why i moved out at 15... + cooking and grocery shopping in my new NYC penthouse | vlogmas day 6 

I really am out here exposing myself.

I was so brainwashed by the whole "life of an influencer" from social media, that i never realized that they're just like normal people. seeing her journal, lay in bed without the chaos of having a million things to say, all for the sake to keep us entertained. that really made me cry a bit. i love how raw her content is now. feel so at peace.

Props to mai for talking about her parents. Kids get how frustrating parents can be and since we don't wanna be disrespectful we keep all of it to ourselves. It's good to talk about this and we would never judge you on your relationship w your parents❤️

real ones will never think you're crying over the "little things". Childhood trauma really follows us til forever and will trigger us however way it can. Thanks for showing us this side, Mai. Hope you feel much better

As a girl who has a toxic relationship with my parents, this video is very relatable. I'm 18 and living with my parents now but I'm gonna move out next year. Every time my parents yell at each other and slap me, I felt like I wanna die and there's nothing I can do to change this toxic environment but Mai and her videos gave me hope. I love you Mai❤

I really appreciate how transparent mai is with us.... she doesn't always put on the "perfect life" act but rather shares her ups and downs with us....stay blessed mai

ngl this episode triggered me a lil but in a way that made me feel so seen. Almost no one in my life understands these emotions. I literally recognized every stage in her body language and tone as the video progressed and it may seem subtle but it’s so so easy for someone who’s felt that to see. We love you mai. Being vulnerable like this and breaking the facade is so good for peoples brains and lives. Thank you for putting yourself out there ❤

It’s the disrespect and the way they are treating your home and things you own that you did all for yourself. Your feelings are so valid

That feeling is too relatable. Nothing triggers me more than family drama. I moved out when I was 18 to get away and be at peace. Im 31 now and I’m still trying to keep a decent relationship with my family. But there are certain things that they do that makes me break down and feel like I did when I was a kid. It took me a long time to figure out how to keep my family at a comfortable distance and set boundaries especially in my home. So proud to see that you have a new fantastic space and you living your life to the fullest ❤ sending love from Toronto!

Being a Nigerian I'm growing up in a very toxic household and you can't say anything about it like you cant even think to disrespect anyone no matter what they say or who they are and watching mai really brings me peace and hearing her story is really touching

i was so fucking brainwashed on influencers and celebrities that i never saw the real side EVER .. seeing mai like this made my heart literally sink and i felt so sad , the reason i love mai is because shes not covered in plastic , she shows us the REAL life . the struggles , society and how it actually is , past life and life in its true raw form . mai , you helped me become such a bigger and better person and you dont deserve to cry , i have parent issues and it just made my heart sink that youre literally trying so hard to develop a bigger and stronger relationship , as someone who loves , cares , supports mai i will do anything 2 make you happy

Honestly she is the one person i truly look up to she is so real and doesn’t try and make it seem like her life is perfect like so many other people do on here.

I relate to this so much. I moved out when I was 17. I also moved to a different country. And when I first went home after 2 months of living alone I realised how bad living with my parents was for my mental health. But its also hard because my moms health is kinda bad so I also did a huge part of the household work. And when I visited the house was so dirty and all i did that week was clean the house and when I left I felt so bad for my siblings but yeah. I don't think anyone read this but if you did thanks and have a great day, greetings from Belgium!

I’ve been experiencing 21 years of mental abuse with my parents and I still haven’t moved out. It’s a massive dream of mine and trust me I know how it feels to want to be close to ur family, yet they always prove u right with how they act. I don’t think anyone who has a good family life will ever understand how we feel so they don’t have a leg to stand on to tell us how to act. All I know is that you have helped me so much and you should be so proud of yourself for even trying. You’re not alone Mai ❤❤❤❤

girl, please don't feel bad about talking to us about your family problems. im 17, i live at home, and have family problems. you have no idea how encouraging it is to know that you understand what that's like, and that you were actually able to move out. thank you sm for sharing, you have no idea.

I relate to this so much. It’s so hard to be around your family when they are so different from you. And you’re so right about how freeing it is to finally be on your own. I’m so happy that you get to live the life you have right now. And I’m literally so happy that you feel so much more at peace and happy in your own space. That’s honestly the best feeling ever

the weight of having traditional asian parents is no joke... having those generational curses passed down to you and having to move through them, live with them as they manifest through your parents, its so heartbreakingly painful. thank you for being so transparent and sharing your story so fearlessly mai

i literally resonated with this so freaking much. Parents not respecting the things you’ve worked so hard to attain is so immensely frustrating, especially when you’re trying so hard to keep the peace already. .You’re so REAL for sharing this side of yourself😭🤍 Forever an inspiration 🤍!!!

Omg maii were all here for you don't be embarrassed we all love you so much and it makes me really happy to know that you can share your sorrows with us. Everything's gonna be fine. Your amazing and you truly didn't deserve to be treated that way, we love you so much and we all here for you. U can do thisss!

There's something soo nice about watching Mai being productive and it encourages me to be productive. I love how she puts so much effort into her videos and I love the entertainment with literally just listening to her talk. Also, I love how open she is about her life. Thanks Mai for your videos 🥰🥰

When Mai started crying, I found myself crying too. I dont remember seeing anyone in the social media being this sincere and raw about their feelings. It made me feel extremely proud of her and myself too as someone who struggled with her family a lot. I moved out this October to go to college and my hometown and the city that I've arrived are far far away from each other and I've been enjoying my freedom for nearly 2 months and HONESTLY I am so grateful. I dont ever remember feeling this peaceful in my life. I studied my ass off and got into the best college in my country and this video seriously made me think about my past experiences. Bless Mai's heart, I love her sooo much, she deserves the whole world.

Mai, that asian parent inter-generational trauma is so real!! And you’re amazing for trying to heal yourself and others from that. Cry, get frustrated, feel your feelings. You’re doing the work and thats such a feat to do ❤

mai is one of the good ones. she’s so strong and even though she’s been through so much she stays positive and pushes through. you truly are an inspiration ❤

ive always felt like i see a lot of myself in you and you talking abt ur relationship with your parents just made me relate even more to you and gives me hope also that one day i’ll have my own house and wont have to deal with all the traumatic shit and be able to try and have a realtionship w them but with boundaries they have to respect. Im literally crying thank u for being so u, u rly make me feel seen

I love that you opened up and said what’s wrong, it’s like the one friend who doesn’t say what’s wrong for the longest time and they finally do❤️

As someone who is seventeen years old with daddy issues, seeing you break down and talk about your struggles so openly to the camera, made me feel seen and understood. im happy you decided to keep that in bc ik im not the only one who felt this way. u are such a huge inspiration and deserve everything u have rn, super proud of u mai

I'm so happy to see you being vulnerable with your family struggles as I struggled with these issues, too as a Vietnamese American and hope that you see the love that your community has for you.

I'm so proud of you for acknowledging how far that you have come since you were 15. You have gotten so far in live and I'm so proud of you love

I'm a 31 yr old asian female and Sagittarius and girl I totally understand why you felt so upset that your family was so careless in your space. Asian parents always treat you like a little girl no matter how much older you get and how successful you become. I'm so proud though that you have a space that is completely yours and you don't have to deal with BS on a daily basis. Keep doing you girl❤

Mai this video hit me so hard. I empathize so hard with being constantly frustrated with your family. I’ve been really struggling with my family and trying to stay positive and trying to keep my head above the waves. I’ve been crying all weekend and it’s so hard. When you said “if I could just help one person” it literally brought me to tears because you helped me today. Thank you so much for posting this and including your struggle it really helped me feel better and not so alone. I am so so so grateful for you and your content!

My parents did really messed up disrespectful things when I was growing up and even as an adult to this day they will say or so messed up shit. Mai, I am so proud of you to see how far you have come in your life and to get away from the negativity that has surrounded you all these times. You deserve happiness!! And all of us who can relate deserve happiness too. 💓💓💓💓

The healing the amount of love and peace and dedication THE FACT SHES SO DOWN TO EARTH AND STILL SUPER FUNNY the humbleness THE BEAUTY the rawness and just overall sweet energy she has ❤

As someone who also grew up in a Vietnamese household, moved out, then moved back home to help my parents with financial problems...I can 10000% relate. Since I've moved back home, I've had so many mental breakdowns and depressive episodes, which I haven't had for years. Your feelings are valid Mai...and they seem like little things, but those little things have been piling up for years. and it's now an avalanche

I grew up in an abusive household (alcoholic father) and we have had a rough time over the years. Last weekend we met up with him for the first time in almost 4 years and he had promised that he was better and i really tried and gave it my best and it turned out to be awful and he really disappointed me. I guess I want to thank Mai for making content that allows me to “check out” of my own sadness for a bit and also commend her for showing that life really does have its ups and downs FOR EVERYBODY. She is so sincere and relatable and we love her so much. Mai, you deserve the world 🤍

6:43 I can relate to this so much. Getting along with my whole family but especially my parents has been an ongoing struggle for as long as I can remember. Something I’ve learned that might (or might not) be helpful is that you don’t need to drop your boundaries to have a good relationship with family. You can choose which things you trust them with (living in the same space might not be one of those) and still take care of yourself while you reach out.

Im so proud of you for being so raw and honest with us and the fact that you feel safe enough to share this with us made me so happy because I also am going through family problems so thank you for making me feel like I'm not alone ❤❤

It is a relatable experience to have people in your life who do not respect your space and boundaries. It’s even harder when it’s your family. The fact that they are not being considerate to your home/pets while also accepting all of your kindness is shameful. Keep these visits short and rules outlined ahead of time 💗 wishing you the best

It's so refreshing to see that not every youtuber has a great relationship with their parents/family because growing up Viet as well, I was trying to live my own life in a toxic household, and it is so exhausting. I really appreciate Mai for being so transparent and sharing such a intimate part of her life with us. It's encouraging to see where Mai has come (esp being the same age as her) from and how much she has achieved TT so proud you yew

The start of this video hit me so hard. It sucks that when we try to go back it just brings us back to that emotional and mental state that we were in at that time. It’s so hard to put yourself through it. Thank you so much for being so real because I’ve never seen anyone else talk about the reality of home and family and how difficult being home is.

Thank you so much for being brave enough to be vulnerable with us in this video. I’ve never related so much bc I currently like at home, as a teenager, and sometimes I feel like I won’t get to be happy and live better. So seeing you escape what used to be and live this beautiful life you do now is so inspiring. ❤

5:44 honestly, thank you mai for including this part into the video, I never related to anything that was said on RU-vid as much as what you have said and experienced. It kinda gave me the chills. It sounds awful what you had to go through and not being respected when you were forced to live with you family, and it’s too bad that you felt like having to downplay it. I don’t think it is first world problems, they are real problems! I’m glad you were able to get out of the situation when you were 15 and are thriving now!! It is also super mature to try to reconcile the relationship with your family and not cut them out completely. I might not know you personally but you seem very strong to me, so stay even stronger while your family is visiting you and hopefully everything will be fine! And again, thank you so much for including this part into the vlog, sometimes social media gives the impression of nobody having to deal with mental/family problems and you are all by yourself, when in fact other people have problems as well but it’s not that easy for them to show the bad stuff too.

as someone that struggles with my parents as well, just know you’re not alone! we love you mai

Your parent problems really hit home to me, I had a dramatic emotional cry thanksgiving day from being back around my parents and it was so rough to realize that I used to live like that every single day. And I’d been away from home for so long that I had forgotten what it felt like to be around chaotic people that stress me out bc my life now is so completely different. It’s a great feeling to know you’re free from those experiences for the most part, but in order to spend time with your family you have to accept a little bit of emotional suffering simultaneously. It’s highly frustrating😢

thank you for being so raw and real with this video it def hit home for me, I was watching your content when u were younger and trying to move out and I was around the same age struggling w the same thing, I keep telling myself if she can do it so can I . that feeling you felt is way too relatable, I felt your pain. thank you for what you do

You’re so strong Mai. I also really respect you for trying to repair your relationship with your parents, especially bringing them into your home/safe place. It’s hard to put yourself back into that position, but this video honestly encourages me to be more patient with my own parent. Thank you for always being so open and good to us

As a native new yorker, its so comforting to see you at the local grocery stores, the dollar store, and supporting small businesses as opposed to only shopping at bigger chain stores. thank you for that

It's so refreshing to see Mai expose her life like this. I have lived a similar life until I moved out at 18 so I totally understand. Thank you for sharing!! We love you

Watching you break down when you came home reminded me of every single reason of why I left my family’s house. I felt that intense frustration right with you 😭 So proud of how far youve come Mai!!! We love u sssssm 💗💗💗

I really loved this episode because it was so raw and relatable. Influencers' lives are so glorified that we don't see what their life is really like. I'm 14 and going through some of the worst time of my life right now, and my family only makes fun of my struggles. When I see things like this, it's so motivational and inspiring. I look up to you so much, and when I really see the things you go through, it helps me get through my day and realize that I can put in the effort to try and be happy.

It’s so empowering seeing Mai authentically embrace her Asian culture online. I know so many young Asian girls, myself included are watching and feeling seen and proud of their roots. ❤

I love how Mai has no filter!!! This is LIFE not everything is perfect we all have rough days and bad memories that still affect us. Mai you are such a role model we all look up to you for being just so straight up and real!!!

We are here for you Mai ❤ we understand that we can’t always stay happy and just need a good cry sometimes. Your dad really needs to respect you more and I’m so grateful you’re living a better life now. Thank you for at least trying to give him another chance. Love you ❤

I love how you cried and showed that your life is not always rainbows and sunshine and how you showed that you also experience family problems and it makes us viewers also relate to you more ❤️

I find it very courageous that you openly told us the reasons for your early departure. I also moved out when I was 15 because I couldn't stand being with my family any longer. That may sound mean now, but it was also the best decision of my life back then. I've had a lot of part-time jobs in recent years and studied at the same time. I successfully passed my bachelor's degree a few months ago and now I'm living my dream life. Never give up and stay strong. Life can always change for the better, even if it sometimes means leaving important people (family or friends). Thank you Mai for being so honest and sharing your life with us ❤️ Sorry for my bad English, it's not my native language.

Honestly watched you for years and you talking about family drama and your feelings and all really hit home , made me feel like I am not alone with those feelings.Thank you showing a more real side of you on camera.We love you ❤

i am so glad you posted this video. i relate to your at home feelings so much and i can’t wait to get the hell out of here. it’s what keeps me going, i’m so excited to grow and explore and see what more there is to life

mai you’re so strong and beautiful . you’re not getting upset over tiny little things, literally everyone would be very reasonably upset over things like that . this is YOUR space that YOU are paying for; you should not have to deal with disrespect in your own home, especially when you are trying so hard to make things right and enjoy your family . thank you for being so open and sharing things like this with us . i’m so so grateful to you mai i love u sweet girl 💗

As some one who struggles with “mommy issues” this just reminded me that even if your out their living your life you are still a human being and that you’ve had so many struggles to get we’re you are and seeing you cry just made me start bawling because you just have been such an inspiration, but seeing you cry made me see you as an even bigger one because you have to be very brave to be front forward online, And you are. THANK YOU FOR JUST BEING GREAT I LOVEEE U(btw mmm SO GOOD!!!)

I've discovered your channel today and watched a bunch of your videos. I already liked the vibe in those, but this video makes it even more relatable in a way. In the end, it's not 'just a little thing', it's the accumulation of things. So thank you for showing this as well.

Thank you for showing your feelings with your parents because I’m in the same shoes as you right now. I moved out and then they needed to move in with me at 24. I moved out at 18 because of how they were. I needed to see someone else in my shoes. You have no idea how nice it was to know I’m not alone. Thank you! ❤

I know what it feels like. Living in an Asian household isn't easy. It's so frustrating because there's no point trying to make them understand. I am so proud of how far you've come Mai. All my love.

I get it. I really do. I'm 16, and I have my go-bag packed for when the day comes that I really do have to leave. My father abused me for 12 years before he finally stopped, and I STILL cry like that almost every day. While he no long physically abuses me, he still does my little brother, and older brother occasionally. I cannot wait until I'm 18 and I can finally leave. I love you Mai, and I'm really proud of you.

I’m SO glad you posted this video especially the part where you vented about why you moved from your parents house. I’m glad that I watched your video and that I’m not the only one who has dealt and is dealing with family issues like this.

Thank you for sharing because just like you, we all Asian community and everyone else feels some kind of way about the family drama. I struggle with it everyday and I’m still trying to get a relationship with my parents but it’s so hard. You have touched me and everyone else and I appreciate you.

Mai I’m so freaking proud of you for trying to repair things with your parents, even though you were under zero obligation to. That’s GROWTH, miss girl! You’re such a real person and I’ve loved watching how far you’ve come in the few years I’ve been subscribed to you and seeing how strong of a person you’ve become! I’m like 9 years older than you but you inspire me to better my life every time I watch your content. Love you!

I actually really appreciate you sharing the issues with your family. My family isn’t perfect and sometimes it’s hard seeing people be so “perfectly” close with theirs. It made me feel so sad because my family wasn’t close but they were so incredibly toxic.

I don't comment very often but I've been following you for years and I am so proud of how far you've come. Deep breaths honey, 15 year old you would be so so so proud of yourself. Also you are such an inspiration hun, I've had a really hard day after my mom came back in town from vacation and it's nice having that reminder that things won't always be this way and eventually I will be able to move away and possibly even cut her off. I love you so so so much Mai. Try to keep your head up dear but it's also okay to let yourself feel your feelings.

I normally don’t comment on videos + this is the second video I’ve seen from you but I wanted to tell you something… As someone who moved out of their parents house at 17 because of mental health and abuse I’m so thankful that you shared that… I’m always thinking I’m the only one who’s trying to get better with their own family even though they treated me like shit. I know it’s hard to visit your family or your family visiting you. It helped me a lot to see that there are other people with the same problems ❤️

When you cried my heart broke. People really don't talk about the stress of home life. You're so incredibly strong and I'm sure that so many people could relate to the vlog today

I never realized how bad your home life was and what truly made you move out. I can’t wait until the day I can move out as well since I feel worse being at home than anywhere else. I can’t wait to live the happy life you are and do what I want in life. You truly are my inspiration for my life and what I want to do with it.

im just barely starting to watch your videos and I love them so much. you're so genuine and are willing to express how you're feeling which isn't common with lots of influencers td. thank you for brightening my day

This was emotional to watch not just because of everything mai opened up about, but also it hits different when u relate. I literally struggle with family issues everyday and im so fkn depressed because of it. When i saw her crying i felt like crying too, cause its like people who are on the internet show so much of the positive in their life that you really don't find people who you can relate to on stuff like this. The fact she was reapplying her makeup and crying gave me major deja vu from a few days ago and just alot of times in my life. Once you start breaking down from family issues its like an ongoing breakdown that will complete itself in the long run of a week or so cuz of how messed up everything is and its that one thing that triggers u into thinking of a 100000 things concerning your family. I really hope everyone who is struggling with family issues can be free of it eventually, im just waiting to be financially stable and after that i have no will to keep on living with my family. I love Mai for how far she has come and its so inspiring to those going through similar situations❤

I think you helped hundreds of people by talking about this. We love listening to you especially when it comes to thing like this. We love you and are sooooo happy for you that you came this far. You deserve it Mai! And thank you again for literally everything

Wow relatable af. Your family situation hits so close to home. For a second I literally felt like I was watching me and my family. I cried when you cried because I know exactly how you felt. Being surrounded by misery and chaos my whole life, gambling addictions, money issues, feeling like the parent to your parents, feeling like you don't belong because your mindset is just so different to theirs, hating them for just immaturely birthing you without actually raising you, feeling like a wild mushroom that had to raise herself... But it's just so inspiring to see where you are now. It gives me hope, that one day I can achieve this too. I will leave this suffocating chapter behind me. I will be happy and the darkness i'm surrounded by will one day only be a memory. Really, thank you. Love you.

girl i’m in the same situation right now, you’re not exposing yourself you’re being vulnerable and trust me i know it’s hard. you worked too hard to feel like that again. so proud of you❤️

mai... its okay to cry. you dont need to be positive wvery single vlog just for us. we watch you for YOU.

When you said with a tear, “I’m trying, but it’s so hard,” I’ve never related more. It’s really hard to heal and grow, but there’s a light at the end of it! In my mid-20s, my relationship with my parents finally became more amicable, but still made me shed tears. Now, almost never. You’ll get there!!!

mai, i’m so proud of you for being able to share this with us and being so honest. i know how hard it is to do so, and you are such an inspiring person. you’re so so strong and as someone who also has a rough relationship with my parents, it’s honestly so refreshing to see that i’m not the only one who struggles. love you so much

i am so grateful that you show us the real life vlogs and the moment you started talking about like family it is just so relatable i am 15 now so i wish to grow and live in the apartment of my dreams and be free. i just love the way things turned out for you and i am so happy for you

i’m 14 and wanting to move out due to parents and family and i have taken sm comfort in all of your videos, but this video has honestly made me feel less alone and comforted. You are a very strong person and i hope that you continue living the dream ❤

My heart goes out to mai for making our lives better and making content for us. ❤️

When she started crying I felt that, family problems are on another level of stress but we all love you Mai 💜❤️

Mai, this video just spoke to me so much! I’ve been watching your videos since you moved in with your sister and then your first apartment by yourself! I live with my parents and it would be such a stretch financially to move out but I’m so happy to see I’m not the only one going through parent problems. Thank you for giving me hope! ❤

Mai I totally understand where youre coming from. Living with family is super fing stressful. I loved that you shared this with us. It made you more authentic and i know a lot of people saw this and realized youre not just an influencer, youre one of us. Hang in there Mai ❤

Mai this video really hit my core. When you said "I can't believe i used to live like that" - I felt this ricochet throughout my whole body. We lived the same life. I have never felt more closer to you than in that moment. I was crying with you! I am not one to show emotion, so i appreciate how raw and open you were. I love that I have you Mai.

I’m on verge of tears cause I feel like you know what I am going threw and the fact that I’m 15 and cry every day for similar reasons is crazy to me how similar we are. I wanna say I look up to you and how you were able to get out of your toxic house hold and now I can believe in my self that one day I can be like you

Bro when Mai started crying I started tearing up because of what she want through and I’m so grateful that she’s happy and that she shares with us. I love you mai ❤ you make me happy every time 😭💕❤️ your the best ❤

i’ve never related to someone more. i was beyond miserable living with my parents. i was so depressed & genuinely hated life. i moved out & it was like a weight lifted off my chest & i became so happy. unfortunately i had to move back home & im back in that same spot. i’m so happy that you were able to get out of that situation bc ik how hard it is. sending love to you bby 🫶🏼🫶🏼

I 100% understand. I moved to Texas with my long-term boyfriend to get away and every time I visit home I get taken 10 steps back and I don’t miss being in that environment. It’s okay to cry and it’s okay to be upset. Parent-child relationships are a whole different beast. We are thankful for you too❤️

When Mai started crying I felt so connected in a way I can’t explain but some of the stuff she is saying is a reason I wanna move out early 🤍🤍

This is why I look up to u iv never been so understood I love that u just showed the raw footages of how it is and feels to have a complicated relationship with family ❤

mai im so grateful that ur able to open up to us and always have a smile on ur face. we all have these days and im sorry about whats happened. i love u mai 💓

mai talking about family dysfunction is so hard and it’s easy for us to put it away or minimize it but I’m glad you’re able to share it with us ❤ makes me feel like u really do consider us as family. you’ve come so far mai! Everyone’s proud of u girlie

parents not respecting their children's boundaries, or even listening to what they say, just bc they're "parents" it's fucking real and i'm glad u opened up about it. I'm lucky enough to say that, personally, me and my parents have gotten better over the years but it's been a very slow and frustrating process, for both them and me. I just hope it gets better for you too Mai, hang in there 💗

Honestly I loved seeing that side of you because I can really relate to it. I’ve watched your videos for so long and they help get me motivated, but also showing your troubles helps me see everybody can fall apart sometimes and it’s okay. Especially when it comes to crying over family and their lack of respect for you and your boundaries. Thank you for posting that part even tho I’m sure it was hard for you to be vulnerable with us ❤

You’re not alone Mai! I love you and you’re stronger now than you were back then and you’re doing so great! Embrace the growth and change but also don’t push aside the heartache cause we sometimes need to feel that to remind us of where we came from❤❤❤

As someone who’s actually in the position as 15 yr old Mai I just wanna say I’m proud of you for setting boundaries and standing up for yourself ❤ your feelings are valid and you’re doing your best 😘🥰

Thank you so much for sharing your reality. Asian parents really do be like that making their own rules and shit meanwhile we (the new generation) are trying to reach their expectations BUT THEY ACT LIKE THIS. Love you so much and you are a true image of an Asian Success 2nd generation 💗

Mai I literally cried with u u are so soooo stronge I’m so glad u decided to add this to ur vlog because other influencers would never share this side of there life beacuse they want us to see this perfect life they have I love u so so so much stay stronge gorg ur amazing

I respect you so much to show what you showed us in this video. My life is very much similar with my parents, it’s exhausting and they never change even with threatening to leave. I’m 17 and can’t wait to have my own place like this, so thank you for showing me it’s possible ❤❤