That is so true. If you speak about your twin flame relationship issues with family or friends. They will think that you are crazy. Remember, this is your journey. If a person is not on this twin flame journey. Everything will sound crazy to them. (Terms like twin flame,chosen ones, and several other terms are foreign to them, and they can never understand.) Remember the rest of world are sheep that follow and adhere to the world's standards. We are not that. We are free thinkers that realize that there is more to life than what we have been taught..
i agree about not sharing with people who don’t know cuz that can lead to more confusion and pain .. but a funny thing is i overshared w another mom once about what was happening and SHE is the one that said “sounds like twin flames” and that’s how i was led to the concept ❤ maybe she is a twin flame i don’t know because we never spoke about it more than that day
@IFeelPositiveLife Don't worry about it. A large majority of us have made that same mistake. That is how we know that it's not a good idea to tell them. Life lessons are learned through experience. The experience of having a friend or a relative mock and look at you as crazy is not what I want for anyone. Trust and believe, its enough to make you cut them off when you see how they really think and how they view things.
My mom was a matrix twin flame her spiritual twin passed two weeks after she did. She told me just before she died who mine was, and she goes, “He’s you.” 😢😢😢❤
Whenever I was asked why I wasn't dating, I told people I was still in love with someone I used to date. I heard a lot of "you need to get laid". That fixes everything doesn't it.
Kurt you forgot to mention don’t talk to psychologists. Also , don’t talking about your twin flame is part of detox. Detox is what is needed to feel better. Thank you Kurt for this great video! ❤
Yo actually my therapist has actually been highly instrumental in the process for me! Just gotta find a good one that maybe doesn’t use the textbooks and DSMIV as their bibles. :) It *looks* like a trauma bond but my therapist distinguishes TF and TB by the characteristics of the “fruits” of the journey. It literally makes us better. And in my case, at least, it hasn’t affected my feelings if self worth. I know who and what I am and judging from the ego mind, my Twin is a fool! But perceiving it from the soul perspective, we’re just one thing developing into something greater. 🙏🏼
@@kaylajarossy5945exactly! Back in 2014, I shifted to allowing a more spiritual approach in my practise. Now I’m a full on integrated counsellor. You never know, unless we advertise it.
Not speaking about the other self helps a lot. This journey is “hard” but patience and faith both have a great role to play along with the main part of just being. You don’t have to do anything if you just be 😊
I’ve been there ,And I’ve stopped talking about my TF cause they really do say “It’ll be fine you’ll get over it”. But they don’t understand so why waste your energy? (Reality check) do they help you with other things (Example) helping financially when you’re struggling? Taking care of you? Checking up on you? No So why would they help you with your love life? Remember you’ve got your own back. & don’t need to let people know about anything really! Have a great day ☺️
😅😅 I'll never tell to my family and friends about my twinflame journey because i know they wont believe it... and sometimes friends are envy in secrets ..and they want what you have...
I was actually completely missing the signs pointing to my true TF because I kept focusing on the ones that related to someone I was experiencing a soul connection with.
How amazing,the one’s trying to understand me if my sister and friend even though I feel like sometimes they looks at me like wtf lol ,but other than that I don’t tell anyone else.
My friend of almost 30 years called me crazy and said I should seek help and yelled at me. Lesson learned. Moved on from the friendship and moved forward with my spiritual journey. I am also learning to not call him my ‘twin’ as he is me. We are not separate. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you for your help and providing a safe space to be open about this journey without judgement. 🙏🏻💚
Not only will they think you are crazy but YOU WILL ALSO think you are crazy and delusional because you will never stop hearing “you need a therapist “ blah blah blah, don’t make this mistake guys. I made it. I never stop hearing about it now…
I learned this the hard way 3 years ago when I first met my twin flame through a virtual platform. Although, I had never heard of the term twin flame until this year but back then I knew we had a connection that I could not explain. I experienced EVERYTHING that 1st year and tried expressing it to a friend and 2 family members. They of course looked at me like I was crazy and told me that I need to get out more, lol. So yeah, I have never talked about it since then to anyone. Finding channels like this one has been so relieving.
Same thing with me everybody thought I was not normally now I know that but on this time I didn’t , they said to me I schould go to psychological treatment or to church and look for help 😂🙈🙈but I just stopped talking and I looked that I am doing better my own life he schould live his own I just learned not to forced something that I don’t have , just happy alone and it was so humiliating at that time, I think some of people think also now that I am not really normally
I met him 1 year ago. Since then there happened a lot. I talked about it to only a view of my friends until i found out i have to keep this to myself. Everyone told me to just forget about it. Nothing made sense to them and i found myself going crazy😂 Only a view weeks ago i finally found out that we are twin flames. Since then i am so much more at peace.
Euh, yes 🤗 😬 found out. Better to keep this sacred. I innerstand the reasons. It is such a difference compared to the traditional/ conditional world. Feels like I do not want to live merely in the traditional world anymore like I did before. Spirituality always had my greatest attention, and wanted to deepen this. Now it increased so much more. It has changed within me, I prefer so much the unconditional, (the conditional is not my "thing" anymore) I live this more and more. My perspective has changed.
Hello Kurt, how crazy is it that I was wishing for this video the past few days and you actually heard me. I guess I’m on the right path of transcending my mind 💫 Thank you so much!
OMG, I am going through a toxic 25 year marriage ending hopefully soon, after 16 months of separation. In the process I've discovered magnetic feelings of attraction for a friend I met just months before my separation. We sent messages because we are at a distance & it was intense with such unexplainable emotions. I am now in the lonely stage & keep telling myself I'm not going to think of him anymore! It's short term & I've discovered so much during all these months. I'm extremely grateful to have came across you & it's refreshing to hear the explanations & expressions of my feelings. Thank you, thank you...Thank you ❤
Man it’s exhausting and degrading to keep thinking obsessively about them..I finally were able to focus on myself more and meditate more, I wanna resent them, I don’t wanna think about my TF at all, wasted too much energy 🤦♂️
I learned that when you speak of you're twin, which is you. Everybody starts to tell you, maybe its just your ego trying to tell you your not with yourself.
I wish I saw this 4 months ago. I started bingeing specific person manifestation videos on RU-vid. I've been doing visualizations, affirmations, listening to subliminals and reciting the ho'oponopono prayer. With a twin flame it seems to be the equivalent of trying to call someone who's lost service on their phone.
Ive actually been able to speak to my sister about this. The further I go on the journey we are realizing she may also be a twin. She doesn't need much information as she has been through a lot of spiritual things in her life and she has an ex that has been in and out of her life for 30 years or so. She is married and happy but some of the small explanations i have given has just made sense to her and made her feel better about whats happened over the years. She still chooses her husband but the thoughts and telepathy are all there with the ex.
I’ve been on this journey 3 yrs and yes for sure I felt like I was going nuts! I cried a month straight for no reason at all. I remember saying why am I crying!! I’ve have been ghosted 7x in 3 yrs n now at the state of letting go-found tremendous self love. I have so many blessings and am neutral about this outcome. Loving every day for what it is. So grateful for this experience. I think different and definitely feel different about life and people.. much love
I remember crying non stop one night while I walked at the Dubai marina and I had to go to a corner because tears couldn’t stop coming down. Thank God it was night but people saw me. That night I cried and asked myself why do I feel like this. Why do I have to feel this pain with men. Then I started thinking it was me not him and started having flashes of all of my past abondoments. Watching these videos confirms he is my twin flame.
And anyone who acts like you're only at the "beginning" of your twin flame journey because it's just been months and not an entire lifetime...that's all ego too. Spiritual ascension and divine timing has nothing to do with number of years or decades, no matter how "typical" that is for most journeys. If you two are ready within 3 months, or 6 or so months, or a year, etc. you can come together into divine union if that's what the universe/Divine intended for you (and unless you fall out of alignment, I don't think you can stop this from happening either!)
Talking about our dream can be detrimental if our WILL is not strong enough to not only CONQUER your own fears, but the fears of everyone you tell… otherwise they will be the more powerful energy that STEERS your will
yep, that's so true. my journey started a few years ago. I didn't know anything about Twin Flame. I just started talking to a guy, we got on, and then he just disappeared, so I'm thinking he is not interested, and that's okay. as it's his free will. somehow I came across Twin Flame, I watched the video explaining what it is. I just ignored it and carried on with my life. the next stage was so painful, I was in so much pain and tearful all the time, at work and at home. he was in my head all the time, I started to watch tarot card reading, like 100 a day, it gave me the false hope I needed at the time. this was at the beginning of COVID-19, being so busy at work. i was so frustrated with how i was feeling at this point I still didn't think i was in a twin flame. after a while, I put 2 plus 2 together and worked out that it was a twin flame. I obsessed with him my mind won't let him go my heart hurt. I hated that time always being confused and trying to move on with life it's like he had a hold on me. A few years later I'm in a good place and not obsessed with him, some day I'm so busy at work, that when I get into my car I think o I haven't thought about him day. the signs were everywhere angel number, his name, songs, at this point im trying so hard to not think of him, but no, I work in nursing, and I had patients with the same name, and family members, so even if I was trying to forget him, I heard his name at work all day, films I watched the actors name was the same, I can not get away. I have unconditional love for him and wish him the very best in life. I have tried chatting with other guys, I was chatting to a guy, we had so much in common and we are both Virgos and we got on so well, but that didn't go anywhere. I remember when I was chatting to my twin flame a few years back, we stopped talking and when we started talking again, he texted something so weird, he asked me if I had moved on and I said no, he texted saying, if you were dating anybody else, it wouldn't work out. I did ask him why he said that, but he said he didn't remember texting me that. I find the whole journey confusing and there are how many stages. talking to my friends about the twin flame journey, they didn't say it but the look they gave they gave was like I'm crazy, so I stopped talking about it to them. but at a few times, I believed I was going crazy. I'm working on myself and hope to one day find peace with this all. i feel for anybody who is on this journey, may GOD give you the strength you need at this time :)
Thank you for this, it’s perfect timing. Around ten years ago I got a tarot reading that predicted a twin flame. I chose to take the lessons about self improvement but kind of intentionally forgot the twin flame stuff because it sounded super intense. In the last year, I realized I had recently met someone who fit all the signs from that reading. A few weeks ago, I remembered the twin flame stuff. Not just the signs of the love connection but specifically the tarot reader back then explicitly telling me to research twin flames. I’ve been doing a bunch of research but also putting more work into my spiritual journey, living in the moment and generally leveling up. Last night I was at a small party with old friends and I really wanted to talk to one of them in particular about it but never really got the chance and I didn’t want to force it. I’m glad I didn’t. She’s also been going through a spiritual journey but I think I just really want to gush about everything that’s been going on. So yeah, I’m gonna try to keep a lid on it because I think it’s just distracting me from my journey. Also, there are certain circumstances outside of the twin flame aspect that makes this connection totally bonkers. I really don’t need them thinking I’ve lost my marbles, especially when this connection has actually helped me to level up a lot for my own sake. Like, they’ve noticed the positive changes in me, they just have no idea how much of it has been triggered by this special person I’ve been in communication with.
I hesitated telling my therapist. But then she told me her significant other is Buddhist and I just started going off about twin flames.. apparently I'm not the only one. And she has 3 coworkers that have patients doing the same thing.. she said she never heard about this prior to 2020 ... and all our talks made her realize that she and her significant other are twin flames. Sometimes we need to talk about it
Thank u so much for this, I can’t stop wondering if I can ever have a chance to be with my twin flame again, after we broke up, I miss him so much and can’t stop thinking about him.
Ty Kurt, I've just started detox from the other soul after a year and half...oh my why did I not do it earlier....SO much beautiful inner peace 🤍🤍. I've tried talking to my daughter about this but she doesn't fully get it although she listens. No one can EVER honestly innerstand this journey unless they're experiencing it! When I look at soul mate couple's who claim to be TF I absolutely 100% know they are not! Lol 😅. Ty so much for your videos they really have and do help ❤. Bless you beautiful soul 🙏💃🐉🌹🕊
On my journey Kurt, I did not have the crying longing for a twin flame… at the time twin flame connection was becoming stronger. I was throwing up every morning every time I sat down at my job to work….. I rolled it all into the whole package of direction I was being given…. As the direction of sitting down at this job was taking away from my mission that ultimately leads to my twin…. But for me, the sickness was all about the mission.
Thank you for this video!😅 I'm actually very lucky because when I first started to experience things, I eventually told my cousin. She's a very open minded person so she was right with me... but after a year of me being confused I realized I genuinely sounded like a liar and didn't want to burden her with my drama anymore. One day I hope to explain everything to her and let her in on what's happened since she's the closest person to me, but maybe that day will never come. I know she'd never jugde me harshly but I can only imagine what she's told herself. All she knows is I was a wreck but things are so much clearer now and I'm doing so much better.
Good thing my friends are other ''crazies'', where we can talk about spiritual stuff, without limitation. Thanks for that tip! Will help get close to him in the future.
My mom literally asked about my twin I just told her long story lol she tried to ask what happened I told her I don't need advice and it ain't nothing to vent about lol just happened this morning this video is right on time.... I'm delusional and so is my twin can't tell us nothing about each other lol.... Plus my life is about to drastically change from my families...... So I don't need the weirdness or jealousy lol
That is me with the crying. All the time. I think it's cause of the whole situation. This experience is alot but I'm finding myself and being a better me
I have that over one year but only now is only sadness but no pain and on beginning was so much pain in my heart and soul it was just sometimes not to hold out that pain and it takes 5 months or more pain and crying, I didn’t sleep I could not eat anything for abouth 3/4 months. But wenn you just say I don’t care abouth nobody it is important that I am just happy and good you focused on you and your life and happiness than you can be better and live without that pain, that helped me to heal. I love him but I don’t need him anymore to be happy
I love your videos thank you. I was researching in different religions and came across in Islam the Quran talks about twin flames. A verse in the Quran talks about that god created from every soul it’s mate so they are the same soul. Also all souls were created in a different realm before being born in earth hence the feeling of reincarnation also the verse talks about the feeling of home between them and the energy of love and mercy between them. It talks about that it is a sign of the divine. Not everyone gets to be born in the same time as their twin soul but those who are are twin flames. 🥰❤️😘figured to share
Really appreciate you putting this into a perspective that we can understand without the “woo-woo” fluffy shit! The way you share your “wisdom” is what sets you apart from the rest and maybe that’s why we’re all drawn to your RU-vid channel? My TF and I made it through the “polarization” & “separation” phase for almost a damn year while going through it “ourselves” due to the reasons that you gave and we are now reconnected and working on our future together. Thank You Kurt!
I never talked about him to anyone else anymore. Especially since my twin flame is a famous celeb. I posted about it in a forum on Quora so that I could find more people like me, but I was met with backlash from random people telling me that he’s not my twin.
I totally laughed when you said their gonna think you are crazy i thank God and divine powers for guidance it's not really my nature to share my personal life as well ❤❤ seeing this video is a confirmation of a right thing to do thank you for this❤❤
Hi, I never thought about sharing my whole story with my parents, other family members, or friends... Even though my parents did notice on their own some of the beyond-weird similarities and synchronicities between my twin-like person and me.. (They're actually both psychic, especially my Dad.. 🙀😱) I just encountered your videos, like a half an hour ago 😀 and am so glad I did 😻 I've reached out to two pairs of twin flames for the first time in my life (after crazy things happening for decades!) this Gregorian month, Sept 2023, and within 10 days my person blocked me for the first time 😹 Subscribed 🐾😼🚬
Lmao it sent me to the ER when I had the spiritual awakening I talked about to anyone that would listen a waste of time they think you are clinically insane
My close friends knows about my TF but they don’t understand this journey even one of my friends who’s spiritual she doesn’t understand but I think only cause she didn’t experience it and I feel I’m so on my own in this😢how many times you can talk about your TF to them,they fed up of you,they’ll tell you just to block him,to get rid of him etc but I’ve tried and well it didn’t work ..and at the min I feel so lonely that I need to through all of this on my own..😢 it’s even more heartbreaking 💔
In my story, the man who is an absolute angel, that I am with keeps leading me to synchronicity that I belong with another…. As if all of us agreed to the story and he’s trying to help it along.❤ but the biggest reason that I don’t talk about it is because the story constantly changes and I am not attached to any of them
U are right kurt, my twin flame is a chaser am a runner he was talking about me all the time even told him that im hurting him, it was 6 yrs ago, so we decided to meet other day accompanied by his friend, his friend told me straight that " he hate me coz im hurting his friend" he was always pursuiding him to leave me alone
I am just now getting out of that crazy first stage, thankfully! But during that time my coworkers/family would ask me about who I’m dating so I vaguely talk about my twin flame and just divulge basic information about him. But they ask so many questions! And they judge and they make me feel bad. Not on purpose, just human nature. And they follow up all the time. I appreciate that they care about me and my life. Or that maybe they’re invested in the drama of it all, whatever lol I just wish I could somehow explain it to them but is there a nice way to say hey why don’t you mind your business and stop making conclusions or thinking bad about him for taking so long to commit or coming up with negative scenarios of what is up with him, some things don’t make sense until the end lol like a movie! But then they’d be like what does that mean and why are you being a b**** 😂 Because their mind can’t comprehend with their perspective based on societal norms and views, gender roles, their past trauma, your past trauma (if they know it), programming, conditioning, traditional mindset and all that is clouding your view before you’ve healed and awakened. I definitely don’t mind having no friends but it’s inevitable that people that I am close to are going to ask and I don’t want to lie and say I’m not talking to him anymore because then there’ll be 100 questions and I can’t lie 100 times lol but I just wish there was a way to say he’s my twin flame I love him He loves me everything else you wouldn’t understand let’s just not even talk about it - in nice 3D terms 😞
At that stage I didnt even know what a twinflame was... so I talked to everyone about the connection... its only 14yrs later I now know what it is and why I went through that. ❤ and its also only now Im noticing so much signs and sincs that b4 maybe have been there but I didnt notice, also signs I did see but thought nothing about. Its the insane... bec if I had known then what I know maybe he and I would be talking and not skipped 14yrs. ❤
Would you tell us about the journey from the DM perspective? Do they go through the dark night of the soul? Do they get obsessive thoughts? Do they feel the energy? Do they get all the incredible synchronicities… etc etc etc I’d love it if you tell us about how do they go through this intense experience Thank you
There are some DM runners on quora that confirm this... yes they do .. rarely do they experience the kundalini awaken but the DNOTS for sure.. ego death... etc tower moments.
Intuitively I felt it was best bot to talk about my twin flame in those terms to anyone because it would sound crazy to those in my life (both family and friends). This is my path alone to navigate as much as it is for my divine masculine.
When you truly have zero fear inside your organism…. You can tell the whole goddamn world everything….. and they will never sway your WILL with any of their doubts and fears. It is a state of Christ consciousness that is a highly evolved level of evolution…. It is the state that gives the messenger. The bravery to walk down the path with crucifixion lining both sides…. Yeah they still crucify people these days just not on a cross
I have never spoken to anyone about this experience because this in depth explanation has come up in October this year for me. Truthfully I have experienced all of the symptoms and stages of a twin flame experience but I have never analysed or researched the steps or stages because I always was focused on my own spiritual awakening. I just thought he was a soul mate and that he activated my spiritual awakening the most. I didn’t think that he had anything to do with it what I experienced over 30 years! Yeah I had several spiritual awakenings. Dark nights of the soul. I felt that I was running away from something for years. And I wasn’t sure why???? So all this clarity has come up now and surprised me. This year has felt like jigsaw pieces of the puzzle coming together. Also he has shown up on my social media a few times so that triggered me to search for return of EX boyfriends lol 😆 It’s all hilarious 😂 and daunting at the same time. I have so many varied feelings
OMG I JUST GOT IT!!!! There's a sweet spot where you go into the love vibration and then detach!!!!! OMG, so amazing. I i just got it. it's like cliff jumping or surfing. You go into it and jump. Launchpad isn't the word. Catapult. Or slingshot.... slung - shoot!!!!
The friends that I told either knew what a twin flame was from reading romance novels, or they had a twin flame that is no longer with us. So no one thought I was crazy, but they all thought she was too young to know what she really wants. The more I think about this whole not thinking about them to attract them, the more it makes sense. I do notice on days where I kind of put them out of mind, they want to get together more. The more I really want them to come over or go out somewhere with them, the more they kind of ghost me. Thank you for the videos!
Yeah totally agree! Its a massive thing for others to understand...and do we have the time lol! Im very lucky i have alot of friends on the spiritual path,so to a certain degree they understand stuff. But yep better left unsaid 😊
See I've known my twin. We have been very close friends for more than 20 yrs. However 2 yrs ago when things went farther, and I ran our synastry, to confirm what I instinctively knew. He told me it then how we knew each other at about 7 or 8 yrs of age. He was friends with my younger cousin.
I learned that lesson the hard way. I'm done talking about it. It's been a year in. I'm not talking to anyone anymore about it. No one gets it so why bother anymore. That's why I only have 1 friend. In fact the less I talk about it, the more I feel a detachment from it. It stays in the back of my mind but eh whatever. I know I have one and while I was obsessed with him in the beginning. I now just think of him as someone I worked with once. He's living his life and i'm living mine. I have discovered that I was doing fine before I met him and didn't need him. And that's where i'm at again now. A year later. I don't need him in my life to feel like I have what I need. Yeah I still live with my karmic but even he and I are completely 2 separate people. He lives his life and I live mine. We are complete strangers at this point. My twin flame still works at the store where we met because that where I used to work. I no longer do. I transferred. I still shop there and have seen him from time to time but now I don't care if he's there when I need to shop. I don't go looking for him. I just go in and out as quickly as I can. So if we ever end up in a physical union cool. If not, cool.
Oh Kurt too late I experience everything you say on this video, I saw millions videos from last year but this one explain short but good what to do in that connection and what not to do,but we have to learn on our own way and who knows why was that like it was. I have the same way on this journey, I cried he pulled away and now after one year no contact, he thought also I was crazy and the all co employees thought the same because he was telling them everything, I told him he is my twin I was more spiritual and I awakened first.And I made my life so terrible from that time I just made one mistake after another . I was bad physically and emotionally and financially,loose my job and I am returning now slowly but I am much stronger and better now, only what happens last year he was in my energy field he was draining me so much because I was hurt and in pain and humiliated because of what happened on work everybody was knowing abouth that and I isolated so much because of that, I feel that energy every day and it feels so difficult sometimes but I just don’t think much and look on my life and me to be happy and I found my peace after so long time. Now I understand this kind of connection but what I would not understand is how can someone that is your soul do that to you and why, ok we have not the same mind but I wouldnt do that to nobody, no matter what happens, I don’t blame him anymore but I just can not understand that. And yes he chose another woman to be with I hope he is happy with her. I wanted to give him all love but he didn’t wanted, and it is ok now I accept the situation as it is.And try to live my best life, I just don’t hope anymore and I just don’t wait anymore for him.
After a while though, you kinda get to the point where you express yourself openly and speak your truth and not really care for what others say about you. I've been guided to always speak my truth and care less about what others think. That being said, I won't tell my job or parents because I'm not trying to lose my job or get my folks concerned. That being said, I'll tell other people, particularly those on a spiritual path, yet even many on the spiritual path are either not aware of TFs OR they feel TFs are a menace and should not be allowed in (they'd prefer a loving soulmate and physical connection with someone).
Most of us had to learn this lesson the hard way. I guess that is just how things are supposed to be. We talked to people who we thought we could trust and get advice from.
I have not talked to anyone about this twin flame journey and some of my friends think I need to stop contact with the person who is my twin as Ive felt so hurt on this journey, they would not understand if I told them......My twin has opened me up to loving myself so much that I cant let this go....
there are many people on the internet who unfortunately give the wrong information about twin flames. thus making people on the twinflame journey even more desperate. I was told this week that I have no fewer than 8 twin flames. what a waste of money. thank you kurt for your videos. i live in the netherlands. Wish i could take your course Just to clarify... you only have 1 twin soul? Right?😢
