@@vivaanburnwal142At the end of the video we saw that first step is school programs them social programs in villages and then more women in media and cinema then more women in work force.
@@kamadotanjiro3118no government must bring act to protect hindus. Tmc rohingya leader sheikh shahjahan tortured 2000 hindu women in sandeshkhali at 12 pm every night took away lands from their hindu husbands. If bjp did not send enforcement directorate, the case could never be revealed.
@@vivaanburnwal142 even the basic things can help like the difference in treatment a boy and a girl receive should change and they both should be treated equally, boys (that includes me too in past) treat girls like some alien beings while boys r given extra privileges bcs they r boys and girls r given a "protective shield" bcs they r girls
Me, I am literally disgusted by how people are protecting and hiding the real person who committed this horrible thing. Shame on such people and the System.
RG Kar case is more probably not just another rape and murder case, the case happened because few administrative people wanted to suppress the victim to cover there nexus
the only fact is rape k liye dono responsible hai girl bhi aur boy bhi log sirf man ko bolte hai but ek man toh biologicaly ladkiyo se hi sexually attract hota hai woh bhi bht kam age se hi aur woh attraction bht strong hota hai most of the men k liye ,log samjh ne ko tayar hi nhi hai ki iss mai dono ki galti hai ladkon ka bhi aur ladkiyon ka bhi example ladkiya ese videos banati hai jisse ladke seduce hoten hai woh chahkar bhi control nhi krte ek time ata hai woh opportunity use krlete hai aur rape hojata hai ,movies,shorts ,reels har jagah sexy(scenes ) videos hote hai ladkiyo ka jyada sexy scenes dikhaya jata hai jisme ladki apne marzi se paiso k liye ese scenes ko accept krti hai krne k liye jisse ladke bhi sochte hai muje bhi krna hai ye sab kam ummar mai unme feelings ane lagte hai aur testosterine level increase hota hai jisse woh outof control hoker sex krne ki koshish krte hai aur rape hojata hai fir woh dar kr murder krdete hai ,isliye life mai dono ko control krna chaiye acche se educate hona chaiye .acche man jo sochte hai aur jinko lagta hai ye kbhi rape ya sex nhi kr sakte hai woh bhi woh sab krte hai jab unka testostorine level high hota hai ek situation mai, mai ek ladka hu toh i can feel these things inside me i researched and i got this reason for rape .so ladkiya socially ladko ko seduce kr rahi hai jiska anjaam hume har waqt najar ata hai porn k wajeh se bhi hota hai .mai kisi ko hurt nhi krna chahta mere ghr pr bhi maa bhen hai so i can understand but the fact is fact
You are missing that point again. This case is not a normal rape case but the rape happened due to the similar reason. Power and domination. See, the fault lies in the roots of gender discrimination.
immense respect for this guy who has the guts to admit that he was treated differently than his sister. it takes a lot to admit such things on such an open platform.
@@kishor.k8092a son is always a KING and a daughter is a PRINCESS. A king rules, a princess is Pawn who can be used easily as per men’s accord. Shaadi Kara do, nhi ye job nhi krna, nhi ye nhi padhna, akele Bahar nhi Jana, Tujhe itna Ladd se bada Kia h is liye hi itni bigad gyi h. A princess is never free 🙂
Rape is definitely a problem but the biggest problem is how they're treated after being raped. The thought that a woman's life gets completely destroyed after rape is most problematic. It's society's duty to help rape victims adjust in the society and not treat them as outcast.
Yeah that girl if she is sexually abused or harrased she is treated badly by the society, even by her own parents. It's sad but is the social reality so we have to live with that.
@@punyashloka4946 Wrong mentality. Live with that ?? Slavery was once common too but we defeated that. If we accept things as it is then nothing will improve in the society. We need to keep speaking on these issues instead of trying to live life miserably.
Dear men, From a girl: When you look at a girl , its okay to appreciate her beauty , but you must not do it with your hands , eve-teasing isnt okay either. Just look at her and leave if you absolutely cant bear it. Please dont drink after 6pm...A few women tend to have nightshifts , or perhaps her father/brother/sister is at the hospital and she must go there all alone/Perhaps she went out in the dark for some other reasons , if you are drunk and out of your mind you might end up hearting her. Please dont drink once the daylight is gone Please show off your physical strength by protecting your sisters , not by harassing them...If you protect a woman you become a god for her , otherwise you are simply the cruel product of Kali , a vison of the devil himself. This is coming from your sister , please stay safe , please be rightious , please protect women when they cant do it themselves. Lots of love to all my sisters who might have been through hell Lots of love to all my brothers who are willing to change and change the society
All our inner voices summed up in one comment kudos 👏 🙌 Just my opinion even if u want to drink...don't do anything bad after drinking and stay in your limits....
@@Forever_Carat976 Yeah maybe be around good people , drink at a good friend's house instead of drinking outright on streets near schools/public places all this western nonsense , clubs , pubs and stuff has seriously ruined india...India used to be wonderful
@@Sandwich-h1e How is that related to rapes? and those girls are probably 12 or 13 year olds who believe whatever they see on social media, immature kids with no real knowlegde dont tell me you justify rapes over something like this??
I remember one day I saw my little brother who was around 15-16 years old, sitting with a bunch of older guys who were catcalling girls, he was laughing along with them. I felt soo much anger and ashamed, I went home and at first I wanted to tell our dad but then again our dad’s scolding might not create a huge impact on him. The moment he came home I poured ice cold water on his head and asked him if his head is ok or not that he felt it was okay to even sit with those idiots and laugh along with them when they were harassing those girls. He was still confused and that made me even more angry, and I told him that it is NEVER ok to make women uncomfortable or unsafe with your actions or words . I told him I didn’t want to speak to him until he realises his mistake, because I saw him as one those idiots and not my brother. Let’s just say I’ve never seen him do that again, I guess it hit him when his own sister told him that what he did made her uncomfortable even though they were not aimed at her.
At 13 i was harassed by an auto driver who used to pick me up from my school. I came to home and cried and told everything to my parents. They told me not to tell this thing to anyone and complained in my school. My parents put unbelievable restrictions on me after that incident. I hate them for doing this to me. I felt like i was the wrong person in the situation but i don't know how because i was wearing full clothes neither i was flirting. As i grew i developed many fears within myself. Now, i talk about that incident to many people especially to young girls and all my friends. I came to know that its such a small thing which happened to many girls and they arent even able to voice it out. Public places are actually not safe for women. I just dont know if at any point of time women would feel safe on this planet
Don't blame your parents, they know the society and people better than you, If they did strict action against auto driver, then it could have create huge problem in future like your marriage, or may be he would try to take revenge because they have nothing to lose. Edit:- Dear Replies! I think you didn't understand my point. I am not saying that her parents are right, but they know that our society and laws and police, are worst in India. Many acid attacks happened just because of revenge, and still police couldn't catch them. Different parents have different thinking but everyone fears for their childrens life. They don't want their daughters to have have problems in future.
This is reality of india sometimes I also scared about my sister I have 9 sister my area is fully Muslim dominated rapes occur every month because rape is allow in islam still buslim people have don't shame due to this reason all of the hindu of my region have migrated to other place but we are still here fear of rape is always occur in mind due to constantly rape occurring in my area alwar mevat rajsthan worse area
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says, the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn. dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
@@nareshkumar3526 they didnt do any right things. about marrige she can choose a life partner. There are 5 billion men in entire world. It isnt hard to find one. Also Keeping the deeds unpunished will increase the problem
@@nareshkumar3526that's the mentality we need to change. auto driver ko to pta chal gya na ki uska kuch nhi bigdega aisa krke or shaadi koi har ek ki life a ultimate goal nhi hota jiske liye itni chinta kr rhe ho agar tum apne bachche ki protection nhi kar skte to paida krna jaroori tha kya
@@CapstoneProjects-rk1be don't know if there's any way left to prevent all this😢😢....in any condition they hv got the guts to do whatever they want without any fear
Parents should stop protecting and blaming their daughters saying they should be aware that they are wearing instead they should educate their sons that how to respect and treat a woman like mother and sister It's really sad that half of our country is uneducated due to poverty 😢
It's not just poverty, it's the ignorance in the parents. They think they know enough to "protect" their children, but in reality, they have a lot to learn. So really, it's the haughtiness/arrogance that also plays a part.
I am shocked too see even after him explaining everything thing in detail, people are only arguing about fake rape cases, i mean If the mindset of the people of india is like this, then what can be expected from them?
@@nush8131 so you won't talk about an issue because there's no video on it? Also this video is about fake cases as well. Females actually sound like insecure toddlers, "noouu this is my video about my issues onlyyy 🥺😡😡😫♀️"
@@Kilallfemales I mean it's your country. If you feel no shame, okay. It's not my issue to care. What was I expecting form india anyway, do whatever you want.
@@Kilallfemales Har video mein jab ladkiyo ki baat hoti hain to ek launda hamesha aake "women☕" ker ne lakta Hai. Bache ho ya kya ho? koi mature mindset nhi hai kya? Almost all indian girls can agree many men have catcalled them, touched them without their permission and made disgusting remarks about them, what about that? Please try to be an adult next time and talk about this in a fake rape case without saying "women"☕" all the time. Aise to hum bhi "men☕" comment kar saket hai, hai ki nhi?
I see people making memes, on rape, and sexual harassment and labelling it as "dark humour". It doesn't tell anything about the kind of humorous personality one has, but the cheap mentality and the lack of education one has been given.
Incles are dangerous n if this mindset don't occur then yes inceldom is the choice taken by many knowledge able man n man who wanna live longer life let us Marriages illegal tab sab problems solve ho jayengi
I'm beginning to lean towards the idea of cheap internet in India being a mistake, degenerate content is now spread as far as it has ever been and it's in the wrong hands, sure it might be "dark humor" for some but as Mohak said, some people take fictional movies and such behaviour as something they should be doing in real life, now we'll have a generation of kids being even more insensitive and degenerate than ever before, the entire dark humor shtick is cancer
The whole idea of "sigma", "alpha", "you don't understand dark humour" etc is illiterate mentality of our teens. It's very easy to shrug off your ill intentions as "joke" or "humour" nowadays and these teens are further aggravated by these sigma alpha movie edits which makes them feel like they have some elevated status, again reels made by same foolish teens.
Every year something horrible happens, n people get violent n say we will protest, we post stories on insta, n then what ... Within few months something like this happens again. Makes one feel hopeless. Today I was going out to get groceries n got scared thinking what if ...
I love how almost all the video was in black and white symbolizing the seriousness about the issue. And in the final part it turns into colors symbolizing a ray of hope.
@@tastypineapple6642 Life is not black and White , which means no human is either very good or very bad , every human has grey shades of characteristics.
Exactly!!!!! I come across many posts specially the meme pages which are highly influential and they turn women to a joke. Not only they do that but also I've seen, these meme pages and posts are highly misogynistic.
for those who think women are weak: a woman is a person who gave birth to you , they go through labour pain, period pain which even men cant handle . most women are nurses which help to save lives and are mentally strong
Animals give birth to their children too, doesn't mean parents are STRONGER. 1- Child is young 2- Child is strong 3- Child belongs to new generation 4- Child Child has superior knowledgeable and information due to studying modern day science The whole argument of "women" being stronger or even more "brave" then a man is a lie and BOGUS.
Every rape got these layers behind it. 1. Objectification of women in our movies 2. The common role our actresses are offered is to support a man emotionally or to earn his love as her prime goal 3. The iniquitous 'item songs' 4. Men never told to not stare at a woman rather women are told to dress properly 5. Lack of proper sex education 6. Prostitution and pornography 7. Patriarchy causing men to feel superior 8. Alcohol, drugs As long as we don't address all of these collectively, we'll only erupt now and then and won't find a solution.
2 is slightly wrong. In most Bollywood movies it’s the man pursuing the woman and wearing her out or “winning her over” through harassment that’s passed off as romantic and ends in song and dance. But yes, she is seen mostly as an object and an emotional support “sidekick.” The message is if it’s a no, keep trying. In real life, if someone tries that they quickly find out they would not win over the woman. So she is abused, assaulted, raped, and has revenge crimes committed against her like acid attacks, murder, etc. The rest of the points are very true. Lack of sex education and objectification of women that’s supported by media and their peers is a huge thing. As usual, women are told to cover up or have curfew and even in hostels, bars on girls’ hostel window and strict 9 pm curfew usually. Men still rule the world in many places, and women have always had to adjust to it to try to protect themselves.
I would like to add to it as lack of education in general too (not just literacy, but proper education and understanding point of view also), and lack of mental healthcare
the main problem is that the government it just saying "we will do more to protect girls" and do basically nothing and the lack of education about sex and telling your kids about it is considered a touchy subject.
30% Nationalism 60% Socialism 10% Communism makes a better society. But feeling sad for the people and their misogynist behaviour and monotonous attitude towards the development of the nation. At least you identified it my friend.
last year an american vlogger was graped by her two guides,, but it didn't become international news but jub bhi bhenchoo india me kucch hotta purri dunniya ko mauka mill jata hai hamari maarne ka india ki population is more than 2 time of whole europe ... per capita ke hissab se statistics dekhe toh INDIA me bakki desho ke mukable aaise case kum hotte but phir bhi wetern media hame grape capital ki tarah potray karrti hai
This reminds me of when I went shopping with my mom and two young men (they looked educated) started following us. I noticed them and informed my mom. I was literally shivering, cause it was my first time experiencing something like that. My mom said, "Don't be scared and walk with your head high, those low-lifes can't do sh*t." It really helped me a lot.
I met a 12 year old boy who told me that Girls are only meant to sit at home, do makeup and make Roti... while boys are meant to work and become sipahi. This thought is deep rooted in all these kids. who is planting this? when will this society change? I hope i see a developed india before i die.
For that you need to remove democracy first. As long as majority of people keep voting these Thugs and landlords you can't expect them to bring a change in the system
@@Jungkook-sl9si manuwadi soch badlene ki jarurat he..Jis desh me sita ko agni pariksha dene padi apne charitra ki..Uss desh me aam ladkio ke charitra ki to dhajiya udai jata he...
@@snehamomlifestyleacha ji Yani jo bhi muh me aye bak do bina sir pair ke bol toh ayse rahi ho mano manusmriti puri padhi Hui hai tumne. Tum logo ki soch bjp ke age badhne se rahi topic hoga kuch bologe aur kuch. Fir baad me bologe ke desh ka kuch nahi hone wala ha tum jyso ke hote hue kaise hoga kuch.
"A 'proper' girl wouldn't be out at 9PM" he says. And who died and made you the "hero" and "saviour" to "correct" her? Almost like you didn't have a control over your urges and don't want to take responsibility for it.
When I was in eighth grade in my school, a debate started between me and one of my favorite teachers regarding good coordination between males and females. I was saying that men and women should be treated equally in our society so that they do not feel shy and lack of confidence in sharing something in front of the opposite gender or asking for help when needed. This debate continued until my teacher said, "पत्नी का ये मजाल कि बो अपने पति को आंख उठा कर देख ले." Then I realized that I am wasting my time. Now you can understand what kind of mentality even a teacher can have.
I've found that misogynists often struggle to change, and if they do, it's usually thanks to someone who helped them along the way. However, personally, I wouldn't make such efforts because I believe the risk of getting hurt outweighs any potential benefits. Confronting such individuals, regardless of their gender, could result in harm to oneself. That's why I always advise people, especially children, to let go and stay away from them, as they're also likely to commit other crimes. So I hope you are safe and stay safe 😊
@@mianmuhammadiqbal3675Hindi bhi nahin padhna aata kya???😂 Usne likha hai ki “Patni ki itni majal nahin honi chahiye ki voh pati ki aankh mein aankh daal ke dekhe”
Also a lesson to parents, what goes wrong in their parenting? Their indifference in raising kids based on gender makes a huge impact. Our indian parents raise women to be submissive and raise their son like they're born to rule women with brutality. That's the root of these problems. They should teach both empathy towards eachother, kindness, humanity, how to act like a human instead of looking who is useful for them in old-age. Stop raising your sons like insurance in old-age. Raise them both like individual humans. This solves so many problems we face in this society. Think twice what's going wrong? Where it all started. The seed to these problems.
bilkul correct!!! and sabse pehle .. sabsi choti cheez hai ki koi bhi aadmi ya aurat gaali dena bandd karein and this is applied to both boys and girls.. i am so hurt that when a boy or girl gets angry he or she abuses mom and sis abuses, and that abuses literally means to have x*s with them.. so if we sow seeds of abuses in mind then what will happen when we will grow up??!!
Nature ne female ko itna physically weak kyo banaya hai ? Agar mai bolu ki meri research se mai ladkiyo ko male jitna strong bana dunga! To kya females khud agree karengi ?apni body change karne ke liye ? Mera manna ye hai ki hum ladkiyo ko strong banane ke liye unke breast system ko aise manipulate karenge ki vo keval preganant hone ke aur lactation period Tak hi bade honge ! Take unko comfort ho ! Aur unke hips bhee isi samay tak hi wide honge ! Aur baat rhi physical weakness ki ho harmone manipulate se hum unko ladko jaise strength de denge aur periods ko bhee isi samay tak keval limit kar denge ! Ho isse hoga ye ki ladke ladki dono ko same physical strength milegi ! Baat Rahi ladko ki kaam vasna Jo ki bohot hoti hai ! To hum unke liye vaccine ban denge jisse unka hormonal change ho jayenge aur aur ek limited period Tak koi lust mehsus ho nhi karenge ! By this rape problem can be totally solved !
@@neerajkushawaha563 yeahh can never trust these relatives🤢 your friends must be really comfortable with you since they're sharing such deep traumas it's really haunting I hope u maintain their trust and safety🙏
Why don't other men think like u too. I'm a guy and I've been trying to explain shit so much but it's such a waste. People don't wanna listen to me and I give up. Idk how our generation is gonna become better in the future
You have my respect. You are good compassionate human being. Ignore this "dynamicmale3919" guy. He's saying dumb sh't in this comment section. For @ttention.
Why aren't media showing this? They are more concerned about how to root discrimination among religions. Spreading hate will never make India the most secular country.
Me being a girl can definitely say that yes this topic is like a very sensitive topic in Indian families... Whenever there's a rape case my mother warns me and say "see that's why you should be careful and don't go outside after 7 pm and all".. They never ever talks about it with my brother.. They should tell him to be respectful and humble to all women and even if a girl is wandering out at 11 pm make her feel safe not uncomfortable by your presence...
India mei log sexually deprieved hai...pehle child marriages hote the ab nhi hote......aur gender segregation dusra sabse bada factor.....iske wajay se opposite gender dehumanise ho jaata hai...
@@PrinceyV-pt1d just because india m log sexually deprived h doesn't justify parents behavior.. Hn maybe in india pehle bht sari practices thi jisse abhi bhi hmari country male dominated h.. But i am just saying ki one generation has to stop these things if we want improvement in society..
@@Aex-ry1pn Rajneesh Jain ne 1971 ke speech hai.....usmein unse pucha tha.....Usse time bollywood grow kar rha tha...country safe tha.... Usse time unhone bola tha....sexual desires mother nature ka sabse bade gift mei se ek hai....isse appreciate karna...isse se sab paida hua.....isse dabaya....toh bahut khatarnak hoga desh ke liye.... Aaj sab kuch sach ho rha hai.......Aaj ke duniya,AI, 3D printing......sab ke baare usse time bola tha jab kisse ko pta bhi nhi tha...
Please talk about 2000- 5000 women tortured by tmc leader sheikh shahjahan in sandeshkhali. Our national commission for scheduled caste chairman arun ji told that he had committed crime against women in sandeshkhal
This has become a serious problem, nowadays women do not feel safe. I, as a minor, have been inappropriately touched by my tuition teachers when i was merely nine or ten. Not even children are safe these days? What has our country become? This is a living hell hole. Cases like the Kolkata incident have happened in the past too, and who knows, maybe they are happening right now? But they are silenced. People experience this with family members too, which causes them to stay silent due to family pressure.
I dont care if people are pissed over the fact that the 'name' of india is getting ruined because of the publicization of such rape cases. But we have to fix our problems first! We cant avoid or dismiss the situation by saying that it defames india, this is the height of carelessness. Dont care about the foreign nations or their views, the only thing that matters is the safety for all who venture into our homeland, whether it be out sister or some foreigner. We must stand and fight
yeah that couple should have been warned by police like they are warned in Pakistan , pakistani police are assigned to each and every foreigner to protect the image of pakistan and its a thing that bothers many backpackers and independant solo vloggers but they dont understand how important it is .
We have this same problem in Pakistan, a lot of people want to brush all the trash under the rug so that it doesn't defame the country. What good does it bring? Instead of addressing the actual problem, people tend to focus on the wrong thing. And I believe such people are directly or indirectly causes of increase in such cases. Wholeheartedly agree with you
Main causes- 1) lack of proper education and lack of importance for morals and principles 2) Bad influence of films and social media 3) item dances in films 4) Bad habits like drinks and drugs 5) lack of morality and social responsibility among some people 5 ) lack of severe punishments 6) bad upbringing and irresponsible behaviour at home by the parents .
90s mei ladkiya srk ke fan bane the...uske har movies mei catcalling,harrasment hua karte the....boys phir yahi sikhenge...isleye yeh sab normalise ho gya...
People compare rape to crimes like theft and mugging when they don't work the same way, thefts are mostly done by strangers while rapes are mostly done by people the victims trusts like a relative, friend or family friend.
@@priyadeshpande23 sad for hindu women tortuted in sandeshkhali by tmc leader sheikh shahjahan. 5000 hindu women tortured yet no international outrage. If something happens with 1 muslim women eberybody cries.
@@stankssmile5865 I don't think they would call themselves men's rights activists. But around 3 months ago they posted a video about a girl who was travelling the world and nothing had ever happened to her. But when she got to India, her husband was beat up and she was gang raped. It's crazy because out of all the countries she had travelled to in the whole world west to east, India was the only country where she had this encounter.
The mob attack has has been shown live on TV. Peaceful people were marching. Suddenly some lumpens came, reportedly they told the police why the emergency was closed and are being told as the local mob. 30-35 people just went inside the hospital and attacked, vandalised the entire hospital. Police and RAF together were 100-150 people, they just fled the area and hid inside the gynae department. They watched the entire thing without taking any action, and videos are available of that. Later when the mob went outside, police started going outside and both are stone pelting each other. Police threw tear gas and everything, and the entire incident is still telecasted on live media. Then some policemen got injured as well. Those miscreants just disappeared, and now police is arresting normal people who were either present in the hospital, or someone who came out for a candle march. TMC is blaming the entire thing on BJP and CPM. Vineet Goyel came on the scene, and is ranting about how the media and social media have spread misinformation against the police and how Kolkata Police is absolutely innocent. He said that it is untrue that police tried blocking evidence, we did not do anything and we are completely innocent. He also said that now CBI is enquiring, so let CBI bring evidence against me and my police, then you will blame us. The entire state machinery knows exactly what they are doing, and they know that it will be difficult, or maybe near to impossible for CBI to prove anything, because actually the state and the hospital entirely made the matter hush-hush, and cremated the victim's body without even consulting the victim's family. I stay at the victim's area, and the local TMC MLA Mr. Nirmal Ghosh is keeping a close eye on the victim's home, to see who are coming, who they are meeting- as if the victim's family did a crime and not the state and TMC bigshots. Our CM today blamed the opposition (BJP and CPM), and then celebrated 'Kanyashree diwas' by cutting cake and distributing biryanis to her party goons in the function. This is how TMC runs itself and this is how Mamata Banerjee is running our state since 2011. We are living in hell, a society where no voice is enough to describe what kind of a state West Bengal is made under Mamata's government. People who supports her outside the state, must read my comment and see what is happening since last 5-6 days. Please guys copy and spread this as much as possible!
Our men in India needs some serious education about emotional control, mental health, empathy , kindness,boundaries, using common sense which is not so common among them also a subject to be taught in younger age is How to Behave like a Human being. How to think like a Human.
@@PoojaMishra93295 No one in their right mind would justify r*pe. It's just that we're saying, don't paint India as the only country where it happens. Just look at the title of the video, 'India's r*pe problem.' Was it really necessary to drag the whole nation into this? Instead of playing the blame game, let's focus on finding solutions.
How shamfull to all of us to celebrate the INDEPENDENCE day, when a working doctor of KOLKATA is brutally raped and killed and the whole case is trying to be suppressed! Today is the failure of the INDIA! This is the harsh reality but yes it is! This is very shamfull, whenever such cases happens in nearby comming elections, political leaders come forward to show support for votes!
Probably because many womens use such articles for their own benifits.....by doing so they are making the real victim's voice unheard in the court. The court are busy with the fake rape cases and justice is served late or even no justice is served.
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says, the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn. dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
Very well said mohak bhai. Rape is a heinous crime & it must be stopped. Iam a mother of 3 boys & i always thought my boys to respect females, iam doing my bit for better tomorrow.
Glad to see , such kind of parents also exist in this nation where today,s parents are rarely have any incentive to enlighten their kids with context of Social awareness, They just leave it on So called Society which to be fair in modern time is just immune :'(
First of all porn & adults type of movies should totally be banned in our country its influence many people,it will decreased raped in a lots of number because if we talk about education there's are many many of people which are illiterate & uneducated people,the education can't be fullfill to all the people & that's the dark truth & reality of our country, there's only one way of banning the adults movies.
it is all happening because of the widespread usage and easy accessibility of disgusting pornography online, trust me , if we ban all online pornography , cases of sexual misconduct and such attrocities drop sharply, but the govt wont work on the root cause and big pharma backs pornography to destroy the lives of our people
As a man I state, if a woman is a victim of sexual abuse, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Report it to the police as soon as possible, so that you can get justice. Please.
1. Hindi movies and TV shows 2. Train community to respond 3. Monitor social media, it is spilling into real life 4. Stop posting videos of yourself on social media, it is simply NOT SAFE 5. Monitor and legislate social media for negative content about women including porn 6. Train women in self defense 7. educate, empower and put women in leadership positions at the LOCAL level as well. 8. Raise awareness of this issue as you do 9. Punishment is a deterrent. You have to craft it carefully.
Boasting about Hindu culture above Western culture definitely is not going to help. These problems are most common among populations who live in self glorified fantasy worlds since they are not prepared to accept the ground reality
A new r@pe case came up literally every single day on twitter. I was so shocked with the frequency of r@pes. Yet the media is not speaking on this. Why are we not safe in our own country?? And the fact that I have seen many ppl defend rap1sts is insane.
actually the problem is that most women comment "always a man" which triggers many men and they start arguin which creates an impression that they are defending the offender. However, there are people who defend the offender and that's totally wrong.
See rapes are happening everywhere and every now and then, even though it shouldn't happen, india is not only country where this is happening, thousands of rapes are happening, they can't report all thousands of them
@@harshu6967 good point they tryna convince the r pist but if we say it doesn't work like that then we are defending the criminal. It is harsh but women need help to protect themselves they can chek that any point try fighting physically with you brother
Tharki ladko se baat karna avoid karo..tum ladkiyo ko jyaada muh chalanewaale ladke pasand h n they play with u and then girls feel ditched...yehi smart ladke physical relationship rakhte h lust k bahaane n innocent ladko ka naam bhi kharaab hota h isse..
Coz of the less interaction with boys i have Androphobia...i cant interact with guys..i feel disgusted,fear while talking to a guy's i often have panic attacks..fast heart beat,nervousness,trembling and difficulty speaking..its hard for me to even breath properly..i just look like a fool infront of guys..its scary....
Yet another brutality in Kolkata. This is India never beating the 'Land of Rapists 'allegations. They might as well be celebrating the bar going high and high.
@@VaiShNav51I can't believe you, I'm a male and don't act like there are less cases of rapes and assaults, we need to teach our sons first cuz basic biology, boys are relatively stronger, they can force themselves on the weaker, yet the matter of fact is that everyone should be educated and shouldn't make these cases or commit crimes, also why I'm calling you out is bcuz you are saying "first educate girls" Like in a way that boys aren't doing anything, plz talk with some morals and sense, cuz everyone should be educated
This comment isn't about just this video, but about a lot of your content that I've come across recently. You tackle these topics a more maturely than many other outlets, and I thank you for that. It's really important that we have these discussions yet it's not easy to handle nuance when making videos for the masses. GG!
I studied in a co-ed school where everything was segregated. School trips were organized separately for boys and girls, and any interaction between genders was strictly discouraged. This patriarchal tradition continues to be enforced in my old school to this day.
@@arinael It is definitely a problem. School is where you learn morals and ethics, and stopping this unwanted segregation would help improve things to some extent. Most importantly, communication between genders must never be barred at a young age.
Nice, you acknowledged you are treated differently than your sister, nice. Not many people will understand this and many will call you simp and all, but you go King.
When i was 5 i got harrassed by a phermasist ...in the name of checkup he was touching my private parts i told my family and they said we will change our phermanist and i will contact a new one and then wheh i was about 10 someone i don't remember that clearly did same thing to me and later that day i told this to my mother she said dont go outside after a few years i was about 12 one my uncle did exactly same thing to me but this time i didn't tell anyone because i know they will blame me later on when was 16 in my own sister's wedding i got physically harrassed by a group of people including my own sister's husband i took stand for me but nothing happened they never got any punishment my family said my destiny is bad i think i am the only one who got harnessed by multiple times i am afraid of these people till now they are around me i dont feel safe around them now i am 23 and i am scared to go out to wear any revealing dress even they still visit my house and everytime they comes i got panic attack i dont know what to do i wish someone could help me
Ngl but shame on your mother she didn't took your side like not even scolding the people who are harassing her own daughter i think you should take the stand on your own don't let those people harass you and scold those people don't worry about their age and all juss scold them or even if they try to touch you still u can take help of women's helpline number you'll find it on google. But just don't suffer , it's not good to suffer
I'm so sorry you went through that. Clearly everyone around you failed you as a kid when they should have protected you and stopd up for you. I hope you can feel safe going out and live your life as your full self again someday. Take care 💌
HOPE YOUR SAFE! Know that your brave, your life isn't wasted and you can accomplish much more 💯✨ And shame on such parents and women that can't stand up for the same gender!
I like how the rapists blame the women for wearing revealing clothes and provoking them, but how would they explain the rape of an 8 year old who doesnt even know what sex is? And ive seen countless videos of a girl talking about a certain topic and the immature men in the comment section talking about her cleavage, when it has no relation to the video at all. They think theyre being funny but theyre just proving that they are porn addicted and in reality, theyre pathetic. Not only that, even when a girl was wearing a normal shirt, those men still talked about how heavy chested she was. We are taught that natural things are unnatural. India needs some solid sex ed otherwise the problem will NEVER be solved. Thank you sir, for researching and covering such an important topic. This is called a true influencer :)
i agree if we take a good look at it most women that get raped doesnt always wear sensual clothes it can be a 3 year old kid ... a small school girl in her uniform or also a 60 year old middle age woman in her traditional clothes the problem that people often blame girls to hide the fact that it was fault of the men !
True. In winter I wear full clothes and 2-3 layers of clothing and sometimes a beanie to cover my head/ears, only my face is uncovered and yet some perverts (even uncles) are staring with lusty eyes. I mean what now, what else to do? In summer to not get tan I wear full cotton clothes, socks, gloves and all and cover my face with dupatta, only my eyes are shown in this attire, still, I was harassed. I really don't understand the logic of victim blaming.
I would gladly let the tourism of our country go down if that incentivizes the people in power to make it safer for all women. The safety of our girls is more important than reputation.
PrinceVa-hj4xg toh ab child marriage bhi kare ? 💀 kya bak rahe ho bhai. child marriage choti ladkiyo ke sath hota tha, ladko ke sath nahi. ladke bare hone par hi shaadi kar te the. 💀
PrinceVa-hj4xg kya hormones release? sab ladko ke hormones release hote hai par sab rapists nahi hote, unme mutual understanding aur respect hota hai jo aakal ke boys me nahi hai
The worst part is those people who dismiss the entire problem without a second thought. "Other countries also have this problem" and a thousand more excuses. The insecurity of our own issues runs deep within many. We just wanna avoid any backlash rather than solving the problem at hand. Until this mentality changes all the problems plaguing India wont go away.
It's about learning what works and what doesn't. This self flaggelation did not get us anywhere 50 years ago and it won't take us anywhere today. I have never seen any country react this way to crimes.
This attitude won't change it will only increase, bcz of the fake cases. As the number of fake cases are rising, genuine ones will not be taken seriously, and people won't support.
@@wasteland3000 That's simply because in other countries people try to find out reason of problem or hide the problem by staying silent ... In our country people don't work to know why crimes happen and simply blame as if blaming country would lead them anywhere we need to solve problem...
Even yesterday 23 March 2024, two Muslim girls were assaulted and put Holi color on their faces. Point is not Hindu Muslim here but why a random stranger woman is targeted? I know Hindu women also face such attacks and that too without any reason. It is all because rapists or molesters have no fear of anyone whether it be God or Police, parents, society, or even government. How can we make India a place where a woman can be respected. They want to protect their sisters but have no similar respect for other women
@@TheWarrior-sh8pr tum jesi soch ki wajah say india peechay hai Muslim larkon ko beech main keun laarahy ho wo larkian muslim baad main indian pehlay thin tum bhi indian ho
The first thing that should be stopped in our culture is to create this idea that a woman is a goddess and she has to be perfect according to their ideas... if that woman doesn't perform well According to them then the woman deserves punishment of their choice... means ya to devi ya dayan
Both are important and second, why are you connecting religious concepts with crime , I have heard a nice speech by someone " Criminals have no religion"
you do realize this sexual and patriarchal problem on indian subcontinent was intensified due to mughal influence of 600 years ? Bharat was never this bigoted but long rule of mughals this changed ALOT
KV student from Bangalore here. we have CCTVs in all rooms and corridors, a dedicated team of handpicked students who will complain to the vice principle if a guy and a girl are seen talking alone, two braids with red ribbons mandatory to make us look like a clown because one ponytail is somehow going to give guys a hard on ?? and no nail paint allowed, no jewelry allowed, no khol, if your sunscreen leaves a white imprint on your skin consider yourself dead, you are not allowed to open your collar button at any time. (collar reaches upto the chin and first button is on the neck) and you cannot wax or shave your arms. separate seating rows inside a classroom for boys and girls and we are not allowed to sit with each other. no group project will involve both boys and girls together and you will have to find a same gender person to team up with. i could go on and on forever.
all KVs were the same, the teachers would shame the girls, side with the boys; even the female teachers, which was so sad and disappointing. At that young age, you expect a level of maturity, understanding and possibly any form of mentorship but they were all bullies. I remember talking to a boy in my class about some movie that him and I liked after class(the classes were over and some students were leaving) and we were sitting on different benches too but my Hindi teacher still got mad and made such a big deal about it. I didn't say much but I didn't apologize to her either about anything. The next day, the PT Sir, with whom I had never talked to me in my entire life, came up to me and told me to apologize to her. It just seem so disgusting to imagine that she might have been so pissed that she bitched about it probably in the teacher's room, to a point that another teacher told me to apologize to her. I realized her ego was way too much fragile to be shattered by a 14 year old girl.
my school was not like this, i spent my entire school sitting between 2 girls (1-12th), and we shared everything, from food to all everyday crap and all dirty sexual talks. when we were in final year, it was really disheartening to us when school introduced new dress code, changing from shirt+skirts to salwar-suits for girls of 10-12th, we knew why its being done, and we used to laugh at school for posting such stupid actions to stop easy-sex in school premises. we didnt had sex with each other, but we saw others and knew secret places in school where elder kids used to go for the fun. it was so weird for me to see them in that dress and they complain how suffocated they felt in their legs and breast areas. we used to joke around, if we were in Hawai, we would just stay naked all the time, no clothing boundation like this school, lol. as far as i know, now the school has implemented this dress code to younger girls as well, this explains the mentality of older gen people, new policies are pushing genders further apart. i feel sorry for the kids in my previous school, getting crushed by new patriarchy.
I understand your point, brother, but saying things to them won't change anything until they want to change too. So, why do they sell? Because men are showing that they are needy. You can see the reality in the comments section some reels how desperate they are. So, if men will keep their standards high, why will women try to go for such low-standard things? Well, you can't expect change from others. It's up to them. But you can hope they will change, so I'm hoping too. 🤞
No u r not saying right that gender inequality in Muslims but there is equality between male and female in Muslims there is no such rape brutality as exist in India ND other countries we are safe in our home society . Proudly Muslim ❤
I am glad that I acquire this type of crucial information at a crucial age (15), if all the teen agers begin to watch this type of content, their mindset and perspective will definitely changed in a positive way and perhaps they will not objectify women...
No one deserves this, Literally no one! I feel disgusted by the mentality of people who justify a horrible act like Rape. JUSTICE FOR KOLKATA DOCTOR, when will this society change? 😢
I used to study at Aakash coaching centre when I was 14 years old. One day I was relentlessly harrassed by the security guards, who kept laughing at me, telling me to come to them, making disgusting sexual comments about my body and especially my legs. I was dressed from head to toe in very modest clothing (not that it matters). I told my father when I went home and he just shrugged and told me "hota hai". I dropped out from the centre the next year because I felt so ashamed and scared. The people who were meant to be protecting me completely failed me.
@@xbluebirdx i was triggered by his response, as if its completely normal. I didn't made assumptions on you, but rather on the person who you should be idolizing in life. Its good that you are fighting, but your primary protector/supporter failed to take part in your fight.
@@realracing3specter295 I see, I apologise, I misunderstood and thought you were attacking me. I completely agree, unfortunately this is the reality with 99% father's of India. They are completely deadbeat and yet idolised for it. Even today, when I tell my mother or grandparents of how he reacted, they accuse me of being disrespectful and start going on about how hard his life is and how hard he works.
@@xbluebirdx oh, oh, well that sounds tragic. I am sorry for what happened with you. Fortunately my father was not like this, he worked hard most of his life while serving in the army, I have always and always idolized him, he has always supported my family and stood with me and my sister, starting from everyday chores to every mental and moral support. both my parents played an important role in making me and my sister strong. I remember when my sister complained about her incidences in college, my father gave warnings to the guy to take legal actions if something happens to my sister. and since late teens, our bond has grown even stronger. my sister is now 30 and is already a powerful woman, both mentally and financially independent and strong.
human tendency to do that thing which is not done yet , first no one pressed dislike button then someone thought Why i didn't i press it then he/she pressed it
Having worked in peripheral govt hospitals and attending such neglected girls every day, I can conclude for sure that the rape cases we see in India are just the tip of an iceberg, the real number is way more than that. Sometimes 15-16 year old girls will only come with 9 months of pregnancy, and the case would be reported for the first time by the hospital administration. The conditions are pathetic!!
Most importantly, criminals in almost all crimes know That what they are doing is wrong but in r_pe cases criminals thinks of himself as highly moral being or some kind of saviour who is entitled to do what he did. Thanks to the r_pe culture which no one takes seriously and rather try to further inforce it Though jokes, movies, podcasts etc and even justify it.
@@skinhair1484Indian boys - hume sab pata hai , pr fir hum R@pes krenge , kyun ki ladkiya issi k layak hai . Hum sigma male hai . Hum Jo bhi krte hai khulle aam krte hai . Yahi mard ki nishaani hai .
After watching this video I realized how differently my parents raised me. I'm also a victim of sexual harassment and it happened in a second that I was unable to voice it out. My dad was there with me when it happened. He hit the guy with his helmet and then others followed suit beating the guy up. Through out the ride home I was conflicted about what happened. It felt like a lapse of memory and judgement. My father complained how I didn't even shout or say anything. My mom sat with me and told me to not be afraid to voice it out, basically said Fuck Society and do what you think is right at that moment. Sure, my parents are very conservative but they taught me the right thing to do. I realized how important sexual education is throughout the years and how its lacking in India and how shrewd believes are holding people by leashes. I decided to talk openly to my little brother. I tell him how much it hurts to have periods or what happens during that, I told him how hard it is to walk in broad daylight but still feel like a prey to men as they stare at me even though I'm not wearing revealing clothes. My brother too believed that girls shouldn't be lewd before but now his views are changing. My mom would scold me for talking these things to a child, a boy at that but I shrug her off because he needs to learn these and to act on it. We can't wait for our parents or society to change , I believe we need to implement on it by our own even though u receive backlashes. Freedom of speech includes talking about sexual violence too and if we dont it causes major trauma. Teach your brothers. I'm not saying this as a feminist or shit, I just wanted to tell that watching documentaries and commenting about change in education, views,blah blah blah wont be changing anything. YOU NEED TO START FROM SOMETHING WITHIN THE GRASP.
Well said¡ i also do the same thing with my little bro sometimes (well not about periods he wont understand cus hes too young, maybe when hes older by a year or 2) but fr i was looking for a comment where someone is actually taking actions rather than just suggesting them in the comments¡ Im seriously thankful and hateful for youtube cus its the place where i learnt to speak up and fight back about such issues and also the same place where issues like SA and molesting have turned a thing for many “content creators “ to make vids on which leads numerous young minds in the wrong direction 😔 we need more *WOMEN* like you and *I* really appreciate you for speaking up about it while also giving your personal experience cus ik its a huge thing to overcome to talk about. Thank you¡ 👏👏
@@SanskritiPawar5678 I educated my brother about this against my parents and i can now proudly say my brother will be the best citizen for the country and will always be ready to protect any women in need. i told him of never be mean to your wife when you get married and always listen to her since she left her house and her parents for you. A women before marriage been a liberal flying kite, never cut her wings and let her roam freely. Taking myself as an example of how would he feel if something like this happen to me? besides i know i don't need to do this since i saw the fire in him when he sees crime or hostile remarks against women.
