One of the dangers of emotional life is that we find that we don't feel 'in the moment': we're at a funeral, but we don't feel sad. We're making love, but our minds are elsewhere. It's our birthday, but we're not jolly. Why is it sometimes so hard for our true inner feelings to keep pace with events in the outer world? An investigation into the psychology of feeling in the moment - or to the left or right of it.
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“Life is full of moments where we are meant to feel certain things. The demand starts in early childhood: it’s our birthday - and we are meant to feel happy. Dad is going away for two weeks - and we should feel sad. Our school has won at team sports - and we should want to join in with a celebratory song. Adulthood continues the injunctions: we should feel devastated at funerals, touched and hopeful at weddings, enthused and moved by our families, carefree on holiday - and, in bed with someone we like, exclusively focused on the act and its pleasures.”
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5 сен 2018