Dang 언니 !!!! You really spill the real tea here !!! And kinda feels like u really wanted to spill like spill the real tea~ We really ready for that tho~ 🤭🤭🤭
I'm 30 and have never been happier. My life has only gotten better with age, my mental and physical health has never been better, im focusing on education and career.. It's great.
Thanks for this! I’m in my twenties and I find that as I advance in my career my anxiety just gets bigger. This makes me feel hopeful and somewhat comforted.
@@ohyikes5743 i worked a corporate job that gave me anxiety throughout my 20s. Had a mental breakdown, took the time do find my passions. Now i work and study in disaster management and environmental planning. I'm SO MUCH HAPPIER. Do what you need to do to make yourself happy. Life is so short, don't spend it miserably :)
OMG tho brazillian waxing is such a needed topic bc i think most young ladies or even teenagers want to try it but they dont know who to talk to or they are embarrassed to ask about it. so thank you for this!
I truly admire Joan’s independence and impressed with Ashley’s live in the moment mindset. Im already 26 and feel pressured about the future and that stems from society’s expectation of women in a certain age to be in a stable relationship and eventually be married. I enjoyed these content, hopefully you’ll share more guys.
I really related to a lot of these talks. I'm just entering my late 20s and have been living alone during the pandemic. A lot of my female friends are in stable relationships but I'm one of the few people who's still single. It was nice to hear the conversation of 2 people who are still trying to figure out relationship stuff. ☺️ I wish I could come to Korea one day and meet both of you! Stay healthy. ♥️
You are not alone girl! I’m also entering the late 20s stage where everyone is either having stable relationships or getting married and buying houses, investing and expanding their career. During the pandemic I’m also working far away from home and staying alone and that made me to feel even more vulnerable and helpless. I’m the only few ones that’s still single (my entire life) lol but tbh previously I don’t really care. It’s just that for the passed one year I’m starting to feel the adulthood is real. Because of that I kinda had a pretty bad relationship experience and from there I started to learn to love myself more. Just know that you are pretty, you are enough, you are strong. ❤️
I love both of you and everybody who are living alone! It’s not an easy job. But I’m really proud that many of us feeling the power in them. Those who want to have stable relationships, marriage I hope every good thing comes soon 💖 I hope the worst day we live is passed already 🤍
@@wennessa94 it sounds like you're maturing beautifully. Life is all about going through painful experiences and coming out better on the other side. If you're ever feeling lonely just know you have a friend here on RU-vid that you can reach out to at any time :) ♥ and with the rest of Ashley's beautiful community as well. I'm so happy knowing we can all support each other! Stay healthy and keep fighting for your happiness. 🤗 ❤️
I'm 30 now. still single. when in my culture, the girl in my age get married, have a kids, have a settle life. me ? just like this. sometimes I'm feeling down but sometimes just let it flow. btw sorry for my bad English 🙇♀️😬
when i was younger i thought i'd have a career and my own family at 35. now in my late 30's, i'm still wondering what am i doing with my life or if i'm doing it right. most of my friends have settled down and have 2 kids at least. lol. i think life will happen anyway? it's good to plan and have goals but at the same don't beat yourself up too much if you suddenly have to change course. it might be nice to have your own family at this age but if you're single, it also means you can treat your parents more with your earnings and spend more time with them. just try to make the best with what you're given. ❤️
I feel like it's better for people to do things in their own time. There's so much pressure as an adult to be at a certain point depending on your age. I hate it bc I'm in my early 20s and working, but it's not what my parents consider a career so they think I'm on the path to being a loser. Personally I feel like I still have time and don't need to rush
@@abbyl4621 you're right. you're still young and have the time to figure out what you want to do in the long run. :) i hope your parents will eventually understand your view.
I feel like Ashley as much as Joan have so much integrity in their respective fields that anyone not experiencing this on their own would need to be very mature, also pretty self-confident to not try to compensate within a relationship - which blows most guys in their 20s to dust in my experience. I'm just glad to see such a healthy friendship. I'm rooting for you both and I'm in for whatever the future holds. Cheers to you. 🧡
When it comes to boys and dating I can say that I've never experienced the feeling of wanting to have someone to depend on, it is more like wanting to have someone on whom you can rely and genuinely trust them knowing that they truly respect you and want only the best for you.
This is so personal and juicier when you both following these two girls for a long time now. I'm just laughing and rolling my eyes together with them! These two are just so adorably fierce human beings! Love this!❤
This was soooo good. This was so relatable as well, because I'm 26 years old, and there's so much I don't know about regarding life and what I want for myself, and see for myself in the future. Your 20s are a rollercoaster honestly. Felt like I was having a wine night with girlfriends ahah. Ashley please do a video on your 7 year contract, that would be so interesting. Stay safe and healthy ya'll 💚💚💚💚💚💚
Now one of my motto and goal in life is "Never cry for a guy" . I'm so agree with this ! Don't ghost and play games cause we are all older now its so immature. I love this kind of video 💖💕🍵. With all the staff girls always wanted to talked about but some can't. Stay safe Ashley and Joan💕
I didn’t know how much I needed this! It’s hard because I moved to a new area and none of my girls are here with me! And quarantine makes it hard to meet new people. 🤦🏾♀️ But having a glass of wine with y’all was super fun. Thanks for doing this. 💛
I have just turned 21 so this is like having a real conversation with my big sisters. I grew up with 3 older brothers and I lost all my girl friends from highschool when I moved away from home. So just watching this video makes me feel comfortable & happy to have women like me who can talk about stuff like this. I appreciate everything you share ❤️❤️
As a fellow Scorpio, let me just say, Scorpio women are strong and Independent . So it takes a strong and mature man to get us to want to see our lives with them long term. Not to mention we have a BS radar, we just won’t put up with it. We can be brutally honest when we see fit. Love you both!!!
i really love this topic because right now im lost. i have many plans before but now i dont have a guts to pursue those plans. i just realize that enjoying what you have is much more important than pushing yourself too hard just to achieve your goals. just do what makes you happy and always treasure those people who were with you through thick and thin of your lives. thank you so much joan and ashley. you both are amazing people. it really helps me a lot and i will continue to watch your videos coz i learned a lot watching it. Keep safe. Fighting.
1 of the most legit vids I've seen so far... and 2 of the most authentic and coolest girls I wanna meet and have in my life. that's just a wish tho. 😅 cheers to your beautiful friendship Ash x Joan! 🥂🤗🤗
there will be "that" guy who will not get scared with how independent and strong you are, Joan. I found one and I have always related to you because of your personality. So yes, there are still few real Men out there who is strong enough to accept that we are such powerful women. I love this video, such a mature and deep conversation.
Ashley, the way you’re not worried about your future and just being spontaneous in life is such a “P” personality. That’s what perceivers are. You’re definitely an ENFP.
i have never imagined this kind of talk from the celebrities i mean this is so reallllll! and i enjoy it so muchhh thank you for sharing these experiences to us
I wish I could like this video more than once, I love seeing you guys talking like this. Those deep conversations with friends where you talk about anything and everything always feel so comforting and freeing but it's been a while since I got to have one ;_; so I appreciate you sharing this with us
Real talk by real ass women!! I love this so much! I'm a new viewer and I've been gradually seeing some of your videos. Love the content and your personality! I love that young women get to see authentic content and see themselves through you both. A lot of what you've both shared resonated with me so much and affirmed how I feel about myself as a single 24 year old woman
I GET SO EMOTIONAL WATCHING THIS VIDEO OF HOW MUCH YOU GUYS GET ALONG SO WELL AND SO TRUE TO YOURSELF. It hurts more because I don’t have anyone whom I could do these things like you guys do . Tears just roll down.
I love the relationship you and Joan have. Even it is a public vlog where you both can't be 100% open what is totally understandable - we all can feel more connected to you and feeling part of this girls staycation ❤❤❤
something I heard that'd probably help someone: "some days you have bad hair days, some days you can have bad body days so the least you could to your body is respect it"
*These two lovely ladies should do live streaming together or something, but regularly, not just once in a while. I want more girl talks like this. It’s not mere gossip, it’s Girl Talk. I’m really loving it.* *This is the thing: Joan + Ashley Girl Talk is the girl-friend stuff that I need in my life.* ❤️
Its soo fascinating to me how people are the same EVERY WHERE...the fact that I can completly relate to every things those beautiful ladies just said all the way in south korea while sitting in my room in sudan in africa is truly the miricale of the internet😅
Both of you are truly such wonderful and admirable people, there is so much to love about you guys as an individual and even together, your friendship is so genuine and pure! Take care and stay happy, thank you for such a lovely video!!
OMG, that was the most enjoyable rent to watch ever! I am so like Ashley, she resembles me in a lot of things, and Joan is sooooo much like my BF! I miss her so much after watching this. Those times when we spent time, drinking wine and spilling tea about boys, our struggles, and dreams :) Your friendship is special!
I always watch you in Get Real but I’ve never checked your channel out, this is the first vid I looked up AND MAN I LOVE IT, GREAT CONTENT, EDITING AND IVE FOUND OUT ABOUT JOAN!!! I LOVE YOU GUYS AHHHH❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I loved this video! More girl talks please 🙏🏻 next with soobeanie! And hope Joan will continue series of Joan&CO with (kindacool, dahyeshka & gemjem) 🤞🏻because it reminded me of that series.
this was so nice to watch!! i'm always stressing about my future and how it will turn out but u just made me more relaxed and also it's so nice to see independent women
Girl you are breaking the hearts of those delusional girls who think dating idols would be a fairy tale. Please make a video of this deeply. Like interview friends (who are okay with it of course) about the experiences of dating a idol. Because in my head I think it would be a hassle hahaha like they will be more high maintenance, very into themselves. Like models, like I talked to a few and 99 percent were so into themselves only one was so down to earth and he was so super hot. He was very friendly and never took out convos to flirting.
I am not surprised that Joan dated a celebrity because some insider said that the idols we think are like not dating are actually dating influencers anyway love ya two🤍
In 7 years you'll be my age and you've both got your S together so much more than me! 🤣 I'm still just winging it and hoping it all works out. Have goals in life but don't plan as things can change so easily.
I honestly love all ashley vlogs I found it more cool 🙆♀️🥺 and help me understand how to be mature enough🤗 thank you love for all the wonderful contents🤍🤍 love you ashley 😘
As someone in their mid twenties this was sooo refreshing and interesting to hear! I loved the perspective that you guys have about being independent but still thinking about depending on someone. This was really fun and I want an episode 2!!!!!! Ashley x Joan podcast pls 💖🔥
@@lexilouise1994 Pretty sure it was him! I remember looking at the people she tagged in her birthday pictures on Instagram - which was shortly before the breakup - and it included Junoflo then. But a couple weeks later when she talked about her breakup I noticed she wasnt following him anymore. There's only one reason why you would unfollow someone who was at your birthday party.
im glad to hear that other women in my age group has the same thoughts about relationships & marriage. we're all just figuring things out as we grow old.
Both of you have such a close relationship! I wish I had one as well but every one that becomes close will always leave me in the end. I just know that your relationship will go on forever!!! Love from Japan💜