why I moved out at 15... 

maiphammy We are here for you 😊❤️

❤️

don’t worry bby. ilyyy

We 🖤 uuuuu ❤️

we all love you so much! so proud of you for opening up to us like this it means a lot and i know how hard it must be❤️

That is literally me right now

Toxic and physical

I feel this on a high level

I relate so hard to this

I'm barley a teen and I barley have money but home has been good which scares me because what if it happened again and crap

Bob Plunk no it’s absolutely not easy she puts so much time and effort into her videos

@@cardibb3102 you’re ignorant as hell 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

period

I mean having a job isn’t hard even work at McDonald’s u can make 1 at least a rack in a month depending where u live

@@cardibb3102 being female doesn’t have anything to do with it

Same 🤙🏾

Same here

same im so proud of her ♥ im happy to be part of phamily

Same!

same!!!

Wasc Lit i love this, how you stocked by her side thru out everything, that’s love right here

bless your love and patience! they don’t make them like that anymore

@@Angelica-gw3st Thank you but they still do make a few good men today and they aren't all Marines. Mothers teach us compassion, intimacy, empathy, and that love is stronger than muscles. Dads teach their sons how a real man treats his wife. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince and never settle for second best. Maintain high standards and remember to love yourself and trust your gut. If it doesn't feel right most likely it isn't.

Wasc Lit i definitely agree with you on kissing a couple frogs!! 😂 my ex’s used my depression against me and always brought me to the lowest point but my new partner has been making sure I eat at least once a day or reminds me about my medications because I’ve become so forgetful. His mother was always patient and so kind to him. I’m grateful when guys reciprocate that energy with love towards everyone

@@Angelica-gw3stI don't know this guy and I like him already. Good for you.

Not every 16 year old has thousands coming in from RU-vid to change their life the way they would want to .

SHE SAID WHAT thats bs

It’s hard to make a change when you have depression

Danielle - I actually agree

No one are going to follow u hun

zoom loser I know, I’m so glad she is doing much better now.

Its shitty when you can feel it like feel it in your heart

Taibah Tasnim ughhhh

same im desi/Asian Nd i wanna move out so bad

And arab kids crying in Arab 😂

TRUE

Taibah Tasnim but we can leave too but the issue is I don’t hv money :( I’m 16 and I wanna live alone

Karina Ruiz I honestly wanna know on how her parent reacted to this bc my mum would say STRAIGHT UP NOOOO!🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

she was moving in with her older sister, there was no deeper problem between her and her parents

Yes I agree. I moved out at 18 because of my parents directly. Such a toxic relationship when living with them, and it only got better when I left. They were physically and mentally abusive. It was so bad

It gets pretty depressing living in a small town with the city being an hour away tho maybe her parents just cared about her well being and happiness and also thought moving in with her sister was a good idea

Are you saying that depression isn't a deep enough problem? She's been living with her older sister it's not like she ran away and was all on her own. There might me something that she isn't saying but honestly her situation was a "deep problem" and she had to change something.

Hannah B 400th like

You look familar dude.

I wish you the best Jacqueline. I want to go to a culinary school in Austin, TX and my parents think that I wanna leave and never come back, but that is not true you know? I just want to have more independence once I become 18 which is this November. I hope you can be more happy when you move out! :)

Nikki Lerma thank you so much💗, I hope you get to do what you want! I’m moving out in August :)

You're 18. If you're financially independent they can't make you do anything. My parents are mentally abusive to the point where I was practicing sticking my head in nooses at 11. I tried to kill myself 8 times while living with my toxic, abusive mother and my father who had clearly chosen my mother over my mental health. I moved out 2 weeks after I turned 18. Stay strong and keep your head up. If you make smart financial decisions you can make it out. I wish you the best.

@@lesley3732 I hope everything's okay with you now.

totally relatable..

That's like exactly what I'm trying to do

Very admirable wow

hi Army!! 💜

@@vinukiyuhansa332 hi armiesss

me: im gonna pretend I didn't see that

Lia Miller I’ve had problems with mental health and had a girl flat out tell me I was faking It to get attention

@@MyaPyle please do not listen, u are the only one who knows how u feel. Acknowledge that, and be honest to yourself about how u feel.

Me too, but people always tell me to “stop being so sensitive “, & It just makes it worse😞

Gabby Miller ignore them they are ignorant and dumb they don’t know u are the only who does. I hope they never experience actual depression but ignorance is bad. This is the exact reason i shut up about it u know people don’t understand🥺.

My friend told me people fake depression to be trendy and I didnt believe her until I went back to public school and see people themselves do it which is fucken up as shit

you're so strong omg!!! im 13 btw

Im so glad you were able to get out of your situation

I wish i could move out I just turned 15 years old 12 days ago...

@@alexiamaxwell1816 Thankyou so much :))

@@user-gh9kx2xk7u there is ways to get help and get away if you dont have any family members you can live with, like if you needed to get away for a bit, I'd suggest staying with a friend or staying in youth shelters

Sameeee 🥹

Samee

Maritza Urbina damn my parents won’t let me leave until I’m probably 20+💀💀💀

My parents would take it as a joke

maddy b girl ur grown and legally an adult at 20 u can do what u please they can’t physically keep u anywhere

My family actually called the police cos I went out and didn’t tell them, and my parents didn’t buy me a phone at the time so hehe 🙃 the lady was pretty rude. I got a phone not that long after

Maritza Urbina could you support my channel

I agree and why do people treat it like it’s a trend because it’s not like you and Mai said

It’s Maddy I completely understand I was in such a dark place and only started sealing help about 2 months ago and honestly my sometimes toxic relationship with my mum contributes so much to my feelings of depression

God can heal everything❤️

There is a difference between depressed and depression please do the difference between depressed and depression it's a different case

@@Seasonalharvest0 I don't believe in the Christian God though 👀

My parents wouldn’t let me go on walks or be alone with guys even though I’ve told them that I like girls more, they won’t let me go outside when I’m home alone, won’t let me sleep when I need to sleep, all that.

My mom was almost a psychotic level of overprotective even though I'm a guy, I had friends always but my mom would do crazy shit like call my friends parents to make sure I'm okay when I was just there to play video games, its not like i was going to choke on the controller....., I couldn't do things like go camping with my friends or even learn how to drive until I was 18, she tried to keep me bubble wrapped and that backfired greatly because I had many issues growing up myself, I lacked social skills, had depression, adhd and other issues, my mom wanted to meet and know every friend I hung out with even into my 20s, the problem was with her, but i know that she is still a good parent and person overall except for a few qualities like being way too much at all times, too controlling and dominant, even my dad does not like being around her all the time etc. but otherwise she is a good woman and very loyal and hardworking and just has a hard time loosing control or letting go.....the bottom line is it's a tough thing to deal with when you are 17, but you have little choice right now, get a job, act with maturity around your parents and slowly take your freedom because a controlling parent won't give it to you, you have to take it yourself, it might result in fights and problems but it is what it is, you also should just be patient because it could take years for them to even change a little and also talk to your parents in a manner where you don't loose your cool, if they still don't change in a few years time then you should just do as you please and let them do as they please, trust me they won't call the cops on you over and over again, eventually they will give up and get used to the fact that you are just going to do what you want and they can't do anything about it besides kick you out.....which they probably wont but just in case save your money....hopefully they will slowly learn to let go

H S hi are we like twinss

My parents called the cops on me 3 years ago when I was really stuck in my eating disorder (anorexia) because I couldn’t eat pizza that night. They just kept demanding that the police handcuff me and send me to the mental health hospital and the police had no idea what to do. They just stared at me. I’ve never been so embarrassed in my life. I just remember feeling so emotionless and dead inside while the cops just stared at me and my parents with this “are you guys stupid look” and said they couldn’t do anything.

@@egan_sketch1153 I know this post is old and I understand why you'd find that annoying, especially if your parents just barked at you and didn't take the time to explain things to you. I also won't pretend to know what your parents were actually thinking or whatever but......those rules sound more like they are for your safety than that they didn't trust you.

im almost 21 and im stuck with my abusers because of lack of money to move out/ corona (which they just brought extra people to the huse cuz of.. they put me in more danger)im just trying to say you are not alone, i get asked that alot and harrassed but what i buy like if i bring soemthing home, "what did you buy? why did you buy this you dont even need it"

Same here

Hey is a good thing your parent's worry about you it's not a bad thing it means they care. But if your 28 you should be responsible enough to know who you hangout with plus your parents should trust you more in what choices you make your an adult.

Same, but then I got married and moved in with my husband and my parent STILL didn’t want me to “leave home”. I had a career, was almost 30, had my first child and my parent STILL thought I was a child that should come “back home”. - I didn’t & am living it up as a career wife/mom. Parent has disowned me & my “new” family.

Same I’m in my 20s and still living with my parents

simply sophia WOW, can you please explain the basic steps you took in order to move out? I’m trying to start the process of emancipation and I really need help.

@@GraceJeanelle how old are you?

Katherine Canon I’m 15, but I believe that the legal emancipation age in Texas is 16 and although my family is all good now, I’d still like to know the basic steps I’d need to take. Just in case :)

but where did you get the money from?

@@martina1069most companies offer jobs to 14 year olds 🤷‍♀️ mcdonald’s etc etc

Hey! I am trying to move out i am only 14 so if you can give me any tips? Please

@@simiii08 Sure, I started out with saving up the second I opened up a bank account in my name once I turned 18, I started to work everyday at a miserable job but made sure I had enough to start slowly finding a place with the help of some independence programs that would get me my goal, they basically help you settle into a place that would let you be there only if you either have a job, were in school or trainings. I suggest you first do some research before diving in, and though it's stressful when working I think it's best because that's the only way you'll get the money done. Being an adult is awful but I send you the best of luck with your journey.

@@elle2498 oh thank you for your tips ❤️

BROOOO OMG I CAN FEEL U

I FEEL THE EXACT SAME I JUST WISH TO BECOME FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT ASAP TO LIVE A PEACEFUL LIFE

😂

C L E O me tooooo

C L E O me too!

same

Is that a compliment? Lol

ThatTypicalGalGamer depends how she took it if she looks old now and she’s young she probs won’t age well Lmaoo

I always thought she was my age (22yrs May), it's so weird.

Erica H she doesn’t look old ? just mature

That's not having depression if you had it once. You went through a phase of depression. Depression never goes away. You can treat it, and tone it down a little, but up into you die, clinical depression DOES NOT GO AWAY. you were depressed, you did not HAVE depression unless you still feel depressed, then of course, you might.

Kaylin VB there are different types of depression mine, at the time, was clinical. But recently with lots of therapy I am now medicated. But thanks for doubting me.

@@BellaRose02 not doubting you. You're very uneducated about the topic then if you think you no longer have it while still taking medication. There's a large population in this worldwho go around saying they have depression and anxiety when they just went through a bad phase of their life. Saying you USED to have depression is a huge red flag. You don't just wake up one day and not have it.

@@BellaRose02 I'm honestly just trying to educate people on the topic, because there's a lot of people who just try to make it a trend, saying they deal with depression and anxiety when in reality they have no clue what it feels like. I'm sorry though, i didn't mean to invalidate you. It was just that you saying you used to have it bothered me.

@@kaylinvb6423 telling people that they can never get rid of depression does not help either. Because that is taking the hope of everyone who is suffering from clinical depression away. And for many pwople the hope to recover is the only thing that is keeping them alive. And as far as i was told (by doctors) you can get rid of depression, just not from a personality disorder. But i do totally agree with you that people speak about having depression was to easily, when they are just havibg a bad phase.

ARE YOU FEELING ANY BETTER LOVE

Hi Otter, I was 18 and in my first year of college my boyfriend was 19 and in his second year.

@maiphammy omg you liked my comment, I love you hun, hope you have a great day/night/weekend!🥰❤️

YT recommended this to me now too 😅 she's so far ahead now

Oh my god saaaaame! Crazy to see her go from this to her new place! It's so great to watch how much she's grown!

if all her siblings have done something similar it’s probably not uncommon for them

Ikr

must be nice 😂😂.

This is not something to laugh about

fellon mellon 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

well she does now 😁😁

You definitely will be you are only 18 your life has just started you can do whatever you want in this world you got this

HEHE

maiphammy omg... I LOVE YOU 😢😢

How do u think she became financially stable? She didn’t do anything by herself

@coshyraalessia stop typing to me ur a goofy

She hearted it❤️❤️❤️ I’m so happy I’m abt to cry in my car😭😭❤️🥰

Good luck 😊❤

Good luck babes ❤️ I hope u making good choices and taking good care of yourself❣️

I wish I could do the same because I'm in the same situation but I'm 14 and I live in Switzerland so I don't think I can move out and my parents will disagree. I'm so tired of life honestly. I see youtubers living in their own apartment and being happy and I'm just like " yeah won't have that until I'm 18 so 4 years of waiting and depression... that is long. Anyway I just wanted to share those informations even if no one cares. (Sorry for my bad English)

Adèle don’t give up girl, you will get the life you want and you can find a way to start building it now✨❤️much love and support

that's such a bold move, i wish you guys best of luck for your future!