Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Indians from USA. its called CrushAnyGirl and its for finding a gf as Indian. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read
@@indiangamingfactshistory4642 gf ban jae gi ho khana kha ne tak ke paise nahi bache ge aur ajj kal ki ladkiyo ko to tum jante hi to inn sab chakkar see door raho aur apni family pe focus Karo ♥️
@@indiangamingfactshistory4642 Search in the right place and don't be influenced by being a Sigma male or something and you will get a girl soon enough!
ghar ko support karne ke liye bohar upay hai. bas ghar ko manana chahiye, mujhe ye karna hai. aise hi aplogo ko seva karenge bas. complete! ho jayega ladki. bas zindagi me kuch pehele ho jaye
@@harrystylessbabyMe batata hu ki Indian boys ki girlfriend kyun nhi hoti hai . 1 - ek number darpok hote hai 2 - ye ladke Bollywood movies me jeete hai 3- girls and women ki respect nhi krte hai 4- chhapri adate aur chhapri bost banate hai 5 - ye single hone ,aur girls ko disrespect krne ko sigma bolte hai 6 - indian ladke international level pr apne aap ko hamesha se cringe level ka dikhaya hai 7- Indian boys cool dikhane ke liye apne hi culture ka mazak banate hai 8- agar koi ladki inko No bol deti hai toh ye unka R@pe ya acid attack kr dete hai ,ya kidnap kr lete hai 9 - andhbhakt banke ye Instagram me jaake girls ko molestation krte hai . 10- porn addict hai etc etc
A 26 yr old guy rejected by a 24 yr old girl bcoz he is 2 yr older according to her but then the same girl next year married to a 33 yr old man having a govt. job....
Indian parents to their sons (Ages 0 to 25): No girls! After 30 (if son is single): Why can't you talk to girls? Why are you still single? Arrange Marriage karega, bol?
It's really very important to understand the opposite gender's prospectives. Also having a good human being as partner can boost career & life. Career, family, love & peace are equally needed for happiness 🤞🏻♥️
Sabko chahiye hota hai ,,,yani lena aata hai dena jante nahi ,,,jo imandari se dena janta hai ,,,wo lena ka expectation rakhta bhi nahi ,,,main fact yeh ki bahut logo ka childhood bad parenting love se gujra hua hota hai ,,jo ki baad me wo ek dum perfect insan / partner ki talash me hote hai ,,jo ki sach baat yeh hai ki koi bhi insan kabhi bhi perfect milega hi nahi ,,, isliye achha rahega ki us ko patience ke sath time do ,,time pass se bacho Attraction and bonding ko balance me rakho equally way me ,,,yahi life ka balance hai
Bro you present the things genuine, and authentic. Like, what's going in the society. And, your approach of both boy and girl side is totally genuine. I saw videos because, I can know what girl thinks about their partner and how to approach her. But, currently, I'm focusing on my career.😊
@@badtothebone880it isn't like this at all..... I've much more social skills without having a gf.... Although I had a relationship back then but relationship doesn't deteriorate your social skills.... It's all about how much you improve yourself
Anyone who had made his career can marry easily. But making girlfreind on top of your good career is really a sense of achievement. It shows you have capability of pursuading and attracting someone. One big Entrepreneur once said Entrepreneurship is like making Girlfreind in which one have to sell his ideas.
@@iitiangky1673 ye apna 2 kaudi ka gyaan kahi aur jaake de.... .. I am an Indian.... Aur hamare samaj me... 19-25 saal ke ladke ka goal bss self improvement ... Aur behtar education hi hona chaiye... ... And at the end... This world is not revolving around pervert like those who thinks this kind of things are achievement... .. And mark my words.... Ye duniya sirf unn logo ke liye hi hai.... Jinke paas high amount me money.... Aur knowledge hai..
@@iitiangky1673 aur agar tumhe kisi aur attract karna hai toh... Sabse jyada matter karti hai beauty jo ki god given hai ....... Toh tum isse apni achivement ka part matt samjho...... That your beautiful mother's or Father's achievment not yours....
@@GauravAhlawatF-ol3fn Yeh 2 kaudi ka gyan nahi hai. Meiney apne career ko bananey ke liye roj 12-14 ghante padhai ki hai. Pr mujhe ab samajh mein aata hai ki mehnat ka koi fyada nahi hai jb tk aapke andar dusro ko influence krne ke skills nahi hai. Tumharey jaisey log meiney bohot dekhe hai jo ki self improvement krte hai 12-14 ghante kaam kr ke uske baad wo corporate slaves ban jaatey hai ya government servant pr khush nahi rahte kyonki tumhare saath waley influence create kr ke tumse aagey chale jaatey hai.
@@GauravAhlawatF-ol3fn Beauty bilkul bhi matter nahi krti hai. Matter krta hai ki tum apne aap ko present kaisey krte ho aur logon se communicate kr ke influence kaise jama rahe ho. Aur Tum logon (ladki ho ya ladka) ke samaney bina sharmaye approach kr sakte ho ya nahi.
I agreed with their statements, your thoughts are very pure and intentionally clear, thanks for spreading this type of content. Love you brother. I am with you 👌👌
As a girl, I just want to say that I have left this marriage-relationship thing to my parents. My main focus is studies, a proper career and buying my own house.
I thought this video will be like other love guru videos , I am happy that its on spot and respect to you for prioritising career over this relationship thing. Nowadays people take having girlfriend as an achievement whereas most likely it ruins your career at this age(I am talking about the majority).I think having girlfriend after achieving something in life is completely okay
Bhai im currently 18 years old ,but one thing is real ,from 6 years from now , people will not ask how many girlfriend you had , the thing people will ask how much money and success you have achieved
@@SwayamKrishnaartsandcrafts ek bar West Bengal ake dekho yaha IIT walo ka bhi bina rishwat ke job milna muskil hain. West Bengal me India ke baki states se zada fake digree wale employee hain.
Brother, you have taken me one level higher and whatever you have said is absolutely true, it is very helpful for such brothers who are traveling through all these things. 😊😊 Aapki videos bhot sahi chizo pe hoti hai..👍
@@Amanji_007 bro. sadly😫 i am talking about my family's condition it is regular arguments between my parents about money n money, in between it effects me mentally.😩
@@manasuniyal2897khud ke gender ko beizzat karke female validation lene ke aur bhi tarike hai bhai, army waalo ko kyu bich me laa raha hai? Illogical hai ye. Wo duties nibha rahe hai apni. Aur yaha relationships ki baat ho Rahi hai.
Reasons. 1. Sex ratio - we have less female per male. 2. Conservative culture - girl or boys who are dating are being looked down. 3. Conservative culture - we have cultural and religious boundaries, north, south, dalit, brahmin, gotra, hindu, muslim, NE india. We are so much bounded by our culture that we cannot go beyond it. 4. Lack of education - humour, well dressed, art of conversation are some education related to love affairs. More are there to add on the list.....
mujhe to ye sab bekar lag rha hai..mai college Mai Maine ye sab kuch nhi dekha..ek bhi chiz in cheezon se related mujhe nhi pta tum kis jagah ho india k
useless points all are you mentioned here.. 4th point is like, tehsil aur village mein jaldi setting ho jaati hai logon ki as compared to city boys.. you need deep experience of everything without googling it
Introverts:- Aaj tak apne girl classmates ke saath baat nahi karne ka ghamand hai 🤧🙂 Edit:- “ Kuch maha gyani logon ko ‘ghamand’ word se dikkat hai, joke bhi samajh nahi paate log 🤡”
Im 5'9 woman,and I liked some guys who were shorter than me (in the past) ,i have no problem with that, his hight doesn't matter but what about my hight?.......may be it matters to him......in my family everyone is above 5'7 , but short guys have short families.......yar fir shadi hogayi smzho toh muzeh home feel nhi hoga, mai apni family members mai comfortable hoon kyoki koi muzeh tower nhi bulakey bully nhi kerta......per mai college gai ya office ya kaha bh jao log hight vali krkey boltey hai..........aur muzeh pta hai hight doesn't matter but vesey log bhitoh act kerney chahiye na....... zaroori nahi hai 6ft banda chahiye , merijitni hight hogi toh bhi chalega per log bully kyo kertey hai, ' ladaka kesey milega ' kerkey? Mai one man ,woman hoo, i don't mess around
Mein ek.introvert hoon and mujhe.pehle hi pata hai.ladkionko extrovert ladke.pasand hai isliye apne goal pe hi focus kar raha hoon age ka uparwala.hi dekhega
Same. Par mai ambivert hogya Btech k baad. 😅. Esa nahi hai introverts ko nahi pasand karte. Agar popular hoge irrespective of looks toh pasand aoge. Mere sath esa hi hua tha till Class 12th😅. Different school experience se bol raha hu. Uske baad ghanta bhaav. Career or Fitness pe focus karo. Sab thik hoga.
I'm too ugly for love marriage and too poor for arrange marriage. I am working hard to uplift my financial condition but the thing I regret is that will probably take my whole 20s. This precious time of Youth that I am loosing is irreparable. This aches my heart. Maybe someday I will get married but it will be a much lighter experience than having a head over heels love relationship with someone. This Pain will hurt me to my death.
Bhai I want to be in ur place I know it's hard to imagine what memories u would hav made but belive me today's youth enjoyment has gone meaningless boz 90% is just enjoying boz of alcohol n others r enjoying n talking abt their girlfriends n all so ur doing good been the career builder but remember don't forget ur social life try to talk to other u never know who u may find in ur path never ignored the chances boz ur on right path u hav chances u might encounter some good people n ya be grounded to ur culture that's what attracts the most in ur life n others more than ur career ...m in a position where I hav depressed n clueless what to do im too boring for most of the people n ya I'm introvert n it's hard boz maybe sounds cool but it kills u,,humans r social animal we r not meant to be alone ..so all thise alpha male n Sigma make depiction r toxic for us n ll regret till our end of time if we follow that ....n m proud of u ❤n unknown brother frm far away ✊
Bro the only thing about young couple relationships in college or schools is that they were still immature and that's make it very cute & innocent love but as you get older in life your priorities change, You can see most breakups in schools or college happens due to very silly reasons and most relationships are just build on attraction.
I'm 176cm in height which is above average, fair skin, thik thak job hai, dressing sense bhi acha and I'm single. I'm an introvert but I'm not shy. People think that an introvert means shy but it is wrong. The point he made about not talking with a girl is true never had a normal conversation with any girl. I also never thought about it. Girls usually start a conversation with me but I never took it forward and I don't know why. I think I like being alone and till now I never felt alone
bhai na hum sigma hai na chad Hame bus bakchodi se matlab😂realtionship wale apne dosto ko dektha hu agar unki girlfriend se koi Casual Baat karle to bhi unke tatte gale mein atak jaate hai aur kahi par bhi rr karne lagte hai😂 Single raho sahi time aane par sab hojayega😊
@@Jungle_boy123 unlucky nahi keh sakte bhai , har chiz ka ek samay hota hai , shayad bhagwan ne aapke liye bohot Sundar aur shushil ladki banayi hogi jo aapke tarah hi introvert hogi aur aap us se jyada confident hoge , 🥰
Good looks matter a lot during late teens and early 20s. I would never have dated my wife if we had met in the first half of our 20s. But I had to introspect what I truly want in my life partner, and was blessed that my wife also liked me the way I am when we met after we turned 25. It took me many years to sense how I feel about a person beyond looks, because in my early 20s I began to sense feeling overwhelmed or disconnected even when I talked to really pretty girls. That is why I feel every person should interact with the opposite gender to understand what is truly attractive in the other person. And everyone should make friends with opposite gender in school and college so that we can judge compatibility with a potential life partner in a smarter way with higher probability of success. I started very late I think and made some mistakes, I should have made those mistakes sooner.
Bhai, everywhere I see in my city, I see couples. I don't understand people saying Indian men don't have gfs because of looks or genetics or whatever. Most people don't have gfs because they don't want one or never even tried. If you are trying and still not getting, then maybe try in your own league. I have seen so many "ugly" men with gfs. But tbh, their gfs were also "ugly". Rarely you will see ugly guy with hot girl. And I think many people think it's possible for them also. India isn't like west yet. The biggest issue for us is "paapa nahi maanenge".
Exactly my observation bhai... I think the people who dont have a partner either dont want one now or have way too high standards otherwise i f you want to date in your league , its Not that tough
Bro, i am a 6 feet tall, fair guy, having a good paying govt job( banker ), having 4 other income streams and have been doing good in all my life, never i felt any need to have a girlfriend, infact, i always thought it could be a liability and would distract me from all my goals and my view of a great life... So please, dont create this scene of Bollywood movies in which the hero requires a girl... I just need one girl to marry who could support me and be my partner in life, rest all girls can do their things, i am not even bothered.. i was given this life by the god to do great things, not waste my time in dating and uploading instagram reels... All request all boys to focus on their career and become the best version of themselves.... Thats what you actually need boy.
@@aradhya_verma4193 maine bola tha na if he provides something vo yaha ladke ki wealth aur family background hai .looks aur colour ladko ka bhi judge hota hai mere hi friend ko sirf isliye reject kar diya kyoki uska skin colour dark hai aur vo patla hai jabki vo assistant engineer hai irrigation department me.
thanks bro, I like the way you explain. Specially wo classroom wali line. if possible plz post more video on this topic. there are many decent men who dont know how to talk with women. Even when they have a soft corner for the other person, dont know how to start conversation, how to approach her. if possible make a video on it
Bhai ye kaunsi line mein aa gaye aap ?? Faxx Main handsome nahi hoon aur mere pass paise nahi hai that is only reason why I'm single. But I'm happy I'm doing hardwork daily. And I'll make my parents and big brother on proud myself in next 3 year. जय श्री राम। 🕉😁
If you have a good partner in your life, thats good but being single (being alone) is very helpful and beautiful to make you realise your self worth...first love yourself....love the existence....your ultimate lover is you...being alone is a power and bliss , if you can not live alone , you can not love another person in true sense...love being alone..!!!
The main problem is our society and schools. Different rows are ok but different section for girls and boys. Even when a techer spot a girl and boy talking they just assume that they are dating and our society thing that it is a bad charecter if someone date that what all this leads to. Boys never get to talk to a girl. Girls generally do not get uncomfortable when they talk to a boy but boys think too much what she'll think about him when he'll talk to a girl because he never talked to a girl before. And obevously there are much more factors why boys don't have a girlfriend but yr.... mn nhi kr rha aur lekhne ka😅
bro your psychological understanding of such simple yet complicated topic are on another level...truly impressed by your way of approaching the conclusions!
As a female i still watch these videos to understand the perspective of boys... In this one i liked that he isn't being baised and having a balanced opinion..... That's a good quality And abt the thing sacrificing their love for family ( on the basis of term and conditions) i agree ... One of my female friend did this for her career & family , i respect her .... And as a teen i would like to focus on my career & get a home ... Sometimes feel nervous but let's see what's in future
You feel nervous but actually you don't need to nervous about your future career. You would marry a men who would take care of you. I think future tention is only for boy and men . They have to study 5 year with fears to get a job ( after 12th) . They have to take care of his parents. He would get marry and have to take care of his wife . As well as a lot of responsibility. Girls don't understand this kind of things. I'm in boys school and student of class 12th . Personally I don't have any female friend, and forget about girlfriend. I go tution there are some girls but i and my two friends didn't make any communication with them. Some guys in my school talk with them , sometimes hangs out with them. And I think making girlfriend Just a stupidity and I'll never do that. I'll get marry .
@@MdnoorMirza well dude I respect ur opinion but the only thing I don't agree with that the future tension is only for boys & abt marriage ofcourse after a time I have to but I don't expect much from that plus marriage comes with responsibility wheather it's men or women (now I didn't say who gets more & who gets less that depends) ... but lemme say in my family there's no son to take care of my parents (like every one's mindset is if there's son he'll take care of parents), there's only I & my sister... since my sister is handicapped so ... after a certain time I have to take all the responsibility... ofcourse I can't leave my parents like that when they need me ... & for that I have to make my career, earn money & get my own home ... bcs won't like to live in someone else's money my whole life , always feel like a burden & lower than him ....
Humesha Career and Relationships dono ko balance karke jiyo apne jivan me tabhi shandar hoga jivan jab dono ko balance karoge dono par dhyan doge agar ek par bhi dhyan nahi doge na to life buri and boring ho jayegi isiliye dono ko sath lekar chalo tabhi life me sahi maino me successful banoge and life successful rahegi ❤❤
I accept these things my height 5feet 2 inch but i am confident because i am spritualiy connect with god so even any one judge me i cannot sad because in vedha or purans soul is first priority after body second priority Jai shree Krishna ❤
I am an upsc aspirant. Earlier i just used to see your video without any opionion or interest. But this topic which you picked up and clarified it in such an easy language will help many youngster who will enroll in college this year or is in 2nd year. Because no one was there for me when i was facing these circumstances. And those attachment points which you highlighted are so true. You should have stressed a bit more on friend zone and how the ones envolved in it get used. Keep it up.❤
Sometimes I think arranged marriages are much better because I don't have to deal with the unnecessary pressure of "making a girlfriend or else remaining lonely." I can solely focus on my career and my goals. Through arranged marriage, I can also be assured that I will have a good life partner if I succeed in life.
No because jinme achi qualities nahi hai unko bhi wife mil jati hai, for a gf you have to be fit with good communication skills jisse tumhara character overall develop hota hai
@@rudra1286 Character development ke liye GF kyo banau or bhi bahut sare options hai. Moreover, uske unnecessary nakre sunna, har dusre din breakup ka dar, gold digging attitude ye sab cons thode bahut pros se overweight kar jate hai.
@@Undefinedhuman-fe5by bhai tum maa baap ke bharose baithe ho mtlb khud kabiliyat nahi hai kya acha partner dhundne ki. Har kaam ke liye maa baap ko kyu pareshan karna tumhare naukar thodi na hai
@@rudra1286 Sabki apni choice hoti hai bhai, meri family orthodox family hai. To naukar banne ki to koi baat hi nahi hai. Baki jise jaisa apna life partner chunna ho vo kisi ko bhi chun sakta hai. Mai to bas apni preference bata raha tha. Vaise bhi berojgar hoke love marriage karna se kayi guna better hai life mai succeed hoke arrange marriage karna.
It's not hard to get a gf, it's hard to find a gf who would stay loyal for you 💫💕 And it's not a sin to get a gf, it's natural to attract the opposite gender Get a woman who stays with you and lets you focus on yourself ❤
This is what we can say quality content... i don't have any elder brother, sister & close friend to share these type of problems... So I blindly trust you as an elder brother ..😅❤
Bhai aap school ki baat kar rhe ho mera poora 4 saal ke college me koi gf nhi bani aur abhi bhi mai single hun, but aapne ek baat bilkul sahi kahi ki khuch bande kisi ladki se 10 ya 15 minutes baat nhi ki unme se ek mai bhi hun jo aaj tak n to school me n hi college ne kisi bhi ladki se 3 ya 4 minutes bhi baat nhi kar paya, Yrr mujhe dar lagta hai ladkiyon se baat karne me
So let's say I am a guy, 5'7" and financially stable and mature. Have good manners and education. Now a girl rejects me because I am not tall enough. (And she goes to a fair tall guy who is let's say not mature). That girl is rejecting herself before she is rejecting me. I pity such girls and I hope some good sense prevails and girls learn to value character and intelligence. (I am a girl, I chose my partner 10 years ago, not based on looks at all but based on character and his intelligence I am happy, I am loved, I am peaceful)
"akhir pet roti se hi bharega aur roti bhi paiso se aati hai aur jis ghar me Paisa nhi hota vaha ladai boht jyada hoti hai fir chahe ap me kitna bhi pyar ho " This line tooks out my heart😢
