I have never been made fun of for wearing hair. A “mean girl” that I had gone to school with back in the 90s really has a thing for my husband. She has made comments to him about me having hair loss and why would He want me when he can have her with a full head of hair to pull 🙄. I am sure if she knew that I wear hair now, she and her mean girl friends would make fun of me. They are the main reason why I haven’t come out on Facebook as an alternative hair wearer. Small towns where everyone knows everyone... I don’t live there but my husband works there and he has his own business so the talk will definitely get back to us.
That sort of says a lot about HER and her insecurities though don't you think? She has a thing for your husband, and you got him and that jealousy means she attaches to the one thing she perceives as a weakness. It's not a weakness. In many ways it is a strength. Katy Perry wears wigs on American Idol... if wigs were the death nail to a business, American Idol wouldn't be one of the most successful shows on television
Everyone has their own battles, some are visible in the form of hair loss and some are invisible in the form of jealousy and lack of self worth. She may have hair on her head but there is coal in her heart so she’s already getting beat up internally. If we can help educate and reform the doubters they become allies, maybe?
The girl sounds pathetic and have some serious insecurity issues but you have him and her harassing him is just even more pathetic. Much love from another wig wearer!
Thank you for sharing this heartfelt message. I've received some 'indirect' comments that although subtle, still not easy to hear. I'm wondering what wig and color you are wearing...looks natural and beautiful on you! Thanks again for being a supportive advocate for those of us experiencing hair loss !!!
Thank you for sharing this video. I was a teenager with hairloss and wigs were not an option for me so I wore bandanas. It was hard to deal with kids I thought were friends turn into bullies even dealt with it from adults
I am so sorry that the adults weren’t there to support you - it’s such an important resource to have supportive people to help empower you. And, it’s such a bummer wigs weren’t available. I’m sure you know now how valuable those are in improving confidence. What are some ways you used to cope in such a challenging situation?
@@TheWiggyWoman I didn't, not really and well my family situation was dysfunctional so not much support there. I had 1 or 2 good friends but we didn't talk about it. I would lose myself in books , they could take you wherever you wanted to go....