Woman plans a Family with Romance Scammer. 

And especially after the first thing he says after "hello" is "are you married?"

@@joannapebbleworthy9343 Yes. He was very quick which direction this conversation is going to take.

I hear ya Babe

You should watch the video where the female cop gets shot. A male cop calls her baby 500 times.

@@t.j.7789 Oh. Where do I find that?

Lmfao you had me going for a sec😂

you can call her a piggy bank

Hahhaa😂

Haha right!😂

😂😂😂😂right!😂😂

Compared to my ex that's sweet talk 😂

@@MsWill813 aww you made me sad lol

@@COREcasual I got used to it, but that's even more sad. But that's in the past. 😊

It’s so true

And the supposedly well-educated ones are grammatically awkward and poor spellers, and say the most hackneyed things.

He made piles of American dollars at his job in Germany.

Because it's all in a frozen bank account in a foreign country, don't you know? All possibly believable (?), but when an employed person says send me money for food - that's just plain ridiculous.

If the sender was smart they would do a little research and they would find out most of the cards they ask for can only be used for online gaming it can't be used to buy food or any of the crazy stuff the scammer tell's them it's for of course the scammer will sell the gift card online for 80 cents on the dollar.

This should be the top comment. I couldn't sit through the whole video. Was she ever asked about this simple fact directly by the team helping her? It's the first hilarious red flag I'd have questioned her about.

Apparently according to these dillusional people, millionaires need gift cards to come to the US😂😂

ignorance is a bliss

She should have told him she spent all her money at the grocery store. LOL

It's mind boggling these financially successful international businessman doesn't have fifty dollars

@@Adrianafaith123 and also need their bills paid in iTunes gift cards.

Right?

💯

All these silly women doing this need a good slap and told to wake up your dreaming problem is your giving away everything you own for real in your dream crazy.

Also, he accused her of sleeping with her son. Smh. She still talked to him! Mind blowing 🤯

Unfortunately this is a real thing, even amongst real relationships. Some women are quick to have you meet their kids right away, its disgusting. I was with someone for almost a year and I still refused to allow her to meet my young( at the time ) daughter, yet she wanted to introduce me to her kids not even two weeks into the relationship. Some women nowadays have zero sense, and its not fair to the kids.

This is how kids end up sexually abused by their mother's boyfriends.

Yes, people like that have either gone through some things or are very controlling and want to isolate their victim.

Darling have you eaten today?

@@samueljaworski5737 🤣🤣🤣

No. I've sent you so many steam cards I can't afford groceries, my car was repossessed and the food pantry burned down.

@@kfitz192😂😂 not the food pantry 😂

"About" 2 degrees she said. Whatever that isupposed ro mean lol.

He should have stopped her from sending the money.

Education doesn’t always equal wisdom, sadly!

@@anne-elizabethmcgeary1023How?

​@@anne-elizabethmcgeary1023what was he suppose to do? Hold a gun to her head? Ya can't fix stupid. I just wish he was "intelligent" enough to wash his nasty & greasy hair 🤢

He spent it all on Steam cards.

I was thinking the same thing. Look at all this cash but please I need a giftcard😂

Easy…just have someone who really WANTS to believe, and have the scammer say “of course I am rich…I am just having some liquidity or banking issues while abroad.”

"Plus I am starving and my platinum credit card won't work! May I have $10,000.00 for a bite to eat?"

LOL😂

I laughed out loud at that :)

😂🤣😂🤣

ROFL 🤣 IM DEAD 💀

BAHAHAHAHA 😆

That was hilarious - but seriously what normal person asks if you've eaten like that? 😅

😂😂😂

😂😂

😂

Our mothers keep it 💯 😂

@@staciecarmon1618 she is unattractive but also incredibly optimistic

Well, on the other hand, her mom may be equally guilty for her daughter's lack of self steem. Lack of self steem put her on this situation.

@@erisphiliag honey I could understand to a certain point but as some time in life YOU have to block that out and love you. She wants to be gullible.

@@erisphiliagwell said. Cruel thing to say knowing other people will be seeing this

he has kind eyes too

@@sy_dianne5224 Hi my queen. Have you eaten today?

@@adjusted-bunny How is the oil rig? Are any parts broken?

@@chocolatethunder192 Yes, everything is broken. Some gift cards would really help us. Have you eaten today?

@@adjusted-bunny 😆😅

That's great! Hope your fling with the Minister of Serbia turns out well for you - and not for him 😁

I got that too. And asking if she had "broken the fast." That is how Muslims ask if someone has had dinner yet during Ramadan.

HahahI love this! Good job!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dear As the Crow Flies, Yes, it is sad but true: the homely and overweight ladies are dying for affection and attention, especially from good looking, younger men. They simply cannot believe their good luck, and they refuse to see the truth, even when it is laid out in detail in front of them. They refuse to give up their romantic fantasy; it sustains them.

yes, ''queen'' screams african....i've never heard a white man refer to his woman as queen...it's cringy....

He's a no good bum, though? He's leeching off of the same woman, his mom.

I had several that they ran across my picture and I was so beautiful. Guess what, I did not put a picture on fb as I don’t know how. I had 67 scammers until I changed my age to 22, too young for scammers and too old for pedophiles. Haven’t had one since.

@@emilythompson3605 I'm stealing your 22yo thing too. It's brilliant.

Even when my boyfriend of 8 years said it I got annoyed lol

She's in the lowest 5percent of good looking women in the world

@@wchas5702 lower. Does she not have mirrors in her home.

Good way of putting it.

Exactly

Harsh but true.

These women have detached from reality.

Damn!!

That's something I find so weird. It's all really anodyne so there's nothing to really fall in love with, and the vacuous saccharine shite they come out with is just....I mean, send me a msg "babe, you are the guiding star of my life my queen wot god made just for this perfect love we share waffle drone mimsyblahblahblah" and I'd ask if he was having a stroke. Follow it up with "I need money" and yep, fuckouttahere. Dammit. Is this why I never get hit up online? But I'm luvvly!

I know right, queen or babe are total turn offs for me ugh!

ppl watch the Hallmark Channel and other chick flicks and sadly, actually believe those movies...

@@doc7569 . Hardly a compliment. Rather patronizing to come from a virtual total stranger too.

Yeah I am a guy & I really, Really hate it when they call them their Queen, Days of Kings & Queens are over. Nobody I know Calls there spouse like that. I also Hate it when they use Hunny, Or Babe. Main reason. Cause more then one guy Behind the profile & they probably Have several working. If they can't remember your name too & call you by your name too Not worth it either. So Bothers me these scammers calls them their Queen. When In fact they don't care about them at all. I have called out scammers right in the beginning & they leave me alone. I tell them to go tell all their Buddies in that Call center Don't waste their time with me Cause I know All their tactics & I have a girlfriend too. That I already love.

Neither would I.

OMG Lady...if you have any doubts, just look in the mirror..😢

I saw this comment before I heard more of him and he just grew on my so quick. Good kid

​@@tylerromeroHe is very likeable 😊

Love your comment,exactly what I wanted to say.💕

thank goodness she talked about it and didn't hide it from her plain talking family

And she introduced him as special needs but then he's the most aware person involved :)

Someone who looks like Richard does not want you. Oh please.

I feel sorry for her...but i'm glad her sons were so honest with her about it!!!

The son is quite a character. Loved it.

I've noticed young women/men have more sense. Paying for the fantasy i think.

Apparently he's aspergers so that makes perfect sense......

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor Rosemary

We have terrorism regulations in the US with regards to transactions. I tried to put over $100 in my mom’s bank and had to provide 3 docs and a reason. They aren’t scared of money, they’re following the money laundering rules.

Plus the “have you eaten?” Typical Nigerian question.

Exactly. I’ve dated for about 18 years before I got married, and I have never once had a boyfriend or guy I was dating call me “my queen”. It’s just not a thing American men say, lol

And he's her leish 🤣

@@nineteenfortyeight6762 It's "liege " as in a feudal lord or superior.

Babe, Queen when they don't even know you. Then he reminds her to eat bc he knows once he stole all her money she's gonna starve. O Hate these scamming low life bastards

1 word: G R I E F. It makes people say & do things they normally wouldn't.

Agreed. BH. And early on she said "fairytale". I feel sorry for woman scammed like this, but she was completely delusional and completely caught up and swept along in the "romance" of it all. Personally if someone I had never met, said all those words to me, I would feel creeped out. Definitely blame Mills & Boon for such unachievable fantasies.

I watch crime shows, Sci-Fi and horror. I despise Hallmark and romance crap.

@@JaimeMesChiens Recently widowed, huh? I'm sorry for your loss.... And also would like to greet you as my Queen. Send me money to come visit you from the oil-rig I'm currently stuck at. Send them in either Steam gift cards or Bitcoins.

Right, when they ask for money, it’s over. Never ever send money.

Instantly thought that..if it seems like a fairy tale it is..

Probably the only time she should have trusted her perceptions.

Is she Cinderella?

This is another son? Not the son who has Asperger's?

He’s way more mature lol

awh yes, good for him, God bless him.

he is extremely disrespectful and ignorant, using foul language whilst speaking to strangers.

If he only washed his hair... That was a little joke, but yes, I think he is a decent son, and person.

Mama knows Best

The accuracy!

I found that very poignant.

It's so nice to find this comment. Most people come here to sneer.

@@thisperson5294 none of us are perfect. I’ve made lots of human mistakes xx

That was heartbreaking

Also baby or babe. That goes for any guy.

@@judyjuen7687 Or "Hunny"

@MP-wg8pd - #3...there are exceptions. When I was online dating, and after meeting hundreds of guys and lots of them in person, one guy fell in love with me within a week. Long story shot, we ended up getting married several months later. He was my dream come true. I had 2 1/2 wonderful years with him before he passed away.

Im pretty decent looking and I've dated people that I fee are below my means and let me just tell you this: Being ugly doesn't mean you're a good person either. Like.. I met two girls a few years ago and neither of them were good looking. They were terrible people.

1 is so inaccurate lol it's usually one hot person with one ugly person. Have you looked around? Also I don't love often but I usually tell people I love them super quickly and I'm usually the one who gets used/taken advantage of. I'd say only #4 is accurate unless of course this is someone you know well IRL.

All true. Another thing: if you don't attract a similar type of guy/girl in person, you're not attracting them online.

Not always, at a class reunion, saw a handsome man totally mesmerized by his very plain Jane wife! My husband talked about a coworker, thought she must be a knockout, met her she was so non-description!

Well, he also called her queen and asked her if she ate in the morning, so that's true love.

I have female friends that literally say those exact things and believe they are true. They are older and still think they can pull men. They still believe size, age, height, doesn't matter and that beauty is in the heart, etc. Those things may be true to a certain extent in the younger days but not after a certain age. No young attractive man is going for an old woman with a beautiful heart. Unless they are going to manipulate that heart for money.

Same here! They are the most UNsympathetic characters I've ever seen. They're often just narcissistic, selfish and vain, and have a wildly unrealistic image of themselves that has nothing at all to do with reality. So if some gorgeous hunk 30 years younger wants to marry you after 2 weeks - well of COURSE!!

I'll never understand that. They try to confirm after sending money.

Many don't realize there are tools to investigate. Also, grief clouds the judgement.

Don't send any money, period! Better yet don't talk to strangers!

@@JaimeMesChiens I don't know how to use these tools. Yet I'm still not stupid enough to send money to a stranger

@@ericrivera8410 like so many others, it wasn't loneliness that "clouded her judgement". It was greed

Right? and they have zero friends, family, and business associates that can help them. Just some poor woman they have never met!

Maybe that's what he got from his last victim and doesn't want to spend it.

Right? These people wouldn’t spot the red flags at a Chinese commie parade 🤦‍♀️

It was hurtful because it was the truth and that ruined the fantasy she was living in. Maybe the mom could have worded it softer but she didn’t lie 😂

You mean Rosemary?

The guy is not even good looking (not that it really matters in this situation, as she wasn't talking to the man in the picture anyway).

@@johnfd0210 um...yes he is. What are you on

@@johnfd0210 he is more attractive than most guys his age.

@@jasbelial3943 Very much so. He is obviously a very successful commercial model. They don't hire an ugly one for the cruise or resort ads.

It's not the way to go about trying to wake them up because it's too cruel and will only put the person on the defensive right away and make them clam up even worse. Also I bet its not the first time her mother was cruel and nasty to her... this came across like its an ongoing pattern. There are many toxic relatives out there who are only dying to see u fu** up or fail in some way so they can get the digs in. Anyone that would say something like that to a person straight out is just a nasty piece of work IMO. There's ways and means of tacking matters without being cruel. This lady had just lost ber husband a few months before remember and was at a very low ebb.

Yes! Her son was so intuitive and protective. It was great to hear his views and as you said Rosemary should be proud to have raised him right .

The son lives with her! He's trying to get his bag too. Let's not act like her "professional" son gives a shit. He's just not dumb af

​@@thepessimisticoptimist9375 I can't believe he lives with her, and he just let the whole thing happen. WTF?

Truth sounds like brutal to those who hate the truth

Smart Chihuahua Mom - dogs are easier to live with than people.

@@davisholman8149 Don’t I know it. I have watched all these RU-vid videos. The best are the ‘ scammer payback ‘ videos when the scambaiters who are expert IT people let the scammer access their dummy internet account and computer whilst the scam baiter deletes all their files. Thousands of victim lead files. OMG, it’s a hoot. I never tire of it. Of course at the same time they keep them on the phone for hours and sometimes days pretending to fall for their scam. They buy gift cards for the scammer and then redeem the cards to themselves while the scammers wail like starving wolves. Doesn’t get better than that.

Have fun! blessings.

The chihuahua is scamming you pretending to be a real dog. Go get a Labrador

Chi's are AMAZING! Enjoy.

Any friend or family member in their right mind would know she was being suckered. No way would that guy be into her.

Kind of a rude way for her to say it though. Her mom sounded abusive the way she slammed her down. That only made her resolve to prove her mom wrong.

@@iHeartAmySuepeople would be better off if they listened to the quality of what someone says rather than just how they say it

@@DashingChrisBey ya good point but it takes zero minutes and zero money to say it kinder. Self righteousness makes it sound the way it did

@@iHeartAmySue we all perfectly understood and agreed with what she said. The idea that she just could have “said it nicer” is pointless. She’s talking to an adult not a child

Thsts very clever of you. Some women won't accept the truth about themselves

Too true , lam 50.l always block them .cant buy love

@@nancelelogwinji1691 that's best thing

I get those friend requests all the time, too. I’ve noticed recently that if I comment on a public post (such as a political post), I’ll get a comment from (a scammer I’m sure) asking me to send him a friend request because he likes what I post. I just ignore it.

@@sharonnorris2190 there are too much of them.

Yeah that was weird

And that would be the end of it! I would hang up and block him so fast his head would spin. Scamming aside, what woman lets a man talk to her that way!!

I can't be bothered watching this but wtf

She was being sarcastic.

@@randomhumanoidblob4506 no she wasn't.

Her own Mother asked why a man like that would want her, so when she started to realize that this man was not who he portrayed himself to be, she started to feel ridiculous for believing him. She didn't want to have to go and tell everyone that they were right, and she was wrong. I agree though, after the incest remark, I would have blocked and reported him to both FB and the Police so that at the very least, the Police could start a file on him.

Abuse? Hardly. They both got what they wanted out of their sick arrangement. She got to live out her romantic fantasy and he got rich. Who are we to judge the twisted transactions of consenting adults.

@@colettelongo2080I wonder how much SA you have participated in if you so profoundly don’t understand consent

You can’t say someone is vulnerable and “open to abuse” these terms represent opposite interpretations of the situation

And she got pissed off at the truth.

Usually it's the younger family members who know it's a scam, but her mom's gotta be pretty old and even she knew immediately 😂

Plus with disabled children in her care...

Dear C, Yes, her "If he's real . . ." statement clearly indicates that she believes that he is still a moral, upstanding person who adores her. She is mired in the romantic fantasy which sustains her and empowers her. Wake up and smell the coffee; it's burning.

She was using the words "if he's real", because Lynnie used it 1st in their initial meeting.

Yes the guy in the photo is real. The scammer is also real. Problem is, they’re two different people and I think the lady couldn’t grasp that.

@@Honeybee-tk2yb Yes, the guy in the photo is real, and he's a victim, too. Of course he is not responsible for having his photos stolen and used as another identity by a criminal scammer. Yes, the woman does not understand that the man in the photo is not the man who has been contacting her. She wants her fantasy to continue, for it brings her joy. Her fabrication of a romance is much better than her real life.

Yes! And i think linnie needs to explain it the way you just did

This is why women will keep falling and falling for these. Even when it's not a scam it's why it's so easy for some men to just pump and dump loads of these women.

She said it made her feel funny that she was taller than him. Like she felt too tall. Us women are like that.

​@MeidoInHebun majority of men have zero integrity and yall make it seem like it's the woman's fault for men being liars and cheats

“Old land whale,” lol!

😂😂😂😂🐋🐳🐋

It sounds African

It’s normal for people ask if already eaten. It’s a culture thing here in asia

I don't think there is a single day in which this lady has not eaten.

@@Irene-qk6qm lol 😂

@@babekate6751 It's not a European or US thing. Or a Latin American thing, either.

Hi my queen. Have you already eaten?

@@adjusted-bunny “I have no money to feed my child”, “I’m working out of the country”, it’s so predictable.

I think it’s a valid question to ask anyone you don’t know and are chatting with on a dating site. There are many people who are actually married that are just looking for a partner to cheat on their spouse with, that you may assume are single. You have to be upfront about things you won’t stand for, or, a couple months down the road when you think everything’s perfect, then, you’ll find out they were hiding a bunch of crap.

60 is not the new 40

When she said I'm a widow....he thought even better

Izabela, it's me Elon Musk, I love you send money

And he’s an Aspie and he knew it

😂

Yeah even when it's revealed they are scammers you can see in the women's faces they are still mesmerised and obsessed in the fantasy man. You just know they are going to do it again or keep on with it.

The scammers aren’t really that smart, these people want to be delusional and believe this person loves them and will marry them. They willingly send them money.

OMG...she's plain, overweight, stringy hair...etc., Sorry..but seriously...how can she think that good looking guy wants to get close to her.? It boggles my mind that anyone can be so blind & disillusioned. 😢

It’s cultural - it’s respectful in Nigeria

It’s actually not met to be insulting. Black American men say this as well.

Not really. I have at times told my IRL girlfriend that she is the queen of my heart. I just love her very much. Calling your girlfriend a queen is not a sign you’re a scammer. Everything else in this video is, however.

It’s actually a term of endearment like “babe”

Another giveaway is asking whether or not their "queen" has eaten!??

❤

I was just about to write the same thing! Lenny is my favorite person to break the news. She has an empathetic approach that I admire.

I agree! Lenny is a kind lady and understands how vulnerable these people are and how they need to snap out of this haze. Loneliness can be so difficult.

I get them too. I was wondering why I have gotten so many. I would never send money to anyone I don't know. That's a red flag.

I get them also it doesn't take long 2 questions I know to block

Yes me too.. seems ridiculous to think that it’s not a scam!

Watch dr. Phil. Soo many times he’s had people on who’ve fallen into these schemes & lost hundreds of thousands from dollars! Or more! Even though he shows them the truth after h investigates, some of them don’t believe it. Also on YT.

@@SKC193 yes I saw some of those that's horrible

if those red flags are ignored like so many others like poor English, suss accents and the bulls hit of how beautiful these poor old women are and how they want to marry them... the scammers know they have a victim they can exploit.

Dr Phil exposed one these who used Steam cards….dude was an oil rigger doctor gemologist and wanted thousands in GCs used solely for gamers. Turned out it was a 15 year old Nigerian boy….🤦‍♀️

Eh.... the Bible also calls David a "man after gods own heart". And David had a man murdered so he could screw the help. Nobody should be using religious doctrine, particularly something as gross as the Bible, to apply standards to themselves and others. Personally, believing fairy tales as an adult is an automatic "no".

I am an atheist..and have been told l am more godly than many of their christian friends.🙂

You are totally right. The fact of the stolen photo should be addressed right up front

@@JaimeMesChiens you are correct. I’ve seen some that was so pathetic and delusional, they couldn’t stop the fantasy. No matter how much evidence is given, they cannot face it.

The team needs to stop referring to these scam scenarios as "relationships." Like focusing more on the person whose pictures have been stolen, calling these scripted texts "relationships" strengthens the delusion.

They are lonely and want a companion. You’re fortunate to not be lonely.

No mirrors in home.

​@@Doris1981BytomHeyyyyyy, you beat me to it.

Young? Attractive? We must not be looking at the same guy.

Young??? Where??

Right??!

You don't have to be a scammer to know this.

Hi Angel, It's not being mean; it's being realistic. Beautiful people want to be with equally gorgeous people. Water seeks its own level, and birds of a feather flock together. Maxims exist because they are usually true.

I had written the same before I saw your comment, how.funny!-to Angel Spina

I mean that guy is like 60. He just looks like an old man.

Yeah, you were mean. Brutally honest. But she's a human being and she was lonely 🥀

Just because a person is not attractive does not mean that they deserve being scammed. I agree that the woman should have been less trusting. Essentially you people are saying because she is ugly she was scammed. It can and has happened to anyone regardless of looks.

Bout white.

It's usually old and out of shape white women

@@gatestimonymiracle1302 yes but not even that, they're all older unattractive and a little overweight.

If you are gonna play that card then guess what phenotype all the scammers have.

@@snooganslestat2030 they're all African not American nice try though, clearly I said I meant their all are older and unattractive. Wasn't talking about skin color.

I dated a retired USAF Lt Col. He believed in nothing. We had a lot in common because I had been a military wife for 25 years. He had been military. I have MS. He had lost a leg in Afghanistan. He told me the day we met. When you're with me you can leave your wallet at home. He didn't mean I could ask him to buy me expensive stuff. He had plenty of money and I only work part time, get 50 percent of my ex husband's military retirement and a small disability check. He had no children, parents deceased and didn't get along with his 2 siblings 2500 miles away. He knew I lived paycheck to paycheck. He obviously didn't. He was very handsome and kind buy I wasn't in love with him. I moved back to South Dakota (I had went back to Ohio where I'm from after my divorce) he and I connected online. Met within 4 days and had an 18 month relationship. I'm currently dating a retired optometrist. He's 70. I'm 53. He isn't a Christian but is Jewish. Which was great as i had considered converting to Judaism for 4 or 5 years previously. He's very nice. You can use online dating and be relatively safe buy you have to know what is in and not in your league. Simple