Why Malaysia is BETTER for long-term living than Thailand 

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Thailand is a wonderful country but only in moderation. You have a lot of temptation especially for single men. The bars, the parties, ladies, vacation mode. I had my share of that in my 20's. I don't judge people for it because I did it as well. But now in my 40's and married I goto Thailand to relax, the food and most people are very friendly. You have seen the differences Ben. As I have said numerous times. Thailand is for vacation and Malaysia is for living. Some will disagree and that is okay based on what one wants. I am not Muslim. I am Taoist and have never been discriminated against in Malaysia. I adhere to the social norms and I live and let live. Every country has pros and cons. It's up to you to decide what you can accept.

People used to say that you work in Singapore , live in Malaysia and party in Thailand.

Hi Ben. You found what the best for yourself. And its time for you to learn deeper abt Malaysia and Malaysian. In term of religion, yes, Malaysia domination by Muslim but Malaysian are respected towards others religion and races. Not only because of religion (especially Muslim), make less destruction in Malaysia but because of respectful behaviour and politeness of Malaysian. Every races in Malaysia teaching self values. This make Malaysia so valuable.

Malaysia is a hidden gems.

I'm Thai, and I think you are more suited to Malaysia than Thailand, ever since I watched the first videos of you visiting Malaysia. It might be because of the peaceful and beautiful places combined with the artistic atmosphere. I have been to Malaysia about 2-3 times. It is quite nice.

Yes, Islam means peace as well as submission to God. So for Muslims, following its rules will surely lead to peace because God knows His creation best.

As we grow older, our priorities in live changes. I understand what you mean. Good to see you back in Malaysia.👍🏻👍🏻

Fyi Singapore, Indonesia and Malaysia are celebrating Independence Day soon, good for you channel

Okay, Ben. Since you asked, Islam is a religion that essentially protects life. It protects your health, your mind, your spirit, your family (wife, kids, parents etc.). It also protects your money and society. Whatever that God has decreed, it is always for the good of the people. Since Earth is God's creation and we live on it, we need to thank God and show our appreciation for Him in the form of prayers, remembrance of Him and other forms of worship. We are also supposed to donate a certain part of our money to charity in the form of Zakat and donations to help the poor, sick and unprivileged. Shariah is basically Islamic principles in the form of law. We have Shariah ingrained in our minds so we don't do anything that goes against what God has deemed evil like drinking alcohol, doing drugs, oppressing people, stealing their property and murder. This is why you don't see practising Muslims committing all these acts of evil, since we know that we will be accountable for all our actions in front of God. There are other things to write about, but you can also do your own research on them. I'm sure others will also be happy to answer your questions on Islam.

I Feel You... Currently I am working in Singapore.. Happily Settle Down in Malaysia for Good....

Good. You have been in Malaysia long enough that you can differentiate Malaysian and migrant workers.

Spent a weekend in Bangkok - went back to KL it felt like home. The energy is more grounded in KL.

Exactly Ben. Many years ago Malaysia felt like home, and I felt happy and secure there. Thailand was much more progressive and fun, but you have to be pretty well centered and go there for the right reasons. A friend from South Africa who had lived and worked all around the world and who spent years in Thailand said "Old Siam is a fool's paradise that destroys fools.

KL is great! get a nice condo with gym and infinity pool, not far from the centre, great food, great shopping, you can work without distractions, and getting tempted by substances, its less chaotic than many SE asian cities. Quality for less money, than we pay in the west.

If you find yourself getting bored in Malaysia, journey out of the cities into the jungle and find some adventure.

Malaysia has made you into a deep thinker Ben. Your observation is on point. 😇

I think what you really need now is a life partner.....get a wife and start a family ..😊😊😊

The grass cutters are mainly from Bangladesh & they can speak Malay very well.😄

Next greeny visit, You can avoid from mosquito bite if you apply baby ailment oil which has lemongrass smell on your skin.. its soothing as well

8:45 bro, they dont say ho to you back may be they are wearing ears plug under their hood. they are cutting grass handling the noise carefully

At 20:00 Ben, as you ask, I'd suggest you take a serious look into the running to distraction thought. Weed, women, party life, drinking are all huge distractions. A good friend and former employer who wrote 14 books on "Surviving the Comfort Zone" (Fatal distractions), and spent over 60 years helping people escape the escape into the comfort zone, summed up what you may be experiencing by saying: "After delving deep enough into distraction, many come to the realization of what they are distracting themselves from (running from pain rather than towards it). Other's who can't face the pain (typically trauma and false guilt), and who continue to delve deeper and deeper into distraction until it becomes an addiction, often end up in an endless loop of distraction, for the alcoholic it becomes drinking to forget the guilt of drinking, to forget the guilt of drinking..." Now that in America the distraction has become Fentanyl, a short loop to the end for many I see the fatal loop of distraction more clearly than ever, and now that you point it out Ben, perhaps Malaysia, a place with lessor fatal distractions is the place to escape the distraction loop, heal and become a real self free from distraction away from pain and guilt. That's what Malaysia and Japan were for me, and which I am very grateful for, and why both places hold a special place in my heart. Thanks Ben for bringing things to light, and here's to a life free of negative distractions! BTW, I just found the intro to on of my late friend's books about the 'Comfort Zone' that may be of interest to those considering "Malaysia or Thailand?" 'Surviving the Comfort Zone' - Forward: "Once you escape into the "zone," you may become lost there forever. What is the "zone"? It is a state of mind, body, and soul that we all run to when we find ourselves unable to deal properly with the pressures of the world. The doorway into the "zone" is a false need for comfort: when fulfilled, it causes more hunger. In moments of confusion, anger, and fear, everyone experiences this primal need to "escape." The comfort we seek seems like an oasis in the desert, the answer to our anguish. But by escaping into a comfort zone, we actually make ourselves vulnerable to all kinds of misery, suffering, and addiction. Almost everyone is addicted to something. To the alcoholic its liquor; to the drug addict its some mind-altering substance; to the 'people-pleaser' it may simply be a kind word or a pat on the back. Even such simple acts as knitting, stamp collecting, or goal-forming can serve essentially the same purpose as a drink to the alcoholic. The first step in breaking free lies in becoming aware of how our "escape routes" have transformed into prison chains which dominate our lives. Only then will we be in a position to choose between our old enslavements and a new opportunity for freedom."

Hi Ben, glad to see you again in Malaysia.. Something extra about Malaysia is the diversity.. Malaysia has a rich culture and heritages. It's a melting pot of eastern and western food, cuisines and cultures. Islam means peace, it's the way of life so that's why Malaysia has to be a decent, peaceful and a harmony place for all multiracial people to settle down here(even though Islam is an official religion the non Muslims have freedom of choice how to live with a decent way.. There's no compulsion in Islam).. There are a few differences with Islamic Laws in Malaysia compared to some other countries' Islamic Laws - especially in the middle east..you will notice them if you stay longer to see and learn about it.. Malaysia is truly Asia 🇲🇾👍

Ben, loving your vlogs, its getting better n better, those cutscenes with the scenery and music is really nice, it gives us viewers a moment to absorb what u say and enjoy the view. Good stuff Ben, keep it up.

Hey Ben, I've been following you on YT for months, from the earlier time you first arrived in KL, went to Bangkok and now come back to Malaysia. I wish you welcome back home. I wish you have a good health; mentally and physically well. Make friends with locals, be it Malay, Indian, Chinese, Iban, Kadazan, all.. you know that Malaysian are approachable. Coz being alone is sometimes sickening. Again, have a great days ahead. Take good care Ben! your viewers love you ❤❤

Like I mentioned before in your previous vlog. Kuala Lumpur Malaysia is organised chaos, whereas our neighbours up north are just plain chaotic!Lol😅😂✌️

Depends to what your desire is... Comfort and calm is the most people are looking for

There's sense of magic here. I have never been to that many countries, maybe 5 or so but many Malaysian when they were abroad even if there are hiccups here and there, they still have sense of longing for something I don't know what. Therefore I am grateful for being here for my entire life.

It's risky to talk about Islam in the open (here in the comments), chances it will get heated 😁. Basically there's Islam and there's Muslim(the people) which is a mixed bag, like anything else. I have travelled extensively in SEAsia via motorcycle road trips, from villages to big cities, from Myanmar to Laos. One thing is prevalent, poverty and alcoholism... something you don't find very much in Muslim areas in Malaysia (I'm not saying there's aren't other problems here), but it's one less problem.

Thank you for your astute observations Ben, trust your heart and gut : ) The greatest triumph is to resist against one's primal desires -and only then can you experience freedom to truly live life's purpose. Thanks for reminding us why we are so blessed to call this land our home..

Ya Bro...mereka adalah buruh dari luar Malaysia...ramai pekerja luar berkerja d sini...mereka dari Indonesia,Pakistan,Bangladesh,Vietnam,Kemboja,Nepal,India,Thailand,Filipina n etc,Malaysia sentiasa mengalir alukan semua ...kami gembira menerima semua dan berterima kasih pada Tuhan@Allah kerana kemajmukan dan rezeki yang boleh d kongsi bersama semua❤🤝😃👍✌️❤️🤲🙏

Great video, Ben. Thank you for your insightful points. As a Malaysian, my bias might be evident, but I believe Malaysia offers a compelling case for long-term living. Each person’s priorities and circumstances will shape their decision, and both Malaysia and Thailand have their unique charms. Ultimately, it's vital to ensure that your choice is well-considered and aligns with your personal needs and aspirations. Follow your heart and choose what truly feels right for you.

Absolutely a wonderful video. It's really good to know from your perspective that Malaysia is a better for you in comparison with living in Thailand when it comes to a decision to stay and live on a long term basis. Too much distractions and too much temptations could only lead you to astray, and losing focus in life. It's good place to stay in KL, Malaysia, that can contribute a conducive environment to be productive all year long. The affordable cost of living could also be a predominant role and a contributory factor when it comes to making a decision.

Yeah Islam is a huge part of it thats why some Chinese and Indian in Malaysia thinking about migrating but refusing for this particular reason, fornification in other parts of the world is rampant in Malaysia you can raise your children healtier, safer and out of wokeness of the outside world. Muslim and the Malay also accomondating people. It part of culture here for centuries, because of geographical situation, warmness people and humbleness of the Malays people. That how you see how Malaysia today.

Kuala Lumpur is quiet and peaceful compared with other metropolises in Southeast even maybe whole Asia

No Gun, No Drugs, less Partying and No Drunk, this is called 🇲🇾🇲🇾🇲🇾 😂😂😂

Hi, Ben. Just a quick note. You have been to a mosque in JayaPutra. You can walk into any mosque anywhere in the world, and they will welcome you. Ask for a copy of the Quran with an English translation. This is a simple and easy read, but the message is so powerful, that Islam today is growing exponentially. It is growing in Western Countries for exactly the reason you stated, too much alcohol, drugs, debauchery. The result is depression, suicide.

Malaysia a rehab centre.

Much prefer Malaysia, I find it more welcoming and love the food. Sex tourism and excessive drinking is too much for long term living in Thailand.

Selamat Pagi saudaraku Ban...gembira melihat saudara sihat dan ceria..semoga gembira di bumi bertuah ini..❤️✌️🤝😃👍🇲🇾

Bro.... August is a month of Hari Merdeka..... enjoy and minggle around with us all during this celebration 🎉🎉

Good choice, Malaysia is the one, Bro

This man gets it 👏

Nice subtle leveling up of production values.

Ben, I strongly believe that the one reason you prefer living in Malaysia must certainly be 'nasi kandar' . Am I right or am I right.

If u got a drink problem DNT go Thailand

I think anything excessive is not good. Even religion. You just need to be wise.

Yes, the teaching of Islam suggested it’s people to live in balance life and moderate or not excessive in doing things🤍

Ben, maybe you could talk about ways to remain in Malaysia as dong a visa run frequently always runs the risk of being rejected. Of course, there is the MM2H immigration scheme but you need some deposit and also you must buy property within 12 months. Sarawak and Sabah have launched their own MM2H scheme but still need some deposit, I believe Sarawak no need to buy property. Digital Nomad I believe you need to be employed by someone outside Malaysia. But it would be good to learn about any other options for long term residence.

I think the desire to keep moving around stems from either having perpetual curiosity for the "new" or you're still searching for the right place to be your base for the long term (while still doing occasional travel)....because I think that's an inherent thing we do, find a place to be our home. Where that place is ultimately depends on where you are in life and what your priorities are. If you're a single man (or woman) who is just dating, then mixing in a social setting in places like Thailand or the Philippines might be your thing. If you've settled into a healthy long term commitment and getting out to socialize/mingle no longer interests you, then a place like Malaysia could be a more cohesive fit. No place is wrong per se, its finding what's the right fit for you.

Love the change up in the intro

Don't worry about those migrant workers' stare, just ignore them. Maybe, to them its weird to see someone talking to the camera walking around.

I've lived years in Bangkok off and on. I've worked in KL, Malaysia and lived there for 2 years, I also lived in Vietnam. It really depends on where you live and what you want. You need to see the smaller cities in Thailand. I'm a fitness guy so in bed by 10 and up at 5:30 am-6 am. I say it this way Thailand is Heaven or Hell, if you are weak it will eat you alive. Honestly that's only Bangkok, Pattaya, and the Islands. Malaysia has a more stable government situation. Vietnam was also great. There really needs to be a SWOT analysis of what you want out of each place. In Thailand Hua Hin was my happy place, slow and easy very little nonsense. In Vietnam it was Nha Trang. I've not found anywhere in Malaysia that is as nice as those two options.

Cambodia is worth a look as well. Easiest retirement visa and can also get 10 year visa and citizenship after 5 years with property purchase. Sure Cambodia is a bit more raw and earthier than Thailand or Malaysia but it's still worth a good look.

Yes, its good for u n other westerners to try visiting the whole south east asia countries n feel which one suits u.Generally asean people are the same even they are very diverse in culture n religion.They are very helpful n kind.Differrnt people has different taste of life😊

Hi Ben..can totally relate to you about Thailand and Malaysia..like youbsaid really depends what you need and want at this point in your life.

I just hope that Malaysia strike the right balance moving forward.

Another good thing About Malaysia is its not crowded . KL is not as crowded as any other capitals loke bangkok manila sg hcm jkt . Another thing most travellers over look is the suburbs of KL is well maintained, even offer cheaper accomodation , just as good as living in KL downtown . You could try Petaling jaya , Subang jaya , shah alam , Puchong , bukit jalil , Cyberjaya .

Wow , thank u for ur react ... Kuala lumpur is nice city

Hey brother. It's funny how a RU-vid vid can sway massive life decisions one way or the other. This one here may be one of those ones. I've been living in Chiang Mai for 9 months, and was nodding when you spoke about the temptations/distractions. For example, having ThaiFriendly on your phone as a farang can be a nightmare versus your purpose. I'm currently at a cross roads. When my VISA expires in March, either moving to Bangkok (with a friend), or taking the leap to Malaysia (On my own). I'm leaning towards the latter after discovering your channel... Yours sincerely, Fellow excessive partier that no longer wants to do that

I’m glad you’re back in KL.

Again, enjoyed your vlog. The park is beautiful. You are right, you don’t come to Malaysia to party.

BKK and Bali, has always been ASEAN entertainment capital

Thanks!

It really depends on what you want personally Ben. You cannot say much or decide for other people There are a lot of swingers indulging themselves nightlife in Thailand There are a lot of folks who like moderate & peaceful living in Malaysia In the end of the day, if you feel bore, you can chill a bit in Thailand beach for a week or two... This is what life is all about

Malaysia gives europeans / american s90 days Free visa stay . From KL you can make it your base to neighbouring countries by flights ( cheaper than other countries )

Ben, Malaysia is english speaking esp in city areas, maybe no so in Siam. we look for english content, not sure in Thailand, they have in Thai. try Philippines Ben, english speaking country too. You might love it there Ben. Boleh lah Ben.

Long Term For Malaysia 🎉

Thumbs up 👍 Ben

Bro, deep down inside you know you're a wholesome person. A little bit of a wild side every now and then but still an anchored person. Malaysia helps you to balance them.

What I Think: People are different, some have strong desires for one thing, some not. Some know themselves. Some are strangers to themselves. Best not to compare oneself with others. Desire and do that which is right and good. Find inner peace. Enjoy what you do. That's what I think.

Another super interesting Ben , thanks !

Get into it ❤. Nice love the introduction narration- next level.

Wherever you go, pls be aware of your surrounding...just to be on the safe side...

Just fyi, we are having independence day on 31th Aug in Putrajaya.

Those workers are mostly foreign workers. Many of them are still learning national language for communication. They are ok. Don’t worry.

I am a long time Thailand expat. I have to say that I truly enjoyed my drinking mongering years here. I eventually got got tired of it and decided to settle down. I eventually found a suitable older lady and married her. That was 20 years ago and we are still together. Life is good for me.

You know when you read those 400 pages books and conclude that it should have been edited and reduced to 150 pages? That’s how I felt after watching this video. Too much fluff and too little meat.

what i understand from all your talks and thought, you are seeking for peace and calmness in your life. But in the same times, you want to fullfill your lust and temptation on...lets get it straight to the point... Sex, women, booze party-life, weeds... Of course you can find here in Malaysia, bcoz evil is everywhere man...but not like in Bangkok, Pattaya. Its so common over there. If you really want a peaceful life, get away from the place that full of party-life. Go get close to the positive and clean way of life.

You keep saying distraction in this video while I keep being distracted by the things happened around you bro 😅. Anyway, as a muslim, praying 5 times a day is what kept a muslim focus in a day to day basis. Peace ❤

Malaysia for quality of life but Thailand for entertainment and parties.

Great video thanks for sharing have a fantastic weekend

22:52 - Actually... you could go the National Mosque if you are interested to ask/learn something about Islam here in Malaysia. They have visiting hours and guides that can help you there learn. I think I saw some videos of some other American RU-vidrs visiting the Mosque.

Work your way towards the Philippines. You'll double or triple your subs in a couple of months. To live like you do in KL, it will probably cost more. If you are willing to stay outside Manila or Cebu, it can be cheap.

Love your honesty about living in Malaysia, are there tours to take that are organized???

I spend more in 3 days in BKK than I spend whole month on entertainment in KL n I have been going to BKK monthly for the last 12 years.. Lol

Im Malaysian. I've read one comment that suggested you going to the Phillipines and try living there. Have you ever considered it? Maybe you can share your opinions.

Good choice of words calling it a "*predominately* Muslim country". I made a similar video where I mistakenly called it a "Muslim country" (trying to make the point that it's the predominant religion, compared to Buddhism in Thailand) and got absolutely roasted in the comments by angry Malaysians.

I'm a digital nomad of 5 years. It's nothing new and there's nothing mysterious about it. My grandparents were the digital nomad of their age, simply put: those with wanderlust then would become missionaries. They were even clever enough to get others to foot the bill. Churches have a special collection to fund a "mission family" here and there. My dad kinda resented his parents, he felt entitled to live in the United States. He lived very stable, only moving 3 times in his later adult life all in the same state. I guess I got the wanderlust genes. I don't feel any need to explain it, so it was funny to me that you mentioned the topic. Prior to just now, it never occured to me I should think it through and justify it in any way. For the portion of us born this way, it would have been HELL ON EARTH to live in the era of lets say 1940 - 2015. To have a good paying quality job with opportunities for advancement, you needed to stay in a office in the same place and work for decades in each role (to not look flaky on your resume). Now that's no longer the case, our liberation day came. For me it was 2013, the first job I took with no office on offer.

Which park you were recording the video? At first I thought you were in Perdana Botanical Garden which is accessible from Muzium Negara area (opposite to KL Sentral and Nu Sentral). By the middle of the video, I can see that you were not there as there is no cemetery near Perdana Botanical Garden. Anyway, I condone your view in the video.

8:44 they’re just surprised why there’s even anyone at the park at that time of day! they’re doing the grass cutting on what’s normally the low period for visitors. and you’re vlogging as well.

What's the name of this park ? Looks like a nice place !

Anything that is in excessive will makes your mind numb, even having a lot of money. The key is being to do variety of things in moderation whether its is spiritually or materially.

While it is fun in thailand, there is a need on higher dosage of self-control "shot" to make it there (esp for non-local or u r all alone there).

Ben, if peace & tranquility in live is what you seek, the only place I can think of is Katmandu, Tibet. Maybe you should do an exploratory trip there because as far as I know, booze, sex & drugs are totally absent but be prepared, you could end up becoming a Monk!!

You should go tp China to try out...City life or Rural life...my God beautiful scenery. Clean and safe. Those China people are Park people...They loved to hang around the parks. The parks are beautiful. Now Visa free, should go and check out .who knows it might fit you. Its affordable to travel around and the food amazing.

Hi ben, _selamat kembali_ welcome back to malaysia, and _terima kasih_ for putting up this video and opening up on your own choice and reasoning. Just to touch a bit on your question without the intention of imposing my own belief onto you, after all you did ask anyway, the core reason is Islamic faith stresses on the basic facts that we are merely creations of God, that God is All Powerful, that we are ordered by God Almighty to obey his rules, that this world is nothing but fleeting, that there is permanent life after death (after the day of judgement), and that there is heaven in the afterlife for people obedient to God on this temporary world just as there is hell for disobedient lot. So, firstly, God-fearing muslims would not want to incur the wrath of God by drinking liquor, gambling, etc which have been specifically prohibited by God because doing so would throw a person into hellfire for eternity or for a time that would feel like eternity. Secondly, faithful muslims believe that this world is nothing but a huge test by God, be it in the forms of those distractions or temptations, or even in the forms of successes, victories, possessions, good health etc, and be as good and as fun those distractions appear to be, there will be fun a gazillion time better in heaven. One of the reasons God ordered muslims to do the 5 compulsory daily prayers is to bring back the persons to constantly remember that God is always here, that God is always watching, that this life is temporary, and that God has promised that being good will only be rewarded with much much better, for eternity. Therefore muslims have no need for those distractions now. This concept would then give rise to a different lifestyle than say, a faith that believes in the concept of reincarnation. Probably there are different types of reincarnation concepts out there, idk, but if we consider only a straightforward type of reincarnation ie. a person dies then gets reincarnated as a different person with different traits, then probably it's okay for them to have any sort of fun, probably as long as it doesn't involve murder, rape, robbery, etc, because later they will still get reincarnated and have another chance at everything all over again. Perhaps. I only have limited knowledge about the reincarnation concept, I apologise if I have had it wrong. Peace! ✌️

This just proof that you're getting older & wiser. That's why you keep coming back to Malaysia. You're planning how to live wisely moving forward. Btw wonder why you still haven't found good Malaysian friends to show you around.

Go do some videos in Da Nang in Vietnam!

My opinion...you are supercool & ageing and adventure. Hope & finally you find out what you look in yr life..😊