"Because I watched a lots of anime and Japanese drama before going to Japan, I thought I had a pretty good understanding about what Japanese people would be like to live with." Ultimate weeaboo move
I am sorry but the main problem is you married in a hurry for a visa with a person you were not compatible with at all. You were very different people and wished to do different things in life, that's it. I am italian and my husband is japanese we waited around two years for marriage and actually get along REALLY well. I have never met another person who thinks so much like me even back in my home country. Not a matter of country, more like a matter of incompatibility which can happen anywhere in the world.
Yes, he is a complete twat. He is complaining about how difficult it was to meet other women when married and having hookups with these - I wonder how he would feel if his wife did the same.
So, you found a random good-looking girl and married her without getting to know her first, and only afterward you started to figuring out who she is and realized that you are not good for each other. It's sad that you had to go thought that, but now it will stay with you as an important life lesson. Don't marry random people and don't trust sudden love. An important decision that changes your whole life is something you can't rush, or it ends up like this. Nowadays, it's really hard to have a long-lasting married life. People gets divorced more and more. They give up too fast. I actually got triggered by you a little, and wrote a wall of text that I just deleted, since who cares anyway. Just use the experience you got with her to work on some self-improvement. You won't fix other people, but you can fix yourself. For relationship, you don't only need a good wife. You also need to be a good husband. If just one of the two of you grew up and become a responsible partner, then it still wouldn't work. You need two responsible people to have a long-lasting relationship.
When Daniel says "I would just say silly things on stream" what he actually means is "I would say my wife is not very pretty and I'm not attracted to her on stream among other hurtful things" lol
Being unfaithful in a relationship is the worst,even if it is quite understandable in a longterm relationship e.g..This behaviour is quite bad for your karma. You should stay single or being with people who are alike. I feel deeply sorry for your former wife and I think that she did not deserve it.These kind of things destroy other people.There are even people who hurt themselves or commit suicide because of this. One must be more careful with other peoples feelings.Have you ever apologized to her? Judging women only by their looks,using them and talking about them in a bad manner afterwards?Sry,this is more than awful.Think about yourself getting older and/or uglier.Or someone only judging you on your current job and not as a whole person... What do your mother and sister think about your behaviour towards women?
If I got my karma, it done. Because I’m happy after getting divorced. But you are getting karma, coz your channel is dead and you aren’t happy. You never change forever
I am sorry! 😞I don't know you both or what happened in your relationship.I am in no position to judge or give a statement about your lifes. In general people should be respected,women should be respected,privacy should be respected. I like Daniel's youtube channel because I think that he is very funny and has got talent.Maybe he is just afraid to do something else.I wish you both the best!!!
Stop doing things in desperation. All your life moves seem to revolve around you getting backed into a corner and being forced to make a decision. Take some control back and start doing things on your terms, not anyone elses.
No bro we care haha it’s hiding in my room u need to be high to watch this guy and enjoy him but he’s an absolute gem and legend lol I don’t see anyone with his honesty on RU-vid lol
So this is your personal opinion and personality that didn't work out in the relationship. Why your relationship failed has nothing to do with the other person, it was your own expectations that you didn't think through that failed your relationship. You are not ready for a relationship period in my opinion. You need to do some work on yourself to figure out your needs and what you want. All of these expectations are only what you personally expect. For me personally getting divorced because of food is a bit troublesome as you have a very limited emotional intelligence to deal with these issues. It seems like you rely on other things in life to make you happy, which is a bit troublesome.
I think what made the marriage fail is you being anti social with zero interest in getting to know other people outside of the woman you want to meet for the sole purpose of having sex. Your ex wife made it pretty clear
The most unbelievable thing about you is your insanely brutal honesty. I think it's fresh actually, someone being so blunt, even though the topics might be upsetting for some.
As if Japanese people eat salmon rice and fresh veggies. They eat sugar bread, sugar rice. More processed food with tons of chemicals and additives. Japanese food is unhealthy asf
I literally cannot get enough of this channel. It can't just be me though, I want Daniel and Chihoro to get back together eventually and start a family in Japan hahahaha
I mean you wouldn't appreciate it if your girlfriend was having tinder hookups and seeking men on dating sites and getting her tube packed an hour before you two do the deed. You get what you give and when you have a reputation for treating women this way don't be surprised when it happens to you while you're dating or after you've said your vows
On a visit to Japan, a Japanese woman showed some interest in me but I didn't follow up on it, regretted it, but now I'm not so sure 🤔 I missed bread after literally 3 days 😅. I sort of know what you mean about Japanese stores shouting slogans but every shop you go in, in the UK has blaring music too. 🎶
I don`t know exactly why, but when somebody says "lady" instead of woman or girl, it instantly turns me off. Like it suggests there was something indecent about that woman or that by saying "lady" you suggest something untoward and smutty/perv in yourself.
Everything is a trade off. I originally felt the same way you did when I got married but if you put the time in, you will adjust to one another. She sounds like a typical wife. 100% of our issues is my wife getting upset at me😂. We been married for 18 years and I wouldn't trade it for the world. The longer you are together the more nostalgic that person becomes to you. After 10 years of marriage I exercised my demons of wanting sexual experiences with other women not that I did anything but the strong urge that us men deal with dissipated. I'm 50 years old so I dont know if it has to do with my age. We started to go to church and that is the main reason why we are still together.
Sounds like my wife, but we’ve been together for 5 years going on 6 and the first three years were so bad but eventually we understood, that we are both from different cultures, but I honestly feel that if we didn’t have a daughter together we would have been broken up, our daughter keeps us together and I want to keep her happy so me being unhappy is the best thing A dad can do, as much as I love Japan if your outgoing you can’t stay here you can’t have friends because only work is important, my daughter wants me to stay and her mother wants me to leave so im doing what’s right for my baby, I’ve recently been feeling homesick and I couldn’t go out of Japan for three years because of this stupid virus but I miss friends I miss talking English to people, Japanese people are so introverted and I’m way to extroverted for japan, so I get how you feel and how I’m still here only for my daughter next year I’ll get my permanent visa and if she wants a divorce I don’t care
Most of the things you hated was on yourself. Basing living in Japan on anime and movies is like assuming I know Britain and British people via Mr Bean. To not hear English is your own job by doing calls with friends and family and watch entertainment in your first language. The jokes not landing... you need to have enough sense to know your audience when you use jokes. If a type of joke doesn't land with a person you adapt and if they don't find it funny you save those jokes to those where it does land. Being married in a foreign language with a spouse of a foreign culture becomes your own job to make sure you fulfill your own needs that handles homesickness by cooking the foods you miss or listen to the comedy you miss, call the people you miss, etc. Sarcasm doesn't translate so when you take the words literally it gets hurtful. I have a sarcastic sense of humor too but again, know your audience. You live and you learn but know your misery on the most part was on yourself.
Yeah it was a shock for me when I went to a university cafeteria and they weren't serving chips when I was craving Western food. But I went to the IKEA and it was exactly like here, meatballs, gravy and chips! In all seriousness I love Japanese food, one of the advantages of a Japanese wife, especially love miso!
man complaining about stuff he either should’ve foreseen happening or stuff he did not care enough to be better with. if you care about someone, you make a true effort to communicate and understand them. you do not have to force yourself to watch everything she does or eat everything that she does but you should respect her ways and communicate the issues you have because you LOVE that person. it just seemed like bro romanticized everything and got stuck in reality.
You are right Japan is not what people show in social media. Japanese people are so different and foreigners won’t fit on their world. They need to know there is a whole world out there, that’s why I do not recommend living in Japan even tho you speak Japanese.
I’m sure you know by now but sarcasm doesn’t exist in Japan AND their humor is quite different. This is something I found to be very hard. P.S Talking smack about your wife on stream/youtube is probably not such a good idea..
I feel like Japanese culture is one of those things that are great to visit but I'd never comepletely and permanently immerse myself in it, kind of like city life (although I have no choice but to live in the city lol)
This is just sad. I remember watching your videos when i could barely undertand english and now years later I see this. It's astonishing to see how you've not grown emotionally at all. I really hope this is just some joke to get some clout. Bro's a full grown adult and can't see that he's stuck in his own childish expectations and delusions. From the viewpoint of a stranger it just made it look like you married her to get a visa and then when she wasn't acting like a fictional anime waifu you cheated on her, felt no remorse for it and now came to whine about it on yt like you suffered so much because of her.
I’m an American living in Japan but near a military base but been in Japan for years now . I feel 100 percent exactly the same way you do...I thought I was the only one ! I feel so insecure and feeling like a prisoner living in Japan !
Do you think you are more in demand among women in Japan than in the UK. And if so, why? Loved the video. Some great insights and honesty. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. When you are married you wish you were single, and when you are single you wish you were married. Such is life.
I had a Japanese GF for 12 years however we never lived in Japan. I see some similarities like the lack of understanding of irony, eating rice 3 times a day. what upset me the most was when we were on trips in Japan she got very sensitive to not annoying anyone else like speaking too loud or leaning against something while waiting in line ...
Last year of marriage before i divorced i witnessed an increasingly selfish, juvenile, irresponsible and cruel behaviour. I am not going back to such hell, i love living in japan but i think i will not have a relationship with another japanese woman, it just doesn't work for me.
They live long because they practice poverty diet, aka fasting, that slows the metabolism and the lifespan of parts of the body, ironically you eat less or just enough, you live longer. However this is not done intentionally
This was HILARIOUS. D9nt blame him for disliking a culture. He doesn't hate the people, just the atmosphere. It's his preference. Secondly, she proposed to him not the other way around. He seems like a timid guy so if he's saying something was too much I believe him lmaooo
Did I hear steaks, fish and chips, burgers, hotdogs, lasagne, chicken and shepherds pies…. Yum yum. I can not take it anymore….. you make my mouth watery……… but your favorite is always cheesecake and cereal 🥣.
You've dodged a bullet, that youtuber Techlead had his kid essentially kidnapped from him by a Japanese wife, she ran off back to Japan with him and he cannot get access and see his kid for years despite trying. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-oy1MMCZgRg0.html Also there's this French dude who is a similar situation protesting on the streets of Japan about his kid and access rights etc.
That guy makes Daniel look honest. Watch his latest video about being arrested and how he plugs his company while talking about being interrogated. He's just a salesman
@@hkim9151 im not sure what being a millionaire has to do with it? So its fine they get their child kidnapped ? Its fine they have to pay 50k a year just for child support to some woman who stole his child away. Where do you people get your ass backwards thinking?
I believe your channel should come with a warning label. ⚠️ You are promoting a dangerous life style. However I believe you will soon reap the depravity you have sown. I hope your wife marries a man who is extraordinary perfectly faithful and loving towards her. I wish I could tell her that my heart goes out to her
Lol daniel i had a dream you and chrio got back together and made a video about it and you got 30k views... I think its a sign you need to get back with chiro to revive your channel
I have only watched the Elden ring vid and this dude is mad he is complaining about the girl being boring and he has gotten married yet still dating and was cheating on her and complaining about her. no comment can convince me this guy is fine in the head
I'm so jealous! You had a great diet while in Japan! I eat fuss-free cooking like humbergers or steaks or shushi everyday, because I'm lazy and incompetent.
Realising you don't like the food, being homesick, not coping with a foreign language or cultural greetings, music in shops seems like stuff you can probably realise living in a country alone before you get married. Did you get married on your second week in Japan or something? -.-
lol. my fiance is a Korean man that I met while living in Korea... and I can empathize with a bit of this. thankfully his taste in food isn't bland and most Korean food is pretty bomb, but he definitely loves weird seafood more than me. also... oh god he loves watching Korean variety "comedy" shows which is sort of similar to Japanese tv. men shouting at the top of their lungs with stupid wigs on usually... can't stand it personally lol.
Kudos to you Daniel for trying to adapt to your wife's culture but unfortunately she is a selfish one and doesn't want to open her mind to understand you. Understand each other is an important element between two individuals husband and wife. From your story you confirmed my uncle's claim who work with a Japanese company under a Japanese boss. My uncle not encouraging me to marry a Japanese woman because Japanese people are basically just racist. And if you watch ask shogo channel you will understand how Japanese people's mind work. They're very close minded and that's why from your story your wife getting offended easily without trying to open her mind and try to understand the culture and differences of you. The problem arise when you're forced to adapt to their culture while the Japanese wife (including her family and society) denying your culture and your background completely. That's clearly a bias. Better avoid Japanese women for good. Japanese gave this thought that they're superior or something and that disgusts me.
@Hiding In My Room One thing I've noticed : The Japanese like to mix tofu with meat. Now that's a bit odd to me. I do admit that the Japanese Diet is "basic", but there are probably some cultural reasons behind it. Why didn't you just haggle with her over when to have Japanese or Western meals on some nights? Honestly, for me it would've been nice to have a change a pace in my diet, being that it's been rough for me to lose weight and maintain the weight loss.
