Let's start with the way we do weddings, sometimes we are just being likers of things. I have found that the best bridesmaid experience was having an organised bride. She gave us a year to save towards a fixed amount as well as an account to sent the money to so no spending. The fixed amount covered everything plus "just incase money" and we had practical outfits that could be reused! Worst is an unorganised bride cause then you have unexpected expenses and no adult wants that. I will think twice before being a bridesmaid again.
I thought that I was the only one who noticed that being part of a wedding party was expensive and sometimes unnecessary. I've been part of bridal parties before and it was at my expense. From petrol costs of each weekend helping the bride with a few tasks, to unexpected bridal shower overspending. Firstly, I believe that the bride should foot the bill for hair, shoes and dress as she is the one extending the invitation. Or at least that's how I'm going to do it with my wedding. But this is never the case. And yes, brides often checks who they think can afford to be part of the bridal party. I heard this from a bride who's close friends were upset at not being asked. Although, it's an honour to be asked to be a bridesmaid and I have a few close friends who are currently engaged, I don't think that I want to be part of a bridal party again. Even just attending a wedding is expensive. So, if we're not close, I usually decline the invitation. We have to be financially responsible at some or other point.
I don’t think I’ve ever wanted something to end so bad. This is over in a few weeks thank the SAINTS! Because it’s annoying, grueling, EXPENSIVE AF, and frustrating dealing with these females in the party
Potential wedding budget depending on your circle of friends or family . . . I got it "Wedding Assurance" would go along well with that "package" oh & a honeymoon cover - that one day you get to look good for "Mr Potential" ( broad ) . . . Undies-/thought you said no undies 😅Imagine being aroused worse if your male then again we have belt's for reason unless the two parties reach an agreement and work each other off ,sounds sensible . . .
