Woman Romance Scammed for 4 years. 

@@BitchyQueen69 .....not so fast there my pretty; she freakin saw his 140 million dollar bank account and went all in thinking about becoming his bride....don't think for a minute these 'poor' lonely women ain't in it for some riches, because you'd be wrong....i'm watching a friend going down the rabbit hole with this same shit currently and with multiple nigerians...my friend thinks they are all white boys with HUGE bank accounts, incredible jobs and young af...

@@JaimeMesChiens........... lmfao......good, i'm glad i made myself perfectly clear to miss Anna then.....thanks for the heads-up though....

I was 💀at that moment.

@@BitchyQueen69 You must be new here

@@BitchyQueen69 ....sorry ms jackson, but i am for real.....lmao.....she was interested in his money honey.....and don't you forget that....this ain't my first rodeo......

Yeah she seems like an aggressive angry person in general. What a scary team together!

😂😂😂

​@@ericrivera8410😂😂😂

😂😂😂

​@@ericrivera8410😂😂😂

She’s a sick woman.

She's neither of those things. She's simply a naive and foolish person who didn't listen to common sense.

Truth

Why do you think she's a narcissist?

I thought being a narcissistic person included NEVER being able to take accountability for their actions? She admitted she made mistakes. I haven't met one actual narcissistic person who could admit to any fault of their own.

Smooth brain 😂

🙌🏼👍🏼🙌🏼

😂

🤣🤣

@@BitchyQueen69 "Queen" is commonly used by Nigerian scammers, because it is an African terminology. Normal western men don't talk that way. "Baby", "sweetheart", "honey" are terms used in our societies. If something is out of place from what is the norm, that is a huge red flag that the man is from a different culture. We all have a gut instinct. Use it.

EXACTLY

Cognitive dissonance is painful

😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂their ashole they think all ladies and seni are stupid specially now everyone knows already their strategy, you scammers go to work , …

hahaha

This shit reminds me of the idea of doublethink in 1984. In school it was assigned reading and I couldn’t believe that people could have two thoughts in opposition at the same time. But I was 13. This is what George Orwell was talking about.

Rig workers are so well taken care of they don't have a money worry, passport, health, school fees, etc and internet connection is second to none

Egos.

Can't spell intelligent

Because they don't know the meaning of the word

@@catherinegriessel56 who? The victims?

100%

You would have to have been scammed to understand yes I believe they get well trained how to steal your heart and money. They romance you soo well you become blind. They are dangerous.

She puts up decades old pictures. She can’t accept the fact that she’s a woman in her 70s. How delusional do you have to be to think a 55 year old good looking man has interest in you? She claims to accept that she won’t find a man but the reality is she won’t find a young man. She’s completely nuts and honestly the only reason she won’t get taken advantage of again is because she’s broke.

Yes. He keeps talking to her because he hopes/believes he can get more money from her. She needs to accept this and end this. He has zero feelings for her. She us not special to him. She is one of 40 or 50 different women he is texting at the same time, copying and pasting the same tried and true phrases, trying to get as much money as possible. He probably works in a room with 20 others doing the same thing. She needs to take back her power. The ONLY person who can give her closure is herself.

😂😂😂😂

She’s nuts and doesn’t seem to comprehend what she’s saying

@@BitchyQueen69 yes, "she" is amazing, isn't she , Anna? Add arrogance to your list of narcissist traits.

She also said she'd kill. She should be committed.

These women are dilusional, why would she do that? She still believes he feels for her. She still sent him money after realising he's scammed her. She wants closure of what, he's a scammer he feels nothing for you lady, he just wants her money. She definitely needs counciling she just can't let go. Never ever send money to a stranger, why would a man who supposedly loves you keep asking for money and then gets angry when you question it?

@@nineteenfortyeight6762 Anna is doing a great job of making herself look almost as bad as the scammer. She's clearly a narcissist, and willing to say awful things about those making the most benign comments, saying they're horrible and wishing ill upon them just for speaking their opinion on the situation this video exposes. Good on you for calling her out

She is a dummy.

@@JaimeMesChiens Yes let another person control her life, finances, etc

Just to clarify, that was sarcasm.

The scammers are psychopaths. They fake emotions. They're able to fake cry. He has no feelings for Anna. It's false hope that he has feelings for her. He's just using her. I hope Anna reads these comments and reaches out to a therapist to help her break her addiction to him.

She’s lost. She needs help.

Oil rigs should have been enough.....why are these people so silly

so please someone tell me why on earth would he need money from her then ?

And he ask money for food!

if you were crass enough to ask your best friend how much they had in the bank what is the likelihood they would tell you? These guys that are leading conversations with how much money they have are lying, or scamming 100%, I would stake my life on that.

I'm sorry, did you say dollars? I thought you meant South Korean won.

well there are lots of ppl with that amount but they def wouldn't be hitting up random old chicks on facebook

I have a lot of Nigerian friends and that is part of their wording that they use they don’t have to be a scammer to use that. But I understand your feeling because that word has been affiliated with scammers

Or, in the case of men it’s “My King.” Cringe worthy.

That is their normal language that they use they are not the same culture as all the rest of other countries everybody’s different my Nigerian friend Calls his girlfriend his queen the one he plans on marrying and having his babies. That is their culture and that’s just the way they talk. You need to get to know a culture before you start criticizing the way they use their language and their wording. I live in the United States white American. But I have about 15 Nigerian friends even the women use honey and dear when they’re talking to other women. So it does good to learn about a persons culture and their ways before criticizing it

Agree! It makes me cringe as well. I don't know who started that, but it just sounds stupid!

@@BitchyQueen69 Also something I didn’t mention is all these countries and their states have individual kings that people don’t realize because they know nothing about these countries. Living in the United States we have scammers here too. They may not all be romance scammers but they hit you in bigger ways

THIS!! I couldn't believe it!

I know, right???!

And one of the went to... NIGERIA. You know... the country nearly all of these scammers originate from. By that point, she was fully aware he was a Nigerian scammer, but couldn't quite quit the scam.

@@chad3232132😅!!! My country Nigeria is know for these activities! Unfortunately 😢

The fact that she didn’t learn the first time!

Best comment.

Even earlier on she knew it was a scam but she decided to continue because of the younger good looking guy ( with stolen pics/ using another man’s photos ) and 140 million in the bank? 🤨

AGREED!

😮NAILED IT!

Yes, exactly this

@@minoozolala ​ What it all has to do with sociopathy and trauma bonding, I wonder?

@@BitchyQueen69 🤣🤣 no thanks, we have self-respect and common sense

Yes, almost all victims have the same story. Oil rigs, passports, driving license, military...

Doesn’t everybody who reads this notice that whenever she sees a red flag what does she do? Does she do anything to check out her suspicions? Even if she does she goes right back to her scammer, asks him what is going on and he comes up with the explanations that she knows are not to be believed but she persuades herself he is real? “He is my drug,” How embarrassing!

You forgot to mention peace keeping and middle east😀

She had way more than just a whole bunch of red flags. She HAD the proof he was a scammer!🤣

@@JaimeMesChiens And the jobs that they generally pick are always the same...engineer, surgeon, working on an oil rig or being in the military. A huge flag is none of these positions would require money to get out or leave wherever they are at. Someone in the military wouldn't need money to come home, for food or to pay for a new weapon because they lost theirs (I've heard that ridiculous story before on other accounts of being scammed). These employers wouldn't leave anyone behind, all travel and accommodation is paid for, especially on oil rigs and any U.S. military, they don't have to pay for anything. I really wish these older women and men stop doing this, its amazing to me that they are still being scammed like they are considering all of the awareness on the internet warning them about it.

@@JaimeMesChiens 'Anna' can check all the boxes. As tho it's in the DSM-5. She loves the messages and even thinks the Scammer still loves her, to this day : Q Too bad they didn't expose the 'Copy and Paste' he used.

@@AcousticGString Funny, years ago, I got a 'Friends Request' on FB from an Orthopedic Surgeon in Syria. Being an Orthopedic nurse, I just thought he was looking for a 'Green Card' to get the heck out. I deleted it for that as a Scam. Little did I know, it was much more sinister : (

@@PragmaticP I had someone message me in 2014 that was wearing the 🇺🇸 Marines uniform in the pics and then sent me a message asking for money to feed his kid's LMAO. I told him to stop stealing our service members pictures to try and scam people and called him a scum bag then blocked him. I really pity the people that fall for this because they have no self awareness, it doesnt make any sense.

Soldier in Afghanistan is another career of choice too.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

@@da__lang Out of mine too!

AMEN AMEN AMEN, SHE IS VERY SICK!!!

Sent him a phone 3 times knowing it wasn't even going to him!

@@BitchyQueen69 lolllll you really should have tried to protect your friend more instead of taking a loan out for her. Are you the roommate Honey?

Sectioning? I don’t think that is a thing!

@@midgarden it is very much a thing

I see on google it might mean the waiting time in the middle of a very large bowel movement. Is that what you mean?

@midgarden no , what country do you live in?

US. You? Maybe it is UK or Aussi slang? Sorry to waste time, just never heard the word used that way before!

@@BitchyQueen69 ..i'm not going back--i heard & saw her & know what she's saying--seeing it again is too painful !!

o and about "miscreants" & "ur demented mind" - perhaps this might be U,honey!

Blondesense. Excellent comment. Totally spot on. Whiplash is a perfect word to describe Anna.

you summed it up perfectly

She is old and knows it and she wants to be loved but her mind tells her 'who is going to love me with my face looking older each day.' it's a woman crying for help and wanting to be loved. That's what these scammers bank on.

They have trademarked it!

They certainly do, Markle picked the right race suits a scammer

I’ve seen that also, My Queen on SO many of these!

They have no mercy or scruples. $$$$$ is programmed in there brain. Talk Love but means profit for SELF-EMPLOYED. You mean Nothing to them other than $$$. My Queen, My Love, My Angle is a crock of lies feeding you. Be Strong. ❣️❣️❣️

I know Nigerians. The name of queen is used constantly in that country.

@@emilythompson3605 that is interesting to know.

Totally! And the “iTunes” cards?? Totally Nigerian. They always deal w those iTunes cards. Dead giveaway. I mean…everything was a dead giveaway

You nailed it, it sure is an ADDICTION!!! Ugghhh🙄

"Why do so many people think these feelings are somehow positive" - It is as you said: It's an addiction. If you are addicted to something you tell yourself that these feelings are good and positive until you believe the lie

True, this is a case of a very destructive obsession,

Absolutely! I’ve been addicted to a person before and had to seek treatment

You nailed it.

It's a wig.

But she was a singer 94 years ago in her prime. She's got to hang on to her glory days like a sad old person, because she didn't spend her life cultivating meaningful relationships, and giving a shit about her children.

She is delusional. Sad. 😂

😅❤😊

*exorbitant

Agreed

You’re weak, You’re out of control, and you’ve become an embarrassment to yourself and to everybody else.

💯 I just don't get it. The fact that she had a friend who TOOK HER OWN LIFE over a scammer should have been the biggest, glowing and lit up red flag humanity has ever seen.

I feel sorry for the ones that have cognitive delays and really don't understand what's going on. But these old farts who are so desperate for attention they overlook all the red flags... smdh.

Se merecen ser estafadas, y el dinero no va y viene, cuesta ganarse cada centavo, ella perdió hasta la dignidad y los estafadores viven de su dinero

Same here. I've started to realise the ego doesn't allow them to accept that a younger good looking person actually isn't interested in them other than their money.

I didn't know these scams existed until I met mine. Let me tell you, they are good. I fell in love, when asked for money, no. He went 7 months and hurt my heart Then I wasted his time, made him fight with himself. Since it was texting, he couldn't see me laughing. I had my fun but he really hurt me.

You can’t feel sorry for these silly people - I just cannot understand them in the least

Yeah. I caught that lol

Lol 😂😂😂

Stupid.

the more outrageous the lies and fake scenario, the more successful the scam

Even worse, she had a friend to commit suicide over a similar situation and she still walked blindly into it.

@@MajorMovieStar Wow, I tell you, so freaking twisted. It's like a high for the victims, and just like any addict, they can't stop.

There are reasons they target older people…..brains age like every other organ. If we live to our 80s, about half of us will get dementia to some degree, and in the decade before the dementia is obvious, our judgement fails, especially in becoming too trusting, and not spotting clear frauds. For some of these victims, they would have laughed at these scams in their prime. But they aren’t in their prime, and it will happen to some reading this as well…given another 30-50 years.

Low intelligence.

🤣

They are so fake and manipulative

You mean babe, baby, princess and Queen make you want to throw up too? lol These seem like fake and demeaning names to me.

​@@chnalvralso "hunny", "beautiful" and "my love" 😝

Right? I would gag at any of those.

It’s fascinating to me. Unreal

I'm pretty sure there is nothing sadder than an old, thirsty broad. She said she'd die or kill for a man she's never met???!! Wow....

I'm old school. If the other person won't do a video call I'm calling it quits. It's that simple. And I'm not buying a generic fake cam call as some people are dumb enough to fall for that. I need an actual video call and an actual conversation. "bUt loNeLiNeSs" I'm lonely too but I'm not suspending logic because of that.

I still can't wrap my head around this behavior. So much information and videos highlighting all these scammers. All these woman still falling for "I work on a rig....my baby....my queen....I need help....I need food please send money etc etc etc". Most of them are engineers too....seriously?! They keep saying they are ntelligent women too. Even when they are told they are being scammed they dont want to believe it some times WTF?!?! Face palm.....

I get eyes rolling sick when I hear oil rig, broken machine, frozen bank account and this new one, guy fell off the rig with all of my papers. Lmfao

Lol

Agreed

Agree

No

Yes. Sooner or later they have to be hold accountable for their own actions.

EXACTLY!!!

She needs he help Addicts usually do

Well said

This woman really is a piece of work. Seems like the scammer might have actually earned the money he took from her, just having to deal with her every day.

I just watched this video. I am new to this channel. I sincerely hope this video helped your mom. Have a great day. 🙂

I doubt it will “wake” her up. She might be delusional. Someone needs to help her to find a real person who would give her similar emotions. That scammer is satisfying one of her psychological needs.

Well, in that case imagine your mother is helping another human being with her money. Lots of money.

Get her number changed. Don't tell her. Only way she will stop being scammed.

99% she will gonna say that her boyfriend is different!

Born to be scammed.

He’s not a new hire. This is an old video. It’s Drew now.

It’s Jordan!

Her grandkids will be fine because her children are working. She can sell her house move in with kids or rent a small cheap place. She can go back to work part time to pay back the debt or file bankruptcy. As she said she'll be fine.

And apparently she's planning to surprise them with the debt on her deathbed.

No. She squandered her own money.

@@dahliacheung6020 Children are not legally responsible for their parents’ debts.

Thats not her kids money thats her own. No one is owed any money from their parents.

I worked for a lady whose mom killed herself over a romance scam

Honestly, it sounds like someone who has a gambling addiction.

If that friend she mentioned is real then its almost like depression of losing that person drove her to nearly do the same thing to herself

Big question where does she get the money....

@@ellaella5537 Knows the game is rigged but keeps playing.

@@JaimeMesChiens This woman is a classic example of "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."

this

She knows the truth. She’s not stupid, she’s lonely 😞 she likes the attention and is willing to pay for it. And apparently he’s an expert at his hustle.

You hit the nail on the head. Her only other option is to believe that the last four years were all a lie and she has wasted emotions on an illusion.

She is emotionally blackmailed and brainwashed . She is STILL Not Thinking Clearly ! She needs counseling . God Bless you , Ma’am .

That and "gift cards."

What mind? 😅

^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^

u don't have a judge- u go to a lawyer

This is very, very, very hard to do.

@@Nocturnalux no, it's really not. Not after what she spent and the reason why.

@@jessicamerriman2336 You’d be surprised. The kids need to prove that she is mentally unfit and legally this is a very steep hill to climb. There is a reason why you don’t see children resorting to that on these videos, it does not work.

Wow. I didn’t really believe that until I heard Anna’s story. I mean, it seems that no matter what proof she has that she is being scammed she’s not ready or willing to stop communicating with him. It’s sad. I hope you’re doing ok now.

Yeah, it is one thing to be love bombed and be addicted to a REAL PERSON that you are seeing in PERSON and IN THE FLESH. These ladies apparently just fell for photographs and some over the top honeyed words that are even too cringey for Hallmark cards.

@@PungiFungi Agreed. There is a big difference.

For me personally, the over the top romantic dialogues make me want to puke.

That’s a really interesting thought that it’s like an addiction. I believe you but I’ve had like opposite reaction-Recently a man I went on one date with started love bombing me every morning I would wake up to texts telling me how amazing I was but I hated it.

Thats exactly what it is. The image triggers something in your mind and you develop a satisfying fantasy around it. It happened to me when I was in high school. Fortunately I was shocked out of it in a short time, but I learned about myself and how it happens. I think people with over-active imaginations, and that don't live rich, authentic lives, are prone to fall into that pattern.

It's like the men who called those 900 number phone sex in the 80s and 90s and fell in love with the voice.

These "victims" are addicted to the drama and the attention. They're "in love" with their own fantasies

She saw his [fake] bank account balance.

You create the fantasy and fall in love with that.

And dumbness...😅

It’s sad I know her situation badly --

Selfish narcissistic egotistical its all about them

A lot of women care more about handsome strangers than their own children. It's sad.

And what about all the men who get scammed?

Also “after him calling me Queen and telling me he loves me times 3 days I would DIE for him, I would KILL for him”. No sympathy whatsoever anymore when they are this gullible. In fact I’m starting to get more irritated at the women than the scammers, they wouldn’t be so successful and devastating the friends/family of these women were it not for the “victims”

What does your color have to do with anything?

Most of them do this 💯

@@tonyscott1066 - Men do it too. When I did the online thing 20 yrs ago, I posted all current pics of myself. When I met a lot of them in person, they said they were surprise that I actually looked like my pictures. But yeah, many of the guys I met had older pictures up, and when I asked them why they said they hadn't changed. I was nice about disagreeing with them after meeting them in person and offered to take pictures of them for their profiles. They actually took me up on the offer and posted the new pics.

Shit I didn't notice it til you mentioned it

Why cant they meet a REAL man in person cause he might be average short balding overweight but no they want movie star glamour how Shallow

@@isay207 Narcissists always attract other narcissists. They feed off of each other.

Me too. I don't understand why she sent money to a stranger she never met before and knows that he is a fraud.

@@isay207 That's the thing...they always want men who are much younger and better looking than her while the Danny Devitos that would treat her good are forced to be alone.

@@isay207 for real

Its a wonder any oil gets produced all the workers are chasing grannies

Then they fall off the Rig and need money for hospital bills or the Rig breaks down and they need your money to get it fixed.

@@isay207 I'm dead.

@@w8ing2exhale you are right. I have seen a few victims with the same reasons.

The funny thing is, oil rig workers are very well paid and don’t they get long vacation times to make up for being 24/7 on the job?

That’s most of the people that move and live in floriduh

Interesting theory… I am strongly inclined to agree.

Somebody sounds like an incel who is mad he can't get the attention of beautiful women, so goes online crying about how women don't want "good men." I guarantee an average looking, flat chested, nice woman with morals wouldn't be on your radar either dude. Hypocrite much???

You hit the nail on the head! Bingo! She needs help, serious help. And I'm not saying that jokingly, there is something inside of her that she's gotta get to the bottom of, because I see some serious mental issues with her that she's gotta get help for.

@@Childfree334 Wrong on all counts. I'm a straight woman in my sixties and have had men who were rotters and men who were wonderful and kind. Wonderful and kind is better. Try to at least get your genders right.

I completely agree with you. How will convince me that she's intelligent despite her neglecting all the red flags. She's not SMART at all.

So true I agree

@@BitchyQueen69 We have been warned for over 20 years about online scammers. Unless you are suffering from dementia or Alzheimers or are mentally disabled, there is no excuse for being taken in by a scammer. None. If you have money to throw away like that to a complete stranger, who you knew was lying to you, then he needs the money more than you do. And after 4 years of work, he deserves every penny he got.

@@africa_everyday love is never smart, we do crazy things for it.... She may of seen those $$ signs but I'm more inclined to feel that the rejection for her is too big... every time she tries again, maybe she's hoping "this will be the one time, it is real!!

@@skyserene0152 Self-love is very smart 😐

Yeah, I know someone with a business that took off and all of a sudden their bank start treating them very differently 😂😂😂

Yes I agree.

We know there are scammers of all origins

How common scamming is in Nigeria in the population ? Best wishes

@@VetmedUK very common!!

@@VetmedUK there was a video where they interviewed a Nigerian scammer and he said that among young people, around 70% of them have either tried scamming or are scamming.

Right? Lol

Lol yes

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. SHE is DEFINITELY NOT SMART 👍

If shes smart I'd hate to see foolish

😅

If she has family friends volunteer WHY IS SHE DOING THIS?

​@@isay207 Because she wants the fairy tale & social status of being special to a good looking strong man. I've met so many older women who say they're lonely, but they keep themselves that way by wishing a man would like them, instead of enjoying activities with female friends.

And it’s not two months or a couple of months. It’s a couple of years. If not a single alarm bell goes off you have to be extremely gullible and naive

Yes. That bit was worrisome

People from other countries are into fraud too but why does all fingers points to nigerians?

@@bestowtekemeka5126 Because usually that's where the scammers are living... in Logos Nigeria.

@@SkyePhoenix India has more scammers than nigeria

well, he did not "need" any money, probably just "wanted" money. This man, might have been a woman, who knows.

LOLOLOLOL!!

You'd have thought he would at least tried his luck, maybe tongue in cheek like, but say oh we are meant for each other, you managed to sense I had a problem my queen, you are so wonderful, I feel blessed to have you in my life, I'm waiting on back pay from the security company, I only need couple thousand babycake, my sweetie, per month... darling, my sugar momma, thank you so much, age is just a number, love is more important than a number, or money...darling, sugarlump, could you make it 3000, your so amazing baby, ..yknow along those lines, what's worst to happen?? She says no, the first time...maybe 2nd....but she likes having smoke blown up her 76 yo ass by a 30yo model hunk who really really loves her, yeah he might tell a few fibs, what the hell.....these people are more persistent than...oh you got me, damn, ok then, sorry to bother you...I guess I'll have to tell the 8 kids there's no food tonight and we can't bury mummy yet cuz we can't pay for funeral....could you possibly,....🤣😅💯, I think I'm going to open a new business, call centre based...I don't suppose you could help with the rent to start could you, once it's up n running i can pay you back and I promise, I know a lady who will help me n I can give you what she gives me, my love... baby....are you there baby?? Darling?? Anybody?? Can someone please just give me money and I promise I'll fk off. Honestly I will, couple ton and I'm gone, baby, hunnykins, oh ok...bigboy then, hunkychops,🤣😂...a fiver?? Bitcoin?? Bitcoin to me is a twenty pence piece with teeth marks in it....🤣💯

@Lady Jane.....Hello. you look amazing in your picture....my heart skipped a beat😍🙈...I think I need to have an operation to fit a pacemaker, my queen.🙊😅

​@@modernista6056 don't do it!! It might be a scam

I think she was just referring to the father of her children, her prior partner. Maybe they’re still in contact, who knows?