Why Narcissists Refuse to Back Down - And What They Do To Punish You 

You got that right! And a lot of them do commit homicides.

They know what they are doing. Lies and harming others works for them.

100% true

Hell yeah, i m just there and still loving her. Madness

@@holeef...v2994 its does get easier once you get your head around what she was all about.

Explosions cannons and bombs is exactly right. I have stepped on many of their land mines. Yes, while they are peeking from behind a tree. They will show up to get a closer look at your grimacing and pretend to care.

You are a strong lady. My sister married to a narcissist. Going on to eight years she still thinks he is prince charming. I on the other hand am an ogre the cruel ungrateful stupid sister. Unfortunately living with them in my parents house 😢. Not financially stable so can't move out. Was just sitting here thinking am crazy he can't be a narc. Weird how is it that the wife is treated so well when she is usually the one who sees behind the mask and family fooled. Guess this narc is playing a different game or maybe he likes causing rifts between us.

My Covert mother had emotional landmines throughout our family home. It has taken me two years to get most of it cleaned out. Every time I start cleaning out a room, it sets me back (emotionally & mentally) months. I feel like one more thing of mine is gone and I will just lose it! Seriously, even in death, she is still hurting me! I feel so helpless! I just found out a few months back she threw away most of my personal pictures...it never stops!😢

I believe you as I am going through this 👍

They are beyond evil. Imagine living life like that, looking to cause so much harm to someone. Their smears can never be taken back.

True that I am sorry for what you have been through

@@zakithiganyaza5525 Thank you❤️

@@mday3821 I am also! 😔 It’s time for you to heal now. You deserve to be healthy and happy and at peace with God and with yourself. YOU were not a mistake. You were meant to be here, or you wouldn’t be. GOD makes these choices ... not us! 🥰

@@onlyhis5870 Thank you. God bless you.❣️💞

I can run, but what about my son? They are sneaky, so mask fall after birth, when she got me on the hook.

@@holeef...v2994 I’m so sorry to see you going through this …🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@@christinethornhill thank you, i ll do my best

@@holeef...v2994 ❤️

IF they KNOW what they are doing and want to be seen as good people then why fake it...just do things good ppl do...like fake that and they will be seen how they want to be seen..🤔.their minds are really damaged

Yes good

I second this! Very grateful for the info. Thank you! 🙏🏼

Do you get pleasure out of helping somebody out? Do you feel a sense of human community or brotherly love? They don’t. They have too much internal: jealousy, hate, selfishness, entitlement and an inferiority complex overcompensated with a superiority complex. They squash down their empathy and guilt in order to be able to do whatever it takes to win, get what they want or come first. They are so used to this mindset that when you ( the object, like a toaster ) don’t work right, they start to react in I’ll-mannered ways. That’s what’s going on. Their brains don’t work right.

@@bonnielee316 Spot on!

@@bonnielee316 Right, I guess their mindset amounts to this question: What I can get or extract from this situation or person to my (and only my) benefit?

@tombyddy100, That leans more towards psychopathy or Machiavellism. Narcissists have a problem with their ego. They have an inferiority complex that they over compensate with a superiority complex. They, somehow, put themselves into a delusion where they think that they are god. A god-like complex. And they are forever trying to not have this bubble burst or delusion break. That’s why they get angry at you. They, the narcissist/psychopath, are bullies. They get a type of sadistic pleasure beating you down to rise themselves up. You must stay inferior and they superior. They beat you up physically and or mentally for that reason and for pleasure. They feel much better about themselves after they do it. So they know what they do is wrong. Have you ever heard of the saying that the husband has a bad day at work so he goes home and kicks the dog or yells at the wife? Yeah, pretty much, that’s what they’re doing. Somebody has to pay and it’s going to be their nearest and dearests behind closed doors where nobody will see. They are literally righting wrongs this way because they lack empathy, humility, guilt, remorse or a conscience. The closer that they are to narcissism, than psychopathy, they can feel embarrassed and they hate that feeling and will do anything to avoid it. Hence. More of the NPD ( narcissistic personality disorder) playbook antics.

@@bonnielee316 Well explained. So, there are overlaps between narcissist and psychopath, but narcissists are more concerned and scared of being embarrassed and called out for their behavior. That is why they tend to abuse people closest to them, because the less witnesses the better. As least that is how they see it.

I didn't have children yet when that movie came out. But they have seen it. Yes have seen a few of them. Very selective of what my children watch but those 2 and Planes were ok.

They thrive on negativity and love chaos. They hate peaceful situations and crave continious confusion. For e.g they refuse to answer a yes or no question with just yes or no. Instead they will cause an argument by claiming you said something you didn't say, mean or do. They refuse to let things run smoothly. Their goal is to derail everything that is bringing positivity.

@@asset23libu36 Yes, they pretend they misunderstood something you tell them, and believe you fell for it. But if such tactics fails, and they are cornered to come clean, they instead lash out accusing you of asking provocative questions or mistreating them.

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@@tombuddy100 So true

Haha yes I was accused of interrogating and asking probing questions

To me all they are all emotinless souls empty inside just pretending

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