Margaret Njenga +254759996335 Love lost between my brothers and I. Unfortunately it’s gotten to a point I don’t feel safe enough! They have disinherited me. Everything our parents left! The courts have frustrated my efforts too but I’m not giving up.
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I remember I was in court in Embu for succession and there was a family that was ahead of us getting their hearing from the judge done on land succession. It was a mother and her son's. (They introduced themselves to the judge) The judge looked at their documents and asked "Are these the only children?" The mother said "I have a daughter but I'm only giving land to my son's" The judge asked "Why isn't she getting land?" And the mother replied, "I've decided to just give my son's land." The judge respectfully said, "Let your daughter appear before the court and say she doesn't want land. Then and only then will I approve this succession of land." And that's how they left the court room.
These are the stories that make me thankful for my late parents and siblings. I come from a big family but my parents gave us each a title deed to our ancestral land. Whatever they didn't settle before death has been equally divided amongst all of us even among my brothers widows and children, we all received our title deeds, even those of us in America. The proceeds from rent are also equally divided amongst all of us with no dispute. Even my wealthiest siblings who earn millions every month get an equal share. I can't imagine it any other way. My heart breaks for single and divorced women, as I'm one of them, but I've been shown nothing but kindness by my siblings
I went no contact with all siblings after my last parent died since 2017 and that’s the best decision I ever made in my life.I left for them all those lands and started afresh let me tell you Maina I am thriving in life
May God fight for his daughters. I am an only daughter, stories like this touch me. Fight for your daughters Lord. Father we pray. Anoint this lady. Love from South Africa.
Dear God, I beg you to remember this Lady. Do not lock her out, do not leave her out. I request for divine intervention on her behalf. God Please come through for this Woman.
If he is a narcissist, you are cutting him to size going public ...They usually cannot handle being exposed, they thrive behind the curtains. Some proper cowards !! What a shame
My darling, you are not dying and that condition you are battling will be divinely managed. You will see the victory.... May the universe align in your favour.
Margaret I understand you because I am going through exactly that. Please shikilia mungu as God has never lost a single battle. My bothers inherited 100acres, a permanent home, rental income a farm with workers and thriving livestock EACH. I walked out with 1 undeveloped plot. Guess what I am now doing better than all of them. In short let them be and ask God for divine favour. Watakutafuta
Wow! You're left out of your mother's memorial service, and your brother's wedding???😮🙆♀️God has totally been kicked out of most families. I hope you get what is rightfully yours.
Two things I ask of you, LORD; do not refuse me before I die: 8 Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. 9 Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, 'Who is the LORD? ' Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God.
I believe some close relatives are fueling this hositility and they are benefiting.I wish your brothers can live their lives ignoring relatives and keeping family matters secret.They can get together and comfort themselves as siblings.However, a lot of forgiveness, mental health disorders could be in play here.Revocation is better because non of them will end up with the land if it is not subdivided.Check to know if your mom's house in Nairobi is still in her name.Your other brother might have transfered it to himself.
Unfortunately, you are not alone in this. Families and the justice system have failed most of us😢. May the Lord hold your hand and reward you accordingly.
You are naturally and legally entitled to inherit your parents properties with no doubt, look for genuine, known and experienced lawyer with such cases and you will get your share.
Don't say you love and care for each other as a family until something to share is concerned eg money, property, etc! I have experienced this with my brother and mother and I know how it goes. My relationship with my brother and mother has never been the same again. I now see them for who they are, selfish and greedy.
I must say this is really sad to hear, but I must commend you on your excellent narration skills and candour. Very engaging. I truly hope justice is served.
What these brothers don't know is that they might die before her and leave her with those properties. God is not anyone's brother eti mcheze na yeye. May God see her through this battle 🙏
Don't give up. That's very good advice about making sure that you have your kids name on all your title deeds and properties. My daughter is 14 but ive put her name on all my assets, even what I inherited from my parents. I've explained to her everything. I trust my family but i don't want anyone on her dads side of the family to ever try and take anything away from her
You go girl margaret. Very valid points on how long cases on inheritance should take. We should be allocated special judges to expediate the inheritance matters Men siblings are very selfish on inheritance matters. Keep it up maggie. 100% behind you
I heard this woman's story and my heart broke for her....instead of the brothers holding her hand as a single mum and just been Men and Covering her they treat her like this....May God fight for you Sis❤
May the Lord God of justice fight for you.. I cannot imagine the pain of your own flesh and blood being driven by greed and turning against you as they have. 😢😢
Margaret, let go of the inheritance and God will bless you even more than you can imagine. The issue of land is a major one and it got my grandpa killed. I don't want this to be your path. God has your back. Let this go and see what happens to your brothers.
Margaret, i salute you. I went through the same 18 years ago with 2 kids. It hasn't been easy throughout the journey to date as a single mother of 2. I would like to join your movement if you don't mind.
Great to see you turn lemon into lemonade. There are thousands of women going through the same like you in Kenya and they don't have anywhere to go or anything to do. Pls include women who are totally denied access to their children by their ex partners/husbands. These situations are so depressing.
That's why cancer n other ailments will never leave families My prayers is people to look for their own properties n leave their kids with stress free properties. God has alot n He is very rich.
I literally told myself to never count anything my parents own. Just assume those things have nothing to do with you because thag is the day you will know siblings' true colours
Very true, it’s unfortunate, I had to forget my inheritance because I was not ready for the ups and downs , I too doesn’t have a place to call a home anymore, I work hard for me and my son in Nairobi.. but I know in the end, God will bless me with more than that inheritance.😢
@@KELLYNKATHA-q7n may your God offer you so much that the inheritance was not needed. I send you a caring prayer. I know it is not easy.... may God provide
Take it further and apply for a ‘caveat’ to stop any further actions on all your mothers properties. The law states that all children have a right to inherit their parents property women too; whether married or not. Sons or Daughters all are equal. The days long are long gone when only male children can inherit… especially land. All children in this case are sharing the same father and mother. Get a fresh law firm to represent your interests ‘pro bono’ that specializes in such matters. All daughters whether married or not have a right to inherit their parents properties. A law firm that can’t be compromised. Did your mother leave a will ? Although nowadays it means nothing and can be changed! It doesn’t matter if the other brothers have friends in high places or have ‘influence’. The law is clear. They are frustrating you so that you can give up. It is your right to inherit your mother’s property. Don’t give up Margaret
Africa has to stop this partriachy, South Africa used to be the same during apartheid times, this has now changed thank God. I am fortunate my parents treated us the same girls and boys respected us. Until death, everything is split equally. My father is my hero, he made it clear that in his house, we are all equal, boys and girls. My brother treat their family their same. Women should be looked after more than men,as men can fend for themselves better. I am disgusted at the way African women are ill treated.
When a parent dies suddenly without a will, it leaves a big loophole for exploitation, you would think because you've grown up together in a loving supportive home, all your siblings would cooperate together fairly, but for some reason known only to the siblings causing the division, they feel more entitled to a greater share than others. This is an issue I hear all the time, but due to my parents setting out their wishes by leaving a will this issue, which tried to arise couldn't, because of the presence of a legal, binding will. Get a will in place to secure your daughters inheritance.
Margaret God will stand with you & daughter. If a brother can marry a cousin, this is the first sign of rotten people. They will look for you one day. Money doesn't solve all problems. Peace my dear .
Everyone is born with a particular personality, it does not matter how educated one becomes, when one has narcissistic tendencies, they will always have such traits throughout their lives. So my sister, we thank God you are still alive, some would have killed you for such temporal gains of your parents inheritance. It is heart wrenching to know that you grew up well but their true colours emerged when you least expected. Perhaps lean more on your cousins till you are back on your feet, continue with your life. One day they will come crawling on their knees and you will have to forgive them. I just advice that you forgive them already. God will see you through as you put effort on your future life. Women see it all in this life. Be blessed.
My uncles snatched our mothers share of land from our grandfather and squandered it all with loose women and drinking carelessly so I didn't fight them because already I was financially independent so I understand when they say family is a scam they can even kill you if they get a chance
Uzuri malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.God a,venge your mother's suspicious dem1se and accord you justice. I pray for you. As for me, being a semi-introvert i will just go quiet on everyone including those hypocritical family members. watanitafuta na torch mchana
Keep on telling ur story madam. You are also helping alot of wonen facing this bullshit. You are not defaming anyone madam, you have not mentioned their names on any interview.
Very sad story. Just pray for your brothers and heavenly intervention. You need God to take you this through this storm..I feel your pain.May the Lord pull you through all this.
women are really suffering in this country. When it comes to land and money men forget that they ever knew you. You become a complete stranger to them. May God fight for us all!
You mother was all healthy and all over suddenly got up ill ad die in a minute infant of somebody she was with in the house, didn't you suspect this person having hand in that death????? What was that he heard like a heavy table being pulled on ad back??? Didn't you suspect a fight among the two???? I wish you made a choice of living with yua mum in her house ad yua daughter outsiders hawangemyelea hivo. Pole sana my dear sissy, may God see you through with his favours. I'd like to join yu group but yu never left us with yua number in the screen. How do I get you??? I also have a funny story in the court for the longest time. ..Good time ad be blessed
Some people are so evil,i was told by someone that my file is missing somewhere i had to pay a cleaner in that building to get me my file. So sad indeed
You are not alone on this,my younger brother told me I won't live long and am useless kkk, because of inheritance kkk life, God will do the rest I know
We are so many your story resonated with me, 15 years in Nakuru law courts over succession and no fairness in sight. Road to justice is not easy and I pray for you as I pray for us . Just saying MOST Nakuru lawyers are rouges, yes I said it rouges!!!! Sign me up for the women against unfairness.
My situation since I became an orphan my siblings hate me so much I have really suffered in their hands I decided to cut off connections with them & live my life
If Maggie wasn't in Kangubiri girls for her A levels while i was there for my O levels in the 80s then lookalikes are real. Maggie you are beautiful n the organisation you have started is a good one ,go go go girl go.❤
Don't give up, fight them like hell, make sure that you get every share that was left by your parents, don't forget they didn't wrote a letter asking to be born being men, shame on them for frustrating you this long and denying you inheritance from your parents.
I was thinking the same but I understand her, she would like to have part of her mum as her inheritance and something to hold on to in her memory (probably). May the Lord fight for her.
Come to think of it, your mum's death sounds suspicious. Mouth foaming could indicate poisoning. Was postmortem done on her???? Am just thinking outside the box after hearing the kind of biological brothers & uncles you have.
No, when people die of a heart attack, they don't form at the mouth. I work in cardiology and have never seen that. My take is that she was given something that caused her death.
We are Many Maggie, my own brother has transferred land to himself and my poor mother, still alive, is helpless. Let's have that movement. Fight and fight Maggie. .😠
My sister in law went back and found the brother had demolished the parents house and his son was putting up his house. Luckily the mother in law sorted her. She had separated with hubby.
Am going the same thing my dad give my inheritance but my 1/2 brothers had been occupying my house just play and God will hear our players it's 20yr now
I can relate❤to your story mam. Its not only in Kenya. Im from a partriach enthnic group too. So i fully understand what you are saying. May the Lord help you mam.
I really pity the wives of these bothers. If this how they treat their blood sister, their wives cant be any luckier. That said, they are also they are inviting curses upon themselves and their generations.
@@margaretreeves3792 I believe it's because of unforgiveness from childhood experience . Probably,they didn't have a good relationship from their childhood.
All this material things....money,lands,cars..we all leave them in this world 😅...where is Moi,kirubi, kibaki,biwot etc...They all left with nothing..buried with nothing..Let's put our faith &Trust in the Heavenly riches....Earthy materials are just earthly...Be wise
I am not superstitious but some things are not normal. How comes you were okay as siblings when growing up and everything changes at once when your mum passes away. No no no, life is spiritual and those your uncles could be responsible for your division so they benefit from your parents wealth
Let it rest. God will deal with them. Stop it now it's not a must siblings wapendane. Let it go it's stressing you so bad love❤❤❤❤nobody will leave this world with anything except his birth suit. Jiweke karibu na muumba wako🙏
And he has only one daughter who might decide to be transgender and not carry on with the family name.My rich friend 's only daughter, told the mother she needs nothing from her father's property when the mother refused to share property with her half brother from a different mom.
Parents fail their daughters. Imagine favouring boys leaving your daughter vulnerable and your so called 'boys' go over and beyond to protect their daughters. Who is the fool???? Some people wakaamuka from the death wanaweza shtuka how their daughters wamefanywa.
My brother blocked me after I have hosted him find 4 him a job I tried 2 ask him thru our mum he is like Kila mtu akae maisha yake it pains me but I ve let it go I don't bother myself
Margaret Njenga. My inherited issue is exactly same as yours. Please endorse me in your organisation to help such. Ive been keeping it cool because lawyers are very expensive and not to be trusted (as per your experience).
