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@jeremiahsmith450
@jeremiahsmith450 5 месяцев назад
Hearing this guy saying “my financial portfolio” like he’s Warren Buffet is cringe. Then come to find out he’s got $3k is hilarious
@AWesker99
@AWesker99 5 месяцев назад
😂😂😂
@kyhl6159
@kyhl6159 4 месяца назад
😂😂🤣
@kungfoochicken08
@kungfoochicken08 4 месяца назад
Yeah, but you don’t understand. He has 50k in a business that’s so profitable it has debt at 10% APR that it can’t pay off.
@nworthem
@nworthem 2 месяца назад
😄
@darz09
@darz09 8 месяцев назад
The dig at her dyslexia 🚩 "He runs the finances" 🚩 "I don't spend money unless he approves it" 🚩
@sdot5389
@sdot5389 5 месяцев назад
I work as an assistant to an austistic guy running an internet model train shop 🚩
@Gekkco
@Gekkco 4 месяца назад
@@sdot5389she got a master degree to teach art 🚩
@kichigai548
@kichigai548 4 месяца назад
I never allow my wife to speak AT ALL🚩
@curiousGeorgelookingdiggerboy
@curiousGeorgelookingdiggerboy 4 месяца назад
100k debt 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@alicjafalkowska9613
@alicjafalkowska9613 4 месяца назад
Yeah it sounds a little abusive doesn’t it, I mean I do understand that they are in debt but she has no say in anything and he gets to spend whatever whenever. He even authorises what she can and cannot do with her money and him saying ‚oh that’s too much on food’ as well kind of angered me when Caleb always goes for basics and with health in mind
@Fadibahu
@Fadibahu 9 месяцев назад
WHEN HE DOUBLED TAPPED ON HER ARM TO STOP TALKING OMG. CRAZY
@mikeo2682
@mikeo2682 5 месяцев назад
Time
@jchristif
@jchristif 5 месяцев назад
Same. My baby would have gotten the death stare. I wouldn’t do that to him either
@Unapologetically_Feral
@Unapologetically_Feral 5 месяцев назад
WHAT. I missed that. But doesn’t surprise me one bit
@hollowkid97
@hollowkid97 5 месяцев назад
Nun wrong with letting her know she needs to lock in
@awill3454
@awill3454 5 месяцев назад
@mikeo2682 11:30
@ss1234ever
@ss1234ever 10 месяцев назад
This is a scary relationship. Feels like they came to this audit to showcase how “smart” he is and that he is not the problem in any of this. He’s so controlling that he has a job where he “controls” someone else, calling it helping an autistic person. But it puts more control in his hands.
@NicoleLLewis
@NicoleLLewis Месяц назад
Right?! His demeanor is so smug and condescending. It's really off-putting.
@AEMZIFFY1
@AEMZIFFY1 11 месяцев назад
The fact that she doesn't have access to the internet unless her husband is home and gives her access to the hotspot🤢😵
@Lunalane567
@Lunalane567 11 месяцев назад
He’s very controlling
@foobarFR
@foobarFR 11 месяцев назад
That's not the only red flag in this video about their relationship.
@kathleenmcbride1471
@kathleenmcbride1471 11 месяцев назад
No way I would ever allow anyone to do that to me. Rather be dirt poor and alone.
@dixiewinxeqandmore356
@dixiewinxeqandmore356 11 месяцев назад
That's a very traumatizing aspect to experience... ask me how I know
@turnipy88
@turnipy88 11 месяцев назад
She has data
@deannabanana1983
@deannabanana1983 11 месяцев назад
Sis is sitting in a Starbucks right now using the free internet to read comments about how she’s in an abusive relationship. Hopefully this is a big wake up call for her!
@BatmanBeyondBelief
@BatmanBeyondBelief 8 месяцев назад
Yea she needs to take on that debt by herself and grow into her own adult. This aint it
@CrackberryMe
@CrackberryMe 8 месяцев назад
Facts. All Facts !!
@Benedict00_ItchyManko
@Benedict00_ItchyManko 7 месяцев назад
Yeah she's lucky he's stayed thing long and is willing to help her. She gotta go
@sanjicook08
@sanjicook08 6 месяцев назад
Yeah she should leave him and relieve him of her incredibly irresponsible (hidden) student loans! She obviously uses her crying on command as an abusive tactic.
@HazmatFatCat
@HazmatFatCat 6 месяцев назад
Sis needs to be working in that Starbucks as a second job. She's 100k in debt for a masters degree and makes less than her husband who taxis and autistic guy around.
@spencer6044
@spencer6044 7 месяцев назад
“I invested in myself by buying a car…” I don’t think you know what invested means buddy
@kalebjohnson947
@kalebjohnson947 3 месяца назад
E46 M3's will only go up in value
@FreeSmokeWL
@FreeSmokeWL 2 месяца назад
@@kalebjohnson947 not if he’s using it as a track car
@nop2774
@nop2774 Месяц назад
There's a world in which this reasoning makes sense (Maybe getting a car lets you get a more high paying job) but this guy lives like a few universes over.
@jocelynsloan7801
@jocelynsloan7801 Месяц назад
That one got me. You invested in a depreciating asset to improve your hobby skills 😂
@ericakusztos3394
@ericakusztos3394 Месяц назад
I used to have a 2005 330ci ZHP (a step below the M3) and the insurance was crazy at $200 per month (I paid $4700 cash for the car). And anytime something broke it was minimum $300-$400 and my husband was a car mechanic 😅
@triciaknox7824
@triciaknox7824 4 месяца назад
She doesn’t want to talk about finances with him because it’s likely not a discussion. He talks down to her and that would rightlyfully make anyone cry.
@moniquecastelo
@moniquecastelo 11 месяцев назад
girl, if he can pay $80 dollars a month for car insurance on a toy, you can have Wi-Fi at home, I'm non-confrontational but damn 😮 stand up for yourself
@AnalyticalMenace
@AnalyticalMenace 11 месяцев назад
There are about several dozen red flags that pop up throughout this entire conversation. I don't wanna be "that guy" buuuuut....I don't see this marriage lasting more than a few years. Not without some serious marital counseling/intervention, at least.
@Allison_Hart
@Allison_Hart 11 месяцев назад
Yeah and then he tapped her arm at 11:32 like "stop talking" that was hella weird
@OhsoWoobie
@OhsoWoobie 11 месяцев назад
she already acts like she can't stand him. I'm shocked they just recently got married, you'd think they'd be in honeymoon phase.....@@AnalyticalMenace
@lindajohnson.
@lindajohnson. 11 месяцев назад
She seems beaten down! I would run as fast as I can to get out of this relationship.😢
@bridgemixx3653
@bridgemixx3653 11 месяцев назад
Well said!!
@marcellom
@marcellom 11 месяцев назад
This dude seems to care more about Caleb thinking he is smart than about his wife's feelings.
@rickyjackson8872
@rickyjackson8872 4 месяца назад
THIS!!! I was loosing it with the UNNECESSARY overly worded explanations. Ugh! The ick. 😂😂
@kungfoochicken08
@kungfoochicken08 4 месяца назад
@@rickyjackson8872The “mathlete” who didn’t understand percentages until a few years ago gets me.
@ryanra44
@ryanra44 9 месяцев назад
As a married person, she needs to RUN…… this relationship with this man will NOT be a healthy. If I tried to run over my wife like that, I would be super divorced
@tiffanyroberts5993
@tiffanyroberts5993 5 месяцев назад
The fact that he disregarded the “train cake” reiterates the fact that he doesn’t value their wedding, marriage or her family. Run girl, run!
@silverplug
@silverplug 11 месяцев назад
Person: "I work with an autistic gentleman." Screen: *works with autistic dude* ☠️☠️☠️
@buggld
@buggld 11 месяцев назад
LMFAO
@silverplug
@silverplug 11 месяцев назад
@responsibleaccount3918 my best guess is that it was a placeholder that did not get cleaned up at the end.
@maydaze5934
@maydaze5934 11 месяцев назад
It feels like it was on purpose bc he was so vague about it. His real job isn’t driving him around, he’s doing it and getting subsidized by the govt program.
@justkeepswimmin
@justkeepswimmin 11 месяцев назад
I bet it's due to word length and keeping the font a consistent size. But then the guest started calling the "gentleman" a kid over and over, so "dude" doesn't seem so bad...
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 11 месяцев назад
​@@arkive11as an autistc dude i agree😊
@MrsEJV
@MrsEJV 11 месяцев назад
I felt the husband wanted to run the show for Caleb. “We’ll talk about that later”. Everything was “I” or “me”. You’re married my friend. It’s now “our” portfolio, “our” investments, “our” debt.
@alexpbudgets
@alexpbudgets 11 месяцев назад
I know that he's nervous, she's nervous and overwhelmed. But Jesus that guy SPEAKS. there's always a story with him. Infuriating honestly 😅
@jeremygmail
@jeremygmail 11 месяцев назад
He'll learn hopefully. He just got married. Once they got on top of their plan, she will have more confidence and he better watch out! :)
@rest0re871
@rest0re871 11 месяцев назад
Seriously... it's exhausting to watch. I do appreciate what he does occupation wise though.
@Aberrence
@Aberrence 11 месяцев назад
Agreed, feels like he is a control freak. Especially when she has to get his approval on all spending, but he gets to have an BMW to "invest in himself"
@jessdaniel5881
@jessdaniel5881 11 месяцев назад
He definitely seems like he’s trying to sound smart and kind of “show-off”
@user-co5cm7qt7u
@user-co5cm7qt7u 10 месяцев назад
He is a good example of why I tell my girls it’s better to be single then to be in a marriage and be miserable.
@holdonC
@holdonC 8 месяцев назад
It seems she feels no one will take her because of her student debt and he has her convinced she is blessed he married her and her debt.
@richardkm5355
@richardkm5355 8 месяцев назад
@@holdonC And she's right. No financially sound man will get a woman with lots of student debt, and still reckless with money spend g. She better divorce the man, and pay her debts alone. Remember, she's strong and independent and don't need no man. Right?
@chattingman6777
@chattingman6777 7 месяцев назад
The husband is absolutely correct. Look at her situation and flip it would you tell your son or brother to start a relationship with a woman that has 120 thousand student debt. If you say yes then your monsters who don't care about your family.
@richardkm5355
@richardkm5355 7 месяцев назад
@@chattingman6777 exactly
@bo5824
@bo5824 5 месяцев назад
Do you tell your girls that a marriage that isn’t miserable is a realistic option? If not, you are doing them a disservice.
@covermeinadream
@covermeinadream 7 месяцев назад
I would take double her student loan debt before I’d take a man like this.
@kimbus101
@kimbus101 11 месяцев назад
He speaks about his job like he is a special needs professional but he just picks up a colleague and they work on trains together
@jacquigonzalez5447
@jacquigonzalez5447 8 месяцев назад
Who he pays through a government grant to make trains… and Caleb is paid how? And doesn’t have state income tax… but it’s too much to get into. This guys a grifter.
@gregsug1640
@gregsug1640 5 месяцев назад
I'm an intervention specialist and he's not describing any job I'm familiar with...😒
@beetlejuice424
@beetlejuice424 5 месяцев назад
They both lick the windows on the ride to work tho
@hammanta
@hammanta 5 месяцев назад
@@gregsug1640I am as well. He is more than likely a caregiver through Medicaid. I work in Virginia but if I recall right Maryland has fairly good services.
@steph7783
@steph7783 5 месяцев назад
@@beetlejuice424 it's pretty bad how this made me laugh
@by9199
@by9199 11 месяцев назад
“She’s dyslexic” no one asked but he freely shared it 😂
@Dan16673
@Dan16673 11 месяцев назад
Not seeing the reason he married this woman. Must be something We cant see ;)
@joycef8443
@joycef8443 11 месяцев назад
Nice of him
@natashawilliams1694
@natashawilliams1694 11 месяцев назад
I noticed that too.
@DoctorSmartyPants
@DoctorSmartyPants 11 месяцев назад
Not only that, he himself is clearly on the spectrum.
@lindajohnson.
@lindajohnson. 11 месяцев назад
That was unnecessary for him to say she has dyslexia.😊
@Kaine47
@Kaine47 8 месяцев назад
The guy is a narcissist but 6 figure debt for a job making 600 a week is crazy
@andrewworkman9488
@andrewworkman9488 19 дней назад
Yer a doodoo narcissist
@hannah31038
@hannah31038 8 месяцев назад
Thank you Caleb for not talking her down! The tap on the arm cutting her off, the husband constantly explaining HER situation? I really hope that she’s fine…
@kazclaire1007
@kazclaire1007 11 месяцев назад
The fact that he had the audacity to tell her that her insurance is too expensive and her gas is too expensive but he drives an M3 for fun every month or so is ludicrous to me
@Cattlynt
@Cattlynt 11 месяцев назад
This dude is nothing but audacity
@lonestarrk9308
@lonestarrk9308 11 месяцев назад
@@Lunalane567 The pickins get slimmer the older and fatter you get. Remember that.
@pinkisforpimps
@pinkisforpimps 11 месяцев назад
Oh she screwed her life marrying him 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
@whitneywillie4471
@whitneywillie4471 11 месяцев назад
hes investing in himself so its ok
@lonestarrk9308
@lonestarrk9308 11 месяцев назад
@@Lunalane567 It’s not that hard to understand. She married him because she needed help and he was her best, and probably only option.
@aortiz233
@aortiz233 11 месяцев назад
Love how Caleb straight up said “is this healthy?” when she said she doesn’t spend money unless he approves it
@kateburrows7844
@kateburrows7844 11 месяцев назад
This part. He realized their relationship isn't right. That's why he wanted them to go to marriage counseling. I doubt it was really about the debt. I think he wants a therapist to let them both know this shit is abuse.
@krissyrific
@krissyrific 11 месяцев назад
Yes - really proud of Caleb for calling out homeboys bs. “Oh I’ll follow it.” “That’s not how marriage works.”
@23kurtzy
@23kurtzy 11 месяцев назад
Gee I wonder why the person 100k in debt should have someone check what they are purchasing.
@krissyrific
@krissyrific 11 месяцев назад
@@23kurtzy probably not wise to have the expenses checked by the fool who happily took out a loan for a train business with mystery financials.
@ryanstradford9771
@ryanstradford9771 11 месяцев назад
​@@krissyrific the good thing is when you arent in debt you can invest in whatever you want. But if you put yourself 100k in debt you dont get the privilege to spend money on stupid shit anymore. He shouldn't have to approve her on spending anything ideally but if shes shit with managing money if he has to approve her spending it would be best. She may not like it as it limits her. But it can be in her best interest.
@sjnewberg
@sjnewberg 4 месяца назад
Are we sure he’s not really the one with Autism and his dad pays someone to spend the whole day with him so he doesn’t bother everyone at the office.
@azhaircountess9798
@azhaircountess9798 2 месяца назад
😂this had me rolling 😂
@jocelynsloan7801
@jocelynsloan7801 Месяц назад
💀💀💀💀💀
@1da1da
@1da1da Месяц назад
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@Supermoneygang12
@Supermoneygang12 18 дней назад
Yeah his goatee supports your hypothesis
@makvist
@makvist 9 месяцев назад
10 minutes in and I can already tell that the dude is a narcissist and she needs to run away from him
@bowebusi
@bowebusi 11 месяцев назад
Buying an m3 while in debt is absolutely outrageous and irresponsible.
@jeremygmail
@jeremygmail 11 месяцев назад
an old one at that!
@KingCobra023
@KingCobra023 11 месяцев назад
but holy shit so worth it, awesome car
@salo1129
@salo1129 11 месяцев назад
He bought the car before the marriage and he doesn’t any of his own debt. So not exactly irresponsible.
@jeremygmail
@jeremygmail 11 месяцев назад
@@salo1129 I dont disagree with any of your points. I will say though once you get married it is no longer my car but our car. If they can afford the upkeep on the car given what they are trying to get out of, then more power to them. If not, they need to find a better solution. I know from my own personal experience, I had to downsize my really nice car when I got married because the monthly payment was going to break the bank since I got married and then we had a kid right away. I hated having to make that decision but it turned out to be the best one. So here is hoping they can afford for him to keep that car.
@ReddingRed
@ReddingRed 11 месяцев назад
There are the people that want us to forgive their loans and take on the burden, Mr. Biden?
@austink641
@austink641 11 месяцев назад
Five minutes in: Him: “We’ve been married 2 weeks” Her: “3 weeks” Him: “I stand corrected” Her: *rolls eyes This should be a good one…
@RJWaynerium
@RJWaynerium 11 месяцев назад
Honestly who cares lmao
@Sar-ahG
@Sar-ahG 11 месяцев назад
I found it funny she was a stickler for that and then a few minutes later she didn’t know how many years they had been together
@esmeraldaparker2137
@esmeraldaparker2137 11 месяцев назад
​@Sar-ahG I mean they literally just got married though and a marriage date is a huge important date to remember compared to their first date/when and if he asked her out date
@Prometeus21LcEvent
@Prometeus21LcEvent 11 месяцев назад
11:30 the tap :D
@Notorious_Grey
@Notorious_Grey 11 месяцев назад
@@esmeraldaparker2137 I wouldn't die on that hill. Your time together is more important than your wedding party.
@francescaclaire3121
@francescaclaire3121 6 месяцев назад
I’m scared he married her because he knew she could never afford to leave him
@craigfox1572
@craigfox1572 9 месяцев назад
The INTERNET leaves when he leaves the house????
@rebeltango
@rebeltango 11 месяцев назад
"That's just the framework of my brain. Engineering and math. I love it." Says the man who had no financial plan before sitting down for this show, as though he came up with a 2.5 year plan to pay down their debt all by himself.
@Raphanne
@Raphanne 11 месяцев назад
And wants to buy a company without knowing anything about it's viability. He sounds so smug and self-congratulatory.
@plasmacakes
@plasmacakes 11 месяцев назад
That line got me...he is RIDICULOUSLY smug 🤡
@christinewatson1989
@christinewatson1989 11 месяцев назад
I have SEVERE dyscalculia (fancy talk for retarded at math) and I can manage money and stay out of debt. He's NOT a math person if someone with a math IQ of 68 is doing better than him!
@Aardvark8
@Aardvark8 11 месяцев назад
I just got there and had to pause the video…. I actually have had to pause so many times just to compose myself.
@theconservationist5662
@theconservationist5662 10 месяцев назад
And felt the need to mention he was previosly a mathlete lmao
@fiestygemini2379
@fiestygemini2379 11 месяцев назад
I understand the husband is more financially "aware" than the wife but the first 11 minutes he really grated me! He interrupted and would not let her talk. How will she learn?! I can't see him working with someone with a disability as he takes over.
@Angela-ne9cy
@Angela-ne9cy 11 месяцев назад
AGREE!! I couldn't tell if he was just nervous or if he was truly as controlling as he seemed.
@minifern7733
@minifern7733 11 месяцев назад
Did you see the tap on the hand when she tried talking 😢
@missmia196
@missmia196 11 месяцев назад
​@@minifern7733yes I JUST saw that & ran to the comments!!
@DobberOT
@DobberOT 11 месяцев назад
Omfg yes. So annoying
@stampinprn
@stampinprn 11 месяцев назад
He is annoying and controlling. I don’t see them lasting unless he changes.
@Wilma.Flintstone
@Wilma.Flintstone 10 месяцев назад
The look on her face at the beginning while he's describing his job is telling, it's clear she's fed up with his bullcrap
@techboy95
@techboy95 9 месяцев назад
So there was something huge missed here. Miss private school art teacher is severely underpaid and it doesn’t matter that this is just her 2nd year as a teacher. The *starting* salary for Maryland teachers in Baltimore county public schools is $51,751 and it’s like 1500 more to start out with a masters but instead of maxing out at step 10 it goes all the way up to step 30. I’m sure public schools might be harder to get into and probably require certification, but she should get on that! To substantially boost her income! Oh btw if you are certified then it just goes up from there. Also these numbers I found are from the 2021 school year! I know salaries are a decent bit higher then that in other states so maybe it’s even more in Maryland now too
@francescaclaire3121
@francescaclaire3121 6 месяцев назад
I’m a teacher, and yes, although private schools sound fancier, they actually pay much less than public schools. Theres a chance she doesn’t know that since she doesn’t have a traditional education degree
@2689vjavier
@2689vjavier 2 месяца назад
As a first year teacher with a masters she would be at 63456 a year in the area she leaves in. She may have to take a couple classes and tests for her license bit it would be worth it.
@Cattlynt
@Cattlynt 11 месяцев назад
This is a borderline financially abusive relationship. He controls her spending. She has to go to his parents to use the Internet. He cuts her off when she talks about his spending. He has admitted multiple times to causing the bulk of the frivolous spending, yet he questions all her purchases? He’s thrown $50k into a business that he doesn’t know the financial health of, yet he holds her debt over her head. Honey. Get out. Quickly. Edit: if you doubt his controlling behavior, catch the double tap at 11:30 effectively telling her to shut up. Gross!
@TsbzNick
@TsbzNick 11 месяцев назад
Borderline abusive relationship
@bonnuitmonchere
@bonnuitmonchere 11 месяцев назад
COMPLETELY agree
@pixygypsy
@pixygypsy 11 месяцев назад
1,000% THIS
@louelaine3680
@louelaine3680 11 месяцев назад
He can get out anytime. As long as he has $50,000 to pay off half her debt.
@user-bi2kf1ns8u
@user-bi2kf1ns8u 11 месяцев назад
yep, exactly. i'm worried for her
@MegVanAbi
@MegVanAbi 11 месяцев назад
I liked when Caleb asked how much they had in savings and the husband started on another tangent, the wife snickered when Caleb shut him down and made him get to the point. 🤣
@lindajohnson.
@lindajohnson. 11 месяцев назад
Caleb, has to cut him off before he starts bragging again.😢
@Infamouscujo
@Infamouscujo 11 месяцев назад
Lol I paused the video at that part to find this comment. I giggled , I'm like I'm not the only person who thought that. This guy must do this ALLLLL the time, that's why she laughed
@PolishedMobileDetailing503
@PolishedMobileDetailing503 11 месяцев назад
that happened, I laughed, and read this comment about it all at the same time.
@deirdrekiely6187
@deirdrekiely6187 11 месяцев назад
this guy LOVES to dodge questions because when he has to answer them you see how little he has to show for his bragging.
@trubin12
@trubin12 11 месяцев назад
Oh I just saw that and Im sure she feels good about him being put in his place
@Ansmousoeesoj
@Ansmousoeesoj 8 месяцев назад
He can’t afford wifi for her but he can race a BMW?
@AWesker99
@AWesker99 5 месяцев назад
An old slow POS BMW...
@HeatherLynn-bs9js
@HeatherLynn-bs9js 5 месяцев назад
I want the video post-divorce.
@alexdatoss8962
@alexdatoss8962 20 дней назад
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@user-vu6lm7xm8r
@user-vu6lm7xm8r 11 месяцев назад
Girl. It is alarming listening to this conversation. Money aside, he controls everything. You can't even be on the internet in your own home without him there. Listening to him talk over you and even Caleb is wild. And let me tell you, you will eclipse him with your job and salary. He talks a big talk but $28/hour at his age, with no career trajectory, he is holding your debt over your head instead of seeing it as shared debt now that you're married. Take control of your finances and learn about your money. You have a masters and are a badass. Get it girl.
@Alexis-ec9cl
@Alexis-ec9cl 11 месяцев назад
I agree. I hope she sees this. Many educators have 70-100k in debt. You can get some of that forgivin. Don’t let him make you feel bad. It’s normal
@csx6910
@csx6910 11 месяцев назад
Since he was fool enough to marry her and put himself on the line for her stupidity, he has every right to dictate to her what they're going to do because even though his career isn't all tat hot, it's better than what she has going on. He's essentially married to someone that needs to be taken care of.
@Cattlynt
@Cattlynt 11 месяцев назад
@@csx6910he has absolutely NO RIGHT to treat her this way, it’s downright abusive. Especially as he has shown he cannot be fiscally responsible at all, adding debt, out of control spending, and dumbass investments. He knew what he was getting himself into with her… I don’t think she realizes what she was getting into.
@tranquil5892
@tranquil5892 11 месяцев назад
I was on board w the comment until we decided she’s a badass. weird addition.
@mmmd3429
@mmmd3429 11 месяцев назад
​@@Alexis-ec9clShe can definitely move to a school with teacher loan forgiveness. She will have hoops to jump through but is worth it. She could accelerate past his wages in 2 or so years. Possibly sooner if she moved states.
@mirandalgriffin
@mirandalgriffin 11 месяцев назад
WE’RE cutting back to contribute to MY portfolio. Willing to take from her but not willing to identify the portfolio as theirs? Red flag.
@Dr.McMuffin
@Dr.McMuffin 7 месяцев назад
Married 3 weeks, and CLEARLY unhappy with eachother. ooofdah
@miketexas4549
@miketexas4549 5 месяцев назад
Ma'am if you're reading this. RUN. Run away from this man and never look back.
@thefaultywaffle7841
@thefaultywaffle7841 11 месяцев назад
He is very very controlling, almost mentally abusive to her. He has to have the final say, doesn’t let her speak, and is a Mr. Know it all. Gotta love it.
@nomoregunsinthevalley
@nomoregunsinthevalley 11 месяцев назад
Yes his attitude in this is not saying good things about him…
@willytodd2750
@willytodd2750 11 месяцев назад
someone has to take control when the other person is taking out hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt to teach kids to finger paint. Sounds like the woman makes horrible decisions, wow woah what a shocker.
@AnalyticalMenace
@AnalyticalMenace 11 месяцев назад
I sincerely hope the both of them watch this episode afterwards. They need the wake up call.
@aidanealy5078
@aidanealy5078 11 месяцев назад
Massive Cuck energy they shouldn’t be together 😂😂😂
@Lunalane567
@Lunalane567 11 месяцев назад
Yeah he’s horrid
@Kle34
@Kle34 11 месяцев назад
Came for the financial audit, stayed for the relationship drama
@6499SM
@6499SM 9 месяцев назад
Caleb, you handled her emotions with so much grace. She really needed that bit of comfort you gave her. I hope she sticks to the plan. The journey is not always linear, but if they continue, it is achievable 🙏
@dontmindmeimnobody
@dontmindmeimnobody 3 месяца назад
caleb: this isn’t about who brought what into the marriage it’s about handling it as a team, it’s not constructive or helpful to place blame or feel guilty about it caleb’s title: Wife brought $100,000 of private student loans into marriage
@margaretf667
@margaretf667 11 месяцев назад
The audacity of this guy telling Caleb 'we will get into the later' 😂 omg, I would not have the patience.
@wellsdavidj
@wellsdavidj 11 месяцев назад
Anyone else get the vibe he does what he wants, and all of this is her fault? If he feels that way they aren't going to last much longer.
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 11 месяцев назад
Yeea😊
@whitneywillie4471
@whitneywillie4471 11 месяцев назад
yeah he seems like a know it all who only came here hoping Caleb would praise him and chastise his wife..smh
@pixygypsy
@pixygypsy 11 месяцев назад
For real. It seriously seems like he is disgusted by her, and expects to be sung praises, while just piling all the guilt on his spouse, right in front of her.
@louelaine3680
@louelaine3680 11 месяцев назад
I guess you could say he married $100,000 worth of debt. For better or worse!
@Doctor_Riptide
@Doctor_Riptide 11 месяцев назад
I mean he wasn't exactly subtle about it. Constant venom coming out of his mouth the entire interview.
@cracked229
@cracked229 6 месяцев назад
Why do people say they are "based" out of a location. Homie, you live there. You're not "based" there. You're not a multinational corporation.
@SapphicSista
@SapphicSista 7 месяцев назад
Caleb needs to utilize a risk assessment for financial abuse as part of his guest application process. Several of his last videos have me deeply concerned.
@katjones4840
@katjones4840 7 месяцев назад
I’m glad he encourages therapy cuz most of them seem to need it.
@ryanlemmers5300
@ryanlemmers5300 11 месяцев назад
This was the most painful audit yet. The narcissism coming of the dude is seriously creepy.
@zoer8225
@zoer8225 11 месяцев назад
I’ve never been this triggered by an audit but it feels like Caleb saw right through him
@Twinkie989
@Twinkie989 11 месяцев назад
He's as bad as Taquitos dude, but at least Taquitos dude stayed single.
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 11 месяцев назад
@@Twinkie989 😂
@ryanlemmers5300
@ryanlemmers5300 11 месяцев назад
@@Twinkie989 Math genius and Taquitos boy should hook up and do a couple’s audit 🤣
@andrew8168
@andrew8168 11 месяцев назад
This guy is creepy, annoying, and infuriating all at the same time. Glad he married her tho so we (taxpayers) can recoup the senseless loans she was given.
@elizabethallen4353
@elizabethallen4353 11 месяцев назад
I really liked how Caleb made sure she was heard. If she started a thought, he made sure she had the opportunity to complete it, with his full attention. She needs that.
@heiroot
@heiroot 9 месяцев назад
Caleb always asks if people are living in a safe area, and if things are healthy. He seems like such a great guy
@dorcasia109
@dorcasia109 8 месяцев назад
How is he single, anyways? But seriously he's found a really good place to use his hard earned skills and natural talent. What a blessing!
@LilyEvans1996
@LilyEvans1996 7 месяцев назад
@@dorcasia109right?!?
@MauricioMoreno-fz4oo
@MauricioMoreno-fz4oo 6 месяцев назад
@@dorcasia109 In a recent video, he mentioned he was dating now
@The_Natalist
@The_Natalist 5 месяцев назад
​@@dorcasia109 Bet its because he's overweight and busy, i have the same problem
@angeleyez4lyfe
@angeleyez4lyfe 5 месяцев назад
14 minutes in and all I keep saying to myself is this guy thinks too highly of himself and needs to be humbled while this girl needs to get out of this relationship, go back home with her parents and sort herself out financially and emotionally. MY GOD...the double tap on the arm is SENDING ME...
@maize3239
@maize3239 11 месяцев назад
It makes me so uncomfortable when parents don't tell kids about payments and loans KNOWING THE KID WILL HAVE TO PAY IT OFF LATER. Insane.
@louelaine3680
@louelaine3680 11 месяцев назад
This was a grown woman who took on the debt, not a "kid". Her father took the debt on willingly. Did he do her or himself a favour? NO.
@jaynez9027
@jaynez9027 11 месяцев назад
@@louelaine3680 you typically choose what school you’re going to and fill out paperwork when you’re 17 or 18 so she possibly was a child.
@jaynez9027
@jaynez9027 11 месяцев назад
For undergrad at least, masters I agree
@BigTummyAche
@BigTummyAche 11 месяцев назад
I was thinking about this. Responsibility on the parents of course, however I def wouldn’t float around in college like “whose paying for this…” Especially after graduating.
@mikemcniel3086
@mikemcniel3086 11 месяцев назад
I completely agree with this and my dad was a loan officer for over 30 years 😢...its the one that I frowned upon him as a father looking back growing up now I'm 41 and still nothing 😞
@juliet4521
@juliet4521 11 месяцев назад
3 weeks married and already seeing and hearing the tension. Oy I wish them well
@voteforsomeonelse
@voteforsomeonelse 9 месяцев назад
This guy took years off my life. I feel horrible for the wife and I don't know how she or anyone else could be with this guy for a single date... much less get married 😭
@claff4573
@claff4573 9 месяцев назад
Yeah he doesn't seem interesting and acts really odd. Like dude, give your wife a break, i'm sure she has to hear him trying to sound smart 24/7 lol
@courtneyharris1006
@courtneyharris1006 9 месяцев назад
She came in with 100k debt. They were both looking for a sucker so they deserve each other
@crystalwarren5718
@crystalwarren5718 9 месяцев назад
I find it odd he doesn't know his own job title.😂 He is a Job Coach. I did the same job. You are a Job Coach for people with disabilities.
@allthatsheiz
@allthatsheiz 5 месяцев назад
Cause he isn’t coming to it with a coaching spirit. He is a controller. That indeed is not a sanctioned job. 😂
@breakingrocks6388
@breakingrocks6388 11 месяцев назад
He refuses to talk about his income from a business he claims he has sunk nearly $50k into, claims he doesn’t want discuss that income, and then claims he just holding the debt. In other words, he’s funding toys for him and daddy. His answers are so convoluted and shady.
@SrKinko
@SrKinko 11 месяцев назад
100k in debt and he went for a broken e46 M3. Legend. After watching more their dynamic is pretty bad. Her having to use Caleb as a mediator to get pet insurance added to the budget was 😬
@DjCheffolo
@DjCheffolo 11 месяцев назад
Such a stupid car to buy
@floridamanHooning
@floridamanHooning 11 месяцев назад
Us car guys do not make solid financial decisions LOL... I'm doing all in my power right now to NOT buy a mid 80s corolla station wagon or a Volvo 300td
@lisapvpv
@lisapvpv 11 месяцев назад
​@@floridamanHooning😂😂😂oh my!
@chaselesser3191
@chaselesser3191 11 месяцев назад
I think he already had the car. And not a loan or anything on the car. It was just maintenance he had to do on it. Sometimes you have to do maintenance on a car. Some are worth it. Some aren’t. 2005 M3 might not be as reliable so maybe not worth it, vs a cheaper Toyota of the same year.
@johnnycisneros8722
@johnnycisneros8722 11 месяцев назад
​@@chaselesser3191he said he bought it last year
@YaBoyPhones
@YaBoyPhones 9 месяцев назад
If you’re in highschool watching this. Please go to community college. Do not waste 2 years of Gen-Ed credits and 40+ thousand dollars of money you don’t have. I thank my father every. Single. Day. Of my life for forcing me to go to community college. 17-18 year old me had no idea the situation about how important that money saving decision would help me.
@user-ny5xe2hx7t
@user-ny5xe2hx7t 10 месяцев назад
Most rich people stay rich by spending like the poor and investing without no stopping then most poor people stay poor by spending like the rich yet not investing like the rich but impressing them
@SandraPatterson-di6xh
@SandraPatterson-di6xh 10 месяцев назад
I'm glad I was introduced to forex trading and got the best teacher and mentor who helped me understand the financial market l'm grateful to Mrs Shanita 🙏🏻
@LeonorFerreira-ur5th
@LeonorFerreira-ur5th 10 месяцев назад
@@ClaudiaLiberti You don't need to be shocked because I'm also a huge beneficiary of expert Mrs Shanita
@DaltonLeidemer
@DaltonLeidemer 10 месяцев назад
Here in Canada Expert Mrs Shanita Creswell carries out both orientation and mentorship
@MarcosAlonso-wx8uw
@MarcosAlonso-wx8uw 10 месяцев назад
I stumbled upon one of her clients testimonies and decided to try her out... I'm Expecting my third cashout in 2days
@AnaOliveira-io1hx
@AnaOliveira-io1hx 10 месяцев назад
I remember friends calling me crazy when I started but i now shut them up with my four Figure weekly returned
@mariocastellanos8231
@mariocastellanos8231 11 месяцев назад
The husband needs to chill. That's your wife. Your life partner. The relationship is that of a parent and a trouble child who gets her cellphone taken away as a punishment. Not letting your wife spend her own money and having to APPROVE it is very alarming. Most cringe moments: She: "I don't spend anything unless he approves it" Later... Her: "You lay it out so simple and I'm wondering if WE can actually follow it" (emphasis on "we") Him (arrogantly): "Oh, I'LL follow it" (emphasis on "I'LL" This does not seem to be an equal marriage where both parties make decisions together. This is a marriage governed by a dictator. Ladies, if you're in a relationship where your significant other needs to approve your expenses, take a deep look at the relationship because that's not normal, healthy, or fair.
@IAmebAdger
@IAmebAdger 11 месяцев назад
There is hope yet. He seems to care when she gets unhappy and he admitted it's an unhealthy relationship they have and they need to figure out something healthier.
@Nymphadora45uvyu
@Nymphadora45uvyu 11 месяцев назад
Yes. Wow thank you. You said it so well!!!!
@zoer8225
@zoer8225 11 месяцев назад
And HER car insurance is too much when he has a toy car and can’t use internet unless it’s from HIS phone hot spot.
@StijnLammens
@StijnLammens 11 месяцев назад
11:20 The look he gives her... 11:30 He taps her on the arm because... He wants to do even more of the talking?
@NoESanity
@NoESanity 11 месяцев назад
it's almost like one of them is an admitted shopaholic and the other didn't bring tens of thousands of dollars of debt into the relationship.
@joshuakeller6687
@joshuakeller6687 10 месяцев назад
This guy wants to take over this audit so bad. Props to Caleb for staying professional and keeping this control freak in check.
@robertpalos564
@robertpalos564 6 месяцев назад
Yea, Caleb has alot of patience
@montuckyhomegrown
@montuckyhomegrown 6 месяцев назад
Omg my comment is the exact same 😂
@Vazzini42
@Vazzini42 5 месяцев назад
This guy is spending how much time chasing 5 cent savings on gas and shuffling money around chasing percentages? Paying off big debt takes
@marciareagan2718
@marciareagan2718 5 месяцев назад
This is control. Caleb you did a great job balancing this. I’m From a mental health background and I just keep seeing the shame on peoples faces. The shaming is palpable and sad. Money is energy. Thought provoking.
@hamburgerbrain
@hamburgerbrain 5 месяцев назад
Omg... "Engineering and math ... That's the framework of my brain". 🤮. This guy needs to take several seats.
@Cattlynt
@Cattlynt 11 месяцев назад
To clarify his business involvement… he does not have equity, nor ownership of this private business, he ONLY owns the debt. Meaning he’s not entitled to any of the profits or success of the business, he can only be paid the fixed amount of the debt plus any interest. This is NOT an investment. This is a banking transaction. And a ridiculously silly one at that. He has no idea what the financial operations or overall health of the business is, yet he went and bought the debt. This is far too much risk for far too little financial gain. You’re not a bank and this is not a proper retirement strategy.
@glitterstarbeau
@glitterstarbeau 11 месяцев назад
He seems like he thinks he's smart, but he is dumb.
@nickhendrie8681
@nickhendrie8681 11 месяцев назад
I’m sorry but the husband is a creep. Sounds very controlling to me. She can’t spend money without his say so? Sounds like she has no hobbies but he’s not even considering giving up ‘track racing’ and the Wi-Fi is connected to his phone and leaves whenever he does??? 🚨 🚨 🚨
@kariforgie457
@kariforgie457 3 месяца назад
Caleb...you were so kind and supportive with the wife....kudos!!!
@racheyl891
@racheyl891 5 месяцев назад
Girl. Read these comments please and show your dad. No dad would want this for his daughter
@killamb
@killamb 11 месяцев назад
Nobody on this show can ever communicate clearly and effectively. Talking in circles and long complicated stories whenever asked a simple question. Caleb is a saint for his patience.
@Quirkney
@Quirkney 11 месяцев назад
What drives me wild is what they don’t know some basic fact Caleb would inevitably ask. “How much do you make?” Is definitely an expected question they could have a note of, but looking at how long that part was plus the editing… well that suggests it took awhile to find out.
@killamb
@killamb 11 месяцев назад
@@Quirkney half of them can’t even answer “what do you do?” Without rambling for minutes
@dabrick100
@dabrick100 11 месяцев назад
@@killamb Right, it should be one simple sentence. "I'm a teacher at a private school and I make $/yr". "I'm a work aid for autistic clients and I make $/hr". Instead with this guy its "I do this thing that has no name and well the job pays me but only because of the government, but lets not talk about me because my wife has sooo much debt and oh yeah its okay because i have this business thing but i wont actually tell you the details but trust me guy"
@erikgutierrez3613
@erikgutierrez3613 11 месяцев назад
People want to beat him to the punch and explain/justify themselves. Just my pair of pennies tho. Could be wrong.
@trinawms3749
@trinawms3749 11 месяцев назад
Yesssss😂😂😂😂😂
@SUlCUNE
@SUlCUNE 11 месяцев назад
Surprised Caleb didn't immediately say "f you, sell the car" when this guy has a race track car while his wife is too afraid of buying ANYTHING because of the weight of this situation. When you get married that needs to be realigned to 50/50 or no paid for fun for a situation like this.
@vhateverlie
@vhateverlie 11 месяцев назад
I'm also surprised. Considering how much of a hard time he gives to the Blue collar mechanics who at least use their tools for work. I'm also surprised they got married considering her Debt. I'm not sure if he understands that now 50% of her debt is his and 50% of his assets are now hers....
@SUlCUNE
@SUlCUNE 11 месяцев назад
@@vhateverlie I married my wife knowing I effectively am taking on her student loan debt. We just aligned financially before we got married instead of acting like it wasn't something we needed to prepare for beforehand. He shouldn't have bought that stupid car and either invested the money or just held it in a HYSA for the period they were engaged. They could have had money saved individually to just throw at the student loans as soon as they were married instead of pushing off preparing until after they're married.
@vhateverlie
@vhateverlie 11 месяцев назад
@@SUlCUNE agree, man did not get clowned on hard enough for spending all that money on a 20 year old car for the track. Meanwhile your wife is like "I don't spend any money because I can't." Your husband is literally burning through it with fuel, tires, and parts....
@glitterstarbeau
@glitterstarbeau 11 месяцев назад
​@@vhateverliethat isn't the case in most states. Premarital debt belongs to the person who brought it in
@kate39826
@kate39826 11 месяцев назад
He gets to have a bmw and do track days but she cant have internet when hes not around.
@christophervines9756
@christophervines9756 5 месяцев назад
This guy was the 4th smartest person in his graduating high school class of 12. He used the wrong "big word" at least 5 times.
@Ali-je7tt
@Ali-je7tt 4 месяца назад
This man was a mathlete in 8th grade, put some respect on his name
@haveaday66
@haveaday66 9 месяцев назад
GIRL GET OUT. This guy is super controlling and toxic. (And then deal with all your toxic debt - but tbh deal with the toxic husband first)
@aliciahull
@aliciahull 11 месяцев назад
Girl, run! It’s early enough in the marriage. At so many moments his narcissism is evident, and knowing a few women in these relationships, she appears emotionally/mentally abused. even the way he’s adversarial with Caleb, it’s red flag after red flag 😔
@crazyguywatchnu
@crazyguywatchnu 11 месяцев назад
Lol she is the red flag. All that debt is awful
@Sar-ahG
@Sar-ahG 11 месяцев назад
He would be a better off without her
@razor4059
@razor4059 11 месяцев назад
They both would be better off financially. Now if they are married for a few years, she may be able to “transfer” some of here student loan payments (not loans, payments) to him in the divorse.
@Twinkie989
@Twinkie989 11 месяцев назад
I completely agree. I am divorcing a narcissist now and I wish there was as much education about this personality disorder back when I was new to this. He is only going to get worse and she is too good for him.
@mewlover2482
@mewlover2482 11 месяцев назад
​@@crazyguywatchnuSo her having a lot of debt from college (which many Americans have some type of college debt) is more of a red flag than someone outright saying he controls every bit of finances, controls the internet and talks over her?
@PrincessAudi
@PrincessAudi 11 месяцев назад
I worry for her and hope she didn't get trapped in an abusive relationship.
@ycombine1053
@ycombine1053 11 месяцев назад
Agreed. He does come off pretty controlling. Hopefully there's not more going on
@freedomfrida
@freedomfrida 11 месяцев назад
Ya I'm in only 10 mins and it looks like she's trying to make herself look small. 😥
@justinlarsen2281
@justinlarsen2281 11 месяцев назад
100k of debt for a useless degree to get a useless job… maybe she’s the abusive one
@ycombine1053
@ycombine1053 11 месяцев назад
@@justinlarsen2281weird take
@lorenzovonmatterhorn7402
@lorenzovonmatterhorn7402 11 месяцев назад
ACtually he got trapped.. shows you how much you know.
@jsedge2473
@jsedge2473 7 месяцев назад
This guy wont even let her have wifi lol. Said if she needs to use the Internet she can come to him. That is the most insane thing about all of this. INSANE control move.
@MHfanClub13035
@MHfanClub13035 3 месяца назад
He just learned the word portfolio.
@lauravterrazas
@lauravterrazas 11 месяцев назад
The amount of frustration and annoyance between them in only 3 weeks of marriage is a little scary 😬
@jimbomacgee3499
@jimbomacgee3499 8 месяцев назад
Most marriages are probably like this tbh
@sunnyday4055
@sunnyday4055 5 месяцев назад
@@jimbomacgee3499 Not after 3 weeks 😭😭
@churchofmarcus
@churchofmarcus 5 месяцев назад
​@@sunnyday4055they are when one partner has 100k in debt and nothing to show for it. There is NO way this isn't an instant stressor in a relationship.
@Modernparadoxx
@Modernparadoxx 5 месяцев назад
Yeah having that much debt does that 😂
@danielllexo7659
@danielllexo7659 11 месяцев назад
You could tell Caleb was so annoyed with the guy but he was being so nice and calm towards the wife 🤣
@Twinkie989
@Twinkie989 11 месяцев назад
This is the difference between someone being outspoken and firm (Caleb) and having a personality disorder (Mr. Covert Narc over there).
@87clits
@87clits 11 месяцев назад
He knows he's a total jackwagon.
@xaphan8581
@xaphan8581 11 месяцев назад
Agreed, they come on here to get help and he acted like a douche bag
@TheWombat2012
@TheWombat2012 8 месяцев назад
Why not criticise HER for racking up the huge debt and yet still being “a big spender”?? She is the one to blame who needs to be reigned in. That guy shouldn’t have even considered marrying her.
@TheWombat2012
@TheWombat2012 8 месяцев назад
@@87clitsso he shouldn’t help her control her “big spending” ways and help her try to address the massive debt she hid from him?
@lalalal_ysa
@lalalal_ysa 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this Caleb. Your audits specially on couples, reminds me to better the shit out of me first before dating and/ or be committed with someone.❤
@EdgeBauer
@EdgeBauer 10 месяцев назад
Married 2 weeks ago, and she is CLEARLY unhappy with the decision! Hahaha Girl, get your finances in place, make a “secret” cushion without telling him and once you’re secure, DROP his @$$!!!
@GoldieGirl2
@GoldieGirl2 11 месяцев назад
This episode makes me realize how much more enjoyable it is when Caleb talks more than his guests 😅
@makaylaf7210
@makaylaf7210 11 месяцев назад
I can’t stand this guy. He is very controlling and walks all over his wife. It’s really sad they just got married. She needs to run.
@Lucyely
@Lucyely 11 месяцев назад
YES! I hope she reads all the comments and RUNS 😬😬😬
@lindawilson8434
@lindawilson8434 11 месяцев назад
I feel so bad for her Maybe her dad will see this
@taramarie3899
@taramarie3899 11 месяцев назад
Right! He’s just totally full of shit. He can enjoy his hobby, but she can’t? Gross
@NannaP27
@NannaP27 10 месяцев назад
Annulment ASAP
@davenunyabusiness4893
@davenunyabusiness4893 5 месяцев назад
@@NannaP27 he would be blessed if he got rid of her from his life. He needs her like another hole in the head. She is a lead anchor on his life.
@seeman24
@seeman24 7 месяцев назад
He screams "Dunning-Kruger effect"
@SneakyCatAgent
@SneakyCatAgent 8 месяцев назад
I love how to camera turned to caleb when she got emotional, so much respect ❤
@ChiefKene
@ChiefKene 11 месяцев назад
I’m happy Caleb was a little snotty with the dude. His wife needed that, you can tell he talks a lot and his wife is a sweet lady who just puts up with it. Everytime Caleb got a little feisty with him, you see that smirk on his wife face lol
@kateeve5717
@kateeve5717 11 месяцев назад
This guy holds her student loan debt over her head, controls her because of it, but isn't actually paying it off?? WHAT? He seems 100% happy to let her parents pay it until they die. This was a painful watch.
@Buxtonphil
@Buxtonphil 11 месяцев назад
Yeah. This marriage can’t last. He’s definitely controlling her emotions are understandable
@Tontisimo
@Tontisimo 11 месяцев назад
No accountability for taking on 100k in debt. Okkk
@kateeve5717
@kateeve5717 11 месяцев назад
@@Tontisimo where did she not take accountability? He knowingly married her with the debt she had, it’s wild that he holds it over her. Accountability of personal debt is not having someone controlling you.
@nattypatty3667
@nattypatty3667 10 месяцев назад
​@@kateeve5717She married him KNOWING this is how he behaves. She SHOULD accept it
@fionamulrennan5458
@fionamulrennan5458 10 месяцев назад
The husband is hard to listen too.. the wife is so sweet.. I would rather be single forever, then spend 1 minute in his company.. he loves the blame game.
@MissMosierable
@MissMosierable 2 месяца назад
I live near where these people do. She is commuting 45mins to an hour daily for work. A Baltimore County public high school teacher starts at over $50,000 per year for 10 months. People with master's degrees make more. Why is she at a private school for much less compared to what public pays? That's so foolish. The retirement and benefits alone are worth the switch. My spouse works in Howard County where they live. Ellicott City is the most expensive part of HoCo. HoCo is one of the most expensive places in MD to live. We couldn't afford to live there and moved a bit further out. In the next 2-5 years all teachers with 0 experience and a BS will start at $60,000 per 10 month year. Moreover, after 10 years with a public school, they will wipe all of her loan debt through a government employment loan forgiveness program. I know this is old, but I feel like someone needs to point out all of this foolishness.
@canileaveitblank1476
@canileaveitblank1476 5 месяцев назад
If your major is a “Studies” field, STOP!
@deni6276
@deni6276 11 месяцев назад
I remember a time when we were wanting couples to actually come on together and now we have some. Love to see it
@fucuszullanti7877
@fucuszullanti7877 11 месяцев назад
what, 2 weeks ago? yeah you should remember that
@deni6276
@deni6276 11 месяцев назад
​@@fucuszullanti7877what? 😂
@Sadreath
@Sadreath 11 месяцев назад
Still waiting for that second microphone stand so one of them does not have to hold the microphone for an hour. With how thick it is it gives me handcramps just watching
@Ixiink
@Ixiink 11 месяцев назад
I agree, it’s been great seeing these episodes!
@Doctor_Riptide
@Doctor_Riptide 11 месяцев назад
@@fucuszullanti7877 Caleb only just recently starting doing couple's interviews like 3 weeks ago, this being the third. People were asking for couples to come on together since it doesn't make sense for one half of a married couple to be on without the other.
@Wenisssss
@Wenisssss 11 месяцев назад
Boy that guy is throwing his new wife under the bus pretty hard within the first 15 minutes.
@vjs4539
@vjs4539 11 месяцев назад
He has every right to be pissed. She's a total idiot for wasting money on useless degrees.
@Wenisssss
@Wenisssss 11 месяцев назад
I take this back. This guy thinks he knows how to do everything and he’s a complete mess.
@willytodd2750
@willytodd2750 11 месяцев назад
@@Wenisssss it's literally his job to do all the talking for the mentally feeble, he should get paid for working with the wife.
@Allison_Hart
@Allison_Hart 11 месяцев назад
​@@willytodd2750 He married her knowing about the debt, he had every chance to leave. Also she is clearly a normally functioning person other than her dyslexia. This is such a cruel comment and can't imagine what would have possessed you to make it.
@willytodd2750
@willytodd2750 11 месяцев назад
@@Allison_Hart She took out a hundred thousand in debt to teach art. She's dumb. Sorry not sorry.
@gabyr7000
@gabyr7000 9 месяцев назад
I’m glad you’ve been having more couples on the show recently!
@Immortaltrashbagwithhands
@Immortaltrashbagwithhands 2 месяца назад
She's like "that's my birth control" in a tone that says"absolutely NOT having his babies; do not question this expense."
@rangequeen
@rangequeen 11 месяцев назад
Totally off topic but is it possible to file for divorce on someone else’s behalf? 🤦🏻‍♀️
@jacquigonzalez5447
@jacquigonzalez5447 8 месяцев назад
You can if they blink twice.
@newworldbro
@newworldbro 7 месяцев назад
lol
@Angela-ne9cy
@Angela-ne9cy 11 месяцев назад
Ummm....she can't spend anything without asking his permission? He talks over her, low-key belittles her, and essentially controls what she can do - sounds like a really unhealthy relationship to me. Only three weeks in. Yikes!
@willytodd2750
@willytodd2750 11 месяцев назад
She took out a hundred thousand dollars in debt so she could teach kids to fingerpaint and make almost nothing doing it. What part of that says she needs to be making the decisions around there?
@hornetguy9063
@hornetguy9063 11 месяцев назад
@@willytodd2750yeah I mostly agree with this. I don’t think she should have to ask for permission to buy anything as she is generating an income. But ignoring the financial situation she brought into the household is foolish. Like if we reversed the genders here and it was some economically frugal woman marrying a man who got himself into $30k of personal loan debt in order to gamble it on Bitcoin, would anyone call her controlling if she was kept a tight hold of the household finances?
@Aiffam1
@Aiffam1 11 месяцев назад
​@@willytodd2750using someones debt to belittle them and control them is straight manipulative and controlling. Hope they didn't pay too much for that wedding.
@rest0re871
@rest0re871 11 месяцев назад
​@@Ryan-wx1bi Oh for sure. He probably spends way more than a internet bill on that special octane gas and going to the track. And fixing his BMW, lol. Definitely just seems like another way to control his wife. She made horrible financial decisions but he low key seems abusive.
@Aiffam1
@Aiffam1 11 месяцев назад
​@anon1407he's not paying a single dime towards her debt, and knew the debt before the marriage. He's not a victim lol
@scottbulach
@scottbulach 10 месяцев назад
How comes everyone else that has a stupid car debt he says sell it but this guy has a extra hobby car and no talk of him having to sell it?
@mustuddd
@mustuddd 4 месяца назад
Yeah love how this fucking guy thinks he's smart by saving 2 cents a gallon filling up all the time but then runs track days in an M3 with all the associated expenses (can't be cheaper than my 911)
@mell1650
@mell1650 10 месяцев назад
Appreciate your honesty with them, but also your compassion
@user-gd9ly7fg1c
@user-gd9ly7fg1c 11 месяцев назад
This poor girl. She doesn’t spend any BS money and got herself in some awful student loans. I feel so bad for her :(
@tuffy11111
@tuffy11111 11 месяцев назад
11:33 also looks like she's got a little bit of a toxic relationship
@lorib5323
@lorib5323 11 месяцев назад
me too.. she should bail, he is soooo controlling and thinks all of his choices are just brilliant.
@CaptainFrandy
@CaptainFrandy 11 месяцев назад
@@tuffy11111she didn’t talk too much, hope she’s feeling well
@dangerline95
@dangerline95 11 месяцев назад
@@lorib5323she should bail???? HE should bail….absolutely insane marrying someone with 100k + in debt 😂😂😂
@Sar-ahG
@Sar-ahG 11 месяцев назад
I believe she knew what was going on the whole time
@flyinggeckos123
@flyinggeckos123 11 месяцев назад
The fact that the guy is mirroring Caleb’s language in the beginning “her loans are death, gross!” Red flag for me… he is in this to control her for sure. Bet he gets off on shaming her on the internet.
@BostonMom96
@BostonMom96 9 месяцев назад
Oh gosh I could not stand him. You can tell he is all about him, his portfolio, his car, his job. She was very quiet. Good for her for speaking up for saying she didn’t like how the money was handled.
@kristinageorge2944
@kristinageorge2944 9 месяцев назад
Why does it take some of these people ten minutes to answer how much they make or how much their insurance bill is? It’s wild to me.
@SpiderKillin
@SpiderKillin 11 месяцев назад
Respectfully, you cannot afford "track day" if you have $2k in your savings and this much debt....
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