@@heathermcalpine802 let's just say I have been physically and mentally abused for most of my relationships because I WAS codependent (caring for everyone but myself). Treated very badly by men.
Sis, please block 🚫 I just done mine last November, i blocked and deleted, and I'm at peace . Don't look back , move forward for your peace and sanity ❤
So true. Once my heart changes, there's no going back. My ex valiantly bought me 36 roses only after I served him papers. He missed multiple opportunities to celebrate Mother's Day up to that time and treat me well. The roses were proof that he knew all along what to do. Well, too little, too late. I no longer believed, nor cared.
100% True. Just needed him to step it up, focus on me, so we could elevate to next level. He cant support my goals like I did all his. Instead I get sabotage
I….. in a relationship for 23 years and he has changed so much but you are right, I have quietly checked out and don’t want to go back! I’m done. Can’t look at him the same. He hurt me so bad….😢😢….
I, I and continued I's.. traumatized and so much more to the core..married abandoned left for everything in the world all even after years of even taking him back and married after forgiving, after he already kicked my foot in and tried to kill me for no reason. I still after years went by he looked for me for years after getting out of a few years going to prison for that. Me knowing from back then what he done to me. I gave him another chance to my heart, time, life believing he changed like he claimed and married just to break everything I built even more. So much it's a book needing written.
Best way that I can describe it is that I just don't feel connected to him any more. I don't know if you can get that back after everything that they DON'T do when you communicate what you need. You get the ick, for lack of a better phrase.
Derrick Jaxn, I am truly amazed at how wise, deep, and knowledgeable you are about relationships and people. I'm blown away as I listen to you saying the many things that women need to hear and see in our men. Thank you so much for helping us see ourselves more clearly!
Thank you for the replenishment. For the reminder of clarity. Sometimes us ladies are so deep in our emotions that we have a hard time seeing things for what they really are. I appreciate the helping hand.❤
I gave the ex hubby of 18 yrs the best of all of me, and he gave me the worst of himself. I ended up in a domestic violence shelter. It was so painful but I've learned to love myself and see myself as how God sees me. I'm worthy of love, honor, and respect ❤.
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! Accepting weaknesses and focusing on the strength!! Whoaaaaa I'M SOOOOO GRATEFUL FOR YOU AND THIS CHANNEL!!! I CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THIS MESSAGE!!!!!! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK. I'M PRAYING THAT JESUS WILL CONTINUE TO USE YOU MIGHTILY FOR HIS GLORY 🙌 👏 👏 👏 Very Grateful 🙏
Again............the 100% TRUTH!!!! It's exactly what GOD loves!!! I gave him a long-assed time to get it right. I was as patient as JOB. He didn't come into the 'understanding' until I turned and left for good. You're right...too little, too late.
So true and since I was a teenager, I’m a senior now, everyone of those men I said no to because of my standards, would show up later but it was too late.
The moment you relize a hurt person living from mistakes they made at a young age and feel the pain of others. They stay silent and pay attention to everything. Moral of the story. Im grown and i dont seek attention from girls. I only want one loyal women that is the most beautiful women on the planet. Cause 1 percent of men been hurt and made mistakes. And only want peace. And feel appreciated.
The bomb! So many truths! Thank you for sharing this content! Somatic therapy is amazing! I’ve had myself and kids in it for years. Need to get the body out of hypervisualance into peace.🙏 True healing. Men and women need to come together our family unit depends on it! Cheers to the men out their doing the work! Your Queens are too…. Codependent no more is another great book. 🙏🥰❤ Peace and love everyone!
I Derrick. He will feel pain for life the next 60 plus yrs. I’m a rare woman. Yes to all those words Derrick. Walked he lost his chance I don’t see him the sane
Checked out for 10 years, met someone new...ended up the same situation even though I tried to be my best healed self, retraumatized me and Im checked again.
Thank you for your videos you have helped me wake up and realize so much. This new road is a little scary but I value myself way more than staying because it’s “comfortable”
