Bruh, it's like a P2W microtransaction but it's like pay to not win. Shit, at least in predatory video games if you cave and pay there's a material benefit being given.
I tried Tinder for several months and had zero dates. Maybe I could do better, but I quit already. I'm going to stick to talking to girls in real life. It's much more fun, and I get better every time I go out.
Tinder is designed to profit off men. They sprinkled a few matches you way to entice you to upgrade to premium. I realized that 3 years ago and it’s funny that a lot of guy don’t get it
Saying tinder is designed to profit off men is like saying the power network is designed to profit off the public use of electricity. Next you will be telling us hammers are designed to hit in nails.
The effort men has to put is too high compared to the reward. I tried it. Im not average and I barely get any matches. Most of the matches flake. Getting a date is harder then getting a job. Then you meet them and realize they dont look like in their pics and they just want a free meal. Online dating is a huge waste of time and money if your not in the top 10%. Id rather focus on myself and career until we go back to life as it was before lockdown started.
Guys, I'm a girl and in the first day I created tinder I already had more than 99 likes. After being done with this shitty app and only meeting jerks, I deleted it and for curiosity created a male profile. I posted a good description and picked some photos of a cute random foreign RU-vidr. The profile was fine, as I girl I would definitely give it a like! And... After 2 days of giving all girls a like, I had literaly no match and even likes xD so please, don't worry about it, it's not about you. It's about the stupid algorithm, the stupid girls there and society in general. Try your luck in real life, seriously 😉 if you have good intentions, you will meet someone special!
I Would love to believe you, but I have been steeped in failer so long I can't even imagine succeeding. Nowadays there's no opportunity to meet people in public. Like in the matrix; we're plugged in and the machine is draining out life force. :(
Online dating in general is a joke unless it's for a girl outside your geographic area. Tinder turns guys into desperate simps with no self respect because, like every other free dating site/app, the girl to guy ratio is so much in the girl's favor. Girls who lack confidence know this and exploit it since they're not getting approached by confident yet respectful men in person. Just listen to the sheer amount of things he's telling you to do just to be somewhat competitive in this video lol. Who the hell would want to jump through that many hoops and walk on eggshells like that just to get to know a decent person? She's not worth it if you do. Ffs felt lile I just sat through a college lecture.
@@kylemarsun The best comparison I like to make on this to real life is to think of an upscale singles nightclub. On a typical night the club will let the 9 and 10 girls in for free and charge everyone else, male or female, a cover charge. All girls or some may get a couple free drinks, whatever. The club tries to keep a balance of men and women so after a point they stop letting people in. They try to keep the ratio balanced because it's bad business if people don't come back because they go home empty handed every time they go to the club. Now, every so often they have 'Ladies Night' where they let in girls for free but stop letting them in after a certain limited number. They then let in a lot more guys, for a cover charge (and maybe even a minimum drink number), so that the ratio of guys to girls is purposely way off for women to have their pick and to up their sales that night since guys figure at least they're getting in the club. With online dating (especially the free sites/apps) it's essentially ladies night all the time with the guy footing the bill, aka buying premium stuff, and being at a continual huge disadvantage. Only with online dating it's even worse because at least the nightclub they will still only let so many guys in. There is no building maximum occupancy limit with a virtual network.
It's not really a lot of extra work. Get a photographer one day. Have him send the good pics and then edit your profile. That's like a few days of work at max for potentially a lifelong gain or at least a fun night.
I wouldn't say that. I'd say it's more making yourself seem like a better version of yourself than you actually are. I mean, mild retouching of photos? That's a line I wouldn't cross. If you're not very photogenic then I'd agree, but if you don't look good offline, editing your pics to make you look good online is no different than the fat chick who has filtered five year old photos on her profile.
Obviously. You can't be completely honest when dating, it just doesn't work. The most honest thing you can do, that still works is highlight the good parts of yourself & don't talk about the bad things.
Exactly. Honestly, I'm just who I am and unfortunately you really cannot change EVERYthing about yourself. You're born with a certain character and I do believe the reason I don't get the women I want is that they find me (a bit) boring. I'm still struggling with: what are tings I can change about myself (to get more attractive) and what are the traits of me that I should just accept as a part of my character (because you can't change it). Another thing I'm struggling with; I really would love to get a great girlfriend but at the same time; do I really want to change myself to get a girl?
@@bilajoin attractiveness: you take care of your self and doing positive things in your life attentiveness: you are caring to others and will provide good experiences to those around you assertiveness: you can stand up to your self and not be walked all over assuredness: you have a general confidence about what you do and wont question your self aliveness: willing to put your self out there and willing to take risk and have fun social proof: having friends and girls around you it should come naturally outgrowth rather than being try hard other wise you'll be bragging You should be your self but on steroids like elevate the good qualities about yourself to the max, you should be loved or hated not tolerated. Find the features about your self that have the above qualities and elevate them and if you don’t have one of these ones also try to improve on that. But you can have those qualities and still have your personality intact. You should think of game as seasoning to your personality and the way you talk to girls and your personality as the main substance, so practice (flirtation, escalation, passing shit tests, …) all these game elements can be implemented without changing your personality. If something you do feels like it’s not your personality then fuck it don’t do it but always experiment, something might not be your personality now but after you try it you might like it. But always ask your self is this the person I really want to be or am I just being lazy, because you might be boring to girls (or any other quality) and you think this is what your personality is so you don’t work on being more interesting, so work on what you want to become rather then just accepting EVERYTHING about your current personality.
I get a lot of matches, but few responses. When I got a reply, usually I have to carry 80% of the conversation. And I always come up with personal customized openings for each girls. I'm tired of that, this system is messed up for guys.
Whilst I think the video is pretty good and he makes a lot of fair points there are things that are definitely tilted for guys. Speaking as someone who has hooked up over tinder I can safely say even having a good photo, bio, job, looks etc, there can be 3 other guys just as good for her to pick from. I don't see anything changing unless men start dying off :'D
@Mandle Box my two last girlfriend I have met from tinder. I can get laid and find nice woman there, I'm just tired, and the social distancing due to the pandemic just made women even lazier. An average looking woman easily gets dozens of men boosting her ego with zero effort.
Photograph tip: if you want a picture of you *smiling/laughing* have a friend stand just to the side of the photographer and challenge them to make you laugh
I paid for dating apps and got the same results as the free version. Often the "hidden matches" were not the type of ladies that I was looking for in the first place
If you're not getting plenty of matches with the non paid tinder then don't even bother. As Todd said 0x0 is still 0. Once you're getting results then yes go ahead and pay. I was getting between 5 and 15 matches per day with the basic Tinder. Today I got Platinum and got 96 matches today (so far) and among them a 9 who is coming to my place tomorrow. My profile is to the point where the main issue is the girls not seeing my profile rather than swiping right. So in this case paying for Platinum which puts your profile at the front for the girls you liked makes a humongous difference.
@@smarch3912 how do u know those matches are even authentic? ive had like 3-4 good matches but they dont respond.. sometimes their bio will say to hit them up on s.c or instagram which bait u to build their social media which they have no intent on meeting anyone... i feel like i had better success doing real approaches vs online dating but now that this whole pandemic crap is going on its harder to do some real daygame since everyones all scared of each other got masks on and everything...
I've quit dating all together, its made me learn that my time on this planet is short so why waste it with women who are gonna be ungrateful to me at some point anyway. I'm better alone.
I spent a bit of time making a clever bio and I had a chick immediately match with me just to tell me she’s not interested and she’s stealing a piece of my bio.. 😑
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
Ive had it for 2 days. First thing I learned is how much of my life it can potentially waste. I dread to think of how many poor guys spend hours on tinder. I will take in tips, work on profile and "game" but im gonna limit myself to 30 minutes a day on there MAX.
Although online dating is one of the absolutely easiest ways to meet women, most guys still don't get success AT ALL. Why is this the case? Hope you enjoy the video!
It's not matches that are the problem, it's the fact i can get way more attractive girls interested in me by walking up to them, and way easier than tinder. Not only are my matches meh, but there's less of a chance that we seem to vibe. It just seems like a waste of time compared to almost any other option.
Yo Todd, I get a ton of hot matches, I always get good responses first few texts, but I always find myself either sending the last text or just never getting a response after 5-6 messages. What do I do in this scenario. Ps, I try to flirt and tease and have fun the same way I have had proven success doing in person, but am I possibly coming across as weird by my witty responses should I be less polarizing? Thanks!
the more I listened and watched the video the more I established negative attitude against dating apps. I died at the moment when he said your bio and character and pretty much who you are doesn't matter if you have a bad profile picture :\ don't waste your time on dating apps, just be yourself. If you struggle to get yourself in a relationship without tinder you won't magically get the girls with it.
I worked at a bar and the women would do tinder together, small military town with lots of single young men. They will reject nearly every profile with out much comment, and then sigh and complain to the other girls, "there are no good men here we need to go to vegas or something" One of them complained about 3000 rejections saying "why are there literally no good men here?" And they do this as if I can relate and say oh yeah were all so ugly and unsuccessful, you deserve so much more! But buy a little bag of white powder and suddenly your "kinda fun to hang out with". Many sugar mommas will be spending Onlyfans savings on dating in about 10 years you will see.
Rule # 3 Remember Tinder isn’t a dating app, it’s not about “Finding my one true love” it’s a hookup app, as long as you remember that and beat up all the pussy that come you’re way, you good.
Conveying that you are the one deciding how the relationship progresses instead of auditioning for a role that she is casting will make you in demand and cover up any stink of desperation.
Interesting and I was complaining about just getting 2-3 matches/ day. So I guess that's a good sign. I deleted Tinder though. Nothing beats real life.
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
@@fleuramolly6169 Not really. Most humans used to reproduce. Society changed and so that changed. But again, I have a bad news for you: humans are not animals. Society can only work when most guys have families. So this current situation in which you seem so comfortable about it as a girl is soon to change.
@@ajedrezbrasil7968 But I have met so many men who don't want the responsibility of having a family on their own. They literally do not want that. I have met actually more men that didn't want kids, then men that did want kids.
@@fleuramolly6169 people like you who go only for top 10% then cry and consider men scum when you get dumped for a younger hotter woman. And then you come crawling back to the very same men you rejected before.
Remember this little nugget when creating your profile: women don't care about you, and most likely never will. They just care about how you make _them_ feel. Women can't stand boredom more than anything else. They only care about the tingles a guy can potentially give them. With this bit of information in mind, upload photos of you that will elicit an emotional response from them.
I follow tod for a while.. I used these tips and others a couple years back.. Landed me an amazing girlfriend on tinder. We have never fought in 2 years. Amazing stable relationship. Its possible boys. EDIT: i am not that attractive, being funny on the text is important
@@christopherlabedzski7575 Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
99% of online dating is about photos and if you are photogenic or not. If you are not then nothing else matters because girls will look at the pic and then pass, if they don't like it. That is why online dating is bad for men because you wont be able to use game if your photo is not appealing.
@@RSVDCN this is the first step admitting to your self that you suck because u are male and u must pay.. the next will be the child support cheated and divorced. badmentality to begin with.
@@niknik2308 Women need to pay for makeup, for professional photos, for cute clothes, etc. Everyone needs to pay if they want to be better than the others at attracting potential partners.
It doesn't work because you have to be a male model to get Tinder matches. Oh wait, and Tinder is the ONLY way people date nowadays (thanks pandemic, thanks #MeToo), so you need to be a male model to date women, PERIOD.
You don't need to be a male model. You need to look like a male model in your photos. Those are different. On photos, you can improve your attractiveness by a couple of points.
@@jbella11 On how many % of guys you swipe right? Let me guess, on 10% or something like this. And guess what, most girls have similar tastes. What you consider as "not the best looking" is already in the top 10% of looks. Statistically, most women consider 80% of men as "below average in looks". Lol.
@@greenlitlleman I'm personally looking for someone who looks like they will be compatible with me and who has a personality that will vibe with mine. A 10/10 guy who only posts shirtless pictures of himself in the mirror, with no bio, is not it. Pictures are front and center, we look at those and then read the bio to see if this is a person we could see ourselves with. If a guy's pictures are crap, and the bio sucks or is missing, he looks like he don't put effort in and is probably boring so why would I want to date him? Todd's advice is solid.
@@jbella11 I never said that how close you are to the top 10% depends only on your basic looks. I tested a shirtless bathroom selfie of a legit 9/10 guy and he only got 3,5/10 in attractiveness on Photofeeler. With proper photos, he could get 9,5/10 instead. But if you are a below-average guy, then no matter what you do, you'll never be in the top 10%. Being decently attractive is just a PART of getting in the top 5-10%, not the only thing that matters. But you need to be, at least, 6/10 in looks to have a chance at Tinder even AFTER following the right advice and making the perfect profile that showcases your status, outgoing personality, hobbies, etc.
Tinder is simple. Be attractive and you will get more matches. You can manage some results if you are an average white man otherwise it’s going to be difficult 🤒
I did it before a few years ago. Back when it was super cheap and I didn't fully understand the site. I would never pay for it again. Especially at these prices now. I can't believe men pay for it and use the feature that make you look extremely desperate.
Successful profiles belong to guys who are primarily very good looking. You don't have to be Einstein to figure that out. Or you can move to a poorer country where your status as a rich foreigner helps. American in Brazil, American in Ukraine etc...
So, yeah, get yourself a professional photographer to light you up like a celebrity and then when she meets you in person she gets hit with reality. lol If you're not great looking, it's probably better to get that out there in the beginning as opposed to using smoke and mirrors to get someone who is probably too good looking for you in the first place and have this awkward first date when she realizes you're really not what she wants.
9:59 - Todd touched on the reality (I believe it's a actually 12% of the guys getting 78% of the matches, but same idea), but not the reason. As someone who has been following game for about a decade now, it's incredible to see how it has changed in that time. A decade ago it was basically "looks don't matter," now they have to actually open and acknowledge looks because that's the reality of the dating world (coaches who do this have more credibility by the way). "Don't be average" is an implicit confirmation that most guys will never have success online. I do wonder where this industry will be by 2030. If the current trends continue, not in a good place I'd imagine... That said, this is still good advice and it won't get you less results. We all just have to work with what we have at the end of the day anyway. I still say Todd is the best resource in the dating/pickup community. *Todd's point of understanding the algorithm is KEY. These companies are a business at the end of the day.* Also from experience, paying for boosts may be a better value than buying the whole gold/platinum subscription.
@@AshTheDuke Being short has shown to be a huge disadvantage. I believe research has shown you're hurt more by being short than helped by being tall. Probably because a guy of average height is still taller than most women. Short men have it really bad I agree
@@AshTheDuke nope, as a 6'2" guy my height hasn't helped my shit luck with women one bit, while two of my friends who're short af have been getting girls since I've known them from high school, one of them is like 5'7" and the other around the same or a tad shorter even
@@MrHav1k thanks for agreeing bro, (am 5’4 with handsome face)very less amount of short men get dates even tiny girls less than 5 feet still date only guys above 5’8
@@marimoerostraw its actually karma faith bro my football muscular tall handsome friend has no gf even tho if he gets one gals leave him, these pickup dating one nights stands aint for everbody
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
Look into the 80/20 rule. The average guy will be paying for Tinder to get access to mostly below average women. 100% of women are after the top 20% of men. This is why 80% of men get no matches.
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
I’ve got to thank you for this video. I’m completely average (very possibly under-average) so I always kept getting discouraged when I kept getting bots and scammers. This video helped encourage me to give up on dating apps as there’s no way I can compete on them.
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
Bumble is as bad as Tinder. All in all dating apps in general are a huge waste of time and money (if subscribed) which I don't. Still a huge waste of time.
I guarantee you that almost zero attractive women take Tinder seriously. Some use it as an ego boost, but that's it. First, they don't need Tinder. Second, why would they give it away for free, when they can get paid for it?
This is true. At first I got no matches, then I revamped my profile to have cooler pictures and a more original bio and suddenly I got a lot more matches and dates.
I deleted tinder for good a while ago, I tried everything, still tinder fkd me over or girls just didn’t reply. Do the same if you ain’t getting anything, delete it, you’re just wasting time 👍 I think maybe cold approach is the only way
@@Ferien7 People are actually very different offline. In person, it's much more difficult for people to be rude to you or reject you, while online they can swipe left or block you very easily.
@@joys8634 Nope. In-person is different if you aren't the best at taking pics and marketing yourself on swipe dating apps. Also young women who have age filters on apps don't in real life, especially since you don't walk around with a sign on your head with your age, and other things like real height look more impressive. For example when you are 6' and don't lie about your height, you are a lot taller in person. People look different in motion and give off different vibes. The same way there are women I find attractive in person but either 1. I wouldn't even notice them in pictures or 2. they look nothing like their pictures
My ego doesnt allow me to go online. I would feel like im looking for attention and likes. It makes me feel like im passive and someone is taking me from behind. Does anyone have similar feeling about those apps?
@TheGkmasta but you swipe those girls and hope that they will swipe on you. In real life you dont have this feeling of flexing in front of a woman to make her swipe.
There is some surprising research that for instance tell you not too smile too much if you want to be sexually attractive or to show left side of your face on photos.
Yo thanks for all the videos. I’m 45 and just created my first tinder account. Dude in one night I got 28 likes and 16 matches. I’m giving you a shit ton of the credit thanks again
I know a guy that has bad pictures and his profile only says “6’3 Let’s have some fun” He gets dates all the time. These dating coaches only want you to spend money on their program.
Thanks for this Todd. Your videos helped reframe how I feel about online dating recently. When you don’t know what you’re doing, and have all of these matches going silent on you, it can get frustrating. But seeing this systematic approach of yours and the methodology of optimization really makes me start to feel excited about the whole thing. Even though my profile is currently at a low part of the optimization curve, I now have a general idea about how to slowly step up the curve!
From what i tested, i get more results if i pay once, than stay 1 week free, than pay again, and repeat, the app try to show you more so you can get matches and pay again
Todd I like your videos a lot, and I learn a few things each time. Been getting about 50% more matches since going down the RU-vid rabbit hole. 2 topics I’d love to see done that I think would be popular 1) How to get alt/goth/punk women, also how to match with highly educated women 2) What to say if you already have children.
I’ll admit to being one of those guys that was swiping right too liberally. And yes now I’m not getting nearly as many matches. How do I remedy this situation in terms of the algorithm? I deleted my previous account and started over but I’m not seeing a difference
You are shadow banned tinder is not showing your profile you need to get a new phone number and don't link you facebook to create a new account. Tinder will track you if you use the same information.
Going on tinder and having average photos means failure for men. Having spectacular photos also means failure for men. Dating apps mean failure for men. It doesn't matter how good you look or how much advice you get.
Tinder and hot girls.. and that whats hot girls doesn't even need to begin with, coz they have DMs on Instagram, add/messagess on FB of zillion of trying and not trying cool and not cool guys... if ^instructors^ are about to talk hot girls at least they should put down their own online game or be honest at least. building Instagram to compete is really hard game af for the average 9-5 basic wage joe.
The bitter truth is that the reason it doesn't work is because of the guys being ugly. I saw recently a video of a black muscular guy. When he swiped, he matched with every single girl. Totally 400+ matches in two days....why? Because he's handsome/muscular. That's the only thing you need.
Agree. Though ugly guys can improve their results by better clothing, angle, good vibing location. You are not gonna match those male model’s results but you will see better results.
I'm one of the top 10% of the guys if I go on a dating app, I've tried a few and I get overwhelmed with messages, I mean hundreds and hundreds of messages per day which is crazy. Even though I'm one of the top 10% I never got a date from those stupid apps, I don't like to be on a dating app, it doesn't work for me, I hate that messaging a few times is way too expensive, I don't like to pay at all for an app if I already know that I just never gonna meet anyone in person, I feel like being tricked into paying more and more for being able to message back every time, I feel like talking to a robot many times and I rather go to the red light district and pay 30 Euro for a guaranteed half an hour of fun so my opinion is if I have to pay 30 Euro or more just to message a girl that keeps talking and doesn't want to meet in person at least I'm out, it's not worth it.
I wish more guys would take you're advice. I'm a lady and looking for love online. I hate turning guys down for a date because you never know if they could turn out to be a really amazing guy, but maybe not so good at making a profile. But, after sometime, I've realized that if a guy can't take the time to do the things you mentioned, we won't have an enjoyable date, if it even gets that far... also, if a guy can't post pics like you mentioned, he usually has hygiene issues. I don't care if a guy's attractive or not, but I care a lot about how he smells, and if you look all disheveled in your pic, it's a swipe left. Last time I ignored the worst photo of a guy and shipped right anyway, I regretted it later. The pic was a bathroom selfie and the urinal was visible. His profile and other pics were so good, I ignored that one, but shouldn't have... Also, even though I'm not a super hot girl, the amount of responses or likes I get is overwhelming, and I can only message with so many gentleman at once. So please don't get mad if she doesn't respond right away. She might have to read and look at 100 other messages before getting to yours. Or, she might be at work, and have something to do after work and no time to respond again... do watch his video on texting because there are ladies looking to go on real dates, and as soon as it looks like a guy is only looking to chat online, he goes to the bottom of my priorities to respond back to. You might say, I could ask him out instead, but I've tried it, and guys can be jerks and mean or simply get freaked out when a lady comes on too strong or for whatever reason he didn't already ask me out on a date. Hope this helps, so if you're in my area and age group, we can go out sometime 😉
Be careful paying on Tinder... You pay once you'll be paying for ever because of automatic payments that Won't Stop Taking $$$ from your bank account unless you stop it.. Which isn't as easy as it should be... Even deleting tour account can be difficult at times...
Following your content for a bit now. Always stoked to get new info from ya. Looks like the red and black piller’s are beginning to influence content. At 1st I felt that it should be addressed but I realize that albeit the ability for women to swipe until they find the exact face they want similar to how we as as guys all know we do, if we aren’t sub 5 out 10 guys, that having to worry about that really isn’t within our paradigm. But it might be a good idea to eventually come to terms that the better looking we are, the less game we’ll need. Evidence is starting to become staggering 😓
The problem is that no matter how many likes I have 10+ 20+ the fucking app won’t show me the profiles that liked me😂😂😂 maybe they show 1 per week. I won’t pay to see it jeezzz.
In my experience I talk to women IRL they actually chat with me if approached with confidence, online apps are just for ego boost, and only for the 20% of attractive alpha males so guys delete the apps, and get out there and chat with women with humour too, I managed to get mine by going out there,
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
Guys you're struggling to get matches because women don't find you attractive, it's that simple. I know is a hard pill to swallow but it's the truth, the biggest lie this guy says is about the bio, women online don't care about your bio. One day you will get it guys
the fact is, most of the women aren't that attractive either, and even unattractive women can match with highly attractive men on tinder, but the reverse isn't true.
@@seanm2818 Yeah but nature literally does work that way. Search it up. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. This principle is actually the principle of life. Point blank period. You don't like it? You don't like natural selection? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
How you PRESENT your looks is definitely important, but the aspects of your looks that you can’t control don’t matter as much. It’s about the quality of your photos. Any guy can get great photos if he puts in the work.
as i read comments here...there is no advice anywhere for people who are searching for excuses, because they gave up. will you go and compete in something, if you think that you will end up last? difference between winner and looser is in mindset. I once saw a female skier win at the Olympics. she fell during the race and broke her ribs. she had a pneumothorax, could have died and broke the finish line despite it (3.rd i think?). think about who your worst enemy is
One thing I would agree with is that there is more girls than ever before on dating apps. However, most of them are scared to meet up because of COVID. I believe it’ll get better in the next few months
For me the problem is, that i don't have decent good photos of myself in curtain events or regular.. and the ones i'm in are always like i've just survived a lion attack... my bio is positive AF a bit of cocky and teasing, saying what i'm looking for etc, what my kinda lifestyle is what i'm rooting for in/after corona, i'd maybe have better quality if i'd had some vacation pics... i'm 24 and never actually went of vacation to any particular country, cold or warm, i was just not into it.. also a lot work, long exhausting work days.. so i'd never could :c
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. Point blank period. You don't like it? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
tinder actually sucks in general nowadays, hinge and SA are my favorites , so many of them and so many bots and medicore chics but those two have the value
honestly, I'm personally discouraged from online game since it doesn't seem like ugly guys can pull it off no matter how well dressed/presented you be, maybe only with various social pics of you and cute girls, but then again that's kind of a catch-22 isn't it? 😐
dude, you haven't been listening. ANYBODY can be good looking with the right photos. It's a fact. Have some professional photos taken. It works, I've tried it. Trust me on this.
@@CoolGobyFish I'll admit I haven't been diligent with my profile, it can be a hassle to set things up optimally but maybe it could be worth the trouble after all thank you for the motivation man, I'll give it a better shot 👍
@@marimoerostraw I also went over all my photos of facebook and instagram, deleted all the stupid ones and added more professional done ones. a have a ton of friends who are into photography. so i took a bunch of new photos. It worked. I got some dates. It's not magic, obviously. But it does help, for sure.
Yeah but nature literally does work that way. Search it up. It's seen in squirrels, cats, dogs, mice, birds, allllll animals literally. Only the top 10% of males can get a female. This principle is actually the principle of life. Point blank period. You don't like it? You don't like natural selection? Go to the squirrel and scream at it for being unfair. Newsflash: Nature is unfair. All life is unfair. Some get cancer, some don't get chosen. Stop complaining and find something else that makes you fullfilled in real-life. You have absolutely NO RIGHT to demand a girl. Get real dude. Be happy girls even talk to you and look your way, because back then you wouldn't even have a chance to survive.
