a good age to be an orphan. That feeling of "now it's just me" pushes you into such a different direction, and if you're not feeling altogether safe in your situation, that feeling will drive you to make the changes you need to make. Don't wait until your loved ones are gone to find where you are safe to stretch and grow.

I am 74 yo my mother died 36 years ago life changed for me even today I can't go through a Holiday the same Mom always made everything better. I love and miss you Mom

Man! Retired??? I haven’t had the chance to get in your chair 😢

Thank you for the inspiration. After doing hair for 41 years. Customers had become heartless it was all about them. If I was sick , death in the family they were like but I still want hair done. I had to put it to a end. To make a long story short. I started a new chapter in my life.

Za has such gorgeous hair! I love her curl pattern 😍

I had some envious people in my close circle that I had to let go. I didn’t want to believe it but the signs were there. What you said about discernment and accepting the signs 👏🏾

First, I want to say that I am sorry to hear about the lost of your mom. I remember in several of your videos you talked about your parents and how close you all were. I pray you receive the love, compassion, and support you need. Healing is a process and there is no timeline when working through grief and loss. With that said, congrats on having the freedom to retire and do what you love the way that makes you happiest! Finally, I am sorry that some people can’t except that no is a complete sentence (thanks Oprah for teaching me that one). Giving an explanation on why should not be necessary. Hopefully, people with respect your boundaries moving forward.

It is GREATLY appreciated by me that you decided to continue to do educational videos on RU-vid. I haven’t been on here much except to watch what you do next. Sometimes (more than we’d like to admit) it’s all about what someone can “do for me” and not take the time to open their eyes and notice that someone may be going through something. Always take the time you need FOR YOU because you have to! PERIOD! You shouldn’t need to apologize or explain. Sending prayers and condolences….🙏🏾💜 Rae❤

I didn't expect to get that story when I saw the title! I commend you on knowing your worth and pivoting on faith! I was going to therapy for years after my mom passed just to get time off work. It became a pattern every year! As soon as I worked enough hours to build my time, I would call out again. I didn't care. Until one day a manager, who I considered a friend, asked " whats going on with you?" The question came from a place of concern, but mostly from a place of business. "You're here to do a job, and while you're here you have to do your job" - she said. At that moment I remember thinking - what if I wasn't here - That question was so packed w emotion that I went to my car and cried my entire lunch hour in the parking lot. It was the first time I considered taking my life. Thats when I knew my time was up. I was paid very well. Had a "good job w benefits". The job itself was relatively easy because had acquired so much experience and knowledge, but I had to go. It was serving no purpose. I could no longer work 10 hours a day to pay bills and cry in my car for an hour. The worst part was I never knew when that feeling was going to hit, but then I began to see the signs of despair. I used to wake up feeling it. Then jokingly tell my friends, let me apologize Now, because I Know I have an attitude!! We would laugh , but I was very serious. In hindsight I actually appreciate my manager's words because it opened my eyes. I'm not in a better place... but i'm not crying in my car either. 🙏

You did the right thing for you, my mam died many years ago, it was the worst day of my life I still miss her every day of my life. , you are so talented and education is such a giving thing I just know she is so proud of you. ❤

When your parents pass perspective changes! Been there and I made big changes in my life that are good for me. Women are often the caretakers of all the people that surround them and suffer from burnout I think especially as you get older. Self-care is so important!!!

I look forward to your videos so much, I know you've going through it but PLEASE don't doubt yourself or undermine yourself! You are a wonderful human being and a light for us all! If another person pushes you into the light, I hope you won't shy away because you deserve it!!

What you described is what I feel makes us fear success sometimes. What it brings out of other people is shocking. You really do have to pivot and re-think it all. So glad you are educating us. In my decades of going to stylists, this wasn't done. now with RU-vid, they probably do it more. Haven't been to one in years. Desperately need to.

I lost my mom unexpectedly as well and it completely shattered my life. I didn't go back to work for 2 months. It was so hard everyone offering condolences but didn't really care. I ended leaving that job. I am still struggling and she passed in 2011. Sometimes you have to do what's best for you!

AMEN! Going through something similar right now. Just lost a parent & still caregiving for another. People can be so inconsiderate and uncaring and will attempt to suck all the life out of you when you're down. I don't mind saying no anymore. In fact, I don't wait for them to even ask anything of me, it's an automatic NO! Glad you pivoted and found another path within your industry to follow. I'm currently re-assessing doing the same myself. Prayers and continued well wishes to you.

Your story hit so hard. Sometimes we have to be selfish and do things to just benefit ourselves. It seems selfish I guess but you can't just give give give all the time especially when at the end of the day the takers and users- no matter how nice they are- dont care about you. That's something i had to realize for myself. Also burnout is real! Thank you so much for this

God will send an angel to help you heal and restore. Glad you shared this with us.

On July 8 of this year, I lost my mom. I can relate to your story. The world keeps going. Thank you for sharing your journey. Truly deeper than hair. Be blessed Sis.

I’ve been hustling for 8 years, and have recently decided to go back to college . Im totally burned out from hustling…Just being on campus, thinking about a real career now makes me happy! I feel u🙏🏽❤️

That one two punch of loosing your parents had to have been hard and I remember watching you before, during and after both events. You are still standing and I hope thriving no matter the curve balls this life can and does throw. Thanks for not letting the selfishness of others stop you from sharing your heart and your talent.

Congratulations to be retired. Will miss you doing hair. 🎉🎊👸💐🙏❤❤❤❤🙏👍🥰

I’ve been “under the covers” too; for about 2 yrs & I look like it. 😢. Your posts remind me to take care of my hair. Sometimes life happens…that’s when we have to pay attention. I get it. It’s not easy

I absolutely feel like this video was meant for me to see ! Man 😢😢😢😩😩😩I’m over here in tears because I feel your every word. I’m a hairstylist and have been one for over 22 years. I lost my18 year old son (Shad) now 19 years in heaven . My Angel now .❤ I have had similar feelings about my time as a hairstylist, especially after losing my son. I feel unappreciated and going through something so traumatic as losing my son to cancer. Coming back to the salon doesn’t feel the same. I am not feeling it as much. Love my clientele & love what I do,but I feel it’s not reciprocated. Listening to you made me feel like it’s ok to feel the burnout and want to go to the next level. Not sure what this is but I don’t feel like completely leaving the salon scene! I appreciate you and love your work and honesty. You have given me a different outlook regarding stylist burnout and when it’s time to go. And being ok with your decision. Thank you and I’m sure my son would be so proud of me. Love you Shad 🤍🕊

I'm sorry what you've been thorugh, and grateful you've shared it with us. I am actually going through a difficult moment related to business as well, I just got fired after working for only a month. Didn't even get the chance to show how I work. And that just comes to show that business market is just like that unfortenately. But your speech just made me feel courage to keep going on. Love your content

I lost my mom last yr in October and I'm still grieving 😔. I think about my mom everyday. I'm going to pray with you that things get better for you and that in your retirement you take care of self. I know I am. 💯💪🏾💞

"PIVOT" ... I felt that. Thank you for sharing your truth & much peace & prosperity 🤗

My "Philly Sista," you touched my heart today. Thank you for these beautiful words. I understand your pain. I lost my grandmother in 2009 who was my mother, best friend, and the most precious person God has given to me. When my grandmom went home to glory I pivoted the hell out of Philly to Las Vegas, NV for seven years. Then I returned to Philly in 2017 due to a family issue. Now I going to pivot into a new and exciting role in my life. I'm in college pursuing a new career. Planning on moving out of state again. And redesigning my life! You are so right when things don't go the way you want "PIVOT" in another direction. Change is good for the soul! Also, the young lady's hair is fabulous. As always your work is a masterpiece. Keep up the awesome work!

I'm a hairstylist. I keep going back. Your message definitely fed me.

This resonated with me on So many levels,TFS BLESSINGS 💞 Pony is giving LIFE,😍

Life lessons on the deeper than hair channel! ✌

I personally think curly cuts work out if you never wear your hair straight like me I never flat iron my hair and don’t plan on it so I want my hair cut in it’s curly form so I know what it’s gonna look like the next time I wash my hair

Great video!! I was a stylist for 10 years with a full book and made great money... But I lost that spark of joy that I had for the first several years and decided to move on to an entirely different career. Was VERY scary but ended up being a great move! Thanks for your great content!

Take your time sharing whatever you’re going to share. We love you no matter what even if you don’t ever share what it was. ❤❤❤

This may be late to respond you may not never see this. I can differently relate. I am a Registered Nurse for over 22 years. Lost my mom in 2007 and life never been the same. One would think after all those years I would gotten better but it still hurts. Life continues to throw curve balls and the one person, my mom, I think can only help me through is not here. It’s hard. As for you keep pressing, stay strong and positive as I would do as well.

Black hair is beautiful remember that🙏🏽❤

I admire you and your decision ... I live in ny I retired in March 2020 Before the shut down. I was a MAHU for 22 years in the entertainment industry. Famous clients whole 9. I was so unhappy with the type of talent that was coming into my field and the lack of understanding of the basics of hair and especially makeup for black women, working tirelessly doing 12 to 16 hr days it wore me out... also not getting paid my FULL WORTH. I am happier than I have ever been and so many people have given me shade for RETIRING... I don't get it however Godspeed to them... I am an herbalist I own 2 businesses helping heal peoples bodies and my own ... Always walk YOUR path Let no one else do the work that was meant for you!

Sis, my condolences for your loss. Listen......losing your mother is a different feeling than losing anyone else. The grieving process is different for everyone. I left a job I worked at for 20 years because they stopped caring and I was burnout and when I left, I had no plan. Assured, my God who has always taken care of me never stopped. It was the best decision I ever made. It sometimes takes stepping back in order to know which way you need to pivot, as you say. Wishing you well on your next journey.❤

Can’t wait to hear your story, I’ll be here for it. 💕

Key I needed this. I’ve been doubting my recent decision to leave my job. I did love it but it’s gotten to take up too much of my life. Work-life balance is a real thing. Especially when you “give so much of yourself to the game and get nothing back.” I feel you. I’m pivoting and I don’t feel guilty! You are a huge inspiration to me. Thank you for this video, thank you for being you, and thank you for choosing you. God bless. 💕

Thank you for sharing your story. You have spoken to my heart more than once. I’m not surprised you did it again ❤ God has put you in my path.

I completely understand you. I had a bakery that I shut down because I was just tired of it and everybody. I couldn’t even travel home to my parents without people asking me to bring them xyz! I’m like Can I just visit? People are still asking if I’m still baking after a year of closing. It was the best thing for me. I bake when I want to bake now. And I’ve switched to an online market where I can control what I do and when I do it. We can love what we do without it killing us!

My God. I didn't know you retired. God is good. Bless you on this next chapter and journey in your life. It has been truly a blessing to watch you do clients hair. You really care and have the patience. Sorry for your loss. I feel you on your decision and thank you for sharing. This really resonate for me. I left the beauty industry as well for over 20 years and this new chapter is not easy.

I have curly hair, I got a curly hair cut and it was more taken off than I wanted. So neg to curly cuts. Blow it out then you can see what really needs to be done. Love your videos too! You are bomb! One of my top 4 favorites 😉

I am so sorry for your loss! Words never seem like enough in these times. But know that your videos and the wonderful words You use, from the inspirational quotes at the start, to the education given about hair care and styling means so much to so many people. I am truly sorry you were mistreated, but now you are on a better path. Thank You for your kindness and continuing to share your wealth of knowledge, it's very inspiring. Sending you love and peace! 💞

So sorry for your loss. I lost my mama 9 months ago so I get it. You did what was best for you and that’s what really matters!

I love the quote from the beginning of this video. Keep doing you. Recharge and keep going. Your health is more important than anything. Much success. Mental health

I only found you after you went through all of that. I am so sorry people behaved that way - you deserved better! I'm a public school teacher, so I have an idea what it feels like to be unappreciated and have people not treat you as human. I'm so glad you're here now!

We care about you Kee, in my head we are family. You are amazing at what you do, but if you need a break.....WE UNDERSTAND!!!! I will definitely be praying for you, sorry for your loss, sorry for your experience 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 just know that we love & appreciate you!!!

💕💕💕💗💞💖 Sending you lots of love. I'm so sorry you were made to feel that way.

I LOVE that small ponytail base -- it looks like that is her actual hair! If I ever had this done, I would want you to stop right at that point. Too cute!

Yeah time is going fast, this year flew by ❤️

I completely understand how you feel. I was with my last job for four years before I left. I was a flood victim and my boss never called one time to see if I was okay and the district manager only offered me three days off. I ended up taking three weeks off unpaid because my job refused to pay me. I came back, work for a week and quit. I’m still upset that I stayed with that company for so long for them to treat me like that.

Praying for your healing ❤️‍🩹 and the space you need to process what’s been happening in your life.

Why you speaking to my soul! I love it 😀

Za and her hair are beautiful. Sometimes this world will chew you up and spit you out, but we have to find strength to keep moving. You are right do what makes you happy and bring you joy. You may also loose some people finding that happiness. I’m glad you’re feeling better and doing what makes you happy 💜💜💜

So sorry and my deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss of your beloved mom. May she rest, peacefully 💜 🕊 💜

You spoke a word! My job was taking everything from me. I was have absence guilt with my family. One day I just left and never looked back. Best decision I’ve made and I was given the opportunity to get into a field I was not qualified for. I’ve been excelling in for two years now.

Za's got the best smile I've ever seen. Thank you for your story.

I am so sorry to hear of your mother’s transition. Thank you so much for sharing your talents and skills with us.♥️

You’ve inspired my mom as she retired from hair 11 yrs ago. She’s a true OG like you who really does hair not quick styles. I appreciate your content and your inspirational messages.

i love how you take your time. i got some much backlash from people in my life for taking my time so i thought i had to rush my hair to show i can do hair. but seeing you take your time & give that tlc made me realize nothing's wrong with it at all.

I’m so sorry you had to go through that my sister.. I know exactly how it feels though. People sometimes are like robots and don’t have real feelings to sympathize with you . Thank you so much you are always so inspiring and informative. Love you as is I had met you personally. Thanks for sharing and I hope and pray you have a blessed week ahead darling ❤🙏🏽

I needed to hear that, I went through a very similar situation earlier this year. I just couldn’t believe how nasty this company treated me while I was dealing with my Father battling Covid & eventually dying. So I totally understand. Keep your head up much love.💕

I’m not even sure how I found your channel, but I’ve enjoyed every video you’ve posted and the commentary. Thank you so much for sharing the bit of your journey you’re comfortable to allow us to hear at this time. Very wise words and prayerfully, we’ll have the kind of society that will allow people to grieve and heal without having to stress over a paycheck. No one should be in a position to have to choose dollars over their well-being. Wishing you much success and PEACE!!!

Really appreciate you sharing you retirement story, and you heartfelt portrayal of your reasoning. I am sure you never looked back on your decision that day.

I just moved back to PA after 10 years, and got so frustrated because my FHI iron got damaged in the move and had trouble finding other reliable flat irons online, until I remembered YOU had some on your site. Decided to learn more about your salon and found out where it was and was happy to see I'm a nice drive away! Although I'm bummed you're no longer behind the chair, I'm happy you're doing what's best for you. Still plan on making an appointment in December. It's been awhile since I've had my hair straight , its darn near waist length and my arms are fatigued from doing it in twists and box braids lol So what better place to trust my tresses with than your business! So excited. I wish you oceans of love and peace ❤️ also, I adore your message as someone who is transitioning from a safe career in STEM that isn't fulfilling, to writing fiction. It definitely resonated and reminded me to keep going. ❤️

I'm so sorry for your loss of your parents and that you didn't receive the energy you deserved in your time of need. You are my hero for putting yourself first and making a change during a time when you're already feeling so many things in life shift and evolve. My mom died last year (she was 67, I was 34) and it really did change me too. I've been re-evaluating my life choices, job, and social circles since that loss. As you said we only get one life as far as we know and I'll add that if we live right then that once is enough. Be well!

You were basically getting celebrity treatment & those clients were like paparazzi. You are an amazing stylist & person & your creativity is outta this world! I know I definitely wanted you to do my hair before after watching your videos! I lost my sister in 2014, she was 23 & I was 20 so I wasn't even aware of who I was without her. I pray that you are doing well mentally, physically, spiritually, financially, all of it!!!

Sorry for the loss of your mom. May you be blessed with knowing she is still with you.

If it hasn't been said lately...THANK U for ur transparency, kindness, sharing ur skills & products, ur inspiring quotes and keepin it 💯 with us. We all APPRECIATE U! 💗💗🙏🏽

Thanks for sharing your story Kee. As a teacher, I can totally relate. If you’re not good to yourself, not only are you no good to anyone else, but you yourself end up is a bad space. I’m working on just going with the flow and not overdoing things and making time for me.

I have said it before on one of your videos, but I ABSOLUTELY love and appreciate you posting them. I lost my Mom who was a cosmetology teacher for many years, and watching your technique brings back so many memories of my Mom in the salon/home. Them old school techniques! Lol it’s so soothing to watch you, and somehow I feel like I feel my Mom when I’m watching them. Much love and success to you! 😘

Blessings to you, and thank God for self-awareness. Losing a parent changes you but losing two and then go through a Pandemic, I can’t even imagine. Your strength is amazing.🙏❤️🙏

I needed to hear that today ! Thank you! I am closer to making that same decision as well! I’ve been in my profession for 22 years and yes I am ready to go! 🙏🏽🕊🤗

I loved and appreciated this story. I recently moved cross country away from my family after a lot of struggle and turmoil trying to make it work with them.. dealing with the pain, guilt, and sadness from that decision but like you said, you're always allowed to pivot to live authentically to you! Her hair turned out amazing as always.

Thank you for your story. I too lost my mom in 2019 and lost my dad early this month. I am currently trying to leave my job right now as it is draining me and I am looking for something more fulfilling in my industry. I feel like your story is reassurance for me especially since you recognize God as you stated earlier in the video

Thank you for sharing. Thank you for encouraging us to pivot if needed. And mostly thank you for the speaking life into us that God has something greater later.

Wow this was deeper than hair for real. I had tears in my eyes when you said stay in something because of the security of it. Thank you as you are another confirmation

Also, this lady’s hair is absolutely beautiful 😍 I hope the anniversary was incredible and I hope it’s ok to send you some hugs 💐💐 I truly enjoy your content and I am so sorry you were put through such a horrible experience around when your Mum passed away 😢 it sounds like you did the right thing in the end x

Thank you for sharing about why you retired and what led you to do that. I've been struggling with the direction of my workplace for a while now, and it really does feel like signs are pointing elsewhere, but it helps to hear about when people have made changes like that, and knowing that sometimes it's just about trusting the process. Love your channel, as always, and thanks for being an inspiration!

Your videos always make me feel better. Thank you for sharing your gifts and your honest heart.

Needed that word. God sends reassurance at exactly the right time. Had back to back losses. Makes you truly register even more the value of time and happiness. So, sending thanks and happiness your way.