My best advice in all of this is to act as if you are pre selected even if in reality you aren’t. This acting preselected is all it takes for hypergamy to be satisfied she needs to feel as if you are a prize and other girls want to be around you or at the very least other girls want you. In essence act it till you make it.
this is not going to work unless you want to pretend all your life. If you aren’t actually preselected it’s because that’s just the cards you’ve been dealt. She WILL notice you pretending and test you more. That’s why the tests never end for you guys. Just take the black pill and stop coping.
@@jeansollot6419 you’re not lying about anything you’re just having the confidence of a man that is preselected even if you’re not and as your success with women increases your confidence further increases.
Casey has been giving us some generational information , literally everything he says is very accurate . I just had a girl pull away from me exactly 6 weeks ago due to me craving so much of her intimacy ( something I discovered from Casey’s videos recently) of course me being aware of female nature for 2 years now I just pulled back harder and went ghost on her until yesterday she was blowing my phone and I told her I’ll let her know when I can see her this week and she needs to cook something special for me . Crazy how compliant she sounded
Time flies so fast. Way back then I fed myself with fantasy of true love. But now, I seek reality and truth advices only a few people are aware of to know how the game really works. Awareness and acceptance are the keys.
Everything they do is about control because they have no actual power that's why they will be rude to a waitress when they could be polite about the issue instead
MORE GOLD !!! Fantastic explanation. Old guy here again. This could have saved me a very expensive divorce and waste of many years. But no internet back in those days. Now rockin with an awesome Asian wife 41 years younger..... Followed all the advice available to guys now. Thanks for sharing this stuff
@@exitthematrix1487 great comment. And extremely true. There's no way I'm bringing her to the west. Guaranteed disaster. The laws here give automatic prenup. Everything that I had is mine forever.... Untouchable. Plus no alimony laws and actually no child support laws.....but no kids ever. I approached the relationship search like a university research assignment. There's no downside not covered and in this area.... She's more worried about losing me. Complete reversal of the west. I learned the hard way. No mistakes this time. Take care my friend.... Make sure you have your passport and enjoy man's paradise on the other side of the world.
@@jeansollot6419 excellent comment and absolutely great advice. She was just finishing her degree for teaching mathematics. Family is set with a nice house and rice and sugar cane plantations. Because.... you're correct about avoiding extended family demands and wants! Very common. . Nobody has asked for a single penny over 8 years. We buy them nice stuff when we feel like it. No pressure ever. I had a long list of things that were necessary for a relationship. She spoke no English, no alcohol or smoking, never been to the tourist bar cities, conservative clothes and minimal makeup. Etc etc. Did my research and due diligence for many years prior, because I got nailed in my western divorce. She's a real beauty when she wants to be, but basically enjoys the garden etc. I've shown her the world thorough lots of luxury travel. We laugh and enjoy every day. Both grateful for each other. Hope you can find the same in the future. It still exists if you are careful and methodical. Hope you can get to man's paradise in se Asia. It's amazing..... Impossible to describe without experiencing it yourself. And 100 percent impossible in the western world.
@@jeansollot6419 yes. She was just graduating. Family has never asked for money... They're self sufficient. Villagers are told sorry no money given or loaned.
This happened to me. A girl I was dating went off with another guy - I just said 'ok, good luck' and let her be. Two months later, after he smothered her too much, they split up and she came back to me. Women want to know if you're emotionally strong. If you can show that, she's yours.
Bro, you understand this better than anybody else on RU-vid. Ur 10 years younger than me and I listen to these on repeat because when I make any misstep with her she always does exactly what you say she will. do.
Guys understand this: You can literally do everything right and a woman can (and will) pull away at some point. Alot of times it has to do with her and not even necessarily anything you're doing wrong. She could be emotionally immature, narcissistic, a user, has baggage/trauma you didn't know about etc. Alot of these types of videos make it seem like it's things that men are doing wrong, which don't get me wrong many guys make these mistakes, but there are TONS of very toxic women out there who just won't appreciate you regardless of what you do.
When I was dating my now wife back in 2008, other men told her I was "a player". Thats what alfa was called back then. I was concerned it would hurt my chances. Did not hurt my chances with her at all. It helped very much, and into a stable relationship while ex's were reaching out to me etc. She was happy as could be.
It’s known fact, women like men that can get other women/other women wants. If those guys wanted to hurt your chances they should told her you’re a good guy
Dear casey, Thanks a lot, me and my girlfriend had an argument a week ago and she pulled back completely. Even i did the same. I got the idea of ignoring a girl from you. I just got her text message while watching your video. Thanks. I feel like i won
I showed my feelings to a woman and she came to my, and when I was acting to stable, to masculine, she wasn't corresponding me, sometimes saying the truth about your feelings and speaking your mind is what really works, just be honest from the get go, that is my advise. Stay safe brothers.
The problem is when you’ve been in a relationship for a long time you not only forget about all this but you also paint yourself into a corner because you haven’t been out there in a long time gaming women and having them show interest. So the whole preselection thing is a distant memory for that guy (if he even had it in the first place). As you get older, having other women flock and fawn over you is not typical. Therefore the objective is to always be gaming, always be flirting. At least then your brain knows that there are other women out there that will want you and you have the skills to make that happen. The only relationship security is your ability to get the next one!
I'm going to disagree here. There are only one or two things that are a make or break here. The rest, she is aware of, but will not be enough for her to walk away. In saying that, if a girl does walk away from all the things you have listed, then she's either a 10, a celebrity, gold digger or simply damaged goods. And when that happens, I would toss her back into the sea, as she is a disaster waiting to happen down the track.
I think it's important to consider that women pull away because they noticed something they feel unsure about. This has been what's caused me and every other woman I know to pull back from a man in the beginning, it's because we don't respect or trust him in some way. I'm not saying women don't also play the games you describe, but if you don't consider that they also pull away out of genuine reservations about proceeding, you're kind of teaching a narcissistic approach where it's never because the guy isn't compatible somehow and the woman has noticed. Granted, many women will still expect to be chased even when they don't like you and that's a woman who hasn't grown up.
best advice I've seen on this channel. I had a gf who was a perfect 10. we planned to marry but she died during the pandemic. other girls' confidence shrinks when i share pics of my deceased gf. I much rather be with her but she gave me the ultimate pre-selection evidence
5:55 and it doesn't have to be so, but women live off their perception of things and can see life only from their perspective. Women 99% of the type leave a man when they have a better option, and they WILL leave and don't care. So this is why when you are like this, they FIRST THING think that you have a better option(s). This is the state you MUST keep her in AT ALL TIMES.
What if it's a long-distance relationship? We met only four times, spanning two different countries. During our third meeting, things got intimate, and she seemed deeply connected to me. When I returned home from Europe, we embarked on a long-distance journey that lasted eight months. However, just two weeks ago, she decided to end things because I hadn't gotten her a birthday gift. This left me questioning whether she was truly invested in our relationship or if material things held more sway. Despite my efforts-gifts on Christmas, Valentine's Day, and even receiving a watch from her on my birthday-I couldn't shake the feeling that her priorities might be skewed.
The "its completly over" part hit hard since i literally just did this. So far 2 weeks full oullback on my side, gross hands for me that in works and she decides to check back in next 2 - 4 weeks hhaa. And yeah she iis only girl i ever rly loved n treatef right haha "right". I mean wrong. Those i treated wromg before never gave me hot n cold
Well Casey, this one stings. Just ended a two year relationship with a woman. I took her on a ski trip that we planned - and the level of subtle disrespect showed up early, and stayed throughout. In addition, outright anger at two events that were entirely her fault ( fall on the mountain that scared the shit out of her and made her cry, and almost missed flight home due to her absolute inability to manage her time the day of flight). BOTH attributed to ME. Absolute gaslighting and delusional denial. I dropped her off at her apartment, said "I'm done. I don't know who the woman is who I was on the trip with, but I can't stomach her" And it's been three weeks of sleepless nights going - wtf was this woman - and wtf was I - during this relationship? I gave way too much. Lost frame.
Wow. Two years and then the true attitude comes out. Hurts bad but you truly dodged a serious bullet. Imagine this once you are married with two kids and this stuff becomes a daily event. Child support and alimony.... Endless drama as she poisons the children against you..... This is what Casey is warning. Wish I knew 40 years ago. Keep searching and watch them carefully before committing. I'm in se Asia..... Way better attitude... No child support and no alimony and automatic prenup. Way safer.
@@ahuramazda980she sent me a quick text - referencing trip to colorado- which was weird, it was worst trip of my life - and she texted re: maybe one moment of fun we had. Then, she sent an email where she "apologized for her part of things" - then wrote how her entire life is in a tailspin. She lost her career,she has a herpes flairup - (she didn't have one in entire we were together - I know my love actually HEALED her) -she's about to get evicted, and her parents are now supporting her (she's 50). She's wondering "what the universe is trying to teach her." And I'm about send her an email that is going to wake her up as to WHY Universe has her in a downward spiral-IT'S ALL HER FAULT. She has turned her back on everything good in her life ( I was the only good thing in her life).
if you have zero game and don't know the tricks women pull on you, you may aswell give up its going to be a life of hell. Educate yourself, don't let them make you suffer emotionally...women are super gamed up naturally compared to men.
I am confused. Women love attention. I understand on a level that if you show indifference they get attracted. But how to actually give love, cause i want her to be happy and stuff
But what if I already have a girlfriend and now I have a girl who knows that but still wants to be with me? Do I still need to show I got options? I mean she knows I’m taken already
@@boni_tiller3274 got it. But it always stems down to you can’t act needy and act like she’s the only one you’re capable of getting. I agree with it. But that’s about the msg everytime.
Casey there are some things that aren't as cut and dry as you make it. All women are not the same. Some love space and are so so with closeness.....some crave closeness. and hate space. Pull back from a woman that loves space and you may get a rude awakening...especially if you really like her. She'll fly off for quite sometime and then maybe come back and act like nothing ever happened. She'll do that your whole life together. You'll never be comfortable with her unless you are able to go through a major change in your life. Unlike anything you've ever done. You'll never be 100% happy because closeness is at your core. Pick wisely....if you need closeness find a closeness girl.
Don't women fall in love and are emotional like men ? ; Irrespestive of status and material gain.. Wat sort of world are we living in ? Might as well get back to arranged marriages and business deals.!
Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh (Hey) Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh (Hey) Four years, you think, for sure That's all you've got to endure All the total dicks, all the stuck-up chicks So superficial, so immature Then when, you graduate You take a look around and you say, "Hey, wait This is the same as where I just came from I thought it was over, aw, that's just great" The whole damn world is just as obsessed With who's the best dressed and who's having sex Who's got the money, who gets the honeys Who's kinda cute and who's just a mess And you still don't have the right look And you don't have the right friends Nothing changes but the faces, the names and the trends High school never ends Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh (Hey) Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh (Hey) Check out the popular kids You'll never guess what Jessica did And how did Mary Kate lose all that weight? And Katie had a baby so I guess Tom's straight And the only thing that matters Is climbing up that social ladder Still care about your hair and the car you drive Doesn't matter if you're 16 or 35 Reese Witherspoon, she's the prom queen Bill Gates, captain of the chess team Jack Black, the clown, and Brad Pitt, the quarterback Seen it all before (I want my money back) The whole damn world is just as obsessed With who's the best dressed and who's having sex Who's in the club and who's on the drugs Who's throwing up before they digest And you still don't have the right look And you don't have the right friends And you still listen to the same shit you did back then High school never ends Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh (High school never ends) The whole damn world is just as obsessed With who's the best dressed and who's having sex Who's got the money, who gets the honeys Who's kinda cute and who's just a mess And I still don't have the right look And I still have the same three friends And I'm pretty much the same as I was back then High school never ends Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh High school never ends Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh High school never ends Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh (Here we go again) Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh
That has crossed my mind watching caseys videos. I’ve read attached. It’s a good intro book on attachment styles. What it won’t cover because it’s not related to attachment styles is evolutionary stabilizing strategies men and women inherently use. Women will always seek the best fit for their genes and men will seek ANYTHING that will fit the criteria of biological female. Hence why there is a natural discrepancy between what men and women seek.
